Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 6
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Sugar Baby / 26
Why share if it's not asked? I'm an open book if people specifically ask me however I've never been asked. Secrets make being a sugar baby more fun, especially since that's my personality. I like secrets more than I probably should care to admit. Most people don't go around asking if I'm a sugar baby but if they did I'd love to say yes and share how much fun it could be 😉
2023-01-02
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Sugar Baby / 31
I definitely keep all my sugar secrets. What's the point to tell, it should be between you and your Sugar daddy...unless you both collab and write some kind of hot read of karma sutra secrets, tips and fantasy novels. Actually that sounds like a good idea. My sugar daddy and I will write and publish a nasty novel series of all our dirt and tricks.🤔
2023-01-02
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Sugar Baby / 27
I don't tell too many people about my sugaring because people tend to confuse it with being a gold digger, when in reality it's more about finding someone who's more experienced at life and spending time with adventurous people who you otherwise would never get to know. Not to mention that they also have much more experience in the intimacy department.
2023-01-02
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Sugar Baby / 33
I feel like it better to keep it a secret . To almost like. Chapter in your life you can be discreet and no one has to know. Like a fairy tale where you ha e this other side to you this other chapter that no one knows but you. So many people out there judge others today. Less drama , and I like the suspense of being sneaky with going out with SD or SB
2023-01-02
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Sugar Baby / 33
400-500 a week to take things slowly but I like whatever the daddy is comfortable with providing. If he increases I would have no problem, that means he’s actually enjoying me. You have to watch out for scammers. I just really love being spoiled and knowing the actions are genuine and sincere. I make my own money but you have to pay the cost to be the boss lol.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I keep my sugaring a secret! I am still a student and what can I say? The hallway chat works very well. I just dont want everyone to know about my freetime activities and it would not take long until my parents would realize that I chat with older men and that I would not mind to meet them. Furthermore, I am not a whore and I am not interested in getting the reputation
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 28
Personally me an my sugardaddy would have to have a mutual understanding. Based on the realtionship you have w him/her you'll know. Like for example, if whom is sugaring you likes to go out alot you might just run into some old friends, meaning youve been spotted an every walking foot have a running mouth. Sobit really depends on what we as one want to do about this situation being kept secret or not lol.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 28
I personally keep it semi-secret . I don’t publically display it because of my own privacy, and the respect of privacy for my partners in the relationships I have . I do however believe that it is necessary to tell some people in your life that you trust and love, as it can be a potentially dangerous industry, and you need to have people outside of it that you can rely on.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 34
Personally I do keep it from family. My mother knows I like men about ten years my senior but if it bothers her she has yet to say anything. A few of my friends know but it’s not public knowledge. People are too judgmental and honestly things are better when not everyone is in your business. I also only date daddies that I have great chemistry with so when you see us you might assume but you otherwise wouldn’t know.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep my sugaring a secret. I am on my last year of high school and still live with my family. For an 18 year old thats pretty embarssing. I have a job yet that isnt working as planned. Being a sugar baby will help my family out with bills. Id like to think my family would be chill about me being a sugar baby but knowing them, they'll freak out. Just trying to make a living for college.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 50
Keeping my sudy a secret, would be a decision that we would both have to sit "down" or "on" and come to a mutual agreement/understanding. I am very mature and very understanding that not every Sudy is in a position to be made public. As long as my Sudy is happy and I am more than POSITIVE that he will be then we will happily agree to the terms and move forward and make many hot steamy memories together!
