We have posted a question to our sugar babies and collected some answers. The question is “When Would You like to Meet Your Sugar Daddy After Communication Online“. Here are answers:
I really feel maybe a week after taking it would be best for a meet, you have to at least feel Comfortable or get a vibe with that person before things set off .. a lot of times people are not who they intend to so just be careful and don’t spoil it . You also want to make sure you save conversations and questions for the actual meet . You don’t want to be blank minded when you get there.
——Msjassi beauty (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
The moment you earn each others trust and respect. Not just the time where SD proves that he is a SD by spoiling his/her SB. But when you two gets comfortable with each other. And you both decide that it’s time to meet. It is essential to have a mutual understanding over this. It doesn’t matter if it’s after a week or a month. It depends on the flow.
Norjie Mae Castanos (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Once you’re both ready and feel comfortable! You don’t want to wait too long so they lose interest but you want to give yourself time to get a good vibe about the person. Always be careful and aware for the first meet and always be yourself! Its so annoying meeting someone for the first time and then later on them being a different way, just be yourself and have fun!
——Sandie Sandie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Possibly :3 it depends on how well we’d connect on a friendly level. Some people I’m much more comfortable talking with and having a relationship with online only, as I’m a very shy person. If its someone I feel comfortable with, who is also willing to respect my in-real-life boundaries/hard limits, I’d be more than willing and happy to meet them in real life.
——Lilith (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
i feel like i could meet him in a public place to make sure he is legit and wont hurt me, then we can take things from there. i deffinantly dont mind spending time with my suga daddy because i think that if hes going to help me out financial i should at least spend time with him otherwise whats the point? why would he give me money if he cant even see or touch me face to face? i know im not that great a person that im so intruiging we can just have a convo over the phone and he’ll pay my bills
——gina pagliarulo (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I’m ready! You only have this one chance to live, so make the best out of it! Enjoy each other and create moments and experiences that will make you think of them while you’re away and cultivate something special whether it’s friendship or more. I personally am ready for a friendship or maybe more, it just depends on the chemistry between us. Let’s talk
——Lauren Ilana (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it depends on the connection but I feel like no one should rush things be safe in this evil world and u and ur sugar daddy don’t want to waste each others time so I think a couple of weeks to a month is a good time frame unless u are absolutely head over hills sure that y’all are each others one and only then use your best judgement everyone has their own opinions
——Heather Leeanne (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think at least a week after. Hang out & vibe with that person first. Then see where you two would like to take it. Anything more than 2 or 3 weeks is really just wasting my time. I think the longer the wait, he has something to hide haha. I’m blunt & honest so if you’re hiding something from me, we will more than likely not even like each other
——Cheyenne (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would say a week maybe two . I work a lot too so if he is understanding of that , it would be cool. I think that my generation is so used to finding someone online that they want to meet them after a few days, but I’m not trying to end up on a cold case program . if he is super nice he can come by my job and meet me there. It is a friendly environment
——k-love (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would absolutely love to meet my sugar daddy after we take time and get to know each other’s likes and dislikes and build a bond with eachother gaining eachother trust. I would definitely be ready to meet him in a setting that we are both comfortable and content in. Maybe a movie and a dinner date or a simple date to go and enjoy ourselves to the max
——kayla (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Once you both feel comfortable with the idea of meeting and have built some trust. And you both know you like each other then I feel like that’s the time to meet ! I think one important step with meeting is that you too do feel like a connection I feel like with texts and phone calls video chats you can really vibe with someone before meeting. So when you have that feeling of I wanan meet them and hold then type of vibe that’s when you should meet
——denise (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I’d like to meet within a week or so depending on our schedules. Maybe start off with some drinks and dinner and see where it goes from there. I’m a very laid back girl so as long as I feel comfortable with you and you gain my trust there’s a lot of fun to be had. I love the idea of getting spoiled but I am not a materialistic person. I believe in true connections before meeting because i am not looking to waste anybody’s time
——Julie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Once both SD/SM and SB are comfortable with each other and trust each other, then that would make it easier to meet for the first time. Maybe after a few days of talking. Messaging and on the phone or FaceTime. So they can each feel the vibe and see if there’s any type of connection. It helps knowing ahead of time if it would be long term or not so long term
——Angel W (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Before meeting up with a sugar daddy I would like to talk to him online for a little while. These relationships are all about trust so it is important to build that trust before meeting in person. I personally would like to talk to my sugar daddy on Sudy for a couple days and then branch off into other forms of online communication such as Snapchat and FaceTime before meeting up in person.
——Kat (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I wouldnt mind meeting up after 3 days of talking. The thing for me personally is if a guy talks to me and the first thing he sais is something different or interesting or funny i will respond and continue speaking with him. My number one pet peeve is when a guy sais to you “hey”…… or “what’s up”………., in thar case i literally will not reply.
——Piper (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depends on the conversation.. it could be the next week.. or the next day.. if our schedules align.. we would have to video chat first and foremost.. and if the conversation is good then we can talk about each other schedule and go from there.. I don’t play the waiting game.. if we’re both interested and want to meet up then why no.. also it would have to be in a public place
——Tricey (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depends how the online conversation is going. What he says has to catch my eye. If we build trust in each other and are willing to both meet at a local place then it can be whenever. There has to be good intentions when planning to meet someone. It all depends on when both feel comfortable in meeting. Start out video chatting. Then when you meet, it will be less awkward that you have already seen them through camera.
——Ashley Skye (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel once you both get to know each other. Also once you agree on terms and conditions. I also believe that you need to be up front and very honest with one another… I can’t believe that you have to put so many word’s in each of your answer’s to these questions. I feel like I am doing an essay. I can see if I was taking a test. But alas I am not. I was just going on to take up some space…
——Amy (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Usually I’d meet with them after about a week or two just to get to know them and know that we can have a conversation that vibes. I also need to know they’re a good guy and can take care of me intellectually because I’m in this to better myself as well as meet new people. I’ve found a week usually helps decide how they react to things and the like.
——Meghan (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I do not have a specific time on when I would like to meet my sugar daddy ,depending on the person he be.if he is an out going person I expect to meet him as soon as 1and a half week or so.not that I am rushing anything though.because once you are interested in me and I am interested in you their should be nothing holding us back.but I don’t want to be going out with a stranger
——Kelly k (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
When you finally get to know someone online (no matter how long it takes), WHEN you should meet will be determined by the comfort levels of both individuals. I don’t think there is a perfect time or place. You will know once you know your SD and you SD knows his SB. The more open and honest the SD and SB are with one another the more they will lean about each other and the less awkward the first meeting will be.
——Elizabeth (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it’s important to meet sooner than later. It’s great knowing someone in person rather online. The chemistry is established in person. However, getting to know a person through this website first is crucial. Basic information should be shared mutually between the two interested individuals, such as the location of their residence, their lifestyle, and pursuits in order to see if they are a match
——Christian Alexander (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think I would wait a week maybe two. I think that will give you a little time to talk and get to know one another. Then move on to meeting that way when you do meet nothing feels awkward. You will already have a connection and know things about one another and it will make the meeting more interesting to both parties. Maybe a nice quiet dinner would be great.
——Nicole (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think within a week would be a good time to meet them one on one. Possibly a nice dinner, a movie, some wine, and see how it goes from there. Once your together meeting, it’d be nice to be holding hands, kissing, snuggling, just holding each other. I’m one that loves to be affectionate, passionate, spend quality time with that one special person.
——StevieD925 (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It all depends on if we click. I am all about lets get it done and over with next weeks not promised. So for me the sooner we meet the better. I am not getting any younger so why not take that leap of faith and see if we are right for each other from the get go save us both some time if we are not going to be a good fit. Or let us rejoice we have each other now.
——Bonnie Kennedy (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I don’t mind meeting for a drink or something, there is nothing wrong with meeting in person. I like talking online, but I feel in person communication is a better way to learn and understand each other. Sometimes things get lost behind a screen and their can be miscommunication. I feel the old fashioned ways still work, and there is nothing wrong with that.
——Jazmin (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe that after the first week or two you should meet your SD. At the first meeting/date you all will see if you really have a connection. Then after the first meeting/date you should know if this is really what you want. At that point it should be easier to make an decisions because you have already spent time with him. As long as there is an connection then everything shall go swell.
——Rosebud (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would meet as soon as possible if there is a common interest there remember someone is always looking and you never know when or high you meet your special person. One must ask questions and I don’t mean like what’s ur bank account look like but what do they like doing in their spare time or do they have kids ask how they feel about the things that you like entertaining prior to meet to put ur mind in a place of it’s a go or no
——Unique Adams (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
When meeting someone for the first time I usually wait to see if there is a connection or how easily we can talk to each other. Im not for everyone and not everyone is for me, if things seem good I would expect to meet them as soon as possible just to meet and talk and see if we both agree to meet again. I don’t like to waste time meeting if we can’t carry on a conversation nor do I like to waste anyone else’s time.
——Amanda (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
However long it takes for us to get to now each other. A lot of people assume that you have to meet to get to know someone but if I don’t know a few facts about you before hand, I wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting in person. Personally I would say a week at least. At Most, two weeks. We could have great chemistry over text, phone calls, or Snapchat but that doesn’t necessarily mean we’ll click when we actually meet.
——Bruna (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Only when you feel ready and comfortable, but obviously this varies from person to person. I usually like to meet after a week of a decent amount of messaging. I feel this is because I don’t want it to be all online, and I can usually get a feel for the person. The longer it drags out online I feel like the less likely it’s going to turn into a meeting. Stop messaging start meeting!
