How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 15
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 26
If they scam you block them and ask to see there real just as they ask you to Most of the scammers are fast to ask for you to prove your real but they won’t do the same “do you want money or not” or “i don’t have to prove anything your the sugarbaby not me” some of them can be quite rude but other times you will Get some lovely daddy’s although haven’t found much nice ones on this app
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have been on here only a small time but in other walks of life being a sugar baby have found heaps of scammers!! Be aware of who you are speaking to and what they are asking for, don’t buy the sob story!! I’ve met so many men who play a sob story then ask me to fund them in some way...nuhuh! Remember to be safe at all times and if it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t! I’ve been causght out before and sometimes think it was a blessing as it opened my eyes so much to how deceiving people can be and you don’t just trust someone right away you earn the trust!
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
yes, been scammed in my short time doing this. sd sent me the check virtually for me to scan, turned out that his bank account was closed. he also sent me obviously fake pictures after the check was scanned, since broke off contact with him and plan on letting other girls know his #, email, name and the pictures he claims to pass off as himself. an awful experience all around.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have met SOOOO many scammers!! The best way to avoid them is get them to send you something small ahead of time, and do not send them nudes or have sex with them until they are willing to give you even a small allowance. Send plenty of verification pictures but nothing nude. They WILL take your pictures and leave. You have to be honest from the start about what you want and not budge.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
I've had scammers ask for my bank account number and password and ask me to send them money on Apple gift cards. They are not sugar daddy's if you have to pay them lmaol. Another time someone sent me a check that bounced, luckily i knew the bank manager and got it sorted. It's best to just block them and never give sugar until you have met in person.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 39
Out of the 15 messages I’ve reveived in my inbox, only 9 haven’t been from profiles that have been removed by user... and I think maybe only 3-4 are from actual human beings; not robot 🤖 profiles. You can usually tell from the get go. NEVER GIVE OUT ANY PERSONAL info: no bank passwords, no account numbers, selfies or photos. But also don’t be rude to potential SD’s. Just be straight up and honest and ask for what you seek. I usually ask for a proof photo with their profile name: similar to beauty verification. It’s all about the ebb and flow of conversation. If it’s one sided, you’re probably dealing with scammers/bots/thieves. Stay grounded, stay head strong and be SMART!
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 40
DO NOT GIVE OUT ANY Personal informational there is scam artist that will cat fish you and rip you off talking like there this there that and then saying baby I need your bank card number and name and security questions and answers and your password. Thank god im smarter then that called my bank and asked them what I do when someone asks for this. I knew right away there was something up with it but I dbl checked and sure enough it’s a scam artist. So be careful
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 29
I think the best way is to observe their profile pic. And the rest of it. If it seem so majestic and grand the chances of it being a scammer is high. Or he only provide one pic. Other than that refuses to give their face pics. Next is just to follow with their stories. Some might be good and make it sound sweet and caring or tragedy. But remember, the moment he ask for bank account number then it is a scammmer.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes, my first time creating an account i woke up the next morning with 6 messages and every last one of them were a scam... For one i told them I don't give out any of my bank info and I told the other I don't have an bank account and he kept insisting that I open one... Then I had some ask me to buy 2 $100 iTunes cards and I said no.. Don't give in ladies it's not worth it
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 43
All, I have been contacted on here is by scammers. Saying that they can only pay me by having my bank app login info. an information on my bank account or my credid card info. I just started saying I closed my cards and bank account due to scammers. They like to say that they are over seas & have people over there money I said Western Union or mail me a check no bank information from me.
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 44
I was just messaged by a scammer on sudy the other day. Bad grammar and the picture he sent me was not the same as the profile pic he used, claiming he doesn't want to use his real pic on the profile. You just have to trust your gut. Do no give out your banking info Go with your instincts. Meet in a public place and let a friend know where you are going before hand.
