Have You Ever Met Sugar Haters? How Do You Deal with Them?

704 Answers

Sugar Baby / 24

I have not had any sugar haters but it’s because I keep it a secret. People are not open minded to this idea of fun so I personally chose not to tell anyone. But if my friends were to ask I would tell them because I love this and don’t see anything wrong with sugar. If I were to experience a sugar hater I would just ignore it because “people are afraid of what they don’t understand”.

2017-11-14 15:34:28

Sugar Baby / 23

I’ve been hated on for many different things during my life, and sugaring is the last thing I’m going to be made to feel insecure about. It’s wonderful, I feel like a glamour girl on the silver screen when I’m sugaring. It’s an opportunity for women and men with a lot of compassion and affection to give in exchange for financial help, and I for one am absolutely over the moon with any financial help.

2017-11-14 22:47:59

Sugar Baby / 27

I have not come around "sugar haters" but I'm sure if I wasn't so discrete about it i'd get some negative feedback. I'm an open minded person and in 2017, people still lack this quality. It might be seen like one of the person is taking avantage of the other but I've never heard of such in the sugar world although in what you would consider a "normal" relationships it happens all the time....so the jokes on who?

2017-11-15 06:10:20

Sugar Baby / 39

Everyone has their right to their own opinions I don't have to listen to them or be involved in them. I am sure there are plenty either out of taught or out of jealousy but my life is not theirs and theirs is not mine. It's not my place to judge or condemn anyone other then teach my children right from wrong and how to be better then I ever was. So do you and be proud or don't do you but don't throw shade.

2017-11-15 08:21:05

Sugar Baby / 21

I feel the best way to deal with it is to just ignore them there not worth your time or energy. Everyone has the right to do as they please and I don't think that any of us should be judge for the life we are chiseling to live. Just let the negative thoughts and hate go and continue to be you :) thats the best way to do anything really :p hoped this helped

2017-11-15 15:10:32

Sugar Baby / 27

I have met sugar haters. My best advice in dealing with them would be to simply ignore them. You should never let anyone judge you for your decisions as long as you and your sugar are comfortable and happy that is what matters. It’s also important to remember that many sugar haters have never been in a sugar relationship and just judge based off of assumptions.

2017-11-15 16:37:31

Sugar Baby / 23

I personally haven’t had any haters, but I’ve heard negative things about It and i honestly feel as though people got to do what they have to do. Being a sugar baby doesn’t make you a hoe or less of a person... they just need or want extra money and if there’s someone wether man or woman who just wants so spend their money on someone then why not accept it... It is their life after all.

2017-11-15 19:17:03

Sugar Baby / 22

I have met any in my personal life but online yes they exist and are pertinent in their opinions. But that is all they are and they should be treated accurately. As opinions. At the point that I became a sb I realized that I was a grown woman who made her own decisions and had nobody to ask permission from. Unless they pay me generally I find their opinion irrelevant.

2017-11-15 20:23:10

Sugar Baby / 22

There are lots of sugar haters out there. Most say it's scamming and equate it to gold digging. Being a sugar baby is definitely a hussle however you're not scamming anyone. Any transactions are entirely voluntary and the relationship is mutually beneficial. I believe that people are fearful of what they don't understand which leads to nastily stigmas and a lot of people don't understand sugar relationships.

2017-11-15 22:42:01

Sugar Baby / 22

I have not shared my sugaring with anyone so I have no experience with sugar haters but I have met people who would be. I would probably just ignore them or brush off their opinions because it really doesn't effect them in anyway. If their concerned about the safety in sugaring I guess I would reassure them and take whatever advice they have to give, or at least pretend to.

2017-11-16 02:29:38

Sugar Baby / 31

Yeah I'm in a few mom was one of them but I just ignore I think it's bad it's not help you strive so I just ignore them laugh with them you know and like they're just words they're just jealous that's why they hate on you so I think about it haters make you stronger and they bring motivation. That they're just mad that you know you're getting money in the eat

2017-11-16 03:14:57

Sugar Baby / 27

Life is so difficult nowdays, it have been always to women, and now is also for many young men, to get a job and keep it is complicated, I don't care what people think, is posible to survive but is difficult to reach a high lifestyle level and if you can have some help is not wrong, that a nice man is watching over you doesn't mean you are not working for it. So if you don't have a better solution then you have no opinion.

2017-11-16 08:07:09

Sugar Baby / 22

WHEN THEY SAY: YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT MEN WITH MONEY.You say: I care about many things in a man, including someone who’s mature, successful, smart, established, and experienced in treating his partner well. Those things often come with money. So many guys just care about looks, and I don’t see you shaming them for that. This isn’t an exhaustive list, and I’m sure some of you have heard other stupid questions or nasty comments. Whatever the haters say, don’t let them get to you. If you feel happy and empowered (not to mention safe) with what you’re doing, that’s all that really matters. If your friends can’t handle it, maybe they’re not such great friends.

