Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why?
642 Answers
Sugar Baby / 23
Not necessarily a Secret, but I’m not going to volunteer my business about me being a sugar baby. If I’m with someone and the topic comes up.. depending on who It is I’ll definitely tell them that I am looking for a sugar daddy. Getting a sugar daddy/momma isn’t something that’s new anyways, but people do still judge, so i definitely will keep It to myself most of the time.
2017-11-15 19:04:09
Sugar Baby / 33
I believe in discretion(on my end at least) because i have very few people i could trust in general and those i do, i still rather them not know. Besides if they start asking "where's the money coming from?" Part of the fun for me is keeping the mystery alive and letting the speculation run wild in their heads, which in turn adds to the sexual drive i have as is
2017-11-17 19:31:23
Sugar Baby / 28
Yes, I do keep my sugaring a secret, mainly because it’s not acceptable to tell others something your sugar daddy might not be willing to have shared, and it’s a secret luxury lifestyles, not something everyone will understand and may try to exploit. I would advise, if in need to talk to a confident, choose wisely with who you would want to trust with your secrets.
2017-11-18 05:07:40
Sugar Baby / 23
Yes, absolutely. I come from a religious family who would find my line of work shameful and would most likely disown me. Being the fact that I have a close bond with my family my sugaring is to be kept on the lowest of low when it comes to my own personal social life. However, I have told one of my close friends about a previous sugar daddy and she applauded me which was a reaction I was not expecting!
2017-11-19 08:32:45
Sugar Baby / 30
It’s a secret to 97% of the world. I know, he knows and my best friend knows as she’s my checkin person especially if it’s a first meeting! I think that it should be kept a secret. Lots of times men are looking for discreet encounters and so am I. I don’t want my siblings or parents to know whom I’m sleeping with. To me relationships are private and I wouldn’t want anyone knowing.
2017-11-20 09:29:12
Sugar Baby / 23
I think it should be kept a secretly if both parties agree. I'm personally very open with my friends and family so it's not much of a problem for me. On the other hand, some people are more conservative and do not want other people in their business. That's completely understandable!! Any kind of relationship should be built on mutual respect. It's important to remember that everyone may not be as comfortable with certain things as you are.
2017-11-21 00:29:33
Sugar Baby / 36
I would keep my sugar daddy/daddies a secret just cause I have kids and this isn’t the typical relationship. If it turned into one then of course Inwould shout it from the roof tops. And it’s my business people don’t need to know what be doing and I also don’t want people assuming things about me or what I am doing to have and keep a sugar daddy.
2017-11-23 18:31:15
Sugar Baby / 22
I do keep it secret because you never know what someone might say or think. I am usually very open but this is one thing I don't necessarily want everyone to know because it is personal and not something I feel the need to share. I do tell my close friends but not really anyone else. I believe it isn't anyone else's business really what kind of relationship I choose to have.
2017-11-23 22:07:00
Sugar Baby / 25
I do believe that sugaring should be kept a Secret or only shared with the ppl close to you who won’t judge you for being a sd or sb, most people don’t understand or won’t understand the lifestyle and that’s okay too no one else matter except for the two people choosing to be on a sugaring relationship! Don’t let others stop you from your happiness
2017-11-24 20:21:29
Sugar Baby / 23
I keep sugaring a secret for a number of reasons. For one if my sugar daddy wants a descrwte relationship due to his social status, job etc. then I have to respect that especially if he's married, it might cause a conflict in his marriage. Some may argue that it's not of my business however I don't want to be a home wrecker or anything like that. That's also why I don't tend to be involved with SD that are married.
2017-11-25 18:27:05
Sugar Baby / 26
My sugar life is mostly kept secret, meaning i have chosen to keep who i am seeing, and what our intimate details are, a secret. I am not ashamed of being a SB, and have trusted few close family and friends with some information for my own safety, but aside from the necessary safety precautions, i don’t want to publicize my relationship(s)! The only time it should be blasted is if it were mutually agreed upon! :)
2017-11-27 15:26:16
Sugar Baby / 26
No my close friends know. They are also on here. We like to keep tabs to make sure if any of us went on dates that we could be on call just in case if someone needed to be picked up if things went south. I would like to know that someone knew where I was because there are people out that trying kidnap girls and sell them. I rather have back up or meet in a public place with cameras.