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes I do keep my sugaring a secret. Not a lot of people understand this type of lifestyle and relationship and automatically have preset judgments on you know I'm a prostitute or I'm a gold digger or I'm lazy you don't want to get a job or that I'm just trying to use men when that is not the case. I'm looking for someone who I can have in my corner and I can show my loyalty to and we just have a great relationship where he's able to go about his busy schedule and I'm able to go through life without worries of financial struggles
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
No, my family knows and supports me and my friends know but they're a bit weirded out by it. I'm a very open person, I don't like keeping too many secrets. I'm also very open minded and I try to surround myself with like-minded people and I think that's why I haven't had any friends just up and leave me. I don't think it should be hidden. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
of course i do, who wouldn't . no one other than me, myself and i needs to know that im using online apps to make a few pretty pennies . not somethings im emmbarssed about necessarily. just something i dont tell people. also...lol im not really out . so i guess theres that. even if i was, it still wouldn't be something id mention. to anyone . unless, i really had too
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes, I keep my sugaring a secret but to a certain extent. I talk about my sugaring and the sudy app with my best friend. I know I can tell her anything and I trust her not to tell anyone my business. I keep my sugaring a secret from my family or others because I know they would not approve of it. I enjoy using the sudy app in meeting new people and the sugar daddies out there.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 39
I do not. There is absolutely no shame in being a strong, beautiful woman who likes to be taken care of. I enjoy the finer things in life and I like to have a man who can provide that and take care of me. No one, male or female, should have to hide the fact that they have a loving partner who wants to shower them with affection. If that affection happens to come in the form of allowance and gifts? Even better. There is no such thing as a traditional relationship anymore, so why keep something that makes me happy a secret?
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 37
I am new to having arrangements. I havent been open about my decision to people in general mostly because i dont know how people will take it and how it will change their opinion of me. I think it also makes it more exciting to have it as a secret rather than being completely open about it. Like living a double life. I would have no issue telling a close friend but would orefer not to as it lessens the excitement for me
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
Becuase i think my parents wouldnt agree since they raised me to be a Christian. Ive been to church every sunday since i was a baby, ive also been homeschooled since the 2nd grade. I think that is why im so rebellious in my own way, i never went to prom, i never had a boyfriend, i never even had a real friend. I have my horses and ive been roleplaying online simce i was 14, i would roleplay usually sexual things an i usually played a little/sugar baby/sub. I really enjoyed it so i think thats why im so drawn to sudy
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 37
I'm an open book. I haven't told anyone because this was something I just decided to do. I don't to much care what people think about me because I take care of myself. Nothing I do is a secret unless you want it to be. I enjoy what I enjoy and if I pay for it. Sometimes it's just fun seeing the reactions on others faces when I speak on what I like.
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes i'm very interesting in keeping my sugaring secret. I like to keep my intimate life extremely private. In my opinion it is not a public affair or obligation to be told the details of my own personal doing and affairs. I want my sugaring to be kept on the down low to better my relationship with my SD. staying private will make me wetter in bed because only he knows the dirty things i do
2023-01-03
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Sugar Baby / 43
Well it depends on my sugar daddy status whether he wasn't the world to know that he has found his sweet black barbie. Where he can so je of to his family and friends. If he just wants to spend time with no strings attached then what can I do. Nothing but keep him a secret it all depends on him if it's real love then there's no need for us to be secrets.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 29
I dont care about secrets, if my future sugar daddy wants to be secret i will keep it that way. But I like to talk and be talkative about our personal interest, and how to manage them from each part of the sugar relation. I want to be a sugar baby not just for sex, I eant to be a person in you can trust. Im just looking to finish my education. Sorry if I have mistakes in my english.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 31
To some people yes I do keep it a secret for the reason not because of judgement because I don't care somebody judges me before the fact of their opinion and whether they feel like they're going to stay up there pinion and I don't want to hear about it everybody has their own way in life to each his own and it's also on whether or not the SD wants to keep it a secret or not
