How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 14
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Sugar Baby / 38
Absolutely I've met scammers trying to find a good sugar daddy for myself and I deal with them by calling them on their Bluff and usually go back off and leave me alone and if they don't then I will tell them that I'm not interested because I feel like they are not being honest and they are lying. And if that doesn't work then I tell him to f*** off and I block them and let other people know
2023-03-31
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I recently was talking to a sugar daddy and I felt like it was a scam so I decided to start asking questions. Always ask questions If they trying to dance around your questions then most likely they’re hiding something from you or they aren’t real or they aren’t a real sugar daddy and they’re trying to be a perv Try to do your best to spot the lies and the truths
2023-04-01
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Sugar Baby / 30
Two scammers in one day today! I was a fool enough to send a nude photo (my face was cropped out) the guy spoke like some neeb, he sent some of the same types of pictures, and he wouldn't agree to skype with me. The other one was so quick to get my credit card information that he wouldn't answer my other questions to get to know him. The first guy wanted me to set up a credit union account cause his banking officer can only receive it from one of those. He claimed it was because his ex sugar baby fled with some money he gave her. Which didn't make sense to me that a SB would do that in the first place when she had a steady income like that. All this was today. Very weird. Smh
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 31
So many sugar babies here saying they've met scammers and that we should ask them to send their bank statement before any arrangement... which leads me to wonder (I haven't done sugaring before) how would you gain their trust just by asking them to proof themselves when the problem is sugar daddies also get scammed by fake babies? So I think the real solution would be HOW ABOUT SUDY START LIMITING ACCOUNT ACTIONS UNTIL INCOME OR BEAUTY VERIFIED?? Why would you allow so many scammers to be on your site in the first place??
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 46
Yeah! Like 2 dudes t to scam me but I wasn' t trying to have it. They will try to get your bank information like your username and password to your account so they can steal money from you but they are saying, " baby I want to transfer my funds to yours and when you get the funds you can send some back to me." No, don't be that naive in believing that. No one should give out their personal information.
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 60
I hope I’m not communicating with a scammer and I bring that up numerous times during conversations. I have been looking on the sugar daddy pages and I’m being very picky, but when someone pick me and say they want to be with me for companionship and to build a relationship, I get a little confuse, because this site is clearly not a exclusive dating site! It is a sugar daddy site!
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 26
Scammers are easy to point out, especially if you talk to them. They tell you all these things that are to good to be true, about them selves. They also ask for your bank information very early in the conversation. Don’t ever give out you bank information. If you have to give something give them your pay pal or some kind of cash app. They are less likely to hack you through those apps.
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve been on Sudy for over a month and I’ve met TONS of scammers. I don’t ever give away my number and just keep to social media apps to talk to them. The best way to deal with them is to just ignore them, never acknowledge them. They’ll just keep going at it in hopes of you giving them what they want but never give in. The #1 scam on here is when they ask for your banking information - obviously don’t give it lol
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have come across so many scammers. Majority of the people on here are scammers. To avoid scammers you definitely need to put yourself first and be cautious. Never give out information that could potentially harm you (banking informations, passwords, etc.) it’s safer to deal with guys who have their wealth confirmed because they don’t necessarily need your money or need to scam you.
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I have!& I’m ashamed to say one of them really scammed me and I owe $900 to the bank because of it.He asked me for my bank information like username and password and me foolishly I gave it to him.I believe he deposited a fake check and the bank is charging me since it was Fraud that accured!Babies be carleful don’t be as stupid and naive as I was!
2023-04-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
You can always tell your dealing with a scammer by the phone number put out, majority of the time it’s a 509 Area code. Other ways is when they ask for your bank information like account number first and last name, some may pull the “ I need your social number “ to wire money for you. If they send a first message with the typical “ Hey - insterts name here- I’ve been checking your profile out and I like what I see, I’m ready to spoil you. Hit me up at - inserts text now number, or 509,909,807 etc area code- or email me at @-specific fake email used to scam people- and we’ll talk for more details. “ RUN!
2023-04-06
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Sugar Baby / 32
Omg first time ever being scammed. You just took money from my child now I'm in depth because of it. I can lose my furniture and my home. Ladies pose be careful. I don't want anyone feeling the way I do right now. I feel worthless. I feel ashamed and like a failure of a mother. It's one thing to take away from me but to take away from my child is a whole different level. Ladies be mindful. I'm only using PayPal or Wal-Mart to Wal-Mart transfer.
