Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 7
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Sugar Baby / 34
No definitely not a secret but it's not like I would ever share info about a Daddy who wasn't comfortable doing so. I am pretty outgoing and the friendships I keep around me are very open minded and have thought about doing the same. Some worry about judgement but I think those people aren't the kind of people you want around. Nothing to be ashamed about giving and getting in return :)
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 70
I see no reason for anyone to know my business. Life for me in the past 3 years has been an eye opening experience that no one can be trusted. You can't even trust yourself these days. It's kind of like the saying a man who represents himself in court has a fool for an attorney........so true, so true. So I will keep my life quiet and personal for me.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 35
I do keep it secret cause i think that this mater only regards me. In general i feel like society is just not supportive of anything thats out of the ordinary. So there is a choice of being frustrated and not experiencing what you really want or trying to do it some other way. On my side i dont need a social validation of what i do and like but its just simpler to keep it hidden anyway.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 33
People judge sugar babies. They tend to say "you're a gold digger" "you are lazy""you should work for it and not ask for a hand out". They even compare sugar babies to escorts. I'm not escorting, I'm not selling sexual services. I work hard everyday, sometimes it a little vaca to get spoil a little. I am a happy person, keeping it my secret maintains some happiness. It keeps the negative comments away for a moment.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
It depends , because if the sugar daddy wants discretion for me is ok to stay in secret if he give to me love and good cares and cute stufss this things sounds materialistic but i think is part of the love give stability and security to the perdón who you love in this case ,that make me feel really Happy and loved get shopping or something it likes me a lot
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I do, I keep it a secret because at times it could be dangerous just giving out your information to a random person. My family would probably be disgusted with me and probably will call me desperate. But I can only do what I feel is best for myself. I only tell my bestfriend about this because I know she will keep this a secret. Other than that no one knows
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 28
I treat my sugaring relationship like I’d treat any other relationship of mine. And therefore I keep it a secret because that is how I have always kept my other relationships. The people very close to me obviously know what is going on, but everyone else honestly has no business getting to know my business. It’s my personal life, so there is no need for me to announce it to the whole world.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 35
I do only because i like the thought around being a sugar baby. I get off knowing i have a daddy♡ i only want him and i to know what goes on between us... no one else.. i will go in public but i dont tell people. Ruins the fun i think lol. Finding someone that thinks this is just as hott as i do is very diffacult. But patience is key... and i will find him/r
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 30
I'm a sugar baby. Do I keep my sugaring a secret? Yes I do. It's not up for other people to judge me on. I am who I am and I do what I want. It's not open for other people to discuss or judge unless they are my Sugar Daddy or Momma. I keep it a secret strictly because it is about the two of us and between the two of us. No one else needs to know about my personal life.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 34
It is not more of a secret; just more so discreet. I don’t feel like it would have to be that way the entire time; just for the initial meets. As far as my other friends and family; it would be more so to avoid any possible pre judgement. Generally i’m very open and of course my mom would know with no bad concerns. I think the secrecy would more so come from the SD than anything.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 29
I do not keep my sugar babe intentions a secret because there's not shame in it! If there are two people out there, one wanting to be spoiled by a caring heart, and the other being someone generous with their affections and other things- who is anyone else to judge! I'm proud to be a sugar baby. The men on here are genuinely looking for someone to spoil and care about. And what's there to hide when most of these daddies want an actual connection?
