Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 9
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Sugar Baby / 34
For now yes. Why? Well because i am a private person first of all. I kept my non existent relationships private too. Or my situationships private because these are things that are important to me. Its important for to handle these things on my own. No point to put everything out there just for it to fail 1 day later... At least this way when things dont work out you dont have to repeat yourself explaining to ppl what happen. Also when things are not going well you dont to have ppl asking of how is this person doing? How is this and that going? I just keep things to myself. If i find someone on here who actually wants yo commit to a relationship with me and we are doing well and are aligned and have been getting ti know one an other for a long time then my close friends will know him
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do because my mother would feel as though I am breaking some kind of family morals. Also it is seemed shameful by those who don't understand the difference between prostitution and being a sugar baby. They place both in the same category, which I am not a prostitute. So I guess you could say I keep it a secret so I won't break my family's heart, especially my mother's.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 41
Yes, I find that it's best to keep this aspect of my life to my self to avoid judgment. People always go back to what stands out in there minds . What people don't know they can't judge me for or by. Discreet, yet very much an opened book. If at any time I am asked by someone interested in me, I always have to be true mostly because it's who I am and all
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 33
I don’t keep it a secret, this is another app where people converse and find friendship or more nearly everyone I know or talk to uses one or more of these apps. I prefer to talk about it especially since I love the set up and the way this app works along with all of the features so I love to tell my friends and my audience actually along with my fans about this app
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 56
Although my sugaring isnt a COMPLETE secret, I do not share openly with most people. I have a few very close friends who I talk to about it. Sadly, all of my stories at this point are about fake profiles trying to get financial information FROM me so they can scam me. If a man wants my login for my bank or credit card number, I know he is a fraud. I am not a stupid or naive woman!
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 28
Ita a secret becauae i like secrets and keeping things descreet i like to play hide and seek with my babies i like to tease and do it in a way no one else knows but in public places i like horny guys but not in public so it needs to be a secret i love cock thats needs to stay a secret i jusht wqnt cock all the time but i keep it on the low because i find that sexy
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 33
Everything should be confidential because you never know who knows what or who. You never know if you and someone share the same SD so it could be a problem eventually. I love it better when the SD & I only knows what goes between the 2, he would love it as well. He would be willing to do more & allow more in the relationship. It’s all about making sure he’s comfortable.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 30
I’ll keep my sugar daddy a secret from my family because they wouldn’t understand . Exactly if it a older guy . And most of the time the best sugar daddies are married so I’m sure he’ll keep me a secret too , which is fine by me . That means more money spent on me !!!! If my sugar daddy is ever not be kept a secret until I’m ready than he might not me for me
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 40
Yes, what happens between me an a sugar daddy stay between us. Very discreet an respectful. I would like something real all though not much going on this site except scams. Where is my sugar daddy I need you. ............. ........ .......................................................................................................................
