Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 8
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Sugar Baby / 29
I feel it's always best to be honest and open with who you are, as well as what you look for in what you do. Whether it's what you do for a living or something you just like to do on occasion, you should just be open about. The more open you are with that special someone whether it's an relationship or open relationship the more strong in bondage it will become in reliablity.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
Personally I do not keep my sugaring a secret. I've been well taken care of my entire life and will continue to do so. I encourage women and men who want to be a sugar baby to seek out people who really do enjoy spoiling someone. As long as it isn't hurting the giver financially (this isn't a poor mans sport). Everyone deserves someone who compliments their lifestyle.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't tell anyone about being a sugar baby because in my experience, it instantly changes people's perception of you. They instantly start treating you differently and it isn't something most people just forget so you have to watch out that people don't hold it over you. The biggest reason is just the fact that it really doesn't concern anyone other than me and my sugar momma.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
No I don't keep my sugaring a secret. This is because I have a girl that I am in a current relationship with. Keeping it a secret would violate our trust. I want to be open and honest with both my sugar daddy and my girlfriend.. That way it won't be any confusion or misunderstanding between anyone. I do keep it a secret from family because I don't need them in my business.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 31
I am selective of who I share my sugaring experiences with. I choose to keep my experiences private from family, professional acquaintances and my less open-minded friends. However I am very open with my close friends and romantic partners about my past and present experiences. That being said I always respect the privacy of my SDs by not giving away any personal or private information such as; names, addresses, place of work or income.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
For right now yes. Its personal business and its not something the whole world needs to know about. I'm still trying things out with this app in general to see how things go. A few people have "liked" me and a few have contacted me but no one so far has seemed to match with me. Even if something works out its still personal business and I don't think itll be something I'll be super open about just cause its not important for other people to really know about.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 42
I'm a very private person generally so yes I would most definitely keep this a secret. I don't feel it's anyone else's business so I respect the other person's privacy. I feel that the decisions we make in life are personal and unique to each individual so there is no reason why anyone needs to know about my personal sex life. Let's have fun and enjoy our time together.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
I keep it a secret to protect the identity of my daddy. Most of the time he wants to remain unknown.I'm perfectly ok with that and can respect their privacy. I also understand that my daddy has a life and possibly a reputation to protect. As a suga baby, it's my responsibility to assist in that duty. When my daddy is happy and comfortable, I can also be happy and comfortable. This will allow him to be comfortable sending his time with me instead of worrying about other things.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 47
I have to keep this secret from everyone in my life. For one, its more exciting that way and for two, my friends and family would think I'm crazy. And maybe I am. I just love the way keeping this a secret makes me feel. And maybe someday I'll be able to share, but for now its gonna be hush-hush. No one needs to know what I'm doing behind closed doors
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 35
I would keep my Sugar Daddy a secret. There's just something about having a secret to yourself. Having everyone wonder where you are getting all the nice things, having extra money at your disposal, and being picked up in a luxury car from all the social gatherings. It is the rush you feel knowing something others do not know. That is why I would keep my Sugar Daddy a secret.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 31
Sometimes when I first started something like this I would keep it a secret .. but now I'm to the point that where I don't even care .. because that man that I keep a secret from gives me nice things , money and basically anything I want and I do things to satisfy him so I just never understood the point of hiding it .. like c'mon babe let's snap up some pictures
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 32
Hell no. I brag about it. Look what my daddy just bought me. Look how much allowance he gave me today. I'll be posting pictures and bragging all over social media. I want everyone to see how spoiled I am. It's so hot. And that way my SD will get the satisfaction and thrill of spending money on me. I can't wait to be someone's SB. SO hurry up. I can't wait forever.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have no shame in my sugaring I let the world know what I do! It is so amazing to be able to be a sugar daddy too a beautiful young lady is one of my favorite things in the world I don't know why anyone would want to keep it secret there's nothing to be ashamed of. It is not homosexuality or something like that so I don't see why you should keep it a secret
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 31
No I told a couple friends about it family-wise yes because I don't want them to know none of my business only people I would tell if my close friends other than that no one I'm grown but the only reason I would keep it away from my family because it's none of their business I have two of my friends that's already joint and they feel the same way about the situation
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 34
I’m not ashamed of it, but I do keep it secret from the majority of people in my life. I am high up at an investment bank and I’m positive that most people at work would either view me differently (negatively) or men would be given the wrong idea. I do, however, tell a few of my closest friends who are like-minded and open-minded people that understand.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes because i have a very close minded indifferent family i know my friends would understand but society doesn't and the last thing i want is a bad rep on me when i want to go to school to be a teacher how would kids or little girls look at me also i would not want kids off my own one day to know and think life can be handled in the wrong way because that's not what I'm doing
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes. Besides I respect the discreet concern from my SD, I also concern about my family reputation. In my country, it is not a common thing to have arrangement with guy unless it’s for long-term relationship or marriage. Dating older guy will often mistaken as a prostitute activity or simply the SB will got instant “whore” title from community and that’s will not be a pleasant reputation you and your family would like to receive.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I do because I still love with my parents and my parents are extremely strict, Obviously they wouldn't be happy with me being on something like this, but it's what I want to do, ofc I love my parents and respect their decision but at the same time I need to be able to afford things for myself, and it's really hard to get money to support myself
