Have You Met Sugar Haters? How Do You Deal with Them?

Not everyone knows and accepts sugar daddy dating well. Today we’re talking about sugar haters deeply, and giving some tips for sugar babies:

sugar haters

I have no met any haters per say. I’ve met certain people who don’t understand how a sugar relationship works so I just explain it to them. A sugar relationship is a relationship you get a connection in but it’s different then a boyfriend girlfriend connection. The sex is better naughtier. And you are getting spolied like the queen you are. Who can’t love that?

—— Sugar Baby

There are a lot of people that will hate on someone else they’re just mad because they can’t be like us. God don’t like ugly. You just have to ignore the negative vibes no one likes bad vibes. So fuck all the sugar haters out there you just mad because you dont have a sugar daddy. Hopefully I get a sugar daddy soon because I just want to connect with someone on my level.

—— Sugar Baby

I feel people just hate on it because they can’t have it plan and simple, flat out. I haven’t had it yet but I have never hated on it. I would never let my family find out unless it was a real relationship from a sugar relationship. My my, people can be so judgemental. I think everyone should at least give it a shot for themselves to see that it’s not all that bad.

—— Sugar Baby

I’ve never met a Sugar hater, but I do know that some don’t approve of basically a fixed relationship. Some of them have strings attached , such as love, and others have no strings attached and are strictly online, dinner, or sexual relationships. People hate because they believe that sugar babies only use their sugar daddies for what they can get out of the arrangement.

—— Sugar Baby

I’ve met a few people who I’ve decided to share my lifestyle with or at least shared the idea of it. When they express disagreement with it, there’s an immediate urge to play it down with things like “he’s really busy, just no time to support a full-time relationship” or “really it’s just a normal relationship except with more thoughtful gifts”. Recently I’ve tried to move away from the practice of explaining it away and instead try an approach of why it works for me right now. I’m young, have been dating people 10+ years older since I was in highschool, and generally have more meaningful and interesting conversations with experienced older men.

—— Sugar Baby

Yes ive met mamy people that do not fully understand what its like or they think its weird or creepy. But i always tell them that if they dont like it thwn dont do it. It is my life and not theirs so they can go on and literally say whatever the hell they want because if im happy as is my sugardaddy then what does it matter. So we should enjoy our lives and do whatever because the only opinion thats matters is your own.

—— Sugar Baby

I try either ignore or educate them. Some people are close minded and only want to put others down to make themselves look better. Those kind of people I just ignore. If they’re going to act like q child, I’m not going to waste any of my time or energy on them. On the other hand, there are some with simply the wrong idea of what sugaring is and all they need is a bit of correcting and insight.

—— Sugar Baby

I personally have not met haters, but no matter what you do there will always be people hating. No matter what you do with your life people will always be jealous on what you have. So the way I would handle it is just ignore it. They want to see that negative reaction from you so they can use that to fuel their fire. The haters will always be there no matter what. My advice is like the haters hate. Let them be and you just keep living your beautiful life.

—— Sugar Baby

Yeah haters are going to be everywhere no matter where you are what your doing. They are always going to be there. You can always ignore them cause it doesn’t matter to then what your doing. It should only matter to you cause in my eyes haters are fans. They just wanna be like you and can’t be so of course they are going to hate on you instead.so do what you want.

—— Sugar Baby

Yes. It doesn’t matter what haters say I know who I am haters can hate they are usually just jelous so kill them with kindness compliment them build there self esteem show them they are beautiful too and have no reason to hate people often hate on others and when you show them kindness they start to show others the kindness you showed them. Alot of girls who hate on others were once hated on themselves. That’s on girls hating girls perspective.

—— Sugar Baby

People have opinions about everything but my decisions are mine only. I do not judge and do not allow myself to be judged by others. I am who I am, take me or leave me. I live my life the way I choose and if someone doesn’t like that I let them know they they are entitled to their views, but it will not affect my choices. I am honest about who I am and what I want, and their honesty doesn’t bother me at all.

—— Sugar Baby

There are plenty of people out there that frown apon the sugar way of life but this a choice none the less … people can be in a relation for 1 10 years and can’t stand each other n u feel trapped… But the there the sugar way and you can have a million adventures with daddy’s and it’s care free.. if someone wants out they seperate.. sugar way of life is a choice and 1 that I love and the people that hate on it secretly want the freedom we have.