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 42
Keeping my sugar daddy a secret . I'm going to go with yes an no . Yes because I don't want any other sugar baby tryn to take him away from me . Another reason I would keep him a secret would be if I was to have a man . I would never leave my sugar daddy alone I would keep him forever. An the reason I wouldn't keep it a secret would be because I like to show off my man . Love to be seen with him.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve only told three of my closest friends that I’m trying to be a sugar baby. I feel like if I told my family or even people I’m not that close with they would judge me for it and think I’m a prostitute or something even though there’s a big difference. I’m hoping maybe later in my life if I have a long term arrangement I’ll be able to come out about it.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 26
In the state we're in now, the first thing that pops in someones head when they hear "sugar daddy/sugar baby" they think of low-key prosititution. Of course, it's not really like that, but they have that in their heads and it's hard to break what someones opinions are. For some sb, like me, it's hard to tell people that we are sugar babies because of that preconceved notions they have. People can judge us in the wrong way and it can be very damaging at times.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 30
I prefer to keep it private because that’s the kind of person I am. In any kind of relationship I pursue I like a certain level of confidentiality. What goes on between my partner and I, whether it be an argument or sexual exploits, is our business alone. What’s the point of being in a relationship or having a Daddy if everyone knows your business and the inner workings of your relationship? If you’re not the one I’m in a relationship with mind your own damn business and keep it moving.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes...what I want for me and my SD is between him and I. I know what I want and need, therefore my relationships are direct. The only person/people who need to know about my arrangements are those involved! I love intimacy and privacy so while we are seeking each other, I prefer it to be private. There nothing wrong with a secret...especially when they’re handsome and wealthy ❤️
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 36
Yrs I keep everything on the low its no1 else's business what I got going on in my life but my sugar momma. I will be hers and she will be mine's. There's no in between.... I am a private person and I choose to be because not alot of people understand this life style, and I just dont have time for comments on what im doing with MY life, and who wants someone asking them a billion questions is not me.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 28
I keep my sugaring a secret for now as my friends and parents wouldn’t approve of me dating an older guy. However, once they meet the guy I choose to be my sugar daddy, I hope that will change, and they will come to see him as the right guy for me - especially when they see how much he loves and cares for me and how much I will love and care for him.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 32
I keep my sugaring a secret at the beginning of the relationship as I do anyone. Once things get more serious I do start to tell my best friends and closest friends. I don’t have any problem being seing in public with my sugar daddy, no one should. They deserve the same treatment that they give you and I’m sure they like to flaunt their sugar babies
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do keep my sugaring a secret. I feel like society isn’t at the point where it’s matured enough to understand that there are more complex and advanced type of relationships such as a sugar relationship. I think that if society can’t accept homosexuality, how could it except a younger women and an older man spending time togther, with or without cash exchange.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 32
I guess I would only share with those I'd feel comfortable with? I may share that I've made a new friend or met and experience something fun with someone new. But I may not enclose my full relationship with someone. Many people would have different views on the situation and may not see it in a positive light. As such I may trim details and share only what they need to know.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep sugaring a secret from my family. I’m not ashamed at all though, all of my friends know. I keep it a secret from them because they are extremely religious, they would never approve. Yes I am 18 but I still want my parents to think of me as the girl they think I am. It’s also great to have people in your life who know about sugaring because they make you feel proud of your decisions.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 31
Right now, yes... I don't really know how I feel about publicly exposing my sexual preferences. I think for most sugar babies, it's a very simple exchange of needs; but from me, the requests and expectations would seem sadistic, maybe even masochistic in the making. The scary thought of my dad's reaction, doesn't help me lean towards the world's everlasting reasoning😆🤣😂
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 29
Absolutely not. I think it’s such a wonderful opportunity to meet people from all over the world that can offer you exactly that - the world. Just as society has embraced online dating, Uber, and other ingenious movements, we must also move past the stigma of “sugar babies” and embrace our desire to be loved and treated no less than what we deserve. I say own the title of sugar baby/daddy and be proud that you know what you want and how to get it.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 26
I currently keep it a secret because I don’t know how people will react. I have only told my best friend and he told me I shouldn’t do it. Maybe I should listen to him, but I mean nobody else has the money to spoil me. I deserve to be spoiled and get new things just like anyone else, right?! And all these fake sugar daddies on this app isn’t helping.
