Do You Keep Your Sugaring Secret? And Why? - 5

642 Answers

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes, I keep in secret and the biggest reason are my parents. I think they will not support this idea, so while I am living with them I will keep in secret from them, but in future I think in say in publicly that I am a sugar baby. I don't see any problem with that, of course if daddy don't want that I share this I will respect daddy's choice and keep in secret, I don't see any problem with that too.

2022-12-30

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes I keep being a sugar baby secret from my family and friends because they wouldn’t understand how it feels to be a sugar. My family is very judgmental and would be worried for my safety. I understand their concerns but I know how to take care of myself. They love me I know that but this is something I want to keep from them. Not only for my sake but for theirs.

2022-12-30

Sugar Baby / 30

I keep sugaring a secret because I know if I come out and tell any of my friends or family they will judge me. They dont understand why im doing what im doing, but I know why i do it. I'm trying to build an empire and they dont understand it. My boyfriend would hate it if he knew how I got my money. My parents would disown me if they knew their little girl is sending nudes.

2022-12-30

Sugar Baby / 31

Absolutely not actually I have told quite a few of my friends. Because I recently wanted to join this area/phase or field whatever you want to call it, in my life. I heard the good things that come from having a sugar daddy or sugar baby relationship, so I wanted to find out for myself. I also didn't know it was so popular which is one reason why I talk about it alot.

2022-12-30

Sugar Baby / 28

My Sugaring "secret" is not something I want to announce to the world, but I have declared it to my family. The world does not need to know what I am doing, and I would like to keep it like that. My family is supportive and hopes I will find a guy who will treat me right. Sugaring is a secret I share only between my loved ones, and they all understand and respect it.

2022-12-30

Sugar Baby / 35

Yes, I keep my sugaring a secret because I have a reputation to uphold. I have too much at stake and so much to loose if people would find out about this. In addition, this kind of thing is not really that acceptable in my country. A lot of people would judge me harshly if they found out that I am doing this kind of activity. Also, I don’t want my family to find out because they are very protective of me.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 27

I keep it to myself and maybe a close friend or two because I feel like it’s nobody’s business but my own and daddy 😛 also the sugar world has too many negativity associated with it in the eyes of outsiders and I’d rather not be confused with a prostitute because that is what I’m not!! Another reason is, people assume that I never work for anything when they find out and that couldn’t be further from the truth. I’m a hardworking student and worker that’s just fortunate enough to get help from daddy.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 34

I do keep it secret but also I don't go out of my way to hide it. I wear VictoriasSecrets pink sexy lingerie bras lace boyshort panties almost at all times underneath my boy clothes. Ready for action. I wouldn't mind maybe one day going out in public to dinner and a movie with me all dressed up like a young teen girl for you. I promise people won't even suspect

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 31

Yes, to avoid prejudice people. I like to keep my personal life private, it’s no ones business. The majority would just judge without even trying to understand. Most of the time, discretion is a MUST for sugar daddy, so we have to follow-through and respect that to have a comfortable relationship with sugar daddy. I guess most of the time it depends how open minded you are and whether the SD is ok with it or not.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 26

To certain people I to keep my sugaring secret, but I usually tell my closest friends just in case something happens they know where I would hopefully be. Only about three people know. I hope around to other people about wanting a sugar daddy but no one actually knows that I do have a sugar daddy and no one actually knows who the guy is, just me and him

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 27

I normally keep my sugaring a hundred percent secret because I would not want my family to find out or even my friends. My family especially, would not like the fact that I am engaging in something such as this because it is frowned upon by most and also can be very dangerous for many reasons so it's understandable why they would be upset about it.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 29

It depends of my suggar daddy. I want to be the suggar baby for only one suggar daddy at time because I feel more confortable in that way. So if my suggar daddy decide it doesn't matter if people know about us well I'd like to share some pictures of our dates without committing to any serious with me obviously. But in case he doesn't want people know about our dates, well there won't be problems if i keep it in secret

