Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 3
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep it a secret because it is of no concern to others as to what I do in my spare time. The world is a very judgmental place. It’s also nice having a separate life and being able to let out your inner self when you are comfortable. It would be amazing to have something to look forward to and someone who makes you feel special inside and out, with or without sex.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
I actually do not keep my sugar baby ways nor my daddies a secret. Why do something you would have to hide in the long run. I want the type of daddies that if we fall off or end our strange me we would always still be great friends. He would look out for me just like I would look out for him. If he ever needed me I would always be there for him. That’s what a real sugar baby is for
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
I would never keep my sugar Daddy a secret! Part of the prize of you being his sugar baby Is for him to be able to show you off! Unless he has specified that things are meant to be confidential, I wouldn't hide him or the sugar relationship we have. I know some people have different preferences but I personally would never hide my relationship with Daddy.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
I've always prided myself in being strong and powerful and independent and thats how I've caried myself and how I present myself, how I am seen. But i need extra income and this is easy and simple, but I don't want to be less. I've come to terms with doing this line of work, because it's my business only and dont need anyone telling me how and why to do, I'm still the same women but dont need to be telling people because i dont need to be hearing their oponions and say in what I do.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 37
Absolutely not. Sugaring is a family bonding experience. My father is know as Doc or King Sugar Daddy and I definitely am Princess Sugar Baby. I found it easier to keep up with the truth than hide anything, I don’t like to remember lies. And having a father who is a sugar daddy himself helps set a standard for what I will accept from potential suitors. It is also rewarding when he has a problem with one of his babies and can call me and bounce ideas around, we tend to think very similar. Bonus is they all get vetted through myself because if they can’t preform as a sugar baby as well or better tha I can then they are a waste of his time. I also get extra daughter allowance if I can swing an introduction, this was an awesome year for me.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 29
I believe it is something that you shouldn't have to tell other people about because it's personal. It's more about how you feel. If it is something that won't harm the relationship between them I'm all for it. But if it will ruin the relationship forever then just keep it to yourself I guess. Not necessary to tell someone everything if it will harm them
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 31
I don’t necessarily keep it a secret but I don’t go around bragging about it either. My closest friend knows about it & that’s about it! I’m not ashamed of it or anything I just keep most of everything to myself lol. I work and go to school so sugaring just helps with the extra stuff and school expenses. I just don’t choose to share the fact that I sugar with everyone, not sure how to even bring that up lol
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do not keep this lifestyle a secret because it is like any other relationship that other people have, it is jist more structured and we know what we want going into the relationship. I feel like these relationships built through sygaring are even more comfortable, safe, and compassionate than the average relationship because both parties know what their intentions are going into this relationship and are understanding of other situations.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
The idea of being a sugar baby has a negative stigmatism attached to it, this is also seen with sex workers in our society. I'm not claiming that sugar baby's are sex workers as you don't have to do anything sexual if don't want to. The main reason why I'm open about being a sugar baby if it arises in conversation or if people talk down on it in conversations. I'm open about it to provide some insight and an example that may break the ideas they have of a sugar baby as generalizing the industry with negative views is something I hope ends. Someone shouldn't need to feel embarrassed or looked down onfor whatever they do in their life since they aren't causing any harm and are providing company or whatever the sugar dad/mom wants. It's a service that the good it does shouldn't be overlooked by negative views this is why I'm open about it.
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 45
This is my first time on here..no i dnt know if id kerp it a secret..im single and out to hv fun and get spoiled. And do some spoling..so a secret..maybe if it was a 1 night fun night..yeah....but no i may sho u off to my friend..i dnt hv friends..cant trust too many ppl..so idk maybe a secret..but i douth it..if im liking u..im gonna sho my girl...
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do keep my sugaring a secret but simply because i do not want to be seen as lazy or a whore. If my coworkers found out it cold potentially cause a great multitude of problems. Problems ranging from gossip and bullying to sexual harrasment and being laid off. If my family were to find out, it would bring much shame to them and i will end up being seen as a nut case or black sheep
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
Because I don’t like to be judged off of the false way people think of sugaring they think it’s all about sex and being sexual and that’s not the case , in some yes , I’m some no. I just rather wait until I know for sure that you wouldn’t judge me based off of what you think . Even though I know that I’m not doing anything wrong Some people just don’t understand
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 30
I definitely wouldn't tell my parents that I was a Sugar baby, but I don't think my friends would be exempt from knowing. I'd even go so far as introducing my friends to my sugar daddy if he was comfortable and if our relationship was like that. Sometimes being happy doesn't mean that you are with someone your own age and I'm ok with that and I would expect my friends to be the same way.
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes, because i have a family that would not agree to it. Also i want to keep it private because the nature of work i am now would not accept it. Though this is my first tine in herw and never have any experience in the past but im a single mom who is in need aswell but dontwhave any time to make fun. As i work a lot and i don't want my kids to know it aswell as they are not ready yet to know im into a guy..