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 32
Well im a cun and would like to meet some one my level for once and love sex and trying new things lol besides sex i want a great buddy one lover u knoso ween i wake up i the moring im not upset at whay i wake up too i grown and i want ever one aroung me to do the same thing but ever one is not the same wee are all deffent in a way so im her to meet some o e lkle me
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 33
I personally don't keep it severely at all. My whole family knows everything I do. I have no shame in my game. I've only had one sd and the ready were just clients id see for evetra money. But yeah anyways my family are my biggest supporters. They are your chearleader and motivators Unless he's being discreet the that's wrong to me to be really was
2023-01-11
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Sugar Baby / 31
To answer would I keep my SD a secret ? NO !! That will only make you lose your SD .. I wouldn't keep my SD a secret just for the fact he will keep me happy , I get allowance , trips , shoppings sprees basically anything to keep me happy . ALSO , you can't forget to keep your SD happy and satisfied with his needs that's he needs . Never feel ashamed for being with someone who takes care of you
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 30
I do becuase I like to keep the different parts of my life separate from each other. I don't like my dating life being interfered with by the judgements of others. This lifestyle is not widely accepted and I do not have the patience to hear what negative things people have to say. People have a hard time seeing that it is okay to benefit from any kind of relationship in your life.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 27
In my opinion it should be keep private. I wouldn't want my church family or mother or whom ever knowing about it. Or getting to know my sugar daddy. That's personal and private. Some people are judgmental of it becasue they don't understand and keeping it discreet prevents the judgmental backlash 😔😔 but it works for me. And it works for him.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes sugaring should be something private between both parties unless both parties aren't ashamed of they lifestyle.However for me it wouldn't be like having a sugar daddy because i genuinely love dating older men and if asked he is my man..But some people just dont need to be in anyone business on who they fuckin and what they getting out of it...😊
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 28
i keep my sudy a secret because if i didn’t my friends and family would judge me and tell me to get a job. but really i like doing this better. it gives me more pleasure than any job would and it’s very beneficial to me. i don’t tell anyone but my closest friends because they are supportive and have a sudy too. we all enjoy it and keep it a secret.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes because a lot of people have there own stereotypes of what they think a SD and SB is. There are lots of miscommunications about that topic and people might get the wrong idea because they uneducated on what a SD and SB relationship consists of. Unless both people decide that discretion isn’t necessarily, I feel like it should be kept as a secret.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 29
The ways in which sugar relationships are portrayed and stigmatized in pop culture and media leave bad impressions on the general public. I have also shared these same beliefs in the past, but when really questioned about it, I was given an opportunity to really think about the negativity these relationships could bring about, and no real reasoning was explored. I feel comfortable talking to an older man, and feel more secure if he is established in life and would love to share his interests with me as I would with him!
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes. I think that the two people in the relationship should be the ones to define what they are doing with each other and determine whalether or not they want others to know about it. I personally wouldnt tell people I am a "sugar baby" as I find the term to have negative effects on people in society, but I would not be ashamed to disclose that I am talking with/seeing you. The meaning of our relationship isnt anyonr else's business but our own.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 28
Although the sd/sb relationship isn't all bad, the society doesn't accept it publicly. And ao when you do have this relationship, you have to keep it a secret in order for you to avoid being judged by others who at most, are probably involved in this type of relationship or something "dirtier". Everyone looks for a reason to judge. If they don't have one, they will resort to making it up.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 25
I think its best kept secret at least for me in my lifestyle. Since I am only 18 many people would look down on me or be concerned but everything is based solely on what the SB/SD discuss. I like that it doesnt have to be known in public and its all based on the personal interests/ goals of each person. Since it can also be primarilt for financial gain i dont see a reason it has to be public. Its like an investment
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 26
I only share being a sugar baby with close friends because many of people are blind to what we really do and stand for I am here to make willing daddies happy and in exchange I get rewarded for such things many people think we are “whores” etc. but we are not. So I don’t really keep my sugar activity under wraps unless I feel o need to because I’ll never be ashamed of what I do.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 37
Well my answer is Yes and No both. Yes, if my sugar daddy wants to keep secret then ofcourse Yes I'll keep it secret too. And if He is willing to show the world that He is having a sugarbaby or a Girlfriend then No, I will not hide this also Basically I don't have any problem to accept the fact that yes I'm having a sugar daddy because I have that much courage to face the World. Look world will judge you on whatever you do Sooooo just live your life the way you want to...
