How to Be a Secret Sugar Baby?

How to be a Secret Sugar Baby? Is being a secret sugar baby possible in real life? Many girls want to try this sugar lifestyle but worry about safety and privacy. I’m gonna tell you that you can seek for sugar daddies while keeping it a secret. Yes, you can be a secret sugar baby! So here are some guides about how to become a  secret sugar baby,  and find a sugar daddy while keeping it your little secret!

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How to be a Secret Sugar Baby?

How to Start

As a secret sugar baby, you need to make a fake email or an inactive one that doesn’t connect with your real information. Normal email like Yahoo, Gmail or Outlook is okay. It’s the foundation of sugaring, you can use it to register dating sites, PayPal account and chat apps.

Where to Start

Registering some sugar daddy dating websites is important for a secret sugar baby. These kinds of apps become popular in sugar babies.  If you don’t want to use any sugar daddy dating site, You can also use Google, search the interests “sugar daddy”, “sugar baby”.

Make a Fake Profile

To be s secret sugar baby means you don’t want to show your real information, create a fake one is okay. Use fake information and wait for daddies to message you. The picture must be attractive, you can edit the picture or hide part of your face.

There’s a bold way, use the pictures you’ve posted on Instagram, Twitter or other sites, if your friends find your profile, you can just say someone stole your photo and made a fake account.

I don’t suggest you use other girls’ photo cause it’s immoral and might hurt others. But if you do so, make sure she is not famous or you won’t pass the verification.

Use Some Chatting Apps

Before meeting a POT, if you can’t confirm that he is safe and trustworthy, don’t give him your real phone number, use a burner phone. You can also make a fake Kiki or Skype account to communicate with potential sugar daddies. Don’t talk to sugar daddies in your area unless you actually plan to meet them.

How to Get Paid?

Cash is the best way, but for those who wanna keep a long distance sugar relationship or want a sugar daddy online, make a fake PayPal. You can register it with your fake email. You can also make a google wallet account.  Your sugar daddy won’t see it because he only gets to see the email he sends to.

Not all the sugar baby wants their friends to know what they are doing. If you want to find a sugar daddy secretly, you should consider my suggestion. Read more: Tips for Dating Sugar Daddy

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  • Yes, as a sugar baby, I would keep him a secret. Its still a taboo idea and I guess that is part of the fun of it. Normal frumpy drab college student by day, and glamorous sexy sugar baby by night. The best of both worlds right? But getting serious, Family would kill me. Morals kick in and would further make me wanna hide him . I’m being honest here, to strangers I wouldn’t care what they thought, but to my folks , I’d die

  • Well, I wouldn’t keep it a secret. I mean there’s no point in lying to people about it. If they don’t approve of it that’s on them it really shouldn’t affect what I think or do. If someone was to ask me about it I’d be like yes I have a sugar daddy and when they ask why I’ll tell them the truth. It’s because I have two jobs and I’m still broke.

  • No es un secreto que las relaciones a escondidas duran más, sin embargo, creo que eso lo deberíamos decirdir ambos pues un sugardaddy tiene más responsabilidades y, aunque se intente, siempre habrá algo que impedirá el acercamiento constante. Debemos tomar en cuenta diferentes factores (la familia, trabajo, estudios) para saber que es lo conveniente para nosotros.

  • I honestly don’t care who knows. It’s not like I’m a prostitute. I’m just spending time with someone and what’s someone else going to do or say. My family knows and it’s nothing I’m ashamed of. I’m not going to post it on my Facebook or Instagram but it’s not a huge secret either. If I felt morally wrong about it, I wouldn’t do it but I feel good about my choices.

  • I would personally keep it a secret not only because of the situation but I like to keep my life personal in GENERAL. Simply because in this day in age, the wrong information in the wrong hands is certainly not good what so ever. Being as young as I am, there is constant drama in the simplistest situation. I would not be bothered if you told your friends but I will not publicaly share it.

  • I think it’s all up to the sugar daddy if they want it to be a secret or not. I don’t personally care but it’s all out respect for the other person. If one or the other doesn’t want people to know than you should keep it discreet. I think this should be a talked about subject in the beginning of talking so you are on the same page with eachitger…

  • I come from a CNY, Italian, traditional family. They mean the world to me, therefore i would like to keep things discrete to prevent them from knowing about this side of me. They wouldn’t understand and would tri to fix me. If things became serious and my sugar daddy agreed, then i would get my family involved. Until that day, i would keep things a secret.

  • My sugaring is my secret. I don’t want anyone else to know. I offer discrete and sometimes intimate relationships with my daddy and I don’t want him to be afraid that someone will find out. So all of my relationships are kept between my daddy and I. In order for a SB/SD relationship to thrive, each party has to feel safe. If the world knows what’s going on between you and your daddy, then the relationship is no longer discrete and private, eliminating the safe factor. 🙂

  • Yes. Discretion is very important. Should my sugar daddy and I get serious, or simply decide that what we have is a very real relationship we want to continue to develop, then we’ll decide together what to say to whom and when. I may tell my close friends that I’m meeting someone I met on a dating site, I may show them a picture and tell them all about him, but only in the exact same way I would if we’d met in line at Target and only if he’s OK with that. The fact that he’s my sugar daddy is no ones business but ours. Unless he wants me to brag about it which is a different thing entirely ?

  • My business is my business. And besides you don’t tell people about the people you meet, just when you’re ready for them to come around that occurs. So when it comes to my fantasy world. That is definitely a No no. I mean what’s exciting if everyone knows of it already. No drama is the best way. Sometimes it takes for you to keep things to yourself for them to work out. You’ll learn if you haven’t.