2023-04-06
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have dealt with scammers and that is the easiest way to get blocked in my opinion. Scammers will message you and say things like I read your profile and I like I saw. Then proceed to give you their number and tell you to text them. Once you txt them they want your bank information whether it be your username and/or password. That is a NO NO. When they do that, just block them. Point blank period.
2023-04-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have met scammers in my sugar life. One thing you should never give out sensitive information, no matter how trusting he/she may be. It is very dangerous as for it can be really bad to you cause they might abuse that information and take ask your money. If they ask for any bank information that is a clear sign they might be a scammer. Never trust anyone who ask for sensitive information like that!!
2023-04-06
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Sugar Baby / 36
Im always very upfront with my clients. Its either payment first or nothing. Never ever fall for anyone who asks for banking information and/or tells you thats the only way they can send money. If they do, on to the next one. Make it clear that you only accept money thru paypal, cash app, etc etc. Ive had my fair share of daddies trying to ask for my bank information in order to wire money. I created a false bank account one day just to see and the man sure enough took the money (it was only $40) out of the account.
2023-04-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
They’ll ask for too much information and supply you with none of theirs. Scammers are the worst and will make you feel like they’ve sold you a dream. Don’t fall for it! Take any chance you can get to see if they’re real and get confirmation. They’re usually very picky about how they trust you but if you ask them one thing about trusting them they make it known that you’re in the wrong.
2023-04-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yeah, but whose still dumb enough to get scammed with the same oki-doke ?? If you havent been scammed or almost fell for a scam on sudy , youve most LIKELY got scammed on instagram , facebook , twitter or any other social media sites before . Internet scammers are nothing new and they're obvious to recognize by this time , sooo if you're still getting scammed on any social media you lack common sense honestly
2023-04-08
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Sugar Baby / 25
In order to deal with scammers I always ask for proof of their income for example a bank statement with their name on. I also never give out any sexy pictures or sexual favours unless I have seen the money in my account and can fully trust them. If I have a bad feeling about it I will all trust my gut instinct and leave. Remember girls if he has to beg for pictures before he sends anything he’s not showing real sugar daddy behaviour.
2023-04-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have met 2 scanners so far who wanted to deposit money in my account By mobile, first guy i said no. Second guy said he wanted to help me out so I gave my bank info (dumb idea) he put $2k in there, and wanted me to buy him $1500 worth of iTunes cards, my bank froze my account right away, come to find out it was a counterfeit cheque, so if I would've bought him those I would've been out 1500 and stuck paying that back to the bank. I've learned my lesson and if someone wanted to send you anything and they were legit, they'd do it through paypal or something like it
2023-04-08
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Sugar Baby / 35
If they tell you they have to backup ir update their account and need you to send a itunes card....they are not a sugar daddy. If they are askimg for you to send pics on another site be careful. Why would they adk that if they can see your pics on here. Do not give your bank info or personal info for money...if they can not do cash app or paypal...don't waste your time
2023-04-08
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Sugar Baby / 28
like the rest of the ladies say don’t give out your bank account, also I’ve had many text me & say that they’re from so-so location but currently in the UK & in my new SB days a couple scammers would try to force to give them by bank account. You’re better off ignoring & blocking don’t waste your time on men like those a real SD would wire you money easily through PayPal or other apps
2023-04-09
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Sugar Baby / 29
I’ve only been on here for about a month and have already experienced a lot of sugar scammers . Ladies please be careful ! Don’t get give out passwords and please don’t give extra bank info there are lot of scammers on here ! Please make sure that the stories are lined up and legit people come up with anything to make you believe they want you to be there SB!
2023-04-09
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Sugar Baby / 33
The amount of scammers out there are probably more then real sugar daddies. I’m always careful with what I reveal about myself or how much information they have of me. I always ask if maybe they have another account that they have to verify who they are. Scammers have a certain way of doing things and paying attention to the most smallest questions will prevent a scammer from succeeding.
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 27
Scamming happens so often! The best advice I can give is to keep up with the scam, also set your rules. If a SD isn’t okay with using PayPal or Cash app, if you have a virtual relationship. Don’t go any further. Also just never even tell anyone you have a bank account, because it will lead them to asking for the information. Mostly don’t give out personal info, such as real names, addresses, bank names, or passwords. Wait until you can complete trust your SD, and some cases that maybe never.
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 26
Scammers are everywhere. Usually when someone asks for your bank account info on day one you know its not real. Talk to the person or meet them before you give them this information. Always be careful. Don't get discouraged because I know it Is very frustrating for both parties to find a serious sugar partner. Its very worth it if you come up with a certain set of rules and follow them.
