Sugar daddy dating is just like regular dating in many aspects. That sugar, aka the allowance can come in the form of cash, gifts, trips, educational expenses paid – you name it, we’ll take it.
But how do you get more allowance from your sugar daddy without demanding, whining, stressing him out? Or even better – how do you get more (a lot more) from your sugar daddy without even having to ask? After setting sugar baby allowance, we need to know the answer.
Approach
Never make demands or ask your daddy for things in a rude tone. Think about how you like to be treated and then model that behavior.
Instead of saying, “Give me more cash or I’m gone”, try something like, “Can we please discuss increasing my allowance?” A little kindness goes a long way when it comes to asking for things that you want.
Give Your Sugar Daddy Your Active Attention
What keeps men around? Emotional connection. To truly endear yourself to your sugar daddy, and make him want to spoil you like a princess, you need to get in his head and worm your way into his heart.
Start paying active attention to your sugar daddy by asking him interesting questions and actively listening like What makes him tick? What are his interests and hobbies? What makes him laugh and feel good about himself? What are his values? What are the most important things in his life?
Or even better: What are his secret insecurities? What are his unvoiced fears? Once you know the answers to these questions, you can be that girl that supports his interests, validates his values and crucially – calms his insecurities and fears. If you can master even this one part – congratulations, you’ve just made yourself invaluable to your sugar daddy and he’ll give you anything to keep you happy and by his side.
Appreciation
Ladies, when your gentleman grants your request, make sure to let him know that you appreciate his help. Thank him immediately after he honors his commitment, and then tell him how lucky you are to have him in your life.
Maybe even prepare a little surprise for him. When he feels valued and respected, he is likely to treat you very well. Keep your bond strong to ensure that you both get what you need out of the arrangement.
Give Your Support to Your Sugar Daddy
Nothing turns off a sugar daddy like a sugar baby who’s constantly stressing him out with the drama. You need to be a source of support rather than a source of stress – especially since most sugar daddies spend all day taking care of everything and everyone except themselves.
By not burdening your sugar daddy with your own problems and letting him share some of his emotional and mental burden with you, you’re providing HUGE value – the kind of value that he can’t get anywhere else in his life. This is a surefire way to keep your sugar daddy satisfied, grateful and spoiling you for as long as he can.