Whether you’re an experienced sugar daddy, or you’re new to this type of dating arrangement, you’ll want to make sure you follow some simple guidelines, some spoken and some unspoken, that will help you get and keep a satisfying relationship with your Sugar Baby.
Dos and Don’ts for a sugar daddy:
1. Dos: Be Clear About Expectations on Time Commitment
Yes, your time is money, so is her’s. Keep in mind that she has other factors in life aside from being a Sugar Baby companion. Set up a meeting schedule that works for both of you.
2. Don’t: Think That You Are Entitled to Sex on the First Date
If you are looking for a quick fix, they have services for that. Sugar Babies are looking for a benefactor who can add value to their lives. Not a John looking to score a quick hook-up.
3. Dos: Be 100% Upfront and Honest
The only way to have a successful arrangement with a Sugar Baby is, to be honest and upfront. When you know what you want in your arrangement (and you should know exactly what you want before you start looking), you can express your needs openly, honestly, and there are absolutely no repercussions, only a yes or a no. Being able to say what you want and what you can give to Sugar Baby was so liberating and it saves a tremendous amount of time weeding out people who aren’t on the same page as you as far as an arrangement is concerned.
4. Dos and Don’Ts for a Sugar Daddy: Don’Ts: No Call, No How
One would think that any man with enough disposable income to become a Sugar Daddy would have the manners to let a woman know if he is going to be late or not show up at all. Unfortunately, it happens more often than not. If something does come up, or if you have lost interest, have the courtesy to let the girl know.
5. Dos: Spoil Her Because She Deserves It, Not Because She Wants It
This separates the Splenda from Sugar. A Sugar Baby should never have to ask her Sugar Daddy to take her shopping, on a vacation, or to a nice dinner. If she wants to have to nag someone to spoil her, then she would be in a conventional relationship.