——Carisse (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that talking after a while while using sudy and then meeting would be best.then you would know that who ever you are talkin g to online is not a scam or something. Also it would be nice to have a real life interactions so that you see how they handle situations and what kind of person they are for your self. So yes I do think it is best to meet your sugar daddy about a week of messaging.
——Maddie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depending on the connection, every arrangement is different. If theres a real connection, i will push to see the person sooner to see if it is real. It is also based upon how far the person is away from me. Sometimes Its not always about the amount of money or gofts they are willing to give you, its about the connection that you have with them…..
——Ella (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I really hope in a sugar daddy that after a day/night of speaking he will ask my number and telling me ok , we talk later and asap to pick a phone call to ask my adress for sending me flowers and when i open my door to see him stading with flowers …this the the true conection and this the the real meaning of sugar daddy he can do wherever whenever to surprise you and make you happy.
——Ana (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like about a week or sooner depending on how well the conversation is how friendly you are to each other how you plan on starting your meet and of course what the intentions are before you meet you definitely wouldn’t want to meet to soon at least be able to have a conversation or things to talk about once you do meet in person from the conversation that you had online you want to be able to build interest and have conversation for that person.
——Marie Elice Mitchell (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Once we spoke for a while, on Skype for example, and I feel comfortable enough to meet him. I would want to know some basic information about him, but also some more personal details, so I wouldn’t feel like I’m going out with a stranger. Also it’s handy to talk about what each expects from the date, this way there won’t be awkward moments or dissapointment.
——Goddess Rachel Sparks (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It depends on how comfortable I am and where we go in all honesty. I’m pretty shy but I enjoy experiencing new things! Possibly after a week or two, it depends on how much I’d trust the sugar daddy. With how things are in the world you just have to be so careful, but if I feel safe, then I’d think about it!! It all depends on the person to be honest.
——Allison (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Honestly it depends on the sugar daddy & what level of connection & trust we have through messages. If I don’t feel threatened I’ll meet up after a 3 day period of talking to & getting to know each other. But if I do feel threatened or weary I’ll just stop in my tracks & find someone new to build a relationship with & go from there but i hope there’s more Sugardaddies than there are creeps.
——Diamond (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Maybe a week of talking getting comfortable. If that goes well then meeting in a public place for lunch maybe wouldn’t be a bad thing. Meeting in public and experience a face to face moment and go from there because Its different being on the phone with someone and face to face. So if both work out and comfortable then it should be much easier to go from there.
——Lex (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that maybe a week or two would be ideal. I’m a very honest and out going girl therefore I would want to make sure I have someone who can match my personality or handle it well. I wouldn’t want any part of our interactions to be painfully awkward, of course there’s awkwardness in everything but if we’re able to laugh it off and continue on, we’re okay. But if we’re unable to do that than things probably aren’t going to work. You would need a comfortable stand point on the other person.
——Chianne Wallace (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Well for me I have to speak to them over the phone see how we click there. If all goes well then why not set up a date meet in public first and make the most of it. Have fun and relax no need to be all shy. You get what you give honey the more you give the more you get in some cases. There are lots of sugar daddies its not that they are fake unless they won’t meet you and keep making excuses also never accept check only cash ..
——Sandraa (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think wance we get to know each other their is no douth about it we can talk about our feeling’s an what matter the most to each other and we must trust and respect each other.And then we can set a time when and where we can meet if it’s over sea’s or in my country then am fine with that too and my sugar daddy support me also And sweet as ever to me you of to take care of who you have.
——Trena (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think that every situation is unique and while it may take some connections a few weeks to feel confortable enough to meet some, for others it may only be 24 hours before it feels right. Naturally I think that it is really what feels the best for you but personally I wouldn’t be able to put a specific time limit on it. Everyone can be spontaneous I feel.
——Victoria (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it really depends on the person I’m talking to. If we hit it off straight away then I don’t see I need to wait longer than a week to meet them. However if I don’t click with someone straight away but I feel like their could potentially be a connection I’ll talk to someone for a longer period of time before meeting them. I don’t want to meet someone and literally sit there with nothing to say.
——Natasha (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
A week or maybe 10 days after we talked. by then we already know our limit and our behaviour, and when we meet, it wont be hard to be talkactve like we did on chat before. and about the plusplus is up to us. we r grown up enough for that. maybe we can chill first, have a cup of coffee, talk in real life, as usual person does daily and ut gonna be fun!’
——Nomnom (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think I would like to meet my sugar daddy maybe after we have been talking for a week or two. I like to talk to people for a little bit before jumping into seeing the on the first day . I mean I don’t mind meeting on the first day especially if I’m attracted to you. I’d like to meet at a restaurant or a park something fun or that involves food because who doesn’t love food haha.
——Carmen Perez (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After we take time and get to know each other’s likes and dislikes and build a bond with eachother gaining eachother trust. I would definitely be ready to meet him in a setting that we are both comfortable and content in. Maybe a movie and a dinner date or a simple date to go and enjoy ourselves to the max. I obviously wouldn’t want to rush it but as soon as we’re ready I’d be super stoked.
——Mya (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It really depends on the person in my opinion. Like if we go on and talk for a moment and I feel that little “click” I’d be happy to meet the same day we speak. But in all actuality it does take me a moment to open up, because no matter what I’m any situation I would rather be safe than sorry, like I definitely would prefer the wait so I know the dude isn’t a psycho.
——Whitewolf91 (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Uhm maybe like at his house or a coffee shop..somewhere casual. Going to a fancy place can be a bit overwhelming. There’s place like cafe intermezzo which is cute but I mean Starbucks is fine as well but Starbucks is a little crowded and I feel like people can be a bit nosy so conversations of having an arrangement would be inappropriate for a place like Starbucks haha.
——Fariha Michele Akter (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it would have to depend on communication and trust. I would never agree to meeting someone if I did not trust them. I also believe that there has to be some kind of connection between me and a daddy. I think maybe a week is a good amount of time to get acquainted with a daddy and figure out the terms each one has and mutually agree on what the relationship will be like.
——Brigitte (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After talking to them and knowing they are a nice person. They have to be kind and willing to be open to provide for you and make your stay be as comfortable as possible. You also have to be sure they are who they say they are so maybe after a FaceTime or talking on the phone possibly even snap chat. Once all that is sure of I think it is okay to meet them.
——Sarah (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel about after a week of talking , i would be ready to meet my sugar daddy. It would give us time to share common intrest and get to know about each other. Also it will give me time to feel comfertable enough to meet him. It would let me understand his intentions with me. You only live once so I wont wait monthes. But just enough time to get comfertable.
——Angel (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Yes of course. Most sugar daddies want an in person type of relationship regardless if it’s a NSA or committed arrangement. I feel better after a couple of days or at least a week and a few phone conversations it would be okay to meet in person in a public place. It’s definitely a small risk meeting people that you have met online in person but as long as you take the precautions and actually get to know who your meeting up with then it should be okay.
——Tatyana (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like if we don’t meet up within a week or two it’s probably not going to happen… People here are busy so some delay is expected but after too long I just assume they’re not very interested. You know what they say, people MAKE time for who and what they’re really intersted in. I personally love spontaneity! What are you doing tonight? Time for an adventure.
——Spookylilmonroe (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I am ready! Why not you only live one life. So lets have fun! I am not hard to please and love to try new things. I am open to just about anything. Just be open and real with me and i will do the same for you. I love to text and chat. So send me a message and lets get to talking. I am a very open person and a little wild at times. But can be very reserved when i need to be.
——Kristy (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depending on the person and their communication! I’m a person that loves to see who I’m talking to so video chatting is a plus before you meeting somebody anyways especially off the internet. sometime it can takes weeks to meet someone sometimes it can take a few day you can’t control your feelings so you never know what the road will lead you too…. you can find somebody local or long distance never know.
——Addiction (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Maybe 2 weeks of being talking and if we hit it off they we could plan a coffee date or something. Even though I don’t drink coffee I would love to be able to a genuine nice conversation with a person I have been enjoying talking on line. It doesn’t need to be something huge and fancy just fun and entertaining for both of us…. Love, me hahahahaha.
——Daniela (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
As soon as possible, I’m really that’s y I’m on here, I need a sugar daddy asap, I’m adventures n very outgoing, need a sugar daddy to entertain n get me outta this boring town, someone I can b me with that will take care of me, someone I can cook n clean for but still n silly with, go camping,to movies,dinner, whatever we wanna do, where my sexy sugar daddy at.
——Weezyfn Marquart (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
That would depends on how quickly we become comfortable with each other. Or, how quickly I feel comfortable. That would be determined by how often we talk and what we talk about. I like someone that I can easily talk to. If I have to carry the conversation then I will never get to that point. If we can easily talk and get to know each other pretty well, I’m ready to meet asap. But typically, I like to talk for a couple if weeks and really get to know each other.
——Ronni (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think after talking for a fair amount of time. It would be nice to go to eat in a restaurant or to the beach or do something fun and relaxing Depending on what we both like to do and what we are looking for. Movies would be good too but nowadays people are not really into doing stuff like that anymore so I think the restaurant is most likely to happen along with drinks.
——Rebecca (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depends how my sugardaddy makes me feel. If there is just good vibes, why should I wait? Life is to short for waiting! However, always good to get to know each other a bit before so you have somethings to talk about the first time. Dont want to have the akward silence, thats just a big turn off. So if sugardaddy makes me feel good, I’ll just go for it.
——Hanna Björck (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would say about a couple a weeks maybe two weeks or so, you need to make sure you know who you’re talking too before it goes any further. There are exceptions though if you feel confident and comfortable of who you’re actually talking to then I would say maybe less. But ultimately every situation is different in my opinion.