2017-11-28 00:07:53
Sugar Baby / 36
Yes always if daddies wanna have it that way then all my daddies get what they want I'm here to serve them as they see fit and so this sugar gives them what they want now if they want me out flashing it n showing off what my daddies have been so generous to give me then that's what they get...Daddies opinion is what's most important and so my job is to seer that they get what they want
2017-11-28 19:09:52
Sugar Baby / 27
Yes! The world we live in people will judge you. Even though it’s my life i personally don’t need anyone in my business. Asking me questions. It’s really hard to trust people now a days . Who wants to be deal with hate from other people? People can be really mean about how you live your life . So yes i keep being a sugar baby a serect . Keep my life peaceful & I don’t have to explain myself.
2017-11-28 20:57:18
Sugar Baby / 26
Yes because I like to keep things discreet,I do have family that is very very judge mental do I don't want to ruin the connection I have with my futute sugar daddy they want me to be with someone my own age but they don't know I have a passion for old men. I want to keep it a hot secret I live to sneak around and make things a little young for my sugar daddy make him feel young,and shoe him a kinky secret side
2017-11-28 22:49:10
Sugar Baby / 36
It depends on your, my case, sugar daddy... If he doesn't want it blasted then show him that respect... I on the other hand don't care... Im not here to please anybody but him because in turn... I want the same thing.... Communication rules the nation... I think it should be a mutual agreement. Period.... Other than that what else is there really to say?....
2017-11-30 06:21:20
Sugar Baby / 21
Yes because we people hear you have a sugar daddy they automatically assume you selling pussy for money or they the want to judge you maybe even call the police have them thinking you sex trafficking or prostituting when it's not even like that. And then you have to deal with those family members that want to disown you or shame you in front of the family. And try to make you the black sheep of the family.
2017-11-30 16:01:12
Sugar Baby / 23
I keep it a secret not because I’m ashamed but because I’m pretty lowkey about everhthing. I like to think that sugaring is like my double life and takes me away from all the mad stuff going on in my regular life. I like feeling like I’m worth something, and it boosts my confidence aswell. I enjoy getting to meet new people and learn about all different cultures and people’s views on things and it really is quite enlightening.😌❤️
2017-11-30 20:40:11
Sugar Baby / 25
For the most part, I keep it secret. Close friends know what I do but it's also not something I'd yell from the rooftops or anything. A lot of SD are successful men with reputations to uphold as well so they are looking for discretion in many cases. What you do with your SD is between the two of you. Nobody else or their opinions matter in that situation.
2017-12-01 08:18:13
Sugar Baby / 21
Yes I keep it a secret. I do it to protect my family and friends. I wouldn't want to fund out that my sister is a sugar baby. I also find the secrecy to be exciting and adventurous. There is always the possibility of someone finding out and that's exciting. I wouldn't want to worry about stuff but there are jealous people that will destroy stuff for people.
2017-12-03 01:23:51
Sugar Baby / 22
I don’t believe someone should have to but yes, personally I keep this part of my life private. Unfortunately, it’s incredibly frowned upon and misunderstood . Just my personal opinion however, I think it is best to keep your “sugar career” or whatever you want to call it private. Avoid hateful comments and judgement . Everyone has a right to go about it as they please, but I think it’s in the sugar baby’s best interest to keep it private .
2017-12-07 18:25:48
Sugar Baby / 22
Personally I like to keep it private. That's because it's not for everybody and people can judge. It's not that I'm ashamed, I just don't find it worth the explanation to people who won't see the attraction of being a sugar baby can have. I also find that it's quite exciting to have a secret that only a sb and sd share. I feel that it makes it more fun.
2017-12-08 02:50:29
Sugar Baby / 33
I do keep it a secret from everyone except my husband. We are open and honest. On that note, I dont think it is anyone else's business what i do to take care of my bills or myself. If that is getting sex (which omg is great) and then getting money to get my nails done and get a waxing... That is my business. Plus people judge way too much. They look at it as something dirty, when that is just not the case.
2017-12-11 01:57:40
Sugar Baby / 30
It depends from who. My family I do cause then they would be expecting me to get them something. I don’t mind but I know when I’m being used as well. As far as social life no cause it’s either or like it don’t. My friends are even asking me about the site and how can they be sugar babies. So for me it just depends family yes friends and social life no I’m an opened book.
2017-12-12 12:53:06
Sugar Baby / 21
Yes because I don't think everyone accepts it because it looks wrong to the General people. Unless both decide that it doesn't need to be discreet then if you wanted to be open about it. But most young girls are afraid of how society would judge them if they knew they were having a relationship with someone significantly older and maybe feel they will be judged.