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 32

I do not, it's nothing to be ashamed of...you only live, && look this good once!! I've run across some of the most amazing people && opportunities. It's good to network.. I'm a small business owner networking is everything for me! You never know who you might meet. Sometimes it really isn't about what you know, but who you know. No secrets here..Live it up. 🤷🏾

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 28

Yes I keep it a secret because my family is very conservative and believe in working a decent job to get what you want. Yet they don't understand that college and working isn't that easy to balance. Yet they say it bc they worked when they were in middle school in Mexico, which they still don't understand that that is not the same compared to here.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 36

I keep being a sugar babies a secret because I have a child and I dont want her to know about it. In my family it is frowned upon, but due to the fact that I have been burned by multiple people in relationships i have decided that instead of me spoiling people and always taking care of them for once in my life I want someone to spoil me and take care of me.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 37

I honestly don’t care who knows. It’s not like I’m a prostitute. I’m just spending time with someone and what’s someone else going to do or say. My family knows and it’s nothing I’m ashamed of. I’m not going to post it on my Facebook or Instagram but it’s not a huge secret either. If I felt morally wrong about it, I wouldn’t do it but I feel good about my choices.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 30

I keep.my sugaring a secret because I don't want people to know what I do. A lot of people in my life don't really respect that kind of work so I try to not mention it. I also don't want people that know me to harass me about it in real life or from work. I'd rather it not put a hindering on my life if I want to pursue different careers in my life.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes but if it comes up I’m not afraid to admit it. It’s a beneficial relationship. My bills get paid and I get to afford little luxuries while I get to give them intimacy and attention even if it’s just asking about their day or letting them let their feelings out. I have some friends who’ve had sugar daddies. One of my friends even had 4 at once.

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 28

I keep it a secret because it’s definitey something that’s frowned upon, especially by my friends and family. It can be seen as morally wrong by many people. I also just want the luxury of keeping my private life private. It’s nobody’s business what I do with my dating life. I’ll see who I want for whatever reasons I want. I know people won’t be supportive, so why bother?

2022-12-31

Sugar Baby / 26

I hide my sugaring because I don’t think society is ready to accept it as a legitimate thing. I would love to enjoy my time with my sugar daddy without feeling guilty or being shamed for being a “dependent whore”. I don’t want to be judged based solely on my being a sugar baby. I’m looking for genuine connection and a good time. I don’t be think that makes me a bad person.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 30

I keep sugering a secret just so I won't be judged by others. Most times I start and then wait until the situation plays out and if it starts to effect or bleed into my daily life that's when I finally give an explanafion. I think people jump to conclusions way too quickly. In my opinion unless you're helping another baby out, there's really no need to talk about it

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 27

I don't keep my sugaring a secret from a few lifelong friends or my roommate but I wouldn't tell anyone that wasn't like a sister to me. I'd rather kee it lowkey and even if I saw one of my friends while out with a sugar daddy I imagine I wouldn't let on that that's the type of relationship it was. Regardless of whether me& daddy want discretion or not there's no reason for people to be al in our business about it

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 28

I have told a few of my close friends/coworkers, but I haven’t told my family because they’re very old fashioned, close minded and just wouldn’t understand my reasoning for doing it. They’d think I was selling myself when really I’m just searching for something more than mediocre men. I’m searching for someone with depth & understanding. Someone with experience.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 28

Our privacy is important. I wouldn't necessarily keep it a secret, but it's our business. If I'd like for you to know, you'll know. So many people are concerned with what other people think and do. Why? How does what I do affect you? 2018 is going to be a year where I focus on myself and my growth. New year, Improved me. I suggest everyone else do the same.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes i keep my secret because I consider myself a SB but people thinks I'm to young for that or that I'm some sort of b*eat*ch and that bothers me. But if I fell in love with my SD I wouldn't keep it a secret because he gives me everything i need to be happy 😊 an i appreciate that very much . I whant to make people happy but i whant to be happy to you know? So why so much drama about it

