When there are women, the men follow. But it’s not like a nightclub its sugar daddy dating sites/apps, and the thing is it is a market where the number of babies is always far greater than that of daddies. Just believe me if I tell you the ratio. At one well-known sugar daddy seeking site we had 7:1 (women to men) for a long time, even they always claim they have 2:1.
So what I’m trying to say is that, when sugar daddy doesn’t say yes, it happens. Simply because they’ve got so much to choose from. You’re not the right one for him, so he is not the right one for you as well. In spite of they’re almost certainly not telling you why they turn you down, they may lie.
Do Not Trust His Reason If —
- He agreed and it feels like he tried to sleep with you, then turn you down because you’re too expensive. I’m not joking.
- You already sent him your picture or you have gone on a date with him, then says his preference is xxx(color)/his favorite type is xxx or something like that.
- When you messaged him and expressed your needs, told him what do you want, he feels that’s okay. It seems you two have shared the common view on this matter. But he’s speaking a different tune after your date.
When They Are Telling Lies, What They Really Wanted to Say–
- I don’t know if I like you so far.
- I don’t know if I really want to invest in you.
- I don’t know if I trust you.
- I don’t agree with this kind of allowance.
- I just want to have sex with you for free. (Wait, how could you called yourself a sugar daddy?)
And of course, pretenders and the fakes are mixed in too. If you always let down your guard, you are bound to run into trouble. Great loss of confidence as you probably thinks no one would like you too, in the “real world”. Or somewhat worse, you’ll be taken in if you trust the wrong people. No matter which sugar daddy dating site you join in. It’s not about where there is less of scam, it’s about you yourself.
A Common Trap: Self-Denial
Most sugar babies are trapped by bad mental attitude, says the more people they meet the more disappointed they feel.
I’ll tell you what. Never end up with a lower-self-esteem feeling you are not worthy enough, good enough, pretty enough, and etc. If you start thinking that way, You will want to reshape your mindset, then adjust your Sugar Pitch on the stated reason, that would only get you to the wrong place faster.
You ain’t even supposed to compromise yourself in order to please other people or fit in with a system. I mean, Some people say they do a good job as a sugar baby or a sugar daddy, whatever, it doesn’t mean they are the truth. There is no ‘absolute truth’ in sugar bowl literally. They may really gorgeous like a movie star then everyone likes them, they may just have the good fortune for meeting the right one. It happens.
When you are looking through those ‘sugar baby beauty skills’ ‘sugar baby allowance tips’ or something like that, don’t forget that who you are, what do you exactly need, what’s the one thing you definitely won’t do. Beware even salt looks like sugar. Use your Sugar Spidey Senses to weed them out.