How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 13
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 44
The best way of dealing with those types of people are one:tell them that you are upset about what they did,two:ask them to never contact you again,and three:you move on with your self and find a true,honest sugar daddy who will take care of you the right and honest way... So in the end when your right sugar daddy comes along to never let you down or hurt you again
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes always i would suggest never give out any info and make sure you recieve some sort of content like a picture with a certain pose or a phone call or voice recording any proof helps build trust....ESPECIALLY if it were the other way around...as a sugar baby i have no problem and get asked quite often to verify who i say i am that juat comes with the territory
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 35
I haven’t been on this site for a week and I’ve run into so many scammers. What I have gathered thus far is that scammers are very quick to try to get you offsite. They’re constantly visiting your page and liking your moments but once you interact with them “they don’t have time to message on here” and would rather text or Kik you instead. This is so they can avoid being reported. Once they have you offsite they will block you on here. Also they will be very impatient/controlling to see if they can strong arm you into doing what they want aka giving them money/access to your accounts. The real sugar daddies on here do not have to chase and be overbearing. They already know what they want and what they have to offer. Also do not give out your bank information ever. Do not buy gift cards for them and if they claim to “reimburse you in your allowance” or some thee random nonsense that involves you spending money first. Do not trust them when they say that they need you to have a bank account because their employee/assistant/accountant/whatever handles their finances. No sugar without getting your needs met first. Know what you’re worth. Realize that being a sugar baby is work. If it seems too good/easy to be true, it is.
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 28
I think many people are scammers and many girls fall for it. I would not send anything without a identity confirmation and an allowance. If they do not offer any, question if you are being scammed. It is best to have a few people and talk to them steadily, so if one is a scam you are not with nothing. until you have a steady sugar daddy you should not do this as your main income.
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 31
Havent meet scammers here in this site yet but if I meet someone, surely I will troll him. Being a sugar baby must be wise and practical. Why believe and trust if not getting anything I want first from that person? He'll get hurt expecting nothing from me. Sugar baby must know how to act like a classy one. I kmow my worth and I know exactly what I want. Give me what I want and surely you'll get sometjing what you want from me. Take it or leave it!
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes , i have seen a lot of scammer. Please SB dont trust the agents easily. Everyone dreaming to have a good day wth SD . Take a caution before accept your date. try to imvestigate their details before proceed on your date. Some are good , some only take advantage. Try to find who is comfortable with you. Find someone who are willing to be you sugar daddy and comparable with your needed darling
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 37
What would a daddy be able to do after he got your username/password? I thought they couldn't take anything out unless in person. I just want to know the extent of this mistake because every daddy that has mages me has asked! It is rediculas! One had me start a bank account which had th e minimum of 100 in it and now I don't have enuff in it to keep it :(
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 28
The first day I was on the site I was approached by what it seemed like a normal sugar daddy. Immediately he asked for my bank information in order to give me my allowance. RED FLAG. Do not give out any oersonal information, especially bank info. I have also met a few wonderful sugar daddies, so do not get your hopes up. Just steer clear of any scammers. Be cautious, but smart, always.
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
Every "Sugar Daddy" I've experienced have mostly been scammers. Beware of the ones who ask you to purchase iTunes cards and them say they will give you the money later, I luckily caught on to what the scammer was doing so I avoided that situation. Another thing is don't give them your bank account info!! Your sugar daddy does not need your username, password, etc.
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 33
I was recently scammed by Advntre68 on SA. He didn't have any pictures and sent me a message. Thought I'd give a no face a try and just ask for pictures. He said he was a corporate attorney for the auto motive industry. We went on two dates both of which he was late an hour. He specified 4500 every two weeks. I'm new to this so I just thought lucky me and he's cute. We got along well and there was chemistry. Since I had met him I thought it was ok to open a new account. He said he would pay on a certain day but he didn't. So I cancelled the account. Then something just didn't feel right so I asked to see a copy of his business card. He kept putting it off until he said he wanted to show me when he saw me. I then knew he was a fake. I told him I wouldn't see him without seeing it and he said as you wish. It hurts, he was so attentive and sweet. I would've dated him if he didn't have money. Oh well. Lesson learned.
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve had a lot of scammers try to pull shit on me and still do. WARNING: This app is filled with scammers. Personally, I wouldn’t have these assholes text my actual phone number. I’ll have them texting a kik I made for this or a texting app. Their #1 line is saying they need your bank information to send you money... BULLSHIT! Don’t fall for it. Another one I ran into was buying an iTunes gift card and sending them the code... Why tf would I go buy an iTunes card to send it to your ass when I’m here trying to find a guy to pay my bills with HIS money. Anyways, once you see a hint of them being a scammer REPORT & BLOCK his ass sis!!!