2017-11-16 09:49:38

Sugar Baby / 26

In life, and every single person you meet will dislike something about your or something you've done or are doing. People fear the unknown, when they don't truly understand something, or have gathered common misconceptions and generalisations. I thing sexual favours in exchange for money is still taboo in this day and he and it's ridiculous. 2 consenting adults benefitting each other in individual ways.

2017-11-16 10:56:23

Sugar Baby / 30

If we are being realistic, there will Be haters no matter what it is you do... I pay them no mind because misery loves company . If they were really worried about their opinion being cared about they would find a better audience that just might listen.This is a place to be sweet and sincere and that's exactly what I expect on here.if for any reason a sugar hater and I cross paths you can be sure my path is much sweeter !

2017-11-16 19:12:06

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes, i have. But i just ignore them because it's my life and i live it the way i want. There are haters everywhere and if you focus on what they think of you, you will not get far in life.i just do what makes me happy, and not what makes them happy.if they like it or not, that's their problem. It's my life and not theirs. You only live once so do what makes you happy.

2017-11-16 21:18:41

Sugar Baby / 28

Think of it this way. People will say they would never strip or prostitute & its so degrading. That they would never get money for sex. But what are you doing in a regular relationship then? They take you out & buy you things. It makes you want to sleep with them on account of "the provider" vibes. If stripping or being a sugar baby is degrading, then what is the stuff we do behind closed doors?

2017-11-16 21:28:17

Sugar Baby / 25

My own two parents are massive sugar haters. They see it as shallow, sinful, demented even. That's why they'll never know that I'm a baby myself (but that's besides the point). With them, I just hold my tongue and nod along to everything they say. With others, I have no problem standing up for myself. People think me classless, but what's classless about 5 star restaurants and shopping trips?

2017-11-17 05:25:16

Sugar Baby / 32

I don't try to let my business get out they were too much, but when my mom asked how I acquired something. And my answer and be like oh my play daddy. In the whole aura of the room changes, everyone's looking but you know they're all about the talk behind your back and that's always quite obvious. People envy what they don't understand, they envy even more what they don't have the balls to go get them selves

2017-11-17 11:37:14

Sugar Baby / 22

I absolutely have, but I pay it no attention. You’ll get hate for any and everything you do thfor ugh. I brush it off like dust under a rug. People focus too much on other people’s lives and what they’re doing while it has no interference to their life. I keep living my life the way I please, and the way I see fit despite the hate, because in the end, I’m ultimately doing what makes me happy and feel good.

2017-11-17 16:34:29

Sugar Baby / 22

I indeed have. They’re the kind of people who believe sugar relationships are like being a high class prostitute. They believe in their values, and theirs only. No matter how the world is evolving. I personally just ignore them. Everyone views things in different ways. It’s not their job to judge everyone, nor is it mine to judge. What they think has no place for my worries, if they’re going to judge me for trying to get by then they’re no friends of mine.

2017-11-17 17:05:56

Sugar Baby / 29

Yes, online all the time! I honestly feel that majority of women are sugar haters-mainly due to their own insecurities and hang ups. I feel that us special women who enjoy this lifestyle are intimidating for the average woman, especially if they are close minded. As for the male sugar haters it's usually lower level men who can hardly pay their phone bills let alone spoil a lady. So their hatred is fueled by ego blows and feelings of inadequacy..they like to talk badly on men who sugar date when in reality if they COULD they would but since they can't they attempt to bash and shame to help their bruised egos. I don't have a way if dealing with them other than laughing. Sugar haters are just jealous, envious beings. Brainwashed to believe that it's bad to monetize yourself but somehow glorified to do things for free or you're a whore, etc. I don't mind though, keep hating that just leaves more for those of us "in the know " to enjoy! Haters are my biggest motivators

2017-11-18 03:57:36

Sugar Baby / 24

Yes I have... I just Ignore because if what I do does not affect your life in any way or form then your opinion does not matter. I didn't come to this world to entertain haters. Life is way too short to be worrying about people who don't feed or clothe me. If you ain't paying my bills what I do shouldn't matter to you at all.middle finger up...I'm here to be happy not entertain fools

2017-11-18 07:50:12

Sugar Baby / 22

Most people like the idea of it but shame those that actually do it. I think a lot of it is seen as slutty and like you're a freeloader. If that's how you're doing it then you're doing it wrong. It's supposed to be a relationship, a team, a two way street. We both take care of each other, whatever that way may be. People tend to think of it like prostitution but that's not the case.