2017-12-16 00:39:03
Sugar Baby / 21
it is a secret on my part. I like having a secret life no one knows about. Makes me feel interesting. Your sugar daddy can be knowing for the longest time but no one knows and that's what's so good about it. It let's people live out their secret private lives. Even if their relatives don't approve you could always have this escape and honestly I believe having an escape is the best.
2017-12-17 04:03:59
Sugar Baby / 29
Yes as of now, I do keep my sugaring a secret because I just got into it, so once it get a REAL sugar daddy that does what he say he will CONSTANTLY, up to his approval, the "secret" of me sugaring getting out wouldn't bother me if it doesn't bother him, but if it does then I have no problem keeping my sugar daddy as secret, plus I'm greedy I don't want to share my jewels with the world lol
2017-12-18 21:03:31
Sugar Baby / 21
I keep it secret as I live at home with family who would not approve and honestly I don’t feel as though it’s any of their business, and would only make things worse for all involved if they were to know. They wouldn’t want to know what I did in the bedroom in a conventional setting so why should they know in a non conventional setting? I may reveal it to my mother when I’m older if questions arise, however I would prefer not to tell anyone besides from my friends, as it’s simky quite a private thing to do in my opinion.
2017-12-19 01:00:20
Sugar Baby / 26
It is depend. If my sugar daddy asks me to keep this relation in secret then I will do it. I am good in keeping a secret. But for me, I will very pround to have someone who is willing to help my life (such a God father). For one who willing to meet my friends and my family is not a matter for me. My sugar daddy can be our part of family or we can do it in secret
2017-12-19 01:50:18
Sugar Baby / 25
No, I have no reason to keep it a secret. There isn't anything to be ashamed of.I offer companionship, comfort, advice and fun. There isn't anything wrong with that, so why does it need to be kept a secret!!As long as both parties agree and consent then the relationship isn't really anybody else's business to judge. Let me be happy with my daddy!
2017-12-19 01:55:33
Sugar Baby / 21
No I don’t keep my sugaring a secret. Why hide something that you enjoy. There is no shame in my game or with anything I do. If my sugar daddy says keep it a secret then so be it but other than that the world will know.. I view my relationship with my sugar daddy like a normal relationship. The only difference is I’m benefiting more monetarily than a regular relationship
2017-12-19 04:52:59
Sugar Baby / 35
Yes. Discretion is important to me because of my career and aspirations in life. Keeping fit and working out and eating right are integral to ensure I say as arm candy... absolutely! It is not necessary for those with a traditional relationship to judge. Sugaring is a mutually beneficial relationship. If he wants it to be public, then that is his choice.
2017-12-19 06:50:01
Sugar Baby / 26
I don't tell many about my sugaring, but it's not necessarily a secret. I just rather not deal with the opinions of people who don't matter. I'm in an open relationship, so my significant other knows about me dipping my feet into the sugar bowl. The other people who know about it are people who are also, or have been in the life, or other similar kinds of relationships and agreements.
2017-12-19 13:16:19
Sugar Baby / 44
No i do not keep it a secret. I am married but i do not have to hide it. I have a open relationship with my husband. No drama here. I can do my own thing with no worries of him. I do not have to hide my phone or cover messages up. If you call or text i will answer. I do not have to snick out of the house to leave and if im picked up there is no worries .
2017-12-19 14:31:35
Sugar Baby / 35
I keep it secret. Honestly it's not for anybody to know. It's between me and my mate only. I wouldn't want it to interrupt my daily life or his. We have all worked hard for what we have. This is something separate. I would also be judged very harshly and could cost me my job. There for all is a secret that I myself would never ever repeat. And would expect the same
2017-12-19 15:20:21
Sugar Baby / 25
Yes I keep my business private as I wouldn’t like my family to find out then think less of me, nor would I like to sabotage any my relationships. I think discretion is very important on both parts, I know from previous experience that not everyone is okay with you discussing their private arrangements so for this reason I would not discuss it. I like to keep that part of my life separate to the rest!
2017-12-19 16:02:08
Sugar Baby / 21
I dont Want to keep it a secret unless the other person wants to keep it discreet. It's not something I'm ashamed about so I see no reason to keep quiet about it. Even though today's society may not understand the whole sugar daddy sugar baby situation I still would not let that affect my choices on choosing to be a sugar baby. I'm not afraid to let the public know.
2017-12-19 16:12:29
Sugar Baby / 28
Yes!!! I’m a private person who enjoys keeping this a secret. There’s no need to alarm anyone or make people worry. I think it’s good to tell at least one person in case something goes wrong. Always tell someone where you’re at and what you’re doing and with whom. Keep yourself in check and you should be fine. It’s fun having a dirty little secret, what can I say.