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 30
I keep it a secret from my family but not my friends. A friend actually got me into the idea of being a sugar baby. I don't share with my family bc I don't want to argue with them. They wouldn't understand that it's mutual and not some old guy paying for a piece of ass. My friends are much more open minded towards things. I'm not ashamed to be a sugar baby. I just don't want all the drama that comes with people knowing that's what I do.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
I keep it a secret from my family because they are judgmental and don't understand that these can be truly fulfilling relationships. I also keep it a secret from people I don't know well or don't trust for the same reason. However, with my good friends, it is something we enjoy talking about and has become a great way to bond. It's just sharing about my love life only some people give it a negative connotation and I don't feel like sharing with those who aren't open-minded enough to see it in the positive experience that it has been for me.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 25
I want to be a sugar baby because I love my body and I want to share with others. I know that I am beautiful and attractive physically, so I want to use that to my advantage. I am freaky and there isn’t a better way to share that with others than to have my own Daddy. I want to have a Daddy to give all of my attention to. Although I am freshly 18, age is not a number to me.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 28
I just got out of a long, serious relationship. I guess I’m trying to keep this a secret because I feel like if anyone was to find out that I’m using this app and that I’m looking for a sugar daddy then they would judge me. I’m honestly just bored and looking for a mature and interesting man to talk to and flirt with. I’m not a slut or someone who’s just looking to get spoiled and pampered for the rest of their life. I’m just sick of the immature guys my age who don’t know how to keep a relationship interesting.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 34
Im new to this. Im not exactly hidden about it because I’m not embarrassed by it. I take care of my own bills, pay for school, take care of myself, and help others where I can. I told myself in the new year that I would learn to be more self-less and I think sugaring is just that. I think being a sugar baby is being rewarded for being kind and hardworking.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes, I do. If someone tell you secrets it means they trust in you. I cannot break their trust. Sometime secrets is secrets and it's not mine!!! Why shall I take their secrets to another? No way!! It's not my stlye. Think like this if you tell your secrets to someone but that human cannot keep yours. What will happend? Like I say I will not break their trust. They tell me secrets I keep secrets.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep my sugar baby/ sugar daddy relationship a secret because I’ve just turned 18, always living with my very Christian, very strict grandmother and other family they depend on me to be an example, blah blah blah. I keep it secret mainly for respect, choosing to knowing telling my family is disrespect in itself. What they don’t know won’t hurt them.
2023-01-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I will keep our secret because It's a sensitive relationship I think If we keep relationship secret It's will be good to sugar daddy and sugar baby Yes I will keep our secret because It's a sensitive relationship I think If we keep relationship secret It's will be good to sugar daddy and sugar baby Yes I will keep our secret because It's a sensitive relationship I think If we keep relationship secret It's will be good to sugar daddy and sugar baby
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 43
No only if that's what they want I will. I feel like you should be free to do as you please. I understand the ones that need to be secret. If yoiu need to stay a secret you found the one already. And you just want a play date, spoil me and them why not we're all in this pot of soup together lets make it awesome. Signed your sugar baby Brownie......
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yes, I do. I appreciate the discretion and I know that anyone else too. Of course there are outgoing people over there that wants to scream it to the world but it's important to be respectful with each other and the agreements that are set from the beginning. It's one of the principles of any human relationship. So, if someone breaks the rule, there's no worth to keep going together.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
no, because i’m not ashamed of the way i decide to live my private life. the arrangement is between consenting parties and boundaries are established and respected. i don’t hide it because i’m living happily and with less stress in a mutually beneficial relationship. no harm is being committed towards anyone or anything and there’s nothing wrong with choosing to live a life of sugaring
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
My parents are very conservative and would be appalled at the idea of my sugaring life. Honestly if they knew, I feel they would probably shun me out of their lives. My mom might be more open to the idea but my stepdad would not by any means. Though I’m willing to do anything at this moment do get away and get my own apartment and standing in life.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
Its not a secret for my mom i tell my mom everything in case something happens anything i mean anything can go wrong ..but to my friends and family it is i dont want them to think wrong of me mostly because they are Christian and they do judge mexican family and friends lol have big mouths and i cant have my personal life out n open i love u daddyyyy
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 28