——Christi (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After about a month of FaceTime or Skype calls I like to know that the person I’m meeting is real and that this is safe! ALWAYS BE SAFE LADIES! But I tend to just like online flings with very sweet intelligent men who spoil me rotten(: I like to be able to talk and get comfortable with somebody before I jump right into something! Everyone should take as much time as they need.
——Elisha (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like a week or two would be great. In the first week, you’d learn the basics. Know what they are like, what they do, what they’re into. And the second week and be the basis of plans or even other more intimate matters. It honestly all comes down to the sugar baby and daddy. I’m highly demiromantic so a bond must be in place prior to anything really but hoping to change that a little.
——Kitten intuitions (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe meeting once you talk for a week. Also gain each other trust. Once you two feel confortable enough the rest is up to you. Just be careful he not a fake. The best way to do that is asking for a video chat. This way you know who you are with and makes the connection better. Also talking on the phone helps to know that he is a person. Picture are just for show you can get anypne’s picture online but video chating is the sure way.
——Nicki (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would like to talk maybe for a week or two. I’d like for us to talk about our relationship and get ready for meeting. I’d like to know him well enough to feel safe. I expect a certain relationship with a suger daddy but all people are different so sometimes I have to change how long it takes or how many pictures I send of myself because of how the person is.
Yasmean (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel once you both are comfortable with one another and varifide because no wants to be catfishes. It’s just best on both ends. Traveling to meet your daddy at first can be scary if not just my personal experience. But it’s really personal preference on how you feel comfortable with them it may take more or a little time for you personally. Some times I have a sugar daddy that how I like to get to know boundaries and such. Other times I paypiggies to spoil me witch is a different story.
——Alethea Rocha (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Definitely after there is plenty of communication before. Probably communication outside of messages on this site and pictures and such to verify. Meeting in a public place after there is some level of trust and intimacy involved. Time is precious and should not be given to just anyone. Especially in today’s world. Meeting someone means there is already an established connection there that you would like to further.
——Jessica (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It’s all about safety for me. I think once I feel safe I’d be willing to meet up. Communication is definitely the key and talking and chatting makes me feel at ease. I can talk the back legs off of a donkey! It would also lay on how the chat is going. When I feel comfortable I’d be willing. Friendliness helps within a conversation, and some willingness into my interests.
——Georgie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It depends on the vibe I get from you. If you give me creepy feelings I won’t meet at all. If we’re cool and just chilling, I’ll be more inclined to meet you as soon as possible. So maybe a week so. But there’s a character limit so more details: I’ll probably want to video chat or text first then I’ll be willing to go out. Public place to meet and talk over food.
——Kim (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
When we’re specifically conversing about the communication and the steps of a sugar relationship, as others have gotten into depth, it’s your general persona whether or not you’ll have the strength and be driven to meet the new people you’ve more or less foundinterest in or wish to create the foundation of your new sugar relationship, & destroy the media barrier!
— (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depends on location and how well the conversation has went also depends on both schedules. Id say a few days to a week. Make sure its something that you both want to do and I totally dont see anything wrong with it at all. If you agree on a time and date then go through with it if unable to make it let the othrt one know. But other wise meet up and see where it goes.
—— (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Dunno. I think the time we can meet it deppends on how good our communication before. If we are doing good, maybe i want to meet him after 1 week and in informal meeting (just like doing hang out to mall or to beach for sunset). If he want to meet me in formal meeting, it need mode time ofcourse. And If our communication in chat is bad, i think i’ll never meet him.
—— (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would. After we talk for a little bit, and than we would have to talk about what we wan’t and dont want in the agreement . I would most definitely want to met. But at first it would be in a public place,to get a feel for eachother. And get to feel the vibe out. And see if we want to make that agreement a hundred percent official. And if we do go from there!!
—— (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
As soon as they prove that they are in fact a real person. It’s common for people to lie on the internet, so as soon as you have proof that your sugar daddy is real, set up dates and let the magic flow! Especially if they want to take you out to eat 🙂 as someone who loves food the key to my heart is pizza. If my sugar daddy wants to buy me pizza I’m immediately going to meet them.
I like to meet in person after conversing online to see that we’re compatible in a verbal/ emotional way. That amount of time really depends on the person and our communication skills- as well as my schedule. But I typically want to meet within the first week or two of constantly chatting with a potential Daddy as there is so much nonverbal communication that can tell you more about a person.
——Yani (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
To have a spark between each other is pretty important, I think that you should talk constantly to get to know each other a little bit and see if you have something in common, if you don’t find anything that makes you say “I wanna meet him” I think you should be sincere and call it off. I know it’s hard to find a connection vía WhatsApp or SMS but that’s why telephones and video calls exist. You have to know him when you feel ready and comfy enough!
——MaJo (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel maybe 2-3 weeks depending on how we hit it off. If me and the suger daddy have a connection and great communication and a few phone conversations than we could discuss meet up for coffee. If he has a great sense of humor that’s a plus. I would love to meet someone who might want more then an arrangement someday. Someone that can accept I have a daughter.
——Lindsay (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Well I think after you have a steady communication and you have good vibes not creepy vibes then go for it at least 2 weeks tbh I wait one to two weeks before meeting them then I want to be proven I’m not getting played . Girls watch out some just want to get laid and not spoil you . Just saying but once you found your daddy don’t let him go at all.
——Lilo Rivera (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it depends on how well you click with the other person. Maybe a week, maybe sooner. I like to base it on the vibes. I think atleast one week of communication is key though, just to weed out any weirdos or to make sure you both have things in common and will actually get along. I think it’s important to not wait too long though. I wouldn’t want to waste anyone time.
——Jessica (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think that timing is based on the connection. I don’t think there is a specific timeline, but a bit of communication is important to make sure the relationship is a good match. A sugar baby should be upfront as well with any fears or feelings regarding the meeting, and both should feel comfortable about first meeting location. Personally I prefer a public location for first meeting to ensure that sugar daddy is indeed who he says to be for safety reasons.
——Cynthia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I really think that a sugar should meet her sugar daddy after a month or so. You need some time to get to know your daddy, know what he wants and make sure he knows what you want. Make sure you are both on the same page and make sure your values are clear to him and same to the daddies. You need to know your daddy and your daddy needs to know you.
——Serenity McCreight (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It all depends on how comfortable you are with the situation. i prefer to set down and establish what we’re both looking for over the phone, determine if our interests align, and make moves from there. over the phone is much more personal, so i prefer to talk business via facetime rather than text. a connection can be better established that way as well.
——Victoria (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think a great place 2 meet would be somewhere public but still quiet..A nice quiet resteraunt or maybe a park or out on a boat,somewhere se can talk and get to know eachother a little. Its scary for a lil sugar baby 2 meet someone for the first time like that.. I get so nervous meeting new people, so somewhere calm and relaxing would be best.. For me anyway.
——Missy (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think meeting in a public place would be good the first time to get more comfortable. Then go from there. You should always play it safe at first and get to know each other a little more to see if the two of you connect. It makes the lady feel a little more safe about meeting someone online. You never know who the other person is and safety is very important.
——Jenny (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that if after a week of talking and getting to know them you feel relaxed and happy, then maybe the following week you actually talk on the phone and if the conversation is still relaxed and calm then I would be willing to meet in a public place. . And as long as you are clear on boundaries and limits and still feel comfortable then you go from there.
——Nicole (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
A week after talking. It’s best to get a decent introduction before you meet them. In that case, you will feel confident and comfortable enough to be around them on the first date. There’s already topics to talk about after you have enough communication with them prior. Clearly, I think that’s the right amount of time before you meet someone in general.
——Kendra (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Yes, definitely. I would appreciate the chance to meet the person who I have been talking to. Keeping things online, well that’s fun but it only takes you far and it allows no further connection to form between two individuals. Distance might be a problem because not everyone seems to be in the same place. I like meeting people (although I am quite shy in the beginning!) I like getting to know people, especially if there is something to go off.
——Tosca (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that as soon as you and your sugardate is connecting with each other’s it’s time to meet up and have a real conversation where you both can see and touch in real life. Don’t waste any time, live life and have fun. 🙌🏼 Maybe a week is good for some sugars and some take more, the most important thing for me is that I get a good vibe from my sugar daddy!
——Elin (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
As soon as we’re comfortable talking to eachother and we’ve gotten to know what eachother wants out of the SD, SB relationship , which should really be done In the first conversation then I don’t see why we shouldn’t meet as soon as possible. By that I mean, minimum one week because one you don’t want him loosing interest and if it’s someone you really want to Pursue then you kinda have act Quickly.
——faith (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe you should meet your daddy after a few weeks of talking, that’s gives you both a chance to get to know each other, figure out what both works for you, make sure you and your daddy are the same page with with everything. Once you meet it won’t be as awkward and you can ask more questions about agreement. It also to see if you click with your sugar daddy.
——Kayley (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Once I get to know him over the phone. I would get a vibe from him and meet him in public for the first date for sure. I plan on making sure I keep my location on and share it with a friend. And I refuse to give anyone my banking information. I’ve had this app for only today and had a guy ask for it so I plan on taking cash, or getting paid through the cash app.
——savvybaby (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Honestly, if we vibe. I’ll meet that day or the next. Never put a time stamp on it. If it feels right.. Do it!!! We are all here to have fun an be happy. So, why would I want to wait a month or two to meet a great sugar daddy? Plus you really don’t know someone until you met in person. Body language, how the present themselves on the “first impressions” so, why wait????