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I have met some scammers the best way I would suggest dealing with them is be smart about it if they ask for your bank information right now don't give it to them have them pay you through PayPal or something like that and they'll probably offer to give you a huge amount right off the bat trust yourself and if it seems shady don't do it also get to know them first
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 28
The biggest thing that you’ll immediately notice is offputting is the messages with a telephone numbers& the $700 weekly allowance bull. They always end up lying & asking you for your bank information & if you express you only use CashApp or PayPal they’ll say how their account was hacked and they need your bank info. Like girl don’t even waste the time
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 50
Yes I've met scammers I've even met a chick daddy camera that had me send him money instead of him sending me money he said that he needed me to show that I was real and for me to send him $100 Amazon card and he was an intern send me $3,300 but when it was time for me to get the other $300 I never saw it he just took the number from the Amazon card and disappeared and never text me again
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
Have them do a seriousness fee of an amount thru PayPal. If they're serious about it they will do so but even a sugar daddy shouldn't ask right off bat. Tell me an allowance first do what a sugar daddy should. Being that we are the sugar babies and our in control of out own rules and regulations. They need to respect the fact. If you really are unsure maybe raise the price to see just how serious.
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes. Scammers are awful. Key things to look for in a scammer are if they ask for way to much personal info..name address bank info. Pics. They will use your pictures to create fake profiles and use your bank info to steal your money. They best advice I can give is to never give bank Info. Use things like pay pal if someone is willing to send you money
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
A huge red flag is if they say that they HAVE to use your bank, western bank, any kind of payment card, ect. I’ve noticed that a lot of the scammers on here will say that they have their spending limit thing is almost up so they can’t pay you and the “orphanage” then they ask if they can send you all of the money and then send the rest to the orphanage. They usually start out by saying they want to pay you $600 or so a week, ect.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have met scammers and it’s only my 3rd day on this app. These men are super crazy so ladies please be AWARE, Safee and careful. If they say something that have to do with a bank account it’s an automatic scam ladies. If he asks about gift card, I tunes card it’s a scam don’t believe him. I can’t believe how many people come just to scam other women it’s sick.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
No I haven't met any scammers as yet but an advice I would give to you if you find yourself in a situation with one is to block and delete you don't want to associate yourself with them kind of people.I know some of you would ask how if you don't want to block him, then in that case, then u have to come up with a solution to problem. Ohhhh plz avoid sharing nudes, its so ducked up.
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes, you meet scammers all the time. Most of the daddies you will encounter will be scams. Which totally blows, but you start to find those real ones. When you meet a scammer, you have to be firm and stand your ground. Don’t let them sweet talk their way into getting something. Also be aware of the signs ‼️ Those really fishy accounts who only have one picture or an empty bio. Or who say “hey baby I looked through your profile text me or add me on kik” blah blah. Just watch out for yourself, girls. Y’all don’t wanna get caught in a situation that you are gonna regret.
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes there are plenty of scammers everywhere. I’ve used this app for sugar as well as seeking arrangement and it’ll happen regardless. They usually approach you by offering $400 or $500 a week, saying they’re respectful, leaving a phone number and asking what bank you use. They will then tell you to text or kik them and ask for your bank username and password. They can access your account as long as you let them so don’t waste your time on a message that seems like a scam. Usually if you don’t reply to them they will delete that account or it will be deactivated, don’t text the number that they leave behind. It’s easy to be safe, just stick to cash and apps like PayPal and Venmo. Also, don’t give up there are plenty of scammers but there are also plenty of sugar daddies with certain preferences.
2023-04-26
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes I have dealt with scammers and the I didn’t deal with them because I never gave them anything. I always make sure that they are willing to pay before sending or doing anything first making sure they are legit. The most important part of being a sugar baby is not giving personal information ever !!
2023-04-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes ! Many ! Any sugar daddy who wants your bank info , password , etc isn’t for real ! So many of them will message saying that you can send them your bank info and password & they will deposit it right away . Don’t let that number ever excite you enough to give those away !! A real sugar daddy will never ask for those !