2017-11-18 10:59:03

Sugar Baby / 23

I have actually in my own house. I come from a very religious country and my family is against this style of life. I'll often say things like what if I was a sugar baby, you know mom life is hard and what's wrong with making someone feel good and happy and they taking care of me? And she said that if I ever become a sugar baby that I'd be dead to her. And I just said well mom I see that your love is not big enough to accept me like I am. But is my choice and my body. My decision. So if you feel that way I'm sorry but at least one of us will be having a good sexual and affective life.

2017-11-18 11:53:23

Sugar Baby / 22

Yeah absolutely i mean theres haters everywhere 😂haters are just my fans 😩🤦🏽‍♀️So i dont really care they can hate but their not feeling my sweet tooth people are always hating on something i guess people think its not normal but screw normal sugar relationships r so much more better then the norm who likes normal its basic💅🏼So haters can take ten steps back and watch me shine 👑

2017-11-18 12:53:28

Sugar Baby / 33

Yep haters gone hate hahaWhy? For sure they don't get it and it's easy to judge and most of them do it when they see a age difference. Hard to say or explain them what's behind a sugar relationship , depends who are you dealing with .. as is hard to win an argument with a stupid persone .But are also people that are wiling to listen and if you are honest about your feelings they might get you.

2017-11-19 04:16:41

Sugar Baby / 24

I personally have not met a sugar hater yet in my lifetime. I do get scared of receiving sugar hate so I personally do not post or publicize my sugar loving self out there in the world, LOL :-) i'm sure if I did get exposed to haters, I would react by saying that I am living my own life and not bothering theirs so they should mind their own business!

2017-11-19 10:52:34

Sugar Baby / 24

Haters exist no matter what. Yes, I have personally encountered haters, but I have also received a surprising amount of support! When I first entered the world of sugar dating I was very skeptical about what others might think about me. But then I realized that I don't care what they think! Since then I have gained a lot of confidence and I am not afraid to talk about my lifestyle. Because of this confidence I have in turn found many people who support me and offer me advice. The haters will always be there but simply put.... they don't matter.

2017-11-19 11:09:28

Sugar Baby / 28

I've definitely met people who are negative about it. There's something out of the ordinary that people just don't understand, and therefore don't like. As long as everyone involved is happy and willing, and it makes everyone happier, what does it matter what the relationship dynamic looks like? Doesn't matter to me and I'm the one in it, why does it matter to them?

2017-11-19 12:39:08

Sugar Baby / 22

Ultimately when dealing with a sugar hater you can either ignore it, end up fueling the fire,or completely make them shut up. If the hater is just saying eww or no I wouldn't be into sudy try and ignore it. If they start going detail into it watch what you say so you don't fuel the fire and make a big argument. If someone is being completely and utterly rude and disrespectful then shut them down. You have to pick and choose your battles

2017-11-19 20:07:23

Sugar Baby / 26

Ooh yees a fucking lot! People judge me as a gold digger prostitute. Not a bitch, not a whore, but a prostitute. As i said in another question, for me money ain't a big of deal since i already have my own income. How i dealt with it was by asking 'em, what is their reason to hate my life decision when there's no hurted party. I didn't disturb anyone's relationship! And yeah, they couldn't answer

2017-11-19 22:39:57

Sugar Baby / 24

Yes I have and you just don't deal with them at all. No negativity allowed. Why should I care about what another thinks about how I live my life. It's ridiculous how many people stop living there lives for other people. My best advice to anyone is just to do what makes you happy and ignore people.I have met haters in the best and let them get the best of me. But I learned later on that it's not worth stressing about.

2017-11-20 05:22:32

Sugar Baby / 23

Generally people will hate on sugar babies, but honestly I know a lot of people that are in this industry as well. I haven’t met someone who was fully against sugar babies and this lifestyle but as the generation grows this is definitely something that people are more relaxed about rather then a couple years back. Don’t hate the player, hate the game

2017-11-20 08:18:52

Sugar Baby / 22

I actually have encountered a lot of sugar haters recently. They don't see that the relationship can be beneficial for each side and are just too traditional to comprehend the idea. The way I deal with them is I tell them they have the way they like to handle their life and I have mine. I try telling them about my experiences in a sugar relationship just so they have a better understanding of what it is.

2017-11-20 09:06:21

Sugar Baby / 21

Generally, if I'm honest, I'm typically not very open about my sugar lifestyle with those in my real life. I tend to keep them separate. However, I do have some close friends who I have told and thus lost as a result of it. At the end of the day, I say they're going to hate because they're jealous that I'm happy with my lifestyle and they're not - it's all jealousy!

2017-11-20 10:02:12

Sugar Baby / 24

Yeah haters are going to be everywhere no matter where you are what your doing. They are always going to be there. You can always ignore them cause it doesn't matter to then what your doing. It should only matter to you cause in my eyes haters are fans. They just wanna be like you and can't be so of course they are going to hate on you instead.so do what you want.