——Heather (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
About a week or 2 so we can get to know one another on a personal lever & I can help him out as much as he’s helping me financially. It also depends on what he is willing to spend, because of he’s spending a lot on me I wanna meet him and spend time with him making sure he’s getting everything he should put of our deal….
——Phay (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After I know that they are a nice person and that they are who they say they are. I also need to feel safe with who I am talking to so once I am secure and comfortable around them then I will be more than happy to meet with then. That being said they are a sugar daddy so they will have to provide all expenses and pay for some nice shopping while they’re at it.
——Ann (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It depends on how i feel about him. Depending on the vibe between us,would meet him on the next day or two or maybe a week after but like i said it depends on the vibe. In the sugarpot there are different types of daddies and if a daddy wants to see me as soon as possible and i can make it and the vibes are there,id throw caution to the wind and meet up.
——Valentine (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It really just depends. Do I connect with my sugar daddy? Do I see it being something more personal than just online? That’s really a question that you’ll never know until it comes up. Maybe I just want to talk on here, maybe I want to be his dinner date. Impress me. I want to know I’m not gonna be creeped out when were together. I wanna have fun. And I’ll definitely keep you sold and I’m your toes.
——Brianna (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
A few weeks, or something close to that at least. Just to ensure you talked a bit before you guys meet. And when u guys do meet always tell someone where ur going to be safe people are crazy these days you don’t no what to expect. The longer you wait the better it will be distance makes the heart heart grow founder. Always remember that. So wait.
——Bella (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Probably after a 5-7days of chatting and building a connection where I feel that he is real and genuine. Talk about what we both want. Safety and feeling connected is important to develop a trusty relationship. To make sure we are both respectful of one another. Ask many questions and ask each other to send pictures doing something to prove that they are real.
——Camille (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Anytime as long as he’s rich has a lot of money and sends it to me by venmo at anytime it won’t matter to me because it’s all just a quick and easy fun thing to have with a person and it all just depends on whether they want to and how long they travel, most of it is circumstantial. I would personally like to send snaps and anything else for that kind of stuff.
——Melody Gold (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
If I feel a good connection, then after maybe a week or two I’d be down. I’d have to be completely comfortable first. If it’s shady, then I won’t meet up with him. I have to make sure I’m safe and that the situation is not dangerous or fake. I’ve had so many sugar daddies who have not respected me or my wishes or haven’t been willing to pay up. I’m not free, fellas!
——Emma (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like I could meet him quickly. Of course being scared but excited. It’s is a rush to the head but I believe it will turn out fantastic. Talk to them quickly and you will be able to learn much about them. Don’t ask for money quickly be curtious to them trying to get to know you. I think meeting someone who could help you in the Future would be nice..
——Darrian Dennis (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Each individual will be different in most ways no one situation will be the same each person you come into contact with is a different piece of your life at different moments for different reasons in every season you wont have a clear answer 4 this question because you wont know how comfortable you are with a person you dont know only finding out for your self will answer this.
——jezzalynn (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would like to talk on the phone for a little while before meeting in person. The person must have a soothing voice. I want to make sure we have things in common. To make sure that we don’t bore ourselves. Then afterwards meet up. The place can be somewhere public so we can break the ice comfortably. I’m always ready to meet new people and make new friends.
——Servita (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like the best time is when you feel a connnection with said person. That could be one week or 1 month. In the past I feel like 2 weeks is usually a good middle ground for the first introduction face to face. I feel its important to get to know one another before jumping into any arrangments. It’s good to get to know someone’s wants and needs to get a really good idea if the match would work. It is such a drag to waste valueable time on someone who just doesn’t click with you.
——Brandi (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would be willing to depending on how we connect on a friendly level. If we click and get along very well than I think that would be awesome. You never know where your sugar daddy relationship can lead to. We both just might need that companionship and I would be floored to find my sugar daddy and cluck so easily and it goes very very well for us both.
——Natural Suga (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depending on how open they are with me & provide evidence they’re real, and agree to meet in a public & open area with me, I would agree to meet within a 90 day period. This person would have to meet my needs & wants within reason & I would also want to meet theirs. As long as our needs and wants are met and we are compatible, I would be open to meeting my sugar daddy.
——Krista (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It depends how quickly we connect. I would say definitely at least 2 weeks of talking online first. Snapchat is a must to be sure that they are not a catfish. And they have to be open minded and agreeable to my terms first. After two weeks or so of genuine conversation, planning to meet would be the next step… but of course each situation is different.
——Kel (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
The first meeting needs to be set in a public place. The time frame needs to be a minimum of 7 days. That gives both Sugar and Sugar Daddy time to discuss each other’s wants and desires. Exchange phone numbers and video call or Skype before the date. If this cannot be agreed upon move on! Seek to meet at a place that’s inviting and cozy to break the ice. A museum, restaurant, or cafe.
——CoCo (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that just like anything else in life, there is never that perfecting timing. I’d say go with the energy and vibe you feel from that person and take it from there. Whether its within a few days of talking or a few months of talking. Some people communicate and express themselves more effectively face to face, and others communicate more effectively using technology.
——Couture (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Not too soon or too late, about a week or so. You want to get a good read on a daddy before you just right in. You want to make sure you’re both on the same page and are comfortable with each other and their boundaries. I’ve never done a sugar baby site before so getting a feel for the person before anything is really important. Just message me if you’re interested, I’m ready for just about anything.
——Lauren (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I don’t feel there is any specific amount of time. It’s all about communication and how well you vibe with your sugar daddy. It could be a matter of days. In that case, there must be a tremendous amount of communication and comfort. It could be a matter of months. In reality, it is hard to know exactly how long you should wait before meeting. Everyone’s situation is unique.
——Scott (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I wouldn’t wait longer than two weeks. You want to talk enough to get to know them and feel comfortable, but don’t waste each other’s time by holding off the meet up. It’s important to see each to make sure that it’s serious and legitimate. Meet up for dinner or something casual to get a feel for them out in the open. If you wait too long you or your SD may lose interest.
——Mixed Chick 95 (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it depends on the person but I would prefer to meet him after a couple weeks, if we’re both on the same page there’s no reason to go on endlessly texting without getting a vibe for the person… in person. You never know you could be completely for a person while texting them and you finally meet in person and feel like you’ve wasted your time because you don’t actually like the person.
——Tierra (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like it depends on the person and what they’re comfortable with. I say maybe a month or so, that way it is clearly communicated what each other expects from one another. If things aren’t clear, then it’s a bad relationship. Also, I feel it’s important to know a good amount about your sugar daddy before you meet up with him and he should know a lot about you too! That way first meet ups aren’t awkward.
——Courtney (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I don’t think there should be a time limit, too much pressure. It should all be a vibe ♥️ I do think there should be an initial public meet when you first start getting to know one another. It kinda gets him excited and anxious if you give him and initial snippet. Lol. And of course after the first public meet you guess will have so much to talk about.
——Lex (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I don’t think I’m the only one, but I would like to meet as soon as possible. You can chat for hours/days/ weeks even, but you will never truly know if there is a strong connection until meeting in person. You’ll get to feel the chemistry in the air (or lack thereof). Also, meeting as soon as possible eliminates wasting time. We’re all adults here, trying to make connections, so we should avoid wasting time.
——Alexandra (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would say maybe a week or two after talking online so that way I can first get to know you and see how you are literally and verbally, through writing, then meet up in person. I wouldn’t wanna meet up too quick because that might give a bad impression of me, because it might come off like as if I am only after their money or sex, and I definitely am not like that, I care more about personality then material things.
——Mariah Angelique (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It depends on how well the communication is. After a few weeks to maybe a month is a reasonable time frame, but again it all depends. Some people you may can meet sooner, and some it may take even longer. Although I feel a month is the average time, certain things must be discussed and understood before meeting. For example what you are/are not expecting and wanting from the other person.
——Chelsea Bradford (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe you should give it a few weeks getting to know your sugar daddy maybe talk on Web Cam know exactly what it is you both want! And then you will know what level you are.. if they are exactly what you are looking for as such it’s better to know someone on a mental level before it moving on to a.physical relationship but as long as you know how to treat a lady Itcould work.
——DD (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
If we connect get to know each other enough to know we are at the same page and on agreed terms. This being in about 2 weeks enough to make each other want one another. And have a pull that makes the arrangement work and not be weird or awkward for any of the parties involved. By this time the pair should probably be ready to interject in whatever way they please and actually help each other out in a convenient matter.
——Cintia Wintia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would say until I’m fully comfortable which would mean we would have to get to know each other first and yes we would need to at least FaceTime before hand and the first time meeting it would have to be in a public place to insure of my own safety. But typically I would give at least a month before meeting so it gives time to actually get to know each other.
——Arianna Roberts (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After I vibe with you I’d say about a week in public setting so we both feel comfortable. If you and your sugar daddy are close in distance and hit it off you might want to meet earlier. It’s all about how comfortable you are really get to know each other ask questions and remember not to cross any boundaries. Once that’s done then you’re ready to meet.
——Katria (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I really believe a SB should meet her SD when the connection is there. However long that takes than so be it. I don’t think that there is an exactly time limit. I would say to not rush into things because, the SD might not be the guy you are looking for. So basically taking your time and trying to see if you guys connect through talking on the or even messaging each other.
——Dark and lovely (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I really feel like maybe a day or two that way we can meet in person and talk , I would rather actually meet in person and talk abt whatever because then u known the person is real and your not talking to someone over the Internet and there just telling you what you wanna hear. That is town frel.abt thongs just meeting in person is alot better in my opinion.