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 31
Ignore and Block babies. It’s not worth your time or effort to give excuses for these butts. If the first message they send is asking for your banking info 99.99% of the time it’s a scam. Most daddies want a friendship And trust before they start throwing their coin at you. They wouldn’t be sugar daddies if they just went around giving allowances to every pretty thing they saw. The real ones are out there, just have to weed them out.
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 28
So far all I've delt with is scammers. My only advice is to just pick at them until they go away. Pick holes in their logic. Always ask them for a certain pic. Something they couldn't have stolen off yhe Internet. Even that's not fool proof tho. If they ask for personal info, I stop trusting them then and there. I mean like bank account info, adresses, things like that. Don't trust anyone you don't know that asks for your account number
2023-04-11
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Sugar Baby / 32
So many scammers! If it seems too good to be true... it is. I had a horrible experience my first time suggaring I have out to much info and was paid quickly.. just in time for the money to be ripped back out of my account and be on the hook liable for all the money the scammer had sient me :-( a huge lesson never shate bankndetails cash apps only. Google wallet is my friend!
2023-04-11
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes those damn scammers are out there and they truly suck , well tbh I’ve had scammers in diff ways once I met One and we had an arrangement he winded up low balling me so if u meet I would Ask for proof of allowance up hand at front or have it handed to yah upfront and if u can maybe start a online arrangement thru Skype or FaceTime or send photos w the date on it or something u and they request to make sure it’s real and and don’t send anything until u have a gut feeling is right
2023-04-11
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Sugar Baby / 51
I have met scammers I have met Sugar Daddy's that said they had things like a good career and money when it turns out they don't have a dime and are unemployed. And I have seen other Sugar Babies that are gold diggers that all they care about are themselves and what the Sugar Daddy can do for them and buy them They don't want to give nothing back in return like they should
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 51
They best way to deal with scammers is to always keep your ears open to whatever the other has to say Don't trust you soon. Like they say hope for the best but expect the worse. And know not everyone in this world are good people It would be awesome is everyone we're good prople but there are those that still lie cheat and steal. Just pay attention to what the other says and does for a while
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 27
Scammers will usually try to get your banking information and will argue with you about why they need it. Just make sure to remember that nobody needs your passwords. It's always best to trust your instincts if you think a person is trying to scam you because they are almost always right! Keep your head up high because you'll find someone out there
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes, I do happen to come across scammers every once in a while. Things to look out for are them asking for things without payment, asking for your bank account info to pay you. Most SD know that the nude pictures and talking to you costs money so you should use apps like venmo or PayPal to acquire money for your SD so you stay safe! Make sure you’re keeping a look out for these guys!
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 29
I've encountered scammers. These people think you're stupid. A good way to weed these scammers off is to get something small done financially from them. DO NOT let them talk you into meeting them first,sending pictures first, or whatever the case may be. If they're serious about you, they'll send what you request. Go with your gut feeling, if you feel like something isn't right, it probably isn't. Don't let anyone scare you into anything either. Always be in control.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have met scammers. There was thus guy once he somehow got my number and started stalking me and finding out my family member names and thretended to rape me..hknestly. just call 911. You don't need that in your life. If you're talking to a guy And you see ANY kind of weird behavior or get weird vibes. STOP TALKING TO HIM. BLOCK AND DELETE GIRL. BACK THE FUCK OUT OF THAT SITUATION RIGHT NOW
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
I've encountered many spammers. They always want to get your bank info. They always say they don't have PayPal or any cash apps that doesn't deal with direct deposit . Or they will give you a fraud check. I haven't encountered a true and honest sugar daddy on this app yet so far. It gets crazy. They also try to make you delete your Sudy app or get you off the app period.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 31
Honestly so far, I'm so discouraged because I feel like every person that's contacted me so far is a scammer! They all seem to follow a specific guide to chatting, where within a few messages they will give you their number and then stop replying on the app.... Makes you wonder if you can find a single real person! I suppose you gotta keep looking till you find one, and for your own safety DO NOT meet in a private place until they prove their identity! Last thing you want is to be put in a life or death scenario or even a sex trafficking situation!