I'm in college so I do not keep my sugaring secret because of the fact other girls/guys are interested in it. There are lots of people in the world searching for love and financial help and with sugaring you can get both those things in one. Not to mention it is nice having someone who is there for you and supportive of your life choices and sugaring can do that so there is no reason to keep it secret.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I do because my family is a very traditional Mexican. My father is extremely reserved and traditional man who thinks any kind of sexual activity with a man who is not your husband is a serious offence to your family. Any sort of interaction with a man if you are a single woman is not appropriate especially if that interaction is privately done.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes because I feel it’s more exciting that way doing something you know not everyone would approve on is a bit of a turn on to me. Only one person knows about my sugaring and she’s my bestfriend and she says if it goes well for me she wouldn’t mind joining in as well. I always keep a majority of my relationships private anyway because I just like it that way.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep my sugar baby life a secret because it keeps it interesting and secretive which is pretty hot. The fact that my sugar daddy and I have something that no one else knows about keeps things secure because whatever happens between us stays between us. Discreetness is key because most sugar daddy's have busy lives and hold high roles so keeping things between us keep people from knowing our business but at the same time keeping things spicy.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
I share my sugaring with very close friends and family. It isnt everyone else's business, but I tell certain people for safety reasons. I would only ever meet with people I feel 100% comfortable with, but in the event that something happens to me, I want at least one person to know where to look and what I may have been involved in. I don't tell all of the details (for discretion and privacy reasons), just basic information.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 36
Yes, I always keep my sugaring relationships secret unless it is okay with the sugar daddy. My relationship with the sugar daddy is very important to me and thats why I dont want to cross the boundaries especially if the sugar daddy is doing his part and keeping you straight. Why wouldn't you want to reapect your sugar daddy of he is paying your bills and making sure your straight.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I would keep my sugars a secret because. That's the fun in it I wanna snatch you up and kiss allover if I cab then throw. You back in the crowd. Its just so sexy to me to watch a an quiver that would make the biggest orgasm vibe had I love to have war with this pussy and his cock how long can you take it😏 im such a freak my pussy gets wet by the thought
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do keep being a sugar baby a secret because not everyone is has an open mind about how other people live their lives. My family would never approve so honestly I believe it is none of their business on how I live my life and how I control my body. It’s my life and my body and if I want to show people my body it is my discretion to do so. I don’t let anyone stop me from living my best life.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
Why keep my sugring a secret? I am just a discreet person, I feel as though it’s nobody business. It’s my private life but if I had a sugar daddy I will show him off just to let people know I’m taken by my sugar daddy and they can’t even compare to him. Also to let all the other sugar babies that’s scared to proceed surging or losing hope that they will never find a sugar daddy HOPE.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do keep my sugaring secret because well to start it's no one elses business! It is not something I feel the need to share with every person I know since it is personal information that does not impact them and is not the most remarkable thing about me. Its just not something that needs to be discussed at length. Some friends know cause they enjoy it as well and that's good enough.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do want to keep this a secret and plan on it. My family and friends would not understand. and It also excites me more to keep it a secret. I think it is fun to meet new people and hopefully a daddy. 💋💋 I would really like to keep this a secret though. And I fully plan on it. I also just want something online. No I’m persons. 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 40
Yes. I do keep my sugaring a secret. These days everyone has an opinion about everyone's life. Whether they are doing good or struggling. There's always someone that has to find something to pick at. It's like the mom that is a stripper at night so she can be at home with her kids during the day... People only see that she's a stripper. They don't care that she's doing any and everything she can for her kids. There's a stigma with sugar daddy and babies. People don't like things they don't understand.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 38
Learned a long time ago never kiss and tell. When u brag about what your man does the person you bragging to will secretly come try to take our man so I rather keep my good thing a secret and be happy in private. They see me glowing but don’t know who’s behind the glow. Besides my sugar daddy may be married and I’m not trying to break up any homes just borrow him and sent him home
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I keep my sugaring a secret, for now. My boyfriend was not happy when I signed up for it, but I really just want to be spoiled by someone. He would spoil me, but it’s hard for him to find a job currently and it sucks. He definitely is treating me better than my ex, but I really just want to be spoiled massively by a special sugar daddy, you know?
