The best part of the sugar daddy-seeking process is finding someone who ‘clicks’ with all the special things you’re looking for. But what are you saying to draw those potential sugary sweet interests? In order to bolster your chances, make sure that you are not doing the following with your ongoing efforts:
Talking Too Much About Self
Yes, a woman, who wants to be your sugar baby, will want to know that you are capable of taking care of her physically, but she also wants to know what you can do for her emotionally. Contrary to what some believe, these women are not usually greedy and only after the money. They want a combination of caring and support from you, and that’s what you should be prepared to give them if you are serious about becoming a sugar daddy. However, many men make the mistake of putting themselves up on a pedestal and forgetting that she is even a person.
Taking Care of the Physical, Ignoring the Emotional
Instead of buying her whatever she wants and making sure she has no physical needs while spending all of your time wrapped up in business and failing to make physical contact with her, you should take time away from the office and the hectic pace that you set for yourself, and include her in your life. Nothing sends a message about what kind of guy you are more than how far you’re willing to include her in the things that you love. Too often, guys think that if they keep her physical needs appeased, they will not have to worry with the rest.
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Some Messaging Mistakes
The biggest component of finding who you desire to spend time with is asking the right questions. If a darling Sugar Baby opens your message with anticipation only to find a wall of text with nothing but “I-I-I,” then a serious problem is occurring. There must be a balance between talking about yourself and learning about this beautiful person on the other side of the screen. Sugar Babies should actively contribute to the conversation, yet Sugar Daddies must put forth an effort to be genuine.
The final and perhaps greatest tip to all sugar daddies is the need to avoid LIES. The Black Eyed Peas could not have said it any better. Lies will get you into trouble. If you are seeking discretion, lies will get you caught. Do not state in your first message that you are leaving your wife if you know in the back of your mind that the conversation has never arisen. Do not claim to have a wall of college degrees when all you possess is a GED. These are details that come up in conversation as you become more comfortable with each other. You’re bound to slip up at some point, especially if there are multiple Babies in the Sugar Bowl.