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 32
It’s being kept a secret because I feel like it’s not something I can advertise without having other people criticize and shoot my down for what I’m doing. Though it is a very “hit and miss” situation; it’s still something people will hate me for and make fun of me for. There are the positives though, just have to find them! Maybe everything will work out for the better. :)
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 33
I keep my sugaring a secret because I dontbwant my family tonfind outnbecause they are very strict when it comes to religion and stuff!!!! I also keepnit a secret because maybe my sugar daddy dont want his friends or family to find out. So there for all secrects are kept with me sonhit me and lets make it happen!!! All secrects are safe with me!!!!
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 32
I would prefer to keep my sugaring secret. I have a lot of family that would look down upon this sort of thing. Plus I live and work in a small town where I am raising my 3 year old son as a single mommy and I do not want any sort of back lash at my work place or with people I may cross paths with in the future. This is also my first time trying something like this and I am a little nervous about what to expect.
2023-01-12
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes I do, because I know that people judge this type of thing no matter what. It’s also just an awkward topic altogether to be honest. I don’t want to talk about getting money to entertain men... who wouldn’t have their own opinions? But hey, they can have whatever opinions they want because I don’t care about what they are. So to some, I will tell about it. But for the most part, it’s my little secret.
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I keep it a secret because both parties need discretion initially. After boundaries have been set up with the sugar daddy then decisions can be made as to whether it becomes a more public affair or not. Ideally I’d like it to be a secret but with the option to go out and do stuff as a couple. There’s no point going g for dinner if the sugar daddy is scared of being seen
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
This Isnt for everyone. Nor is it anyone’s business what goes on in my life. Then if I told them it would be waaayyyy too easy for literally everyone . And hey who knows one of the inexperienced could mess It up for a lot of us on here.. we don’t want to be left out all because someone who doesn’t live this lifestyle wants to come and mess things up!
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
because my parents won't like the idea that I date an older guy for money ,even if the money is for my college tuition.. and it would make my image bad if this information gets leaked out to someone that knows me, then I will have no future left, considering that I'm still underage.. but if I'm in a legal age, I would consider of going public with my relationship as bf and gf, but not as SD and SB
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, personally I keep my relationships secret Because it is not accepted where I live, but I still think that if you and your partner are willing to be open about it, there is no reason to keep it a secret. So basically I keep my relationships secret, but if both parties consent to being open about the relationship, then there is no problem with it! 😊
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do keep it a secret because most people in today’s society frown upon stuff like this. I guess they look at it as if it’s prostitution. I keep mine a secret especially because I know my family would basically disown me if they found out I was doing this. They’re very traditional when it comes to living your life and they don’t like me dating older men but what they don’t understand is that I find it easier to communicate and get along with older men. Especially because they’re so much more mature than the guys my age.
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes, because not everyone can understand this kind of lifestyle specially in our country. And I believe this is a personal matter so it should be kept between the two companions. Sugaring is not a bad idea , ofcourse right thing to do is work on your own and not depend onother people. But if you have a very good reasons to do so, why not? Atleast you do it legal:)
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do keep my syagring secret. Particularly because it's no one's business but me an my daddy. No one has to know what we do to have fun in our time. Some people are open about it and some aren't. I feel better being closed about it. It's always fun keeping things a secret. I find it quite adventurous for me and my daddy to sneak around. Sometimes getting caught is just what you need.
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 39
Discretion will add to the fun. You can be anyone you want to be when it’s discreet...a French maid etc...so yea I really believe that if things are more of a secret or done behind doors kind of deal it will be so much more fun. Just like the saying goes, be a lady in the street but a freak in the sheets, that’s exactly is what is meant. In public you behave, but behind closed doors....well you know....
2023-01-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
No, I don't I don't find any shame in being a sugar baby. The people who are important to me accept anything I choose to do. I don't think there is any reason for me to hide what I do. Maybe that's just because I am a cam and fettish model and my friends and family can come across it any point making me less scared to be found out for what it do. I prefer to live life go with the flow and if they don't respect me I don't need them in my life.
2023-01-13