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yeah so it’s quite common, I usually ask for something upfront once they’ve met me and what to carry on. Just to see if they are legitimate. Most will try and get away with relations with you without giving back or following through. Most are dodgy and try and get free rides even when you’ve explained to them your boundaries and “rules”. So yeah many scammers around and you have to test them before they try and use you and dump you.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
just make sure you are talking to the right guy and ask for email a picture id linked anything you can to identify their name and identify besides social media in addition to that just be sure to be careful there wre a lot of scammers in this app so just be careful but make sure to identify the person ou are talking to so you dont get scammed here .
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 36
There are scammers and fakers the fakers are the ones who don't think this is real I've had a guy call and ask for three dancers once I got it together and headed to him but I felt nervous so I grabbed a bodyguard for the night when we got there he tried to play like he didn't call us I made sure my friends and I got payed. Back up is good at all times
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 50
Yes I met a scammer That was supposed to be a sugar daddy and all you wanted was my bank account and routing number or wanted me to go and buy a iTunes card in exchange for $3,000 once I purchase the 3000 once I purchased the iTunes card and gave it to him then $3,000 just disappeared and I never received it so that was totally a big scam and I never got any money
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 53
The best way to deal with scammers is to Run away! But the most fun way is to play a long for awhile and then ask him to prove be is who he claims to be. The biggest signs are asking your bank name and account numbers. This is where you offer to get a prepaid credit card. He will have excuses for that,too. When you see sentences that are just a word or so off, these are scammers from other countries.
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 27
I think it's tradition for a sugar baby to come across a scammer at this point. Eventually you quickly learn how to spot them quickly. They tell you you're pretty and give you their number. They will say they don't use third parties to pay allowances (ex. PayPal) because they were scammed. They will then ask you what you bank with and all your bank info. It gets annoying because you'll tend to get them often and I feel the need to warn SBs like I have before in a moment I posted. It causes a lot of trust issues here and some SBs fall for it especially if they're new. I feel like Sudy should point this out to new members and show signs that all SBs have learned to spot a scammer at this point
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 40
Yes I did meet one scammer and I knew he was a scammer because he immediately made an arrangement with me and said to check my email because he sent an E transfer. But I was smart enough to know not to put in any bank information and I hope no one else has fallen for this type of scam. It’s very obvious when things are just too good to be true, always go with your gut feeling
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 46
I have only been on Sudy for 2-3 days and have already been hit up by scammers. Like others have mentioned, they will ask you to text them. Then they ask for your bank name, mobile app name or account. Then your user name and password. Be smart. NEVER give out any banking information to anyone. I use PayPal or Cash app to receive funds. Like others mentioned also, get payment up front or at least partial.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 38
I just got to Sudy and the first person to message me is a scammer. I am so happy for all the SDs and SBs who warn against these men. At first he was pleasant wanting to make arrangements, but I stayed cautious kept the conversation casual. Then...Boom! He asked me about my credit cards. I did not give out any information. I asked for his IG or something to let me know he is real...got nothing. So I blocked him and plan to report the profile. Staying cautious is key, get to know each other via Sudy before giving out your number, meet, make sure there is chemistry, if there is then move right along with your relationship. Be careful. Be smart.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 28
I would say if they ask for your bank info and wont do anything like paypal, their scammers. it happened to me and it sucked. Make sure not to accept anything through your bank, its probally counterfeit. And if you ask them about it and they get mad quickly, walk away. Its not worth you time! Stay safe SBs! Don't accept anything that doesnt seem right!
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 30
There are a ton of scammers! Be careful! I’m usually able to tell when they get right to how much of an allowance you’ll get while asking who you bank with all in the same sentence. Also, a lot of scammers do not have complete profiles. Where are the pictures?? Most scammers (that I have encountered) give out their nunber(be weary), ask for pictures right away, & say how they don’t do any of the mobile apps & that they have to do bank deposits. A lot of them also stress how you need to trust them and how much they are going to spoil you. Lies. Lies. All lies. They just don’t want you to question/refuse giving them your bank info. Don’t fall for it.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 47
I recently got scammed myself... shock shock I know.. I guess my first mistake was being 2 trusting.. i am a very naive person.. and it only took once to learn not everyone can be trusted.. I was asked to send a paypal card ... before he could send me money.. so I scraped, begged and borrowed and got the card for him only to be called names and disrespected.. I know now...😁
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met a scammer very recently, asked for my bank and I told him I only use paypal for sudy and he immediately stopped replying. I suggest to all the babies out there to only use a site like paypal to keep your self safe. Don’t ever give away your bank info and get your money in a safe way. Also make sure you get your money before you do anything to avoid them from not paying you.
2023-04-17