——Amanda Amanda amanda (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would not have any problems meeting one in the future as long as I’m comfortable with him and as long as we click. I prefer to meet someone in person anyway especially if we have a lot in common and enjoy a lot of things together. I’m always at home and would love to dress up and go out and just have a good time. If he lives nearby then than would be easier but if he’s miles away then maybe we can work on something.
——Marie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think that’s up to the SD and SB and if they are ready to meet or not. Other than that about a week or two depending on distance and if the baby has to be flown out. I would like to meet about a week after I meet my ideal SD, so I can see if I have a meaningful connection. I don’t just want your money I want your friendship and I want to spend time with you.
——Rubies-opals-love (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
The best time time to meet with someone definitely varies from person to person. You may feel comfortable with someone right away and with others, it might take some time. It depends on personality. They can be outgoing, friendly and like jumping into things while others are more reserved and I respect either or. I would rather play it by ear, be patient if I have to be and just see where the chemistry takes us.
——Shelly (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It’s not a one shoe fits all answer here. It would depend on my level of comfort based on online interaction etc. I would have to feel like I knew the person well enough and also have enough “proof” of their true identity and intuition instincts. On average I would say a month. Also depends on the distance, means of the meeting, and what prior agreement was made!
——Dia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
My opinion would be that every individual is different, everyone has their own way of connecting with a person so it’s really hard to pinpoint what is a good time and when it’s not. It’s chemistry and trust, if you’re comfortable with the person or not. To be a SB for someone isn’t just about what the SD/SM can only do for you and fulfill your needs but it’s about giving something back too, whether it’s your time and company or just be there when they need someone to be there. Mutual respect and understanding of each other’s situation and need. I’d say I could meet my SD when I know and feel that the time is right and we’re both agreeing that it’s a good time so it won’t end up being a disaster.
——Anna-Maria Esergren (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Before meeting your sugar daddy, you need to exactly know he likes before anything goes down. You need to know what you want and you need to know what he wants and what’s the relationship is about. So, make a contact basically or just talk about it. It’s essential that you know what your getting into because you should never be to careful on who you are meeting.
——Ellah Jane (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think that it depends on both parties and level of comfort/ experience. I personally wouldn’t meet up after a week I would just give it some time to grow into a strong bond. Trust is key in this sort of relationship, in any relationship honestly. I think that when and if you do meet up there are some rules to that. Meet in public spaces always and never divulge your bank info.
——Carlie Wilken (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would like to meet him after a few conversations through text. I would also like to hear their voice, FaceTime, or have more pictures of them sent to me just so I know they’re real. When we talk, I make sure I’m clear with what I expect and know exactly what they’re looking for. I for sure share my location with my friends which is a perk to having an iPhone cause people are crazy out here… Y’all stay safe!!
——lovinglibra (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Id like to meet him maybe in a few weeks.. after talking everyday, finding out what each other likes, dont like, etc. Take some time to get to know each other well. Then from there id like to know if im comfortable enough to be around my daddy and have a good connection/friendship with him. Im definitely not the type to be ok with more than just friends, but if theres a big spark b/e us.. who knows.
——Sei (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think maybe after a few weeks of talking and a little bit of trust is built, we can meet in person. At the end of the day, these people are strangers until you get to know them. The beauty of it all is finding people you can trust and actually enjoy your time with, but before you do that you need to be able to feel comfortable with the thought of meeting them:)
——Kiara (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it all depends on the person. If you really connect with a sugar daddy and feel comfortable around them, I would say a week sounds like a good amount of time to wait before you meet. But i also think that you should always trust yourself, if you don’t want to meet a sugar daddy for any reason you should never feel obligated to.
——Hannah (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would feel comfortable with at least a week as long as we set rules before hand. Meeting is a big part of the process and I feel like as long as we are in the same terms with one another then there shouldn’t be any problem with a week to maybe two weeks. But if it’s within days then I feel like it might be a bit sketchy or odd unless I hear the guy out.
——Malorie Parker (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would prefer to meet someone one or two weeks after messaging them. This way I feel that we would have had time to somewhat connect and at least understand the basics about each other. I am also impatient so waiting a month or longer just seems too long to me. Meeting online is scary enough so I feel like meeting in person would make things more comfortable and help us better connect.
——Shannon Hearne (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I definitely would not rush into it. You need to get to know someone first before you meet them especially online! Definitely in my opinion a month in a half maybe 2 months. You have to be comfortable and ladies do it in a public place don’t be silly. Look out for yourselves. I know we’re out here to meet good people. Well I am at least. But honestly you never know. Be sure.
——Lauren (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel it’s best to meet up with your sugar daddy once you have your arrangements established as in what you want from each other and that should be around a week or so as long as it takes for you guys to became comfortable with each other. Once their is a trust built and rules are established I feel you know better about where to go from that point with your sugar daddy.
——Kaja (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I definitely think you should meet your daddy after a month has passed. At this point you should both be comfortable with each other, and have plenty of subjects to speak about in person. I think it would be appropriate to meet in a public place such as a coffee shop. This way both parties could feel safe. After this coffee date is when you decide if you want to continue keeping in touch.
——Savannah (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I typically like to interact with my potential sugar daddy on the app for some time before handing out my cell phone number. Then once I am comfortable I will give them my number to further communicate and see where the relationship could go. Once I have established some sort of basic relationship with a daddy then I am eager to get to meet them in person!
——Michelle (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would want to meet my sugar daddy as soon as possibly even if that means FaceTime/Skyping first. It’s hard to build trust through text messages but can always work around it. Obviously if we’re in different states it might be harder but definitely need to see some recent visual pictures of you to make sure you are who you say you are. I can’t wait to meet you 🙂
——Alize (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would like to meet for drinks and good food. Or a scenic drive while getting to know eachother and end it with some treats. I also really love tea shops, talking while grocery shopping, and any other out of the box activity. If it is at night, i am never afraid to go out and dance or sit by a nice view and late night picnic. I like to be creative.
——iyami (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
My opinion on is this is, there is no set rules that applies for everyone you meet. I would say overall you should wait at least 2 weeks, in order to get a feel of what you’re potential SG is about and also to a gain common ground between the two. Going into something too soon could be good but it could also be detrimental because you may not have mentally for occurring instances.
——Acacia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would say after talking everyday, I would meet my sugar daddy after a week. I would also like to FaceTime them before just to make sure they truly are who they say they are and that they are a genuine kind person. I joined this site for companionship and I won’t lie I could do with a little extra cash, who couldn’t? And I believe the men joined for the same reason…
——Laura (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After you get to k.ow each other. Every situation, relationship, and agreement is different therefore it depends on the person. I feel like meeting to soon may not be the best ideal but sometimes you just hit it off and it seems right, but waiting to long may make the other person feel as if your leading them on. Good communication and expectation is key making every do thatn different.
——Ada Lowman (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After you have a feeling for that person and everybody is aware of what the otherone expects it could be time for a meet up. Personally I would only meet a sugar daddy if I was 100% sure that I can trust him and that I am fully aware what I can expect from him and what he expects from me. Also I need to feel that he respects me and I’d only meet him if the location is crowded at the beginning of the meet up.
——Lisa (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it’s important to both get to know each other first, maybe a few weeks. We both need to agree on how the arrangement is going to work and what we are both hoping to get out of the arrangement. It’s really important to be honest about what you’re hoping to get out of the arrangement so no time is wasted. I think it depends on how comfortable each person feels; if you feel super comfortable then maybe meet sooner but I do think it’s important to get to know each other first.
——Lauren (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like it should definitely be less than 2 months but more than a week, trust takes time and so do relationships. So trust your instincts! If you decide to meet said person when it’s too early you’ll be nervous the whole time and lose focus on connecting with the person. Plus if said daddy has FaceTime or Skype you should go on those as well and talk for a while to really get a feel for what you’ll be doing!
——Emmy Hanz (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
ASAP but depends on if we have a connection or how long we’ve been chatting really doesn’t matter to me I just want the money and all the good love making hehehe . Also it depends on what he’ll want to do further on from then. I’m ready! You only have this one chance to live, so make the best out of it! Enjoy each other and create moments and experiences that will make you think of them while you’re away and cultivate something special whether it’s friendship or more. I personally am ready for a friendship or maybe more, it just depends on the chemistry between us. Let’s talk 😘
——Kenyata (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I’d like to meet with him when we already had a nice talk and know something about the other’s life. It will be an amazing experience because we know how is the other and nice just because we can have more things to have a long conversation and wouldn’t have any discrepancy or something like that because we know where to go, which would be a great place to meet with that person.
——Jesús Rico (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I’m going to give my full on honesty here If we have great communication the first week and by the second week would be perfect to meet in person waiting more than a month is too long plus sugar daddies work hard and travel alot that the more time you waste on meeting them the higher chance is they found someone other sugar baby and that’s the truth.
——alicia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It really depends on the online interaction. If you are really getting on with someone and are attracted to them, then why wait? Go for it.. I have a 3 month rule for everything. It’s long enough to know that you really like someone and long enough to know if they like you. I would say 3 months.. there is no rush to do anything. I’d rather take more time talking on the phone, texting and really getting to know someone before meeting them. (As much as you can get to know someone on here.)
——Lian (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think the sooner the better because you can’t really tell what someone is like until you meet them face to face. I think a connection is always much better and way more personal when it’s made over a human interaction. Communication over social media nowadays takes away the necessity of actually having human connect so therefore I think it’s very important to meet as soon as possible.
——ZZ (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Whenever the time feels right. Dialogue and laughter is always good for the soul. Building friendship is important. Don’t you think. It would be odd to have a connection with no connection don’t you think? I have 136 more letters to post so I have to make this really good. But damn… Meeting an individual in a public place is nice. You are worth the time and effort to see if there’s a connection.