  • Yes. My sugar life is secret. This is new for me and with the company I keep and my family I would be shunned, degraded and plastered around as an innapropirate individual for my actions as a sugar baby. Plus it’s way more fun to have this dirty little secret that only he and I know or she and I know. 😉 it’s like I get to have this secret life. It’s exciting.

  • Yes because I think it has a bad reputation due to people exploiting each other through this system. I don’t think its something you can easily explain to outsiders. Maybe close friends should know if one is going to meet a SD/SB, merely as security so they know where they are. But apart from that personally I’d keep it on the down low as I think my family and friends would look down on it.

  • Sugaring stays secret for sure. Unless he wants to be open about it, then I would only share this with certain people in my life. I don’t care to have my business out there for everyone to judge which could cause issues in the SD/SB relationship. Besides, it’s pretty hot knowing you have this other life people don’t know about or would even imagine you having!!!

  • I would like to be open about because I think it is nothing bad to be ashamed of but the thing is I could not and the people around me as well. We live in a world where a lot of people are closed minded as hell so I’d prefer to be quite about and just enjoy it in peace. But it’s also a good thing to keep it discreet and just mind your business and do what you gotta do.

  • Yes, keeping to yourself is always a good idea of course until you both have a mutal agreement otherwise. Your not in this alone so i feel things such as those circumstance should be discussed. I personally would keep my daddy to myself because it really isnt anyone elses business besides mine and his! Letting every one know your bussiness always opens the door to other peoples opinions and who needs that!

  • I think it would be a good thing to discuss that with your your sugar because that’s it could be a meaningful thing it could be just a thing to whatever help out you know do something doesn’t matter but definitely a discussion to have with that sugar but honestly I think it’s OK not to say anythingdefinitely keep it in a private thing in less you’ve been told otherwise to say something

  • I openly talk about with my friends. It’s more common than you think. I wouldn’t openly discuss being a sugar baby with anyone who wasn’t my close friend due to the reason that I wouldn’t want my sugar daddy feeling exposed if he wasn’t openly talking about being a sugar daddy. I think it is a great form of income for some people however there are always going to be those people who have something negative to say.

  • I do not really keep this a secret. If it comes up in conversation I will happily discuss what I do and why I do it. There is nothing to be ashamed of so why would I have something to hide? I think things like this should be more out there and more acceptable. Nothing should be a secret unless you do have something to hide and don’t want anyone knowing at all

  • It is not commonly accepted to have this kind of relationship. It’s mostly frowned upon. Since I am surrounded by open minded friends , it’s easy for me to talk about it with them , but if I were to tell my family, it wouldn’t be accepted. Most people keep it secret because they are ashamed and some because they want to save their relationship with other people.

  • yes, I think it should be kept top secret especially when it comes to identities,names, etc. simply because it’s not a casual sort of relationship to most people, and sugar daddy/sb relationships get frowned upon often by people that don’t do it, so it’s better to just not have to deal with the judgement unless both parties agree to make it publicly known.

  • Yes this has to be discreet because what if your sugar daddy has a wife and kids? You don’t want him to just up and risk the potential chance of him leaving his family. Usually you’re his guilty pleasure on the side so you have to respect your role in his life. You’re not his wifey but getting wifey treatment so you shouldn’t over step your boundaries

  • Yes i think i would keep mine a secret just for safety reasons no need for them to get caught up by your people in ur daily life that could get jealous of you or what your up to or unless other wise was agreed upon by sb/sd but for sure at least one person in your life should know for your own safety so if you really like them vice versa then open up

  • If my Daddy is keen on secrecy them that’s the order of the day. I’m very secretive when it comes to boys. I’ve always been a guy that keep whom ever with just between us so that no one else input can jeopardize our SHIP. Futhermore, there are daddies here that are married I’m not one to out NO one. I’m not opposed to daddies with wives. Just ensure my allowance is always available.

  • Yes completely and until I know my “SD” can comply with that one rule i might be a little gaurded. I’m new to this and would love if it worked out where we both get what we want and it stays between us. I have done the whole relationship thing and it always ends with me being cheated on. I’m over it. Spoil me and let’s have fun! And it will stay between us

  • Yes I would keep it a secret unless both of us are comfortable enough to not have it a secret anymore , if should always be kept a secret until the both of us agree on it otherwise it shouldn’t be known by anyone … It doesn’t matter if one of you agree on it and the other one doesn’t like I said before it should be known if the both of you agree on it

  • Yes, people do not always need to know what I’m up to or what I’m doing . My parents always told me to be reserved so Ive always been the type to keeep it a little myserious. I’m sure I’m not the only one. But It’s always better can’t say I haven’t thought about it but something won’t let me. Plus I like to keep my life very private .😋 Either way , It’s none of there business .

  • I would keep it discreet until I knew that the person was serious. Honestly it would be very hard for me to not to tell my friends because they would know something was up. I would be giddy all the time and they would start to question who was in the picture. But with family I can’t exactly relate. They wouldn’t be able to understand why I enjoy that sort of lifestyle; but if things would get serious at some point I wouldn’t hesitate telling them.

  • I think it depends on both of the people. But I prefer to keep it a secret as people can judge pretty quickly and I don’t wanna be called a gold digger or something. Its just that I want someone to help me financially but people might think in a different way. And its not like a relationship that others have to know about it. So its better kept a secret

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