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 33

I don’t have a Sudy just yet but I think if I had one I’d probably keep him/her a secret because of my family and I really don’t want to honk bad of me or talk bad about me... my moms very religious so it would affect the relationship we have between us. I don’t think I’d keep it a secret from everyone but probably my closest family members because I wouldn’t want them to judge me.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 37

Never. I’m completely honest with people. I feel things shouldn’t be discreet unless requested. I don’t get grumpy if someone wants to be discreet, I just don’t want them to feel guilty when they spend time with me. I’m “married but looking,” my husband doesn’t really care. Whether polygamy or not. My goal is pure and honestly just trying to make people who help me feel amazing and happy every time I’m around.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 29

I prefer to keep my sugar daddy a secret depending on who I'm keeping it a secret from. If the sugar daddy is legit and we're comparable and honorable then I would have no problem showing them off or telling people about them. If that's what they want of course. I'm not running around telling strangers about my sugar daddy, perhaps I would just use their preferred name instead of sugar daddy.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 40

I have no problem being open about it as long as that's what he agreed on, it's got to be a mutual decision regardless, either way I know who I am and so does he it really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Why label two people just enjoying life together what's it make a difference, let people wonder I say let them wish they were as happy as us

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 47

I am married. I love my husband, but the attraction is absent due to his weight gain. It makes sex painful and I never have an orgasm. He will in 30 seconds. Then if we try to go again, because I'm a small woman, my legs hurt from the weight. I want to find someone who fits on top, behind, and can lift me up to please me like I love to please them.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 27

I guess it would just depend. I’m not very good at secrets but If I needed too, I don’t see why it would be such a huge problem for me. I understand if someone doesn’t it to be out to the world, and if I didn’t want to say anything as well, I don’t see why that would be an issue. I will respect privacy if needed but like I said, it would just depend on my Sugar Daddy and how he feels about what is going on.

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 36

I don't tell people about my sugaring nor do I deny it I just don't think it's really nobody's business but if It ever does come up in conversation I wouldn't deny it because that's who I am and I believe that whoever we are we should be judged but we should also be proud of Who You Are but I don't miss hold up a sign saying I'm a sugar baby .so if asked I wouldn't deny it

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 32

Sugar daddies and sugar babies are not exactly accepted in today's current society. They are tied to the world of discretion along with sex workers and affairs. I think this kind of ignorance will change in maybe 10 to 20 years...Maybe we need a few more documentaries on the subject to come out or even a tv series! Kind of similar to the mail order brides one..

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 26

No I don't keep it a secret because it's what keep my character interesting and who doesn't like someone interesting? It makes me feel good about myself so I don't mind for others to know that I'm a sugar baby . Also there are some people who are too afraid to come out as sugar babies or sugar daddies so if you tell someone that's what you are then they could feel a bit better about what they do as well

2023-01-01

Sugar Baby / 38

For the most part i think my sugaring is kept not so much secret but its at a need to kno basis because socially it really looks as if its not a real relationship but a whore sleeping qith an older guy for money!! But thats not even the half of it lol only a quarter lol...no really it not just that aleast not for me because i appreciate the daddys role in my life idlts more like a father figure that i fuck ...that sounds gross but it is what it is....

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 28

Yes, i do. I keep it a secret simply because we live in a judgemental world. Privileged People don’t understand what it is like to constantly have to worry about bills, and the simple well being of yourself. I know for a fact my friends would all judge me and or shun me because i’m doing something that isn’t considered a good thing to do. But in reality, this situation has been great for me! I’ve met amazing men, some not so amazing, but men that genuinely want to help me better myself and help me financially along the way!