2017-11-20 10:06:20

Sugar Baby / 21

I havent yet met any true sugar haters. I have met people who want to be a sugar baby and have a sugar daddy but dont want to do the things you have to do to get one. I have not met true real deal sugar haters but just people that want the postion but not put any real work. Unlinke myself i would do the real work to get into the sugar baby postion 😊

2017-11-20 15:24:39

Sugar Baby / 43

I haven't met sugar haters. My friends know I've had difficulty dating a normal man and they like seeing me happy. They enjoy my stories and sometimes they benefit from it also when we go out for dinners or shopping. I usually end up helping girls with the websites so they can look themselves I have heard the typical sugar hater online but it's none of their concern anyway.

2017-11-20 17:00:37

Sugar Baby / 22

Yes I have. When it comes up in conversations, the person I'm taking to always hates and bashes it. They say its basically prostitution. I can see their points, but it's not like that for ever situation. I try my best to defend it, but I can never change their minds. I just tend to leave it alone, rather than to argue forever about it. It's useless.

2017-11-20 18:32:12

Sugar Baby / 27

I don’t care how others see my relationship or friendship with an older person. It’s my business not theirs.!!!!!!!! And I’m very blunt. Two each it’s own. We all get to live our lives the way we choose to live it. You can love it or hate it. I honestly can care less!!!!!!!!! I’m sure they have made decisions that didn’t sit right with others but they still went through with it! Love your life for you and not others.. I love older men

2017-11-20 22:20:41

Sugar Baby / 23

Until now I have never met no one who hate sugar daddy/baby lifestyle. Once I read a article in a Facebook post and some girls was questioning how the girl was capable to do that, but just questioning at all, nothing hateful. I think people are open to new experiences even if they can't imagine they doing it. It's a lifestyle and people must respect it.

2017-11-21 03:31:09

Sugar Baby / 26

When discussing the normal sugar baby, sugar daddy relationships to average people... they think that sugar babies much be whores. Prostitutes who put out for money, and I have to explain that this presumption is a myth. Sugar babies aren't hookers. We just like rich men. Rich men like us. They have money to spend and we could really use it. It is an arrangement, but its more honest than most relationships. Both sides know exactly what they want and that's how I explain it to people. I don't have sex with people if i don't want to. It's simple.

2017-11-21 05:18:09

Sugar Baby / 24

I have never been completely open with everyone in my life. I have told one close friend, but that's about it. The truth is that most people are going to find it "gross." Some people have even compared it to prostitution. The best way to handle the criticism, though, is to ignore it. If both parties in a sugar relationship are happy, that is all that matters.

2017-11-21 07:05:28

Sugar Baby / 24

We all have. The answer is you don't. Allow them to do the hating as you proceed to pursue your desires in life. It is Your life. If the haters become unbearable the last thing you do is permit influence. I always look at things from a perspective as to why and try to understand either way I'm going to do as I please. Remember misery loves company.

2017-11-21 08:00:31

Sugar Baby / 22

I have not met any sugar haters in real life. I know however, that no matter what, there will always be someone ou there who doesn’t like the way you love or who you are. There will always be haters everywhere you go. Most people I know often joke about being a sugar baby or getting a sugar daddy, but they never persue it because it seems too taboo or risqué. I keep my sugar private because I don’t need a lot of questions that I won’t be able to answer. I do it because I can and I have fun in the process. I also don’t need that hate if I do happen to run into it

2017-11-21 08:38:49

Sugar Baby / 30

I’ve met a few but I tell them to each is own. I do what I do and you do what you do. I love that companionship and if I can be spoiled while spending time with an amazing person so be it. People are always gonna have something to say but I just ignore them. They are not paying my bills lol so what they have to say doesn’t matter. It’s all about how I view myself.

2017-11-21 08:43:30

Sugar Baby / 26

Smh, I have dealt w more hater than i have Sugar Daddies. I messaged a potential SD and he responded by saying I was too ugly to be a Suagr baby. It did kind of discourage me from looking for another Sugar Daddy. I almost believed that i wasnt cut out for this kinda thing. But alas, I have found me a Sugar Daddy thats willing to please this "ugly" Sugar Baby.

2017-11-21 09:49:12

Sugar Baby / 23

Although I've personally received some judgement, a lot of the time people are really curious! I feel as though there are so many misconceptions about sugar relationships and they require way more effort than the stereotypes of superficiality. In my experience, once people understand the dynamic more after an explanation, they generally seem more open to the idea.

2017-11-21 10:06:22

Sugar Baby / 22

I’ve kind of gotten used to the fact that haters are everywhere. Nothing you do is going to please everyone so as long as you’re pleasing yourself who gives a flying so and so!!!!! If someone isn’t open minded enough to appreciate and respect sugars then I’m not wasting any of my time or energy on them. Can’t be dealing with closed minded people!!!

2017-11-21 11:22:51