——mysti (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel comfortable meeting with a SD after a week of communicating back and forth. I will only meet in a public place of course! I prefer being face to face with someone. I’m not big into small talk and enjoy jumping right in to get to know someone better. A casual setting would be ideal… (i.e. cafe, bar…) I have yet to meet with a SD but will update my post as soon as I do. Good luck! xo.
——Rina (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that you talk, disclose information and see if you have the same interests and dreams then meet in a local place for coffee, lunch or maybe drinks and see if u still have that connection when you talked over internet, phone or txt… And then ull know if u found you mate or meet a new friend by tgis time youll know or have a better idea to know if you want to move forward or not … 😉
——Tiffany Junk (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would love to meet him in person either at my place or his place or somewhere conducive .im just a one Man woman that would always like to get spoiled and be spoiled .i can cook very well so if he decide to eat in my house will be much more better after we get to see the movies or have a quiet walk beside the river Banks in the evening . I can’t wait.
——Kait Faulkner (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
There shouldn’t be a time limit. It should be as soon as they both feel comfortable enough with each other online or through Skype or messaging to meet. It just depends on the chemistry you have with your sudy before you meet in real time. If there’s a specific time frame, one might feel rushed and get nervous and just back out completely. So it all depends on how comfortable you are with each other online.
——Ashlee D (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
No two interactions pr relations are ever the same so while one daddy may not get personal face time for a month (or three), another may have a meet set up the same day or within the same week. Neither answer is right or wrong, it’s all about the level of trust and comfort that exhists prior to a first meet. Personally, I enjoy unconventional girst meets and I’m a total coffee snob, so chamces are if there is a chemistry, a simple “meet and greet” would likely happen in the first one to three weeks. AFTER the meet, is what’s really important though.
——Trista Lynn Carr (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
For me personally, it would take me some time to get comfortable with the idea of meeting a stranger and depending on what we’d do I’d say maybe about 2 weeks or so? Safety matters a lot so you can never be too certain and you don’t want to assume you guys are comparable when in reality it could be the complete opposite. So ya 2 weeks at least but it could go up to a month.
——Tana (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I honestly would like to meet them as fast as possible. I would want to know how the people really is in person, and not just online. However still be careful and sceptical of the “daddy’s” intentions. Although I want to know how the person acts and their personality before meeting them in person. Going into every situation and date a woman should always be prepared.
——Kamysha Turner (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After arrangements have been made, i feel like a healthy sugar relationship should have all arrangements done online and not to be spoken of outside of dates, all that should be sorted first so when i meet my daddy i can just enjoy spending time with him instead of going through that whole thing 😁 of course you want it done as soon as possible, doesnt everyone?
——Derric Moe (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It’s all about the vibe. If I feel like I vibe well with a SD online and the conversation in the right direction and things run smooth then we could meet within the week of our first couple conversations. If I have this offf putting feeling and the onversation is hard to keep flowing I might stretch out the time until we meet till 2-3 weeks. It’s really all about that one word lol vibe.
——Ahmirah Maria (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Well, it’s not an easy answer. I think that before he have to make me feel comfortable with him, make sure i can trust him and that he will respect me. I can’t say how long it would takes because every person is different, and surely you go searching for the one that make you feel good and that you hardly desire to see. If it’s not like this it might be a waste of time for both two.
——Eva (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think a week to two weeks is a appropriate time period after talking to them for a decent but. On the other hand if they are some one traveling for the sugar baby I feel you should at least give them a month. During that month you should keep up a decent amount of communication to make sure that it is still agreed apon by both parties. That is Mokas opinion.
——Moka (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
From my point view and feelings on this I feel that after chatting for a while and getting the feel of one another and seeing if what we are looking for is on the same level that you should arrange to meet in a public place over dinner, drinks coffee something like that . You can text and message or email or even chat on the phone and everything seems to be great and both feeling mutual about the situation , but anyone can tell you anything and lead you to believe what ever they want so I say why wait long periods of time to initially meet! Most likely after dinner and talking and such you will know if you. Will be able to have some kind of connection.. I would most definitely have to have some type of connection and some of the same interests to be able to have a good. SD/SB relationship. Who’s ready to make that step to see if we can make the magic begin!! I’m waiting for you Daddy!!
——LehaLea (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think we should meet when we feel we want to. Like if we feel atracted to each other mentaly, phisicaly and if we have fun talking, I think we should go for it, cause life doesn’t wait, and there is an infinite options and ways to enjoi life. Why wait for it! We are alive we got to make it worth! Olso I think we should get to know each other what we want and look for so when we meet we know exactly what to go for. Enjoi Daddys!
——Katherine (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would love to meet them around the same time that I messaged them. I don’t like to only talk online I like to meet up and talk in person because then I get to know the person better. I want to be able to hangout get a feel for each other rather than just sit around and play with Emojis on a phone at least then when you meet up you have something to talk about because you didn’t talk about all of it on the phone.
——Jess (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Honestly I believe this answer could vary based on the person. You should always trust your instincts, so if you feel comfortable with a person maybe a week. If you dont feel 100% right away, then you should always go at your own pace. Some people think they need to jump right in, but I will always go with my gut and do what I’m comfortable with for that person.
——Rachael Landin (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
A few weeks, ideally. That way there’s time to get to know one another a bit, and be a little more comfortable with the first meeting, but not so long that either party loses interest. If you meet up too soon, you run the risk of making a bad first impression, simply because you’re too nervous. If you wait too long, one (or both) potential(s) could decide that it’s a waste of time, and move on to the next candidate.
——Tricia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Whenever you feel ready.. if it’s a week or a month it does not matter. Sometimes you hit it off with someone right away so why waste the excitement?? I’ve had SDs I’ve met after a few days of chatting and some I’ve waited a few months to meet. Some men get cold feet and some men are phony. You definitely need time to figure out who is who. There shouldn’t be a rule.
——Marcella Wentworth (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Well I would say as soon as eachother feels comfortable with eachother! But some live across the country or something and traveling plans would have to be made! Building trust is what comes first always and then you go on from there:) Some people like to meet as soon as possible, but I like to get to know the person! And FaceTime and video chat so I know who I am talking to and to know it’s not a scam!
——Marissa (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel like 2 or 3 weeks would be the answer for me. I’m not a very trusting person, so for someone to see me I have to really connect and relate to them. I don’t want to be just another pretty face ever, but rather something special. A few days or a week feels like I’m giving myself away, where as a few weeks is legitimate trust building time. It’s enough time to get to know a fair amount about someone.
——Brooke (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
This truly depends on the SD. All of us have different preferences. I feel like, you have to establish that rapport with each other then see if there’s spark or anything. It all boils down to effort towards building a friendship and see where it goes. As for me, I would like to first communicate as often as possible at first then talk about meeting up. I tend to test the water, like if I feel like the guy is the introverted type, I adapt to his situation. Rather, I put myself in his shoes. So that I could understand him. In the end, communication is always the sole predictor of a good relationship.
——Molly (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Probably after a week? No point talking for a month when you meet and real chemistry isn’t there! It would be a waste of time! Personally I would need to talk to someone face to face in order for my “six sense” to come into effect 😂😂 messages online can be planned all the time so yeah face to face I communication is crucial to for a relationship to continue!
——shayy__ (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would be happy to meet on the first day as I am a male and have no worries about anything, what’s the worst that can happen?? As long as the person seems genuine and nice it’s all good for me! I think this site is great as it’s much harder for men to meet a sugar mammy and behind every successful man lies a strong woman or so they say! With love from England.
——Scotty Saw (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe in open communication. If both people feel connected and excited, then meeting in public after a week or so is welcomed! Honesty up front is the best way to go. I prefer to drive and meet someone first for a coffee or a lunch: maybe something casual to get to know each other. And when both people can’t wait to see the other again, well it’s time for dinner!
——Dana (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I feel that any time is alright. As long as both parties are comfortable with it. I prefer to do the first meeting in a public place. I also like to bring a friend, just to be safe. I also like to be aware of whats expected before the first meet. That way niether of the parties time is wasted. And niether feel inconvenienced. But thats just me. I see others have different opinions.
——Leanna Farrington (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
A few days after we have been talking! I feel like as I get to know my sugar daddy I’d like to meet him but not until I’m sure we’re on the same page and like each other. I like to meet them before I do anything or they do anything for me. To be friends first and have the same understanding then meet in a public place, for the first time at least. )
——Ashley (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After we talk for awhile then we get to know what eachother once and I will feel safe to meet them at a public space. But I would wait a little before meeting them because I won’t know them well enough. Then I’ll do stuff for and to them a little after. I want to really feel safe and like I could trust them. I don’t want to meet just anybody online and do stuff.
——Kayla (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It depends on how the chat goes, but usually I wait at least a week to make sure we are on the same level. Lots of fakes and weirdos on the Internet so can’t be too careful. If someone can’t hold a text conversation for a week, I don’t want to meet them anyway. If it’s long distance travel, I would probably wait even longer, maybe a month of getting to know them first.
——Pocmuky (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think about after 2 weeks are good for meeting the sugar daddy, it gives both, the sugar daddy and the sugar baby, the time to build a good conversation on the date. So we can bound on a good way and maybe take the sugar relationship to an next level, if the first date is good there’s a greater chance to we wanna to see each other again. I hope the answer help you.
——Jéssica Paixão (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Depends on the person in my opinion. Some people give the creepy vibe and some people you connect with straight away. But even then they could just be really good at chatting bs so 😂 taking in to account what kind of person they are I think minimum is a month cause even the people you connect with could change after a while? And you can’t just meet someone straight away cause you need to find something in common so when you do meet you’re not sat there in awkward silence.