2023-04-26
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Sugar Baby / 35
Scammers, aargh. The best way to recognize one is to trust your gut and use your common sense. Avoid investing in someone unwilling to invest in you. Someone who jumps straight into send me nudes, give your number, let's meet raise red flags. Take the time to get to know a guy, read between the lines. Avoid those who talk about violence and abuse. Don't give away personal information to them until you have gotten to know them well. Meet in public places for the first time. Remember it's better to be cautious than sorry
2023-04-27
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Sugar Baby / 32
I’ve been a SB for a while and scammers are EVERYWHERE! As soon as you start talking, ask them to verify (online, usually a piece of paper with your name and date or something, or a live pic) and you do the same, if they don’t or they disappear- you know. Also anyone asking you to open a new bank account or anything to do with you buying an “iTunes card” ...block ... a ive had a few legit SDs and when they are real, you’ll know.. x x
2023-04-28
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have come across a few scammers some of them do not have photos so you want to make sure they verify their sudy account and also send you allowance before anything. Real sugar daddies know how to take care of themselves like gentlemen and they will act that way as well. Stop posting nudes on here and throwing it around like it's a toy because that's what attracts most scammers.
2023-04-30
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Sugar Baby / 38
I recently delt with someone who was very persistent on me going to get them an iTunes card. He just kept insisting that I go get it so he could get an app and be able to send me money. The app is free so thats what made it sound very suspicious so I blocked him on kik. It just didnt make sense nor did it feel right so i just stopped communicating with him. It was kinda weird.
2023-05-01
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve dealt with a couple scammers. Off the bat they ask for your phone number and not talk through this app, second they ask for bank account information and third I check any pictures they send me. Once they guy lies about his dog. Sent me a picture, I downloaded it, and went on a website that traces where that picture shows up! And caught him in a small lie so obviously to me that was more of a liar and scammer. Another one asked for my phone model, phone number, and phone service, luckly I don’t use my own phone number other wise I feel like he could some how track/trace and scam me. So check all picture I think the website is calle blue eye.com ill doubt check, but its so helpful to make sure the picture is about the people they say they are. No cat-fishing and scamming if you just check. Never give your phone number use a free texting app if needed
2023-05-02
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Sugar Baby / 29
So many people have tried to scam me if it wasn’t for not having a bank account I would of been scammed. My advice is they talk a good game they know exactly what to say so you’ll trust them. DONT give in don’t give them your bank information or go get a iTunes card or amazon. It’s hard to find a legit sugar daddy but it’ll be worth it once you come across the perfect one so don’t give up
2023-05-02
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Sugar Baby / 31
Unfortunately, I met a scammer I thought I can trust. I confronted him but he keep continuing to play dumb by saying “Oh my accountant never did that”, “oh those money are legit! Not a fraud!”. Now my bank account is deactivated for the rest of my life and they ask me to bank on different bank now. Anyway, I can’t really do a playing game because it’s all my fault. I acted impulsively and didn’t listen to my big fat head when it told me to stop listening to my heart. All I can say now... is good luck with everyone. If you met a scammer? Scam them first. Get the money they gave you as soon as possible.
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
Respect yourself and know your end game. Take your time to find the ones who you'll enjoy spending time with and have something to say. You don't want to be stuck with someone who doesn't excite you mentally and physically. Scammers will ask for banking info right off the bat or ask for nudes. Instead stay safe and use 3rd party like PayPal or Square. Even Etransfer works.