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
I dont keep it a secret because I think a lot of people miss understand girls who choose to be a sugar baby there often called terrible things like gold diggers when sometimes dating is just too hard to maintain and what we really need is a companion to try and experience new and exciting things, which is my favorite part of being a sugar baby, having someone to share it all with.
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 33
Not at all! I actually told a lot of my coworkers about it. They told me I should keep it a secret though bevause its a form of prostitution but I’m not sleeping with anyone! I find it impressive that I can jutsbdemand a man tongive me money and he’ll do it. I obviously would keep this a secret from my mom and Dad. They would probably disown me lol
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
I keep my sugaring a secret because if I don’t then I won’t be able to get the money and attention I need. I also keep it a secret because my mom would not allow it, even though I am 19, there are rules that I have to follow and this is something I really need when my son is born in March. It’ll be a lot of help to me and my sisters if it’s a secret.
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 38
Yes and for several reasons. Mainly because of my work and the need to keep my personal life private. Whatever arrangement or relationship that I have with my partner should have some level intimancy and I'm not interested in hearing others' opinions on my relationship. Coming from a more conservative family and city also has an impact on how I divulge information.
2022-12-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
That's not a secret and i even can be called a suggar baby cause i'm tring this app for the first time and never tried so see men in such ways but now i was interested and curious to see what kind of people is here,i will accept a suugar daddy only if will like him,i'm not here so send to the left and to the right some photoes or stuff like that,so some of my friends know that i'm tring this app at least just for fun
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 51
If they asked i would tell them . And it was a girlfriend of mine that talked me into this. So yes! My father past last month of cancer. Im still feeling sorry for myself im definitely a daddys girl. So im still moping around. I really dont get out much. My best friend is a surgar baby thats all she talks about. She talked me into joining. Maybe meet someone or just have some fun.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 25
I hide it because I'm very new to sugaring, and ai come from a very conservative community. Here it's frowned upon for girls my age to be looking for older men. I think it should he okay though! I feel mature enough to spend time with older men. I feel more comfortable around older men. Also, I appreciate how older men treat me like a lady even if they know I won't be theirs forever.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 28
I have a few reasons for keeping this a secret. I feel like my parents will disapprove because of the age difference. I also have two baby sisters that look up to me. They want to be just like me. They even bought fake glasses because I wear glasses. Consequently, I have to appear perfect to them, or it may look like I'm selling myself to an older man.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 23
I keep my sugaring a secret from everyone except for my best friend who I trust a lot. Since most people are very judgemental about what I do and its annoying. Also I'll keep it a secret if my daddy doesn't want anyone to know about it. I hate being judge and it makes me feel not needed and sad when people say something about what I do and its not anyone's business if I have a SD
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 47
Though I generally wear my life on my sleeve, and wouldn’t keep my sugaring secret per se, I’d certainly wait and see what the relationship is and what the comfort level is of my friend before sharing with anyone on the outside of it. I’m not ashamed of what I’m looking for. I’ve been on both sides and am proud to say that it’s worked well for me in the past, and hope to find another amazing situation.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
Personally i have no problem with people being open and talking about their sugardaddy/sugarbaby life. Would I do it, no mostly because a lot of people are very judgemental on the topic. I would rather keep it to myself and save myself the aggrevation of wondering if the person is going to tell me how wrong it is etc. But if I had a girlfriend and felt it was the right time I might have a chit chat with her about it.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep my Sugaring a secret from everyone. Not a lot of people like the idea of me liking someone wayy older than my age. Also I like keeping it a secret because I like taking risks and doing things secretly! 😉 Im okay with a few people knowing that are close to me but keep it my dark secret from others. That gives me a mysterious character to my life. 😉
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
My sugaring is secret from potential employers and general family just because the idea of a sugar baby is very stigmatized and thought of negatively. I feel no shame in what I am choosing to do or how I am choosing to help someone else live a better life as they help me live mine. I share the details of my sugaring with just close friends however.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 38
I don't keep mine a secret people who know me personally know that I am into fun things and trying new stuff. I do not post it all over my social media and what not but my friends and family are aware of my interest and taste. Also depends on the daddy when whether they need discretion or don't care to be out there as well. It is all fun and we are all adults here.