——Curlypie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Honestly I believe you should take a week or two to talk about what the interests are and what the base lines of the sugar baby-daddy relationship before meeting. I have never actually done a sugar baby or daddy relationship except for maybe a fwb type of deal where they’d buy me clothes for nudes or treat me somewhere nice then fuck the shit out of each other.
——Savannah Leigh Hawkins (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I think it would be interesting to meet my sugar daddy, I can help him out in return for spending no money on me. You just have to be careful, because if you don’t make your boundaries clear, you could get yourself in trouble. As long as you stay safe and meet them in public areas until you find yourself comfortable with them, then everything should be alright.
——sesh0 (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
After a month or two. Be sure to meet in a public place. Make sure that you know enough about the person before meeting before hand. This will make you more comfortable with the person you are going to meet with them. And you will have more to talk about. Safety is the most important thing. Skype is your friend make sure you use it. If their in no picture on the their profile ask for one.
——Akira (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would say I would want to meet my sugar daddy after 2 months of communication has been very recent. If he is in the same state a bit sooner because I am able to commute. Flying me out somewhere would take 2-4 months. I love the in person communication more. I can text but if you want the real attention I need to be physically there. I am worth it and want to make sure they know that from the start.
——Shakira Marshall (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would like to meet the man of my dreams in Italy. A few weeks ago and he is so amazing to me. I have meet him online only, bug now we are só happy together, because we are not far away from each other nos and its so much love in it. We talk online for 6 years and now we are moringa together tô italy, new house, new car, new like. Only us and nobody else.
——Karol Melo (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Maybe atleast a week just so that you know you comfortable with the whole situation…. I’m new to this so I really don’t know how this works honestly…. But I figured let’s try something different for a change… I personally would maybe wait about 2 weeks because how shy I already am that timeframe should already break the ice I would think…..
——Bri (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I don’t really think time matters if you feel like it’s right then you know. Obviously you need to trust them and make sure they are legit but after that you can take it wherever you want! You have to be willing and I love spontaneous outings but you also need to be careful and find the right kind of guy. Once you have then you can just meet whenever!
——Eva (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Um…right away… There’s no time to waste online when we can meet irl! I mean obviously getting to know someone to an extent before meeting them is probably the best idea but most definitely not after a long time. People lose interest if an idea never flourishes into a reality..that goes for everyone. I personally hope to meet someone on here very soon!
——Jessie (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would like to meet the sameday we talk and get to know each other. Find out each others likes and dislikes. Each others dreams in life. Go out to eat, dinner, a movie, and maybe some shopping. Go out of town. Take a long nice vacay. I want to meet him the sameday, i feel like why wait?! Love waits for no one. So seize the day, the moment, whatever.
——Mersadies (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Just go with the flow and catch a vibe . If you f eel like your ready to meet him then shoot your shot girl . You’ll know when your comfortable and ready to meet and greet , I feel as if you put a firm limit on things as such then it may interfere with the universe plan . I.E your limit is 4 weeks but you feel as if it’s time but don’t want to break your own rules … Okay so then he moves on or begin to feel uncomfortable because now the feelings mutual and he can’t seem to understand at this point what’s the problem.
——LadieeBugg (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
There is no exact time frame.. I think comfort and safety is a must! Communication and connection is the most important. Always meet in public and go from there until you feel comfortable. You will know when the timing is right. Just be smart and very matter of fact as to what you’re looking for to avoid any confusion. Always communicate first please!
——Ariel Bliss (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
For me, its the good old fashioned way. Pick up the phone and dial the number!!!! There’s nothing more captivating than hearing someone’s voice. It gives you a feel for the people. You only get to know someone for the first time through the sound of there voice or whatever. plus talking on the phone is way faster than writing 150 character messages.
——lowkey_s (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
It’s all dependent upon the person and relationship. As well as how comfortable you both feel. Open honest communication is a big factor in that as well. Typically a few weeks of talking whether it be via text or phone call seems appropriate, but in many cases it’s shorter or longer. Also once you’ve FaceTimed or something of that nature is an indicator as well.
——Asia David (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
When I feel comfortable around the person whether it takes days,weeks or months.There has to be a need to be with the person and until I am able to be me with them distance seems a safer option as to meeting someone prematurely only to end up disliking them because you didn’t get to know them beforehand, plus face to face interactions tend to go south if there is no true knowledge of eachother.
——Kaya (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I would wait about a month or so after first communicating with daddy because I don’t want to just jump into anything that comes my way. Also, I’m a mom myself and wouldn’t feel comfortable doing it around my son. Not many would understand the month before meeting but I only hope that when the time comes that it was worth waiting for a month. I’m sure it will be well worth the wait if you let me show you.
——Mollie R Steier (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I’m here to meet daddies and have a good time, so when they show me they are serious I will meet whenever they would like😉. Just come to me with an arrangement, I personally get half upfront to make sure they are legit & go❤️. So far I’ve been lucky enough to have daddies who only want pictures and videos right now but I’m more then willing to step out and mingle with them as well.
——Bella (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe yu will get the best vibes from someone when you are face to face. So depending on how he and I click I don’t mind meeting in 2 days, but it’s not only my choice. He has to feel comfortable to meeting me as well. So what would be best for both of us perhaps a week or two. If we don’t talk too oftenthen of course 2weeks but if things are going smooth then my hesitate. Time is something you can never get back so I don’t like to waste it.
——Nae (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
Although I’m sure neither of us wants to play games, I believe safety is the main factor. Therefore after talking for a few days and seeing if we can vibe, I’d like to at least talk over the phone or video chat so everyone knows that they’re actually talking to the person who they thought they were. Then after that, I would proceed to meeting as soon as our schedules could permit. I don’t like to waste time but I also don’t like to rush things.
——Mikayla (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I don’t mind but I need to feel attraction, I’m not looking for one night stand but if I feel connection with him I’m not going to say no, sometimes it’s better know what are you buying before to go home with it to not be dissapointed, it happen to me once so I’m trying to be more open minded with this topic. I’m sure that any sugar daddy would help me so let’s see.
——Marbelia (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I wouldn’t mind intimate relationships because my favorite casual sex unlike some people. You could get a lot more money if you’re doing that too because they feel more open and we’re connected to you period but it’s also very important to have a mental and physical connection otherwise it’s not going to work and that will just end badly because no one is happy.
——Jess (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I wouldn’t mind as long as both parties feel comfortable with it and are commited! It is healthy in a relationship but shouldn’t be forced! Personally, I think that we need to spend a good amount of time getting to know each other beforehand before anything intimate starts. Both parties should be on the same page and comfortable enough to say no. 🙂
——Hailey (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I prefer not to have intimacy atleast unless i’m comfortable with the person and we’ve been talking for a good while because if not it’s like i’m having sex for money and that leads into a whole other category which is already debatable when it comes to sugar daddy and sugar baby relationships. A sugar daddy should still understand some girls still value intimacy.
——Joanna (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
If the relationship is cool and there is a feeling of both parties, I do not think it is wrong for the relationship to become more intimate. I find it very beautiful when the feeling blossoms and the two love each other. If it happened to me, I would be very happy. The idea of having close to the person who helps me and loves me, seems sensational.
——Karol Melo (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I wouldn’t mind as long as he is a dom and good in the sack cause if we do I want him to be able to go long and hard tell I couldn’t go anymore so no I wouldn’t mind being both mental of physical with them in both ways I do have a high sex drive that does to need to be attended to as well and it can be fun most of all in the beginning of it! !!!!!!
——Virginia Thompson (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
To me I take sex as something not for fun.so I like intimacy coz in dis case I dnt like to pretend to be with him yet am not their intimately.I would try to give him all the happiness that he will forget about just having fun and start feeling intimate with him.yes to answer the question I want to be intimate with him coz intimacy makes sex enjoyable.
——Loving (Sugar Baby), 2017.5
I believe that a sugar baby should meet her sugar daddy after about 2 weeks. i think 2 weeks is enough time to get to know your daddy at least a little to be able to carry on conversation in person. Being comfortable with your sugar daddy and making sure your sugar daddy is comfortable with you is key, so being able to talk for 2 weeks if the conversation is good is plenty of time to get comfortable with the other and ready to meet in person.
——Vivian (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Most likely, as long as hes honest. & sweet & kind to me. Not all about getting in my pants. Most guys i meet so far on here they will pay me money just for pictures. & not really actually wanting to get to know me. I like money & all but i want a connection at least. So basically its the guy. That i have to get to know first before anything. Xoxo.
——Lia Valentina (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I feel that every sugar baby/daddy relationship is different. I would only meet my daddy after I am completely comfortable with him. I want to get to know him for who he is first. And I want to show him who I am. You have to develope a relationship. This could take anywhere from an hour to a year. In most case a week to a month would be a good time.
——Becca Jones (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think it really depends on the person and how long it takes to get comfortable with them. This could be a few days to even a month! It is important to have a connection prior to meeting in my opinion. In any similar situation it’s always good to know the person before you meet because even though unfortunate or just awkward incidences are rare, you want to do whatever you can to avoid them!
——Emma (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think a month or so after online communication would be a good time to meet up with the person you’ve been keeping in contact with. You need to build up that trust and get to know eachother or else I feel like the first meeting won’t be as nice as you imagined it too be . After a month you can decide if you even want a first meeting or not, and the first time out could be something you’re really interested in because you potential sugar daddy got to know you.
