What kind of people would become a sugar baby? Materialistic, superficial, mammonism… these words should appear in most people’s mind. In fact, yes it is, in the beginning, but many who in the eyes of other’s are wise, rational, self-disciplined have become the sugar along with the development of sugar relations to the present. This is not “degenerate” or “baneful influence”, which is a normal development trend.
And another question: what are the things that sugar babies most eager to get? We can comprehend that from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. All kinds of human needs are distributed in pyramid-shaped, from the bottom to the top: Physiological needs – Safety needs – Love and belonging – Esteem – Self-actualization（and Self-Transcendence needs)
Gift: “Easy to give”
Sugar relationship has the unique place in this field lies in that it is can concurrently meet the needs of human from first three layers, while the side receiving the chance of living subsidies from someone, on the other side are getting the opportunities to establish romantic relationships with his favorite type.
This is why poverty girl and amorous older man become the largest part in the sugar bowl at the beginning. Many sugar babies need the allowance to support their life.
Sugar babies at this period, want the gift obviously, nothing more than money, subsidies and other things that sugar daddy is indifferent, yet the sugar baby is very much in need.
Gift: Varied Psychology
As an increasing number of people find the place where sugar relationship is beneficial, which is meet the needs of people in the fourth and fifth layer——socia demand and people should be esteemed to reach the value themselves.
Currently, thousand people who are now being educated at the college or have their status in a variety of industries become the sugar baby, can they not survive? Why do they have a normal life but long for a shortcut, even if they are trying to try an unusual way that seems to be risky?
You know the answer.
At this time, the gift some sugar baby want is that pocket money, luxury, expensive travel, any support let them live a luxurious comfortable life, which perhaps is to meet his inner fantasies about wealthy, or pretending a rich in front of friends.
Besides, other sugar babies want to make acquaintance with successful people and reach to their social circle, meet someone who can give her career advice, help her to the path to success.
I have no doubt that there will be some people in the sugar bowl, in order to achieve their own personal worth – perhaps it already exists.
We don’t have to think about what they want to achieve, each people all have own dream, which perhaps others cannot understand and can not agree with, but we must seek common ground while reserving differences, must also acknowledge that judge other people are mean.
No one can imagine how amazing things a person can do.