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 29
Ik hou het liever geheim omdat veel mensen sugar daten heel erg verwarren met escort en dat is allebei heel erg verschillend. Los van dat staat het niet netjes als je in een keer gebeld wordt in bijzijn van famillie door je sugardaddy. Mensen zullen raar kijken of denken, maar dat hoort erbij. Dat is de reden dat ik sugardaten het liefst geheim hou.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 31
Well this is my first time so yes it is a secret for now. I really don't know what to except from this while thing. I mean if head things about it. But yes I would have to keep it a secret for now only to protect my sugar daddy cause I don't do the who conflict and drama thing. What I do is me and my sugar daddy's business and should not be anyone's concern.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
To friends no, but to family yes. Just because my friends are very open minded and adventurous people and won't say no to anything they haven't yet tried. My family is a little on the ignorant/morally correct nazi side. If you're not doing the traditional things that can get you in a good place in the future, they'll swear up and down it's wrong. And I don't have patience for that kind of thinking.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
Of course I keep my sugaring a secret! 🙈 I feel like people won’t understand the background of a sugar baby and will automatically relate it and compare it to a prostitute. But when it comes to close people and friends I think it’s fine for them to know if you have the trust there. But like I said family, acquaintances, and things like that wouldn’t understand and just jump to judging you.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 30
I would never keep being a sugar baby a secret because it's not something to be ashamed of I think it's something to more be proud of because when you're young you've got the Beauty and the looks to pull it off you don't have that when you're older so if you're you know if you have it flaunt it use it while you got it if you feel like you're beautiful enough to earn money just for being you do it baby
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 27
I keep it from my mom, make jokes about it to my older siblings and let my sister know. My okder siblings would kill me because they would think in doing the worst if they knew i wasnt playing. I mean today is my first day trying the sugar apps out. Never been a sugar baby before but it seems like fun so i let my sister know. Won't even mention it to my mom because i know she will try to disown me
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't keep my sugaring a secret. I am not above myself or others when doing this. These are men and women looking for honest and solid relationships and they don't mind helping others out. I am proud to be a sugar baby. I know what I want and that I need financial help because college tuition sucks and if someone wants to help me out and have a relationship at the same time then let's go.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 36
I do keep my private life to myself because i dont trust bitches with my life and when you least expect it, some bitches could turn on you. Aside myself, for the safety of my sugar daddy and his business associates. I also do not intend to have a sugar daddy for so long as i also will want to settle down and wouldn't want my private life in the public
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 29
I think it depends on who asks. Definitely a secret from my family, they don't need to know all of my business. If I get into a relationship with a sugar daddy then I just make it look like a relationship with an older man, not that there's an exchange of money. I'll tell some of my close friends about people or experiences I've had with it but no one that I don't trust!
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 33
Well one my business is my business , so depending on the way the other person im involved with feels then yes i will keep it a secret. Unless we both come to an agreement that the way things are going wether or not we should be more openly spoken about it or if it is safer an more comfortable if we kept things on a hush hush level where as no one knows .
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 29
I do not keep my sugar a secret because I don't find that it's anything to be ashamed of that I'm attracted to older men that have a lot more to offer than these young boys these days and that is exactly what they are and they are boys so they have no idea how to treat a beautiful woman such as myself so I would prefer a torn man who has his life together who can provide the life that I desire and I can give him the companionship that he desires
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 37
My best friends know that I am a sugar baby. But for the most part it’s just no one else’s business. I don’t care really care to explain my decisions to individuals. Everyone is allowed to make their own decisions and live there life the way they want to and they should be judged because they do want to live their life in a traditional manner. I love being able to connect and fill a void in someone’s life.
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 25
In all honesty no. If my Sugar Daddy wants to keep it secret I am a 100% fine with that, because he is my daddy. I do not find the need to hide something that is part of me and my everyday life. Often times peolple quickly jump to conclusions about why and what a sugar baby is exactly. They automatically asume that we are less of a person because we like to feel as though we are admired and spoiled sometimes ;).
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
Personally I don't mind people knowing I am a sugar baby , but if the other half of this relationship preferred privacy then that would happen. I understand that many people prefer a SB/SD agreement to be a discreet one, to avoid judgey vibes , and to be honest doesn't it make it that but more exciting when it feels just so naughty? That may just be me😏
2023-01-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
The reason why I like to keep my sugaring on the down low is because, this is my personal life and I don't see why anyone needs to know about what my sugar daddy and I do, I'm not going to keep us a secret and I'm also not going to be hiding from the world id still like us to go out and have fun, but I get why sugar babies don't tell everyone about her and daddy.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
I keep my sugaring secret because there are a lot of judge mental people in the world. Majority of people think it’s prostitution or just giving up sex but I think it all has to do with a connection and giving and receiving. A sugar baby trying to make his or her self successful in the world does not want her sugar life out in the open because of people’s negative opinions.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
This is my first time joining this app and I dont have any idea yet. If ever I will be having someone here as my sugar daddy (or a friend indeed) maybe I'll just keep it as a secret. It doesn't matter if everybody knows that you have a sugar daddy or not, the most important thing still, is that, you're making that person happy and smile. You share ideas and interest...