——Anne (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
There really is no telling on when to meet, it just all depends on the person, you wanna be comfortable around the person and getting to know each other while you guys decide when is best to meet. First you wanna feel comfy and safeel wen meeting him or her, I know I love adventure and have to feel comfy to were I can be my kinky old self some can be 1 week to 1 month.
——lexie (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I’m sure it would depend on schedules and our locations. I’m a face to face type person and like getting to know someone on a more personal level. After contacting on line it would depend on how comfortable we feel about meeting first in public for a no pressure meet and greet and let nature take it from there. I think you’ll know when it’s right!
——DARLING NIKKI (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
It honestly depends on how comfortable I feel. If I feel like the daddy is a genuinely nice guy and we are looking for the same things then right away. But even if I feel that way sometimes I like to wait a little longer just to tease them a little, by not giving them what they want right a way it can make them more likely to spend a little bit more on me.
——Natalie Marie (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Probably after a week or two of talking. That’s enough time to weed out the scammers and salt daddy’s. It’s also a safety thing, because I want to at least Know who I’m meeting y’know? It would feel awkward to just meet up without any kind of previous interaction. Like, what would we even talk about? It would feel more like an interview and less like a date/meet up.
——Jasper (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I Would Meet My SD whenever I Felt Safe And Comfortable Enough To Be Aournd Him. Even If It Was After Two Days, A Week, Or Month. Even Tho A Couple Phone Chat and Facetimes Would Make The Process Even Better. Don’t Think It’s Best To Meet Someone Only A Day Of Talking To Them. So I Would Definitely Wait At Least A Week, Just To Be On The Safe Side. But Over All As Long As U Feel Comfortable & Safe It’s Find.
——T (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I really would if we have a online connection, why not meet in person that chemistry we shared online could be bigger offline. I say a nice quiet restaurant to where we could talk and get to see each other face to face, followed by a stroll in a safe park to work the food we ate and then if we feel comfortable a nice night cap most likely my place to unwind and possibly talk more.and if you feel like he is your sugardaddy let him stay the night.
——Chauntee (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I would like to meet the ASAP. I feel that you can not feel someone’s energy and vibe until you physically meet. Sometimes distant prevents this but FaceTime or Skype can help with that. It’s just a bummer to waste a guys time and you don’t even vibe on the same level mentally emotionally or intellectually. I feel that making serious plans to meet asap shows that someone is serious and a real person.
——Val Guerra (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I feel like it really depends on the person. I personally do not mind meeting after a day or two. Some girls want more time to get to know them just online. Although, I feel like people can be very different from how they appear online. Someone can seem so much more outgoing or energetic from how they actually are in person, which is why meeting in person will TRUELY show if you connect with them or not.
——Kristen (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Maybe after a week would be great ^.^ I would really want to see how he acts like and how he will care for me and give his attention to me like how I always wanted !! I don’t ask for much but I wouldn’t mind being pampered but not too much or I would feel spoiled 🙂 I still haven’t found my daddy but hopefully I will soon cause I can’t seem to wait.
——Alyssa (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
When Eva the vibe is right I feel it’s a mistake to put time restrictions on such things… You have heard of love at first sight? Well I feel people can feel ready after first conversation…and why not? I’ve taken a chance by just getting on this site and taking a chance by being spontaneous seems to fit but only with verification and disclosure it’s always wise to be cautious.
——Denise Jones (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think depending on our frequency of comunication. If we talk all day everyday I would probably be ready after a week or two. If it’s more rare like a couple times a month then after a few months. Of course either timeline requires that both parties be comfortable and have a good vibe because it take the relationship up a noch. Also I think it would be good to meet as early as possible in case you have chemistry textually but not in person.
——Justice (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I want to meet as soon as possible. Too much talking usually leads to never meeting and getting annoyed. Text is horrible and hard to connect with someone. I always opt for face to face communication. I hate getting asked to send pics over and over whe you can see my pics on here and meet me in person. I feel like the site is like my resume, but you’re going to have to meet me for an interview if you really want the job.
——Simone (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I would definitely consider it but only after getting to know them and feeling comfortable enough to be alone with them and not freak out. It would probably take me a while to get comfortable enough because I’m so shy but I’d always plan on meeting them at some point. The more attractive and nice they are, the sooner I’ll be willing to meet them in person and do more than just talk.
——Ashley (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think it should be a few days after talking as it’s easier to get to know one another face to face but also because some babies situations might mean they need the financial support sooner rather than later but be sure to meet in a public place to make sure you’re safe from those that do not turn out to be who they say they are as that is extremely risky.
——Phoebe (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I like to wait at least 2 weeks so I can get to know my daddy and trust him:) its important to establish a relationship before meeting in person so that both people are comfortable when we meet. 2 weeks is plenty of time to get to know somebody enough to meet them in person. Safety and comfortability is extremely important in relationships like this!
——BlondeBeauty420 (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think the time frame is different with everyone. Some people may want to meet right away. Some may want to wait a month and get to know each other first. So there needs to be a decision made or a compromise of when you will meet and take the relationship to a new level in person. Me, personally, I would like to get to know my sugar daddy before meeting him so I can build a trust.
——Katie (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
It’s rare that I don’t meet a sugar daddy after a week of meeting them online. It’s obvious what they want. It’s obvious what I have to do. I think a week is a safe amount of time to assess the situation, make sure they are who they say they are, and visit them. That’s what I enjoy about Sudy, they always deliver with what they promise. As apposed to sites like SA .
——Jake Wenzel (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
After a few days. Because it is weird after a day. Give each other time to talk and know each other. After that share some pics wish each other goodmorning and goodnight. Let’s see who is first that text. I wanna know first how your day is and what bothers you on a general day. Then we have more to talk at our first meet. And have a better picture of the person before you.
——Romanfit (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Anywhere between a few weeks and a couple months depending on how well we vibe with one another! They say when you know you know so although I am new to something like this I feel that when I meet somebody that truly sparks my interest I won’t be hesitant to waste time in connecting on a deeper and more personal level I must say I’m excited to see where this leads me in life.
——Bella (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I would like to meet sugar daddy once talking on the phone a few weeks in person as long as we both are ready. Being we are both adults feel that is a conversation that we can both talk about. I am one that feels that we can easily talk about these things and both get what we are looking for and will please each other in all that we are looking for.
——Donna Sweeney (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Well personally I would say after about a month or so of you speaking to your sugar daddy, both us and him need time to become comfortable with on another, aroused by on another and to understand each other. You need time to fully get to know your sugar daddy and all his needs, and he needs to understand all our needs, domands and expectations to…
——Beck (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think at least a week as long as we have communicated well enough know and get the gist of eachother. If not, we should wait a little longer. If it is strictly business I mean you really need to know the person well. So I would definitely wait a week or more to see how I’m feeling unless a get a signal everything is good in the beginning……
——Dephanie Stoner (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I’d like to know someone very well before meeting in person. I like to be able to judge someone’s character enough to know i’ll be safe upon the first meeting. If someone asks to meet after first talking i’ll only go out of my way to meet them if my friend can come so i feel more safe. I don’t want to be victim of being taken advantage of. That won’t happen again.
——Tabitha (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I’d give it about two weeks. I feel like that’s a fair amount of time to have spoken regularly and dicussion intentions and such to break the ice a bit that way you’re not completely blind walking in. It doesn’t feel like you’re meeting a complete stranger. Especially for those who don’t open up as easily/quickly as others and also it doesn’t feel rushed.
——Renee (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Depends on the person, conversation, and interests. If here’s no real connection, probably never. I really feel like there are ways to have a really good connection with someone, but not have any shared interests. Now of course having interests does help speed things along. If I’m just talking to someone about say, mountain climbing, but im not feeling some type of way, then probably wouldn’t want to meet up.
——Garrett (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
About 2 weeks after getting to know each other online. Same week is too early. If they are still interested after 2 weeks, you might have a real sugar on your hands. There are too many splendas that want to take you to a bar after twp days of talking or want to fly you to their city. Thats really how people get hurt, kidnapped, and severely disappointed.
——Candy (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I believe after consecutively communication for one or two weeks should be sufficient time to meet your SD. But it could also vary on a case by case basis! If I feel totally connected to my SD, I would be eager to meet him as soon as possible (granted that he was as comfortable with me as j was with him). But if I fee like we haven’t really connected yet; I would put off meeting each other for the time being.
——Kiera Rene (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I’d like to meet pretty quickly – within a week is pretty ideal. If it takes much longer than that, I couldn’t take this person very seriously. We’d need a healthy bit of communication and clarification back and forth beforehand. Exchanging social media is really important for me. If you can’t exchange social media, then I’m not sure I can meet with you.
——Chanell (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I think that a sugar baby should meet her sugar daddy when both parties feel comfortable. Obviously this is up to them and how their conversations and exchanges are going. If my sugar daddy offers me money to come visit him sooner than I usually would, I would gladly accept. I do expect my daddy to pay for my travel expenses and my time to come visit him.
——Danielle (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
I feel like the good time to meet your sugar daddy is different for each person. If you are meeting someone who wants to take you to an event (i.e. A work party, etc) then try to meet with them in person once before hand so you’re not meeting this person for the first time around a bunch of strangers.
If you’re looking for something causal, maybe closer to a week or two. If you want something serious, maybe a few weeks to a month to really get to know them before meeting up with them to see how strong the connection is!
——Erika (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
Eventually yeah. I wouldn’t right away, no because it’d be too soon in opinion. Once you’ve felt comfortable with them enough to meet them, then I would. I would want to meet them when I know for sure they’re serious about the things we’ve talked about. You get those people who wanna meet first then do the talking. I don’t do that. I wanna talk to guy first.
——alexis (Sugar Baby), 2017.6
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