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 33
Definitely receiving payment before doing anything. Scammers will promise you outrageous amounts of money, but only pay ‘after’ they get what they want. Scammers will also ask for your bank info, such as login and password! DONT DO THESE THINGS! Payment should always come before you do anything. And bank account infor should never be given out! ❤️❤️
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 30
Hello SBs, I’m jut going to share this with you. DO NOT GIVE ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION. Dispose what your SD/SM day. Especially if they use the anything along the lines of “ I’m new to being a sugar daddy. But you can trust me. Trust me baby.” Do not fall for. Go with your gut. Another thing you should do is always ask for current in the now selfies. And get confirmation on their actual payments. No Nudity or Sexual activity until you get your allowance for being good. And be smart about your choices.
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I have encounter many of them in different sugar apps, not just on Sudy so it’s important to ALWAYS be smart & weary. If he starts off by demanding info and being too needy while seeming to be hesitant when it comes to financial allowance/pay then be cautious. Never give away too much personal information at the very start of your conversations.
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 25
I've met plenty of scammers on my previous account, and they weren't even smart about it. They'd ask me to send them stuff which isn't how a sugar relationship works and then they'd get mad when you ask how much is your allowance. I strongly suggest paypal, venmo, or even cash app because as sugar babies we deserve to be spoiled with being scammed.
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 63
Oh yes i have come across scammers the last guy was making all kinds of promises to me and i never asked for money he talked about having a great job overseas, plenty of clients that was on his payroll, then he started talking about being stuck overseas and not able to access his funds unril he got back he asked me to send him money for a ticket when i said i didnt have it he started changing saying i didnt love him enough to help him get home he made all kinds of promises to repay me if i got a loan i never replied back because i knew he was lying to me, he avoided questions about his job, family which was a red flag
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I have met many scammers on here and in seeking arrangement. The best way to tell if your daddy is a scam is if they ask for your bank information, no daddy should ever need that seeing as it has nothing to do with transferring money. Other ways are if your daddy doesn’t have photos and doesn’t want to send you one, or they message you then delete their account so you have to reach out to them on another site. I personally deal with them by using the lovely button called the block button.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 32
There is always a slew of scammers. The are money hungry, lying, cheating manipulators. I don't stand for the false SD profiles and feel like that should be covered and dealt with; something. I'm tired of the lies and manipulation honestly. They take from others in a way that I could never imagine going. Honestly is the best policy. Queens, stay woke.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 28
PayPal or Venmo are the best ways.. never share your bank info, and don’t be naive. We’re smarter than that! You’re looking for a man to spoil you, not put you in debt ! If he’s asked for your personal information such as your bank or ssn, report to Sudy and block them. There’s a lot of men who are looking for fun but are not a sugar daddy. Be smart!
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
I am new to Sudy and have already dealt with scammers . I figure they’re scammers because they have a problem sending little amounts of money . Remember ladies nothing is free , not even your voice . Make a sugar daddy act like a sugar daddy , not a friend . Usually there will establish an allowance before getting into anything . Be safe ladies and trust your gut .
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met a ton of scammers on here and everywhere else I’ve been! In fact, most of the people I’ve met and talked to were scammers. My best and only advice on how to deal with them is don’t deal with them. These people are just the scum of the earth trying to steal your money. The second they ask for your bank account information block and report them.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 30
I’ve had SEVERAL scammers message me on here. They ask for banking information then keep asking and get upset the moment you say no. However, be strict because there is THOUSANDS of ways to send money. I’ve had nothing but SCAMMERS message me wanting pictures or my banking information. It’s not hard to tell and half the time they only have one photo.
2023-03-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
Scammers will present themselves a lot when you’re a sugar baby. Apps, such as Sudy, do try to filter out the scammers but it is hard to do so do to how realistic they are. When Sudy says don’t give out your bank account information they aren’t joking. Salt daddy’s also known as scammers will make so many promises but just don’t give too much information.
2023-03-20
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Sugar Baby / 34
I h avent used this for very long, but in the short period of time I learned the hard way about scammers. They usually give you their phone number asking you to text them. Then theyy give you specific amount for your allowance. They tell youbthey don't deal with PayPal or any other type of thritd party methods to give you your allowance, unless it is through a bank account with your routing number and your login info... it's best to just stick with the third party methods and be aware.