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 51
I ha e been on Sudy for about a week. Every sugar daddy that I have had communication with so far, HAS BEEN A SCAMMER! They want my bank account, username, password, login info. Credit card information. They must think I am stupid. They say they don't have any social media apps to do video chats in order to verify they are even the person they show in their profile, if there is a picture. Really, I tell them,so you make over 100 to 300 thousand dollars a year, and you can not down load messenger, Skype, Kik, WhatsAp, ......and your only able to send money through my bank or credit card. Interesting. So really you have no money and want to take my money when i am down and struggling, desperate to pay my rent and survive. Ok. ALWAYS ASK FOR A VIDEO CHAT VERIFICATION CONVERSATION IF THEY ARE NOT NEAR YOU. NEVER GIVE YOUR BANK ACCOUNT OR CREDIT CARD INFORMATION TO ANYONE. ALWAYS INSIST THEY GIVE YOU AN ALLOWANCE BEFORE EVER GIVING UP PICS OR VIDEOS OF YOURSELF. TURN EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM INTO THE SITE OR APP SECURITY CONTACT LINK. EVERY TIME. MAYBE WE CAN ACTUALLY SEE OR FIND 1 REAL SUGAR DADDY IN OUR LIFE TIME. NOT LOOKING PRONISSING FOR THESE APPS THO. WASTE OF OUR TIME AND ENERGY WHEN WE ALREADY ARE AT THE END OF OUR ROPE WITH BEING BROKE AND STRESSED!!I SAY IF IT CONTINUES WE ALL START TURNING IN THE APPS TO THE PROPER AUTHORITIES. BECAUSE IT ALMOST SEEMS AS THO THEY ARE THE SCAMMERS. IF ITS THE ONLY PEOPLE ON THE APPS!!! JUST SAYING!SENT SUDY THIS TODAY.FIX IT OR YOUR A S
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 28
I’m new to the site in search of finical hell as well as guidanc. This is maybe my 5th day using this app and I already encountered 4 “sugar mama” scammers all conversations started normally explaining why there here and how they’d like to be discreet also discussing my allowance but after we agree on an amount they immediately asked for banking info some asked for my bank account password while the more recent asked for my cash app and PayPal username and password. I’m not to sure how to spot them or how to handle the situation other then stop replying just hope I can find a real person willing to help soon I’m in need
2023-05-03
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Sugar Daddy / 51
I have lost over 11k in here. Been catfished I’m using one being a guy! Stood up dozens of time including sitting at airports waiting for “her” to get off the plane only to find she stole the ticket. I have even been robbed I now have zero tolerance with people who want anything before we meet... always meet in public. Like a casino where security and cameras for both of our safety.. and must have verification photo sent holding a random object to know it isn’t a staged picture. No real phone number. Your blocked. Your either real or your not...
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 29
Recently had a sugar daddy that tried to get me to give him my bank info!! He told me this long backstory that made sense but once he asked for my personal info I new right away it was a scam. Do some SB seriously think it's a good idea to give that away? My goodness: be safe out there. PayPal Only <3
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve meet more scammers than sugar daddies... if they insist that you have active bank account, credit card, or say they can only deposit checks through online mobile banking, they’re most likely a scan. A lot of them are really good at it as well, they’ll talk to for days and some won’t ask for you bank info right off the bat. Also try to talk to them on different social media platforms, keep yourself private of course and mindful of what you post, and your location settings.
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
i think everyone’s been scammed in their search for a sugar daddy. whether that be just by someone not doing what they said they would, or even someone taking your bank information and scamming you that way. the best way to steer clear of that type of scamming is to only use paypal or venmo, or even just using cash during transactions of allowances or other payments.
2023-05-04
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have met a lot of scammers on this site, when I have met up no allowance after so I don’t trust anyone that does not send anything beforehand. There are a lot of time wasters on this site who get what they want from their babies but don’t give back. Give and receive is a 2 way thing, I believe.
2023-05-04
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Sugar Baby / 47
Dont give bank account or accept checks at all ,us cash app or PayPal ext.. ladys if they say it's a cashier check and you deposit and he says I'm going to give up to such a month and mail back the rest it's a Scam ,these are ppl that are on all sites like Lego, offer up , ect... it's a big Scam that's going around like what happened to the young lady that gave her bank acct
2023-05-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
I’ve honestly crossed a few scammers a lot of them on sudy say the same exact thing or if I do end up messaging them on kik I always ask them to verify themselves if they can’t then I will delete or block them. Another scam is when they ask for any bank info or if they ask you to purchase a gift card for them. A real SD will never ask for anything.