2017-12-19 16:52:29
Sugar Baby / 22
yes i do. however, i do tell some of my closest friends. i keep it a secret because it's widely looked down upon, and i don't want to tarnish my social image, since my social life is very important to me. keeping it secret could also be beneficial to my sugar daddy, who i want to keep as happy as possible so that the arrangement will work in both of our favors.
2017-12-19 17:24:18
Sugar Baby / 32
I do keep my sugaring a secret from most people. Not everyone can appreciate the mutual beneficial relationship involved here. Most people judge, and have negative thoughts on what they do not understand. My best friend is aware. And so is my husband. He is awware & fully supportive, as long as I am happy. I do not givey time to anyone that does not deserve it.
2017-12-19 19:33:03
Sugar Baby / 30
It truly depends. Many times, people find any different relationship as triggering. I think sexually and openness are essential for any partnership. I also feel that this lifestyle is better suited for some people I am very close friends with. I believe they would find this beneficial. But I would not be open and public about this relationship unless my Sudy wanted to be very serious and exclusive but it's my consent.
2017-12-19 21:45:37
Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I do; this is because I like discretion. I'm not a very public person to begin with and I feel like most of the gents in here don't really want us flaunting it. When I find a good guy on here and we both mutually agree to portray our relationship to the world we will both mutually do So! And then my answer will change, but for no I'm going to have to stick with YES!
2017-12-19 22:32:53
Sugar Baby / 21
Well i am doing this for my education, i dont have enough money to study abroad so my friends said i should just be a sugar baby joking. But i took it serious so i looked it all up and now i am one. But i dont want my family to know this or anyone for that matter, only my bestfriend knows about this job.if my family did find out they would probably disown me and kick me out.
2017-12-20 03:57:24
Sugar Baby / 36
I don't publicize it on my Facebook or anything, but I don't keep it overtly secret, either. I wouldn't be against it being advertised, per se, I just don't want to have to get into discussions with people about why I do it. Generally I tend to be pretty open about my life anyway, but I'm not so open to it that I've created a second profile or anything.
2017-12-20 04:19:41
Sugar Baby / 24
no i donnot keep it a secret....i don't see why i should.. i do not mind the judgment because i donnot judge orthers for what they do..so i wouldnot mind telling my friends about my sugar daddy i would actually brah about it screem at the top of my voice like yoooooooo i gat a sugar daddy...tho i wouldnt disclose his identity unless he doesnt mind .
2017-12-20 05:08:20
Sugar Baby / 24
For the most part, I do keep the fact that I'm either seeking or have a sugar daddy secret because I don't know how that will affect him, whether he wants people to know or not. I have no problem telling others but thats something me and him will have to discuss because it should be a mutual agreement and both parties need to be comfortable with it. I know there may be backlash on both our lives, however I have thick skin and i know who and who not to tell. But my SD may not feel the same so its definitely something to be discussed before deciding to tell the world
2017-12-20 07:11:05
Sugar Baby / 24
I don’t keep anything a secret from anybody, I’m an open book. To me I see it as just dating with high standards. I’m not having sex nor doing favors for money. I am genuinely looking for a potential partner with goals or aspirations that I can look up to or be inspired by. I’ve been on tinder before and only met guys that only wanted to have sex. I’m hoping Sudy will help me find that man that has everything except someone that cares about him and someone to care about.
2017-12-20 07:28:05
Sugar Baby / 25
As of now I keep my sugaring a secret due to the fact I am just now being apart of sugaring. I think in the beginning I’ll keep it slightly secretive and then once I find the sugar daddy worth announcing to the people I surround myself with, I will. Somethings are allowed to stay private... I just don’t want to put myself or my sugar daddy through a questioning from my friends and family quite yet.
2017-12-20 09:15:03
Sugar Baby / 30
Everyone has a secret to keep. And it all depends on the level of friendship at which your to share them. Yes I have sugaring secrets and I would like to be friends with someone, get to know them very well then I can spill or share the secrets. This all comes with the level of trust and how comfortable you are with the person before you can share any secrets.
2017-12-20 10:59:45
Sugar Baby / 21
Yes, I keep my sugaring a secret just because of the negative attention or energy I migt get in return. When you mention "sugar daddy" most people will just assume you're having sex with them but that isn't always the case. I'm very aware that you shouldn't always care what others have to say but a lot of negative things could affect the relationship or even how you feel about your sugar daddy.
2017-12-20 11:43:17