2023-03-20
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Sugar Baby / 47
There are more scammers than real people out here. Babies gotta be smart. They are easy to spot. Real daddies will take the time to get to know you. They deffinately don't ask for personal information like bank acts. Being a baby isn't about the money it's about being treated right and spoiled in many ways not just with money. Keep looking you may find a diamond in the Cole mine.
2023-03-21
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes I have definitely met and delt with scammers! My first few days I got distraught because I couldn't find any sugar daddies who were willing to use PayPal. On that note to all my fellow sugar babies if you don't know already DO NOT GIVE ANYONE YOUR FINANCIAL INFORMATION. Yes there are good sugar daddies out there but there are also a lot of fakes! Do NOT do anything for a daddy unless he has already paid you. As I have always said ladies BE PAID DO NOT BE PLAYED!
2023-03-21
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Sugar Baby / 40
I have dealt with a lot of scammers on here. You know when they are a scammer cuz they ask for all your bank information like your login info and passwords. To deal with them is to report and block them. Big waste of time to get them to confess. Once blocked its up to study what they do with the person. Dont let anyone of that bother you just block and move on.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
This one guy thought I would be impressed with all of his flashy jewelry and his bmw and stacks of cash in his photos. The guy couldn’t even hold a conversation without mentioning that he was rich. I soon grew bored of him boasting about himself and he eventually confessed that he was a fraud after I stopped wanting to talk to him. There was no connection so I became uninterested but it just so happened that he was a scammer.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 35
They will promise you anything to get your information and you may have a moment where you think “eh, why not I’m already broke” but it is not worth it! They will pressure you and then mess up your accounts. Avoid the hassle by simply blocking them. When they ask you for your information and try to tell you that’s the only way they are comfortable then it is them guilting and scamming you. Don’t do it.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 34
Met a lot of scammers who try and get your bank information never give out any personal information that’s a no. Always do you research you never know who is truly behind the screen anyone can tell you they are who they say they are and end up catfishing and scamming you and pulling funds from your account. Don’t be too quick to jump on the first man or woman who offers you some TLC some of these people be fraud. So the best thing is to think first Before you react.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
unfortunately, scammers are everywhere. they’ll tell you that they can only pay you via deposit into your bank and ask your login information. DO NOT SHARE. i’d say the best thing to do is report their profile and block them. i’ve heard that it’s easier to prevent scammers talking to you if you’re verified on here or you’re a premium member, so maybe you can get yourself verified if you have a few minutes to spare.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 27
No I haven’t but if there is scammers I would say to them There is really no need to scam especially in social site we’re people are actually on this site trying to find a friend or lover And they might come across a scammer thinking there really on this site but whole time There just tryna to find out there personal information or screenshot it and post it somewhere else And that’s pointless and childish
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
The best way to deal with a SCAMMER is ask then to do something financially small. If they can't do and start talking bout putting you on a payroll and asking for your personal banking info, delete him. Ask for a photo of them doing something specific and if they can't delete them. Scammers come in many different ways, they will play on your emotions
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
Never give out your bank account info, never buy a card for them to put money on. Get yourself a PayPal, tell them to buy you gift cards, Amazon, whatever you want in your pocket. If it seems suspicious or too good to be true, it probably is. Block them. Forget about looking too greedy because a sugar daddy needs to prove that he can take care of you and isn't trying to scam or take advantage of you.
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
To deal with scammers avoid giving them your bank information or anything super personal. Try and ask them to do something small financially in order to verify they’re not real. Upon meeting, meet somewhere public to establish you’re not dealing with someone who could potentially be a fake. Don’t send nudes or meet up until you’re ready and feel comfortable, don’t be bribed into it.
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I have met scammers. There was one time when they were nice in the begging but kept on asking for details to get into my bank account t and when I said no thank you they got verbally abusive. I just stuck with my gut and told that person to not contact me again!I was hard to go through since I am new and never been that situation before but I stood my ground and he left me alone!
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 35
Ive been on suby gor less than 24hrs and had to deal with 2scammers already. They bith had the sane approach. Sending their kik and phone number right away. And quikly asking for bank info. My advice is to never give any of your personal info. There is plenty of way to received and send money that does not involve bank information... Be careful and use common sense.