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yes i keep my sugaring ssecrets because my parents wouldnt accept it and i am the blacksheep of the fam so i dont want anyone to come and talk shit to my mom because she is the most importamt perosn in my life and also i have a boyfriend but he is also poor so i cant help me but i love him and im doing yhis for us both so wr both can pay our studies
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 40
Yes because I am a private person who likes to compartmentalize my life. Keeping this secret and separate from my daily life allow me to be myself and then relax at night, hoping to find a SD to help me relax in my daily life. Also people are very judging when they don't share the same life style views as you. Keeping this secret just makes my life easier.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 37
Yes, it is a secret to most... but few know about it, 2 of my very close friends... i am married and love my spouse very much... however he is currently incarcerated... so financially things are VERY tight... i have a child so bills, necessities, his needs while in there can pile up... i wouldn't want my husband to find out and the town i live in is very small, so if more people knew he would definitely find out
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 31
I’m pretty new to the sugar baby/daddy app. I keep it a secret for multiple reasons. The first reason is I guess I still haven’t accepted that I have come to a app looking to fill a void. Also I’m not sure what my family and friends would say about me if they knew. So that’s another reinforcement for keeping it a secret. Lastly I think I’m a strong independent women. So since my friends and family view me like thid as well I don’t want to distort that image of myself.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 31
I keep my sugaring on the low because it is always frowned upon do you know your family your friends they all smile at you when you have the money to give them but when you tell them that you're not working and that you benefit from somebody who's already got it they shame you I really hate the double standard Gina I feel like if two consenting adults agree to do something then it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 32
I guess I’m really torn because i live a very open lifestyle but at the same time i wouldn’t know how to explain to my friends what I’m trying to pursue without feeling like a money hungry individual. I believe if it’s amiable and both parties agree that the feeling is mutual there’s absolutely no reason to be ashamed of anything. I know people will look down their noses but at the end of the day it’s all about being true to yourself so I wouldn’t keep it a secret.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 30
I do keep my sugaring a secret. Firstly, I am very new at this and am just starting out. I really like the idea of being in a sugar daddy/ sugar baby relationship so I want to try it out. No one else I know does anything like this and I don't really want them to know that it's some thing I do. I'm a little bit shy with these things and like to keep these matters private
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
Hell yeah I keep it a secret! 2 reasons...1: who doesn’t want a double life especially when you’re being spoiled and loved. When your friends ask you ‘where do you get all this beautiful items how are you living a lavish lifestyle and any tips’ I live for the moment I turn around and say ‘it’s a secret’ 2: all the sneaking around makes it even more exciting, getting caught is a turn on for me and just makes ten times better!
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 25
I keep my sugaring secret, because it is looked down upon around my family. They think if you’re meant to have money, then you’re meant to earn it— they don’t understand that being a sugar baby is earning! Things are just too expensive in life. that’s where sugar daddies come in! they help us through all of our problems— emotionally or financially. Thanks daddies!
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 46
Yes, I would keep my secret as, I usually keep personal life private! I keep to self, some what of a loner. My partner is how makes me happy! + I can be a bit territorial with partner if established relationship. Less opinions better communication between us in problem solving where we can see growth. The chemistry seem to be more focused to a degree
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes... For the most part it's none of anyones business what I have going on. Keeping it a secret wouldn't be my choice of words but its simply keeping it my business. Besides, I dont want sugar daddy to spoil anyone but me... I got the and the squeeze and i didn't come to play, I came to slay... seduce, be his SUGAR AND SPICE, ALWAYS NAUGHTY & sometimes nice😘
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes, my sugaring is kept a secret. I like the thrill it gives ,me as if I am doing something I am not suppose to be. Also since sugar daddy and their babies usually have a huge age difference so it's something else I don't feel pressured to explain to others because they may not understand it. For the daddies looking for new babies, come talk to me, I promise I'll keep your secrets safe.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 41
I think that depends on the type of relationship you have with your sugar daddy. I don't feel a need to be secretive but I also don't believe in broadcasting my personal life. With that being said, I wouldn't keep my sugar daddy a secret unless he wanted to remain low-key. You both have to respect y one another's boundaries if you want the relationship to be beneficial to both parties.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 27
I keep being a sugar baby a secret from my family because they would definitely not approve and probably disown me, but when it comes the friends I tell a select few. I don't really discuss details because I don't think that's their business just like in any relationship you're not supposed to tell everyone everything about the relationship. I've gotten nothing but positive feedback from the people I have told.
2023-01-10
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Sugar Baby / 41
I have kept my sugaring a secret in the past. I am a private person and don’t really want people’s opinions or noses in my business. However, the ideal Sugar situation for me would be an actual relationship in which the Sugar is a side quality and not the overall “theme”. Don’t get me wrong, I’m in this site for a reason! The difference between me now and then is that I’m looking for more than just an allowance.
2023-01-10