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 30
No I don't think I would keep it a secret because I do not see anything wrong with sugaring. I think it is the same as any other type of relationship. If my sugar momma would want to keep it a secret then she can, I do not see anything wrong with that either. What she wants she can get it as long as the feeling is mutual. As long we are communicating I don't think we would have any problems we couldn't handle
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 32
yes I keep it a secret, that's my private life & no one needs to know about it. unless I'm asked about then I may say yes depending on the situation & who asked me. other than that you'll catch me not saying a word about it. I'm the type to keep stuff that doesn't HAVE to be known deep in the dark corners where my demons & fantasies play. if you wanna find those out, holler at me! ;)
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 28
For now I have kept being a sugar baby secret. Sometimes I joke with my friends or family that I need a sugar daddy. But I have never had the confidence to tell anyone as of yet. I don't know if I am afraid of ridicule or what most people assume sugar babies do. Ultimately I know it's my life and my decision, but I have never been able to find the time or right words to say.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 45
It depends on who I'm talking with. My mom? Then, yes. My friends, then no. A couple of my friends think it's crazy, and thay I am too, haha. My mom thinks I'm into something illegal. A couple if my friends habe signed up on this and other sites due to my recommendation! I think everybody just has different opinions and I try to be sensitive to them.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't want people to believe that in just some greedy girl. I like to please and as reward I get things☺️. I also don't like when people assume it's like prostitution when it's just two people who enjoy pleasing each other in different ways. One with more financial motive and another with a more physically or sexual motive. I also keep it secrecy cause I don't want people to believe I meet up and have sex with lots of people I prefer over the phone anyways.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
I would rather keep this private because i currently live with my parents and they wouldnt like if i was running around woth an older woman. It would be even more fin to run around im secret i love to be secritive with someone i trust. Now im filling in space to get premium ingnore this one part till i reach the minimum requirememt for the premium services.
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 30
No i dont keep my sugaring a secret. I would never be ashamed to talk about a relationship I have, if thats the type of relationship it us. Most sugar daddies are married, unfortunately, so most of then look for a sugar baby who can be discreet. Most of them enjoy that more because thats the edge and thrill they feel they’re missing from their life. Some of us get lucky with a daddy that wants to show us off and if you get lucky with one like that why would you keep ut a secret?
2023-01-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yep and no. Item depends on the of the agreement we might possibly have for my safety and for yours. I have my backs but I can stay in mine if we so agree That Way. Depende do acordo the possivelmente possamos ter. Para minha segurança e para sua. tenho meus backs,e meios mas tb posso ficar na minha se assim concordarmos. Então é só deixarmos tudo bem explicado!
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 41
That's what grown folks do. Do not run around telling and talking to every one about everything unless you know for sure it will help someone after you've tried all you can do. If you need to hear your thoughts get a journal. If its that bad see a therapist. Other than that you should be able to talk to each other about things only meant for you 2 to discuss.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
No. I don’t keep it secret because of it were a secret then that’s not true loyalty to your sugar anything. They deserve to be shown off even if it’s a daddy/mommy/or baby. Like it’s said. If you got it flaunt it. And that’s exactly what I do. I may not have a sugar yet. But once I do they best believe they will be shown off and I’ll be off limits other then to them.
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 32
I'm not currently in this situation, but if I were in this situation I would like to tell others, but I probably wouldn't call it a sugar situation seeing as im not looking for money, just someone older. I make my own money and don't have crazy debt reigning over my head so that's not the problem. Im a young guy who likes experiences so have an older women can give me those experiences
2023-01-08
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Sugar Baby / 45
No. I am married. We have an open relationship. I am open and honest about everything. My husband is totally onboard with me talking to and meeting other men. But because I am already attached I have the ability to be choosy. I am on the search for someone phenomenal. Someone that truly has something to offer in my life. Someone that can interact with me and my family without conflict.
2023-01-08