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 40
Yes I have met a few scammers. The first thing they do is ask for banking info. Stuff they can get in and use your personal account a real sugar daddy does not need that or Care for it. He has his own account to worry about. Like some others are saying use your PayPal there is no discrepancies there and it is fool proof because you can then transfer it to your bank safely
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 36
I haven't been on long but all I've gotten are scammers so far. 1 the arent verified 2 they check to see if ur niev enough to fall for it and 3 so far they always ask for my password and login. They have plenty of "reasons" why they want to do it that way. "To make sure the money comes through" or "wanting to deposit a check personally to be safe" no no and 🙅 they might even act like they are attacted to u already and are completely in love.... With your profile. But alot of them sound very scripted any way
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 32
Pay attention to grammar. A real sugar daddy will have good grammar and well structured sentences. Also, check for a Facebook account or Instagram with the same person in the picture as the one you're talking to, to verify they are real. Don't give out banking info too early and stay vigilant and aware of how the sugar daddy reacts and answers your questions.
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 28
Scammers suck. Don’t ever do anything until you’ve been paid. If he asks for your bank info HE IS A SCAMMER!!!!!!!!!!!! Don’t give out your bank info no matter what!!!! Even if he seems trustworthy!!!! Block and delete and blow him up in your moments to worn other sugar babies about him in case he tries to contact other girls!!! Don’t fall for it!!
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes. I’ve encountered a scammer. BEWARE OF THEM! Someone asked for a picture of my bank card. Then tried to pressure me into opening up a coin base account. BIG NO NO! Please never give out any personal info or share any nudes. Keep as much as you can under wraps until you feel you can trust your sugar daddy/momma. And don’t feel obligated to sleep with anyone.
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 26
They usually give you a number to text. Then after talking for a little bit they’ll ask for your bank info and everything. When you refuse they get mad and either try to manipulate you or will leave you alone. If they won’t pay per meet or won’t send money through PayPal then it is probably a scam. Don’t give any bank info out. They say something about needing you to do some things for them that’s related to money.
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes ive come across with scammers . Always trust your gut . If their profile is imcomplete and they have poor grammar thats an automatic flag . Also if they give you an offer right off the bat its most likely a scam . Dont give in to then until you get what you want from them . To avoid scam ALWAYS take money from pay pal , venmo and cash app . NEVER GIVE OUT BANK INFO OR ANY PASSWORDS
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 39
Scammers are everywhere. Honestly you can never be too sure. Always ask for some form of identification that's not too personal but enough to confirm who they are such as a business card. Never give any sort of service freely without getting some sort of payment in advance. Like a partial payment & the rest later. Don't be so trusting & open with people. Trust your gut
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 31
Always be careful of scammers. I’ve met a few before that like to ask for your bank account info and like to ask for proof to see if your legitimate and will ask for nudes or video and never compensate. The best thing to do is always make sure they are financially stable and ask for something up to make sure everything goes as planned before sending anything
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
This is a big one! When dealing with anything online, there will always be the possibility of running into a scammer or two. Unfortunately, of no fault of their own, sudy is no exception. I have personally ran in to multiple scammers, and the best thing I can suggest is to report them and block them. There is no reason someone should be asking for physical banking information, do not let them con you into it! These people will try taking all the money from your account and leave you wondering how. Please be cautious when talking to anyone new online, even a potential SD.
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I've come across multiple scammers just within the first two or there days being on sudy! Luckily, I've followed my better conscience and it is important that all sugar babies abide by these rules. First, do NOT give out your bank information!! I personally ONLY use cash apps like PayPal and Venmo. Secondly, if a sugar daddy's account was made two days ago and they all send you similar messages like "hi, I'd love to spoil you. Here is my number and my social media username," they are most likely a scammer. And finally, block, report, or simply ignore those who you feel might be frauds! It's important to stay safe out there babies, it's very easy to fall for scammer's tricks sometimes. Always be cautious!
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 35
My biggest advice is to ignore them, report them, and lock them. You can usually tell by all the red flags when reading their profile and their response. As many already mentioned, they will usually try to get you to text off the bat and make an arrangement without actually knowing your yet. They usually ask for your banking information which you should never get out. Last but not least, there will be grammatical errors, and/or the location not making any sense. It may just be me, but if you run a business or in a very well paid position. I doubt that you would have grammatical errors, and would be willing to easily give away money.
2023-03-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
Be careful and absolutely don’t give out your personal information like your account numbers, logins , make sure you have built a connection with your Sugar Daddy and vice versa, anyone that jumps into money too quickly most likely is a scammer, yes money is a very important aspect of the Sugar Life but you should also be building a connection and truthful, trustworthy relationship with your Sugar partner. This applies to guys and girls
2023-03-31