2023-05-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
Normally if they ask you to open up another bank account they are scammers if they ask you for your bank information they are normally scammers there are ways around it like actually giving cash wiring money or PayPal cash app there are too many ways than just settling for a bank account that to me is just a sign of a scammer right away you should watch out
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 25
The key to dealing with scamers is simple...don't let the Sugar life make you stupid. If someone is interested in you, Great. But that doesn't mean I'm giving you my user name and password in order for you to send me money. That's dumb. There are wire transfers, Cash App, and/or PayPal. Keep your information private. Also stay away from elaborate ridiculous stories....like I'm traveling out of the country but I lost my wallet...give me money to get home so I can be with you and give you the world. Nnormally, if it doesn't make sense it's not true. Be smart!
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes the scammers are real. Especially if they ask you to get stuff for them even before they even send you your allowance. Also not wanting to send pictures of themselves as proof but wanting nudes from you. Beware of them. Also dont go out without letting someone know your location. Trust your gut instincts if you feel like they are sketchy they just might be.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 56
Don’t give anything up unless you see green. He’s not stupid he knows you are there to be taken care of. He may get offended but you need to know the deal and make sure he’s not trying to pull a fast one. So many men have written don’t bring up money.... why? You want love??? It’s an effen arrangement! Be real and honest then we can be real and honest. Men are users if they will use you if they can without helping you with one cent, if they can get away with it.
2023-05-10
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Sugar Baby / 28
Lol I didn’t get scammed but, some of the “SD” on here must think we not smart at all. Two people that messaged me both asked what my bank account info is and really thought I was gone give that information to them. But Sugar babies please be careful tell them upfront that you only accept money using cash apps.
2023-05-10
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Sugar Baby / 37
I was scammed when a SD payed my bills then reversed the charges. Caused a major dent in my credit because of delinquencies. Cash is best. I don't do long distance anymore. Also, let messages sit for a few hours at least to see if they delete their profile soon after messaging. Anytime contact info is given too quick or they ask for bank info: major red flag
2023-05-10
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Sugar Baby / 27
Oh yeah. This guy went on and on about how he didn't trust sites like PayPal or venmo. I asked him if he wanted the link to my Amazon account for an egift card and he completely ignored it. Just kept asking for my bank acc number, and then my online banking login. My suggestion is to block them the moment it starts to feel fishy. If it feels too good to be true, it probably is.
2023-05-11
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Sugar Baby / 43
The 1st clue seems to be the same messages... from atleast 10 different guys all word from word. Then they pretend to offer you thus huge allowance but it can only be transferred through his business account lol... Then they try & get your personal info(DO NOT GIVE THEM ANY OF YOUR PERSONAL INFO) I was asked for sign in information for my bank account lol... I've even been ask ed for me to send a copy of my id to them bol. These creeps will eventually get frustrated with not being able to scam you and curse you out lmbo.. This site is flooded with them. Makes it hard to even want to still attempt to see what the sugar baby life is like. Im telling you ladies and guys.. My friend sent me here and meet the guy of almost her dreams lol... Im not giving up. Just not holding my breath to a fairy tale ending like she got. Who knows i may get lucky, i may not but the experience and poeple ive met so far on here are awesome.
2023-05-11
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Sugar Baby / 28
Normally they send one message saying that they want you to be their baby right off the back. Suspicious without talking to you. Then they ask who you bank with. Pretty annoying tbh. I ignore all messages that say “ I want you to be my baby I’ll pay you $500 a week” if they haven’t been talking to me.
2023-05-12
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Sugar Baby / 33
scammers are so common in the sugar baby and sugar daddy lifestyle. they lead you on and make you think that they are good people when they aren't at all. you end up wasting valuable time and end up empty handed. ask questions up front and always make sure your not paying for any kind of gift cards or iTunes cards.
2023-05-13