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
i wouldnt keep my sugaring a secret at all. there is nothing to be ashamed of at all. i dont feel like there is anything wrong with being a sugar baby to someone. to me its just a different type of relationship than the normal or traditional relationship that everyone is used to. i just dont see the point of hiding it from someone. dont be shame to talk about it uf yiur gonna do it.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
I want to keep my sugaring a secret for as long as I can. Its not a love affair. Not everyone should know about it. You can tell him certain personal issues but dont give him complete drama or knowledge about your life. If your irl boyfriend is suspicious of your new life, then how can we deal with having a double life? You need mystery within this lifestyle and support with friends.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 31
Not for too long if things get seeious, I am a very private person, but if the man that I am with wants to be recongnized, I’m here for it. When two people are together there should be a mutual respect for each other’s private/local lifestyle. I’m a pretty discreet person but my mans needs / wants will come first I’m regards to what we tell others what him and I do. 💕
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 25
I keep my suagary secret because its no one elses business on what i do with my life. I love the attention and being spoiled. Nothing like a sugary sweet secret to fill ones life with adventure and attention. But honestly its your life and your suddys life so do what you want. Mines gonna be a sugar sweet secret for only us to know about. Nothing better <3
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I do because it is no ones business. I'm not ashamed because people do this type of thing daily just minus the benefits. I'd rather have sex with a financially stable man rather than someone who is struggling. Correct me if I'm wrong but we're all going to have sex. The way I see it is, why not reap the benefits of your spouses success? Sounds fair to me.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
I don’t feel the need to keep it a secret so to say. I don’t go around telling everyone that this is what I do on the other hand either. I am a very open and honest person but can be very discreet. If you and I have a mutual understanding , then all is swell. I am also not the type of person to blast out things out of anger or spite. Personally speaking I don’t need to hide anything or feel ashamed in being a sugar baby.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 39
Yes because it’s no ones business besides mine and my sugar daddy’s. I don’t think it’s right for people to possibly judge me and my sugar daddy. If we are happy with out arrangements then I don’t think anyone needs to know. If my sugar daddy and I decided to make things more serious and discussed it together then I would let people know. In the mean time it’s my business only :)
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I keep my sugaring a secret, this is because nobody needs to know why I do this and many people will thing I’m in this just for the money, however I do enjoy having money that is not what I’m on here for, I enjoy pleasing and giving other people what they want and enjoy, so if you need someone that doesn’t expect huge amounts of money then I’m your girl
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 28
Depending who I’m discussing it with . My friends I’m pretty open with so I wouldn’t hide it from them now associates can mind their business or I’ll simply say their my boyfriend I like older guys anyway and technically it’s not a lie we’re doing everything people do when they’re in a relationship plus some but without the title it’s no shame in my game
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 44
If my sugar daddy would like to keep it discreet I would completely understand..The way I look at it I keep my buisiness to myself I don't put mines in the streets I'm very respectful and I expect the same from sugar daddy, but at the beginning of us meeting we will talk about dos and dont's. I am a grown woman I don't play games and I don't have anyone in my business
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 33
I'd keep it a secret from my family at least. I don't even plan on telling them I'm gay just because I'm not too confident about it while being single. If my sugar daddy and I wound up in something long term I'd be more likely to come out to my family. Mostly because their reaction wouldn't really effect me in any way since I'd see them less often than my new man. Having everyone wonder where I'm at or how I'm getting extra money makes it more entertaining anyway.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I keep it a secret because in my friend group and town I’m in it’s seen only as something people joke about. They don’t take it seriously and often only think sugar babies are sex workers or sugar daddies are immoral people. Personally i think it gives young people who are seeking to be babies someone wiser who can mentor them and help them in life and for daddies to have a companion!