—— Sugar Baby

There’s haters all over the world. I learned back in middle school that people are going to talk about you no matter what. Even if you dont know them. They’re still going to talk. Who knows they might not have anything else better to do. One thing you can do that i do is to constantly remind yourself that you don’t care about their opinion. That it doesn’t matter what they say as long as you’re happy and the people that uplift you are there to support.

—— Sugar Baby

I think every sugar baby has met the people who think it’s no different then being a hooker. In my opinion they are closed minded and uneducated. I try and explain to them it isn’t just an exchange of time for money. It’s a chance to meet a older successful man who can help give me the guidance to become successful on my own. It’s mutually beneficial and what is the difference between that and a regular relationship? We both get what we want without the garbage In between. If someone is going to be ignorant enough to ignore you explaining these facts to them, then they just aren’t worth your time. You will always have to deal with ignorance in life. Don’t waste your time on it.

—— Sugar Baby

I have (lol). A girl asked how i could not be disgusted with myself, the answer is simple. All my bills are paid, im 21 own a house and car, have enough money to still have fun. It’s really not the different from pre-feminist times when women never worked and men earned all the income. Don’t knock it till you try it. Besides, sometimes the sex is soooo good.

—— Sugar Baby

I have met Some people. I let them have their own opinion. Not everybody can think the Same as the sugar community can. Some people are Okay with it and Some are not. It all Depends on themselves and How acceptant They are of others. If sugar haters would Like to discussie About This topic, I would love to get into one. But at the end we Will have to agree to disagree.

—— Sugar Baby

I have met people who don’t understand, as well as people get angry about it. I just figure that they don’t take care of me so it doesn’t matter what they say! If your are happy do you boo boo! So for me I just keep to myslef and live my best life. Plus there is also the way of just not talking about it. Becuase it’s none of people business anyways. I do wish there was a chat group for us newbies though lol to give some girls the emotional support they need.

—— Sugar Baby

I’m pretty new here but I think the key to haters is silence if you don’t give them something to feed from they can’t say much of nothing why waste your time on someone’s opinion that you have no way of changing I only accept positive vibes and attitudes love conquers all just treat these hateful people the best that you can and think about it u live for you.

—— Sugar Baby

 Yes, I’ve met some. I didn’t reveal them my identity as a sugar babe, but I’ve talked about it. Some of them said, being a sugar baby is basically prostitution, but it’s not. The sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship isn’t very different to a normal one, but the SB is provided with money and goods as a payment for having the also emotional relationship, because sugar daddys WANT to spoil and spend time with sugar babies. I often tell sugar haters this while discussing. Being a SB also helps to improve one‘s lifestyle. I read, that on a SD/SB website nearly 30% of the SBs are students, who need help paying off debt. That means, it isn’t the fault of „money hungry“ SBs, but the fault of the government for setting college fees so high.

—— Sugar Baby

I have met sugar haters. My best advice in dealing with them would be to simply ignore them. You should never let anyone judge you for your decisions as long as you and your sugar are comfortable and happy that is what matters. It’s also important to remember that many sugar haters have never been in a sugar relationship and just judge based off of assumptions.

—— Sugar Baby

‘ve met them, and I do my best to educate them. I know that some people are willfully ignorant and that there’s only so much I can do, but I also feel like it’s my personal responsibility to help destigmatize sugar relationships as a member of the sb community. I try and tell these people that the sugar community isn’t harming them in their everyday lives, but their negative preconceived notions add to a stigma that does harm our everyday lives.

—— Sugar Baby

Don’t be to bothered, there will always be people who will hate. Honestly, just be you and do what you like. It’s your life so if you want to be a sugar, go for it! Also, don’t start a discussion with them, they will not change their mind, so it’s better to stay out of trouble and just go on with what you are doing! Stay stress free, and do your thing!

—— Sugar Baby

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  • Two consenting Adults=none of their business to hate on. But look, whatever you do in life, there will be haters and nosy people. Most people who point fingers do it because of THIER OWN insecurities. So brush it off and enjoy your life sexy ladies!!

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