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 31

I do not keep it a secret. I don't see anything wrong with being a sugar baby. There is nothing wrong with being spoiled. Why not think about yourself for once and have a sugar daddy/mommy that wants to spoil you rotten. It sounds pretty great to me, so why not. I can't wait to find my someone to spoil me. So i do not keep it a secret because it makes me happy.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 36

I keep it a secret cause I don't know if these men are legit or not. It is different to be made a fool between two people but letting everyone else know is my personal preference. When and if there is a real one yeah I will be more than happy to tell everyone. When I say real I mean more than money a meaningful conversation a few dates and maybe a hookup.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 33

I certainly have kept my sugaring a secret so far from everyone that i know. But I might share it with some of my closest girlfriends of it turns out there ever is something to share, primarily because I'm sure it will be exciting and I'll need to share it with someone! And secondly because maybe they would want to try it too! And what are friends for? Haha

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 25

I will let my best friends knows, because i believe that they can keep my secret to be a sugar baby, maybe they even a ask me how to use this application. But for my friends, my siblings, or my family. They dont need to know. Besides not everyone would understand the reason why we try to be a sugar baby. A lot of people who close minded still things that sugar relationship is a bad idea

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 28

I’m generally a private person so I don’t share personal business with many. I’d keep it a secret from my family because they’re super conservative and protective but I’ll let my close friends know if I think the situation warrants it. For example, if I’m talking with someone often enough or am going to meet anyone my friends and sister would definitely be told because I’d never let my need for privacy get in the way of my safety.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 31

Yes, because i have learned that when people get involved in your personal life it may possible ruin things. There is also something sexy about having a secret fling/relationship, where everything you do stays strictly between you two. To be able to live your life without other people judging you is just the better choice if you really want things to last.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 32

I absolutely keep sugaring a secret. I come for a very conservative town. If people in my area new I was sugaring they would compare me to a prostitute. What they don’t know is that you do not have to do anything for money. A lot of men on here want companionship and someone to connect with and talk to. I know people in my town are closed minded and won’t understand why I am interested in sugar daddy’s.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 36

It’s all brand spanking new to me so yes... at the moment. I’d not have a problem ultimately saying that I’m a sugar baby and I know my friends would accept it. I have thought about how things would pan out so I’ve kind of rationaled that I will tell people in my own time. It’s not like I’m doing anything dirty or sexual and if a boyfriend treated me, no one would bat an eyelid! So why the hell not!

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 28

I don’t keep mine a secret because I’m not ashamed of it. My best friends know I do this and it’s okay with me. I don’t see anything wrong with it. In my opinion i think it’s better than me meeting men on the corner of OBT or in a strip club. It’s safer than what other girls my age are doing and they don’t keep that a secret so I figured there’s nothing wrong with what I’m doing since it doesn’t affect anyone but myself.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 29

I keep my sugaring a secret from the majority of the people in my life like family and some friends. A couple close friends know I do it, but they joined as well, so we discuss what happens to us. It’s nice to be able to talk to someone about it, but I’m not sure if I’ll ever tell someone outside of the community what I’m up to. Most definitely not my family.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 64

I have to keep my sugaring a secret because my family wouldn't allow such a thing. They'd only see this as prostitution whereas I'd get paid to have sex with someone vastly older than me. Although sex is a part of the sugaring, it's not the entire thing and my parents wouldn't understand that so I'd have to ensure the utmost discretion when having a sugar daddy.

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes, obviously. I don’t want people to believe I am a gold digger or anything awful. I continuously mention that I want someone I can connect with mentally, emotionally and physically. Be able to have a deep conversation. I keep it a secret because everyone needs their secrets that’s what adds to everyone. I would prefer if no one really knew about my sugaring

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes I do keep my sugar baby “identity” a secret. I don’t like the idea of people that I know or that are close to me knowing about my side business. I also like the idea of keeping everything a secret, it is much more exhilarating and sexy in my opinion. I get to live two separate lives (I keep my personal life out of my sugaring as well, which I also think is very important).

2023-01-02

Sugar Baby / 45

No I don't have anyone to hide it from. I am open and honest. I love to be spoiled and have a good time. I make sure we would have a good time. I honest so I don't like hiding. If you hide out I imagine you're a cheater as charters don't get too far... I never been a sugar baby so I wouldn't know. Hiding to me makes it taboo so unless that's your thing, no I wouldn't want to hide it.

2023-01-02