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yes, because you have an image to take cake of in society. Evryone want needs to be take care of, but only in a serious way is when you can go public and really take advantage of all the characteristics and good things or each other. But its always open to negotistion and also what is coveniemt to the Sugar Mommy always, they decide best what need to happen.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
No I don’t like lying or keeping secrets. I’m an honest, straightforward person. I feel like the people who would judge me for the things I do are people whose opinions I don’t care to hear. Also, I don’t think this should be a shameful secret. Two consenting adult coming together based on trust and mutual benefit? That just sounds like a healthy relationship.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 45
That's a decision we both take.if my sugar dady wants us to keep it secret then i will go ahead and keep it secret. But i believe in knowing each other first through constantly communicating and then we agree on bringing it out. I mean whats wrong with someone boasting around with someone they truely love. But if i realy like him and he wants us to
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 46
I’m only secretive if my SD requests discretion. I am not ashamed to be who I am and to enjoy my life. Many women want to experience this, but are afraid of what others will think. When you love yourself enough to not care about judgements...it’s a beautiful thing! I know there are times when discretion is necessary, so every situation is different.
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do simply because people are judgmental and think it’s the easy way out but it’s much harder than people realize. You have to make your profile one someone wants to view, keep your pictures constantly renewed as well. You have to convince most daddies you’re not a catfish. I don’t I just rather keep this my business. What I do is my business. Okay?
2023-01-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes, i do. My parents are very conservative and that’s how i grew up. I don’t like too much attention on me but i got this BANGING body and this urge to use it in many ways 😉. My family CAN NOT find me or know about this because they just wouldn’t understand 😓 It’s fun to meet new people and find out what their motives and inspirations are. I’m very interesting and i want to show you.
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 26
Honestly its all up to my Sugar Daddy. If he or she wants a discrete relationship thats fine if they want a public one thats fine too. I am a very versatile person and I am very understanding of other people’s needs and wants. In my particular opininion I would like a discrete relationship until both of us are comfortable to make it public with everyone.
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 48
Yes, I'm keeping it a secret. Because some, I'm sure are in relationships. I am in limbo right now after moving across county with my ex fiance only to find out he cheated on me. So, I am kind of in a stuck position with a toddler and would need to also be discreet as I do not want to disrupt my child's life or the life of a sugar daddy who may be married or taken
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
I wouldn't care to be secret. It's his decision if he wants to be secretive. I for one I really never put my relationships out there, with whoever. So to me it wouldn't be a big issue because I would be his company behind close doors and if he wants to in public I wouldn't mind (I mean who wouldn't show off all of this?). *Twirls so elegantly while giving life to everyone in the room*
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 29
I don't want to keep my sugar secret, but the few people I have spoken to about it were super negative. And this was when I was just thinking about it, let alone now that I'm actually sugaring. But it's okay. I'm meeting other sugar babies online and they've been amazing, giving me tips on everything from how to dress, how to eat, what perfume to wear and more. So I'm not really secret within the community.
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 29
Why would I? It’s just like another job lol. I don’t have shame in anything that I chose to do with my life. Some do. Some people live with judge mental family’s or are in relationships and are required to keep this part of their life an extensive secret. I don’t think you should hide away who you really are. If people don’t like it then screw them. They aren’t paying your bills
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep my suggering a secret from other because im a strong independent women and I dont need no one knowing my buisness, sure ill suggest the app or bring it up in convodation with others but its something im not going to admit I do to people. Im sort of ashamed of but then again im not its the best thing ive done. At some point though I will share about it with others
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 31
For me its more about confidentially for my sugar daddy ....sometimes I'm in situations where they have wives who don't know about their sugar addiction ....I am also in nursing school so I try best to keep away anything unprofessional or unbecoming of a lady seperate . Its for sure up to u if u keep it a secret or not ..but always do what benefits you
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes, I keep it a secret because no one needs to know about my business or what goes on in my life. Unless you pay bills or take care of my child its a different story, I believe I should do with myself as I please, old enough to know better and understand my place or what I'm getting myself into. I respect others decisions but these are mine and no one else's.
2023-01-05
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Sugar Baby / 29
I like to keep my sugaring private, for the sake of real relationships and of course my family. I don’t want them to think less of me for enjoying me while receiving my own benefits and experiences. I love what I do, and it just doesn’t pertain to my family life. It also adds and air of mystery and I’m a sucker for secret romance. Maybe I could find one with you?
2023-01-05