2022-12-25
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes I do keep it a secret. I'm in a loveless unaffectionate marriage and I am unhappy. However I like to keep my personal business private for the sake of family and friends. In the future if something becomes of it I would consider not keeping it that way but it would be by mutual agreement of both parties. I look forward to meeting each person I get acquainted with.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 30
At the moment I am keeping this a secret. Not that I am ashamed or think less of sugaring, but in the midst of my career beginning I want to, you know, seem like I have it all together. Sugaring is something I am fairly new too but so far it has been great. There are tons of platonic relationships and then you have your fun ones. It is whatever you want it to be. Eventually I may tell my close friends.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 42
I keep my sugaring a secret. why should it be known To everyone unless there is consent amongst the 2 that it is involved. That's what's wrong with the world today everybody's and everybody's else's business. My sugar daddy would be the king of our secret rendezvous. And the Kingdom that we have our Relationship is is our Kingdom that we create together
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 42
Yes I do only because I have a very judgemental family that believes in the traditional husband once you're pregnant. So me even having kids put of wedlock has been my biggest downfall to them. So if they were to know I want to be a Sugar Baby there's no telling how they'd treat me let alone look at me. Not sure if I'll ever tell any of them about this. So if I could somehow mask any gifts from my baking that would be cool.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 31
No. Nobody's approval is needed. I'm an exotic dancer so sugaring is already expected of me. I don't have sex from sugaring. I am only interested in financial domination. Financial domination is demanding money because I want it and very wealthy men love to spend it on beautiful women because they don't know what else to do with it. I know my worth for my time.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 25
I would claim a sugar daddy in front of anyone but my family. I see it as any other relationship but my family would see it as worse. I prefer to be seen as a baby instead of just a sugar baby. I like to let others know because im not ashamed of the life and my relationships. I tend to also be open cause my daddy is my daddy and everyone has to know that i get that ;)
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 28
No I want to be shown off, spoiled, cherished . Why keep that a secret? I mean if he decides it must be secret of course you oblige to daddy but if he wants others to know he has a beautiful women emplyeed to do all he needs just for him why you wouldn't want someone to know is kinda beyond me. I want daddy to be happy so if he wants I would but otherwise I'd brag my ads off
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 36
Why should I? Even my betrothed knows if it. Longing for sex, craving for contact ist nothin' wrong I'd say. I'm living polygamous since I have relationships. So my girlfriend does not only know of my wish for physical contact but the chances of getting somebody to know better as well. Keeping something secret is never healthy I think. Not for themselves or their relationships!
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 33
Not particularly. I do not think it is productive to discuss any dady/baby relationship unless we have agreed to be ok with discussing our status. I treat my daddy like a bf if he is into it so this means bragging about my man! Age aint nothing but a number and labels are nothing but a thing. So if we are a thing and we want it know and it will be if not it won’t.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do keep my sugaring a somewhat secret I have told very few people that I do it. I mainly keep it a secret because I'm not sure how my family and friends would feel about what I'm doing. sugaring is a concept that many people still fail to understand most people seem to compare it to escorting and prostitution but to me its more of a relationship like dating and sometimes it doesn't even become sexual.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
It’s not anyone else’s business what I do for fun in my free time. I could share it with those around me if I wanted to, but I think it is best for me to keep it discreet. I also feel like that would be better for both parties in general, like the person offering my allowance and I could keep to ourselves and be more interested in each other instead of letting anyone else in on our situation.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
Most of my friends know about what I do. I like being open and honest. I've always preferred it that way and I feel like it makes life so much easier when you aren't trying to cover up what you're doing and hide your lifestyle. I don't tell my family because it isn't something they need to know and they don't ask about my personal life anyways so there's no issue with trying to cover it up.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 30
I want to please him I'm still not comfortable with women even thou some have tease me , but I think that depends on taste I'm picky sometimes , I think that secrets and intimate moments are suppose to be keep secret and is nice to be just between us plus sexual health and emotional health as well to keep it professional. Makes it easier to be more stable.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes I do keep it a secret. I like my private life to remain that way. I'm up for anything my sugar daddy wants but in the end I don't talk about it to anyone. What me and my sugar daddy does is for us and not anyone else in my eyes. I like my outside life to appear normal but behind closed doors I'm a very different person. I like anything exciting
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 35
Do I keep things a secret !? Yes I am a very discrete person regardless if it was sugaring or not that's just me my personal business is my personal business. I understand that there are plenty of ppl on here that have real lives and families outside of these situations so discretion is very much needed for them. If being discreet is what my daddy needs he will get !
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 29
I'm new to sugaring but I don't plan on keeping it a secret because it's great! I already love it and want others to know about it. Sugar daddies/babies have a bad stigma but there are so many positives about it and I want people to know about them! It's a great way to meet people and form connections with them. I love being a sugar baby and would love telling others about my lifestyle.
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 35
When you 1st start it may be little awkward. You might have all these feelings in one . It's not something you can just share with anyone . You might get judge by certain people . It's a great experience. I would like to keep my personal life away from my secret life . Having a double life can be fun and exciting . If thing were to get serious with a SD then i'll open up more
2022-12-26
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Sugar Baby / 51
Its about protecting someone you really admire, and think about what they had to do to get this far in life .none needs to get hurt or all the drama that comes with tells your bussiness its all about trust and comment is everything to me one and only one sugar at time for me, put you above anything or anyone else ,I see me have too carry my phone too Lil girls room when you call I will answer I been taught by the best how to ack and what say and not to say to anyone at anytime
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I do but that’s because I don’t want people to think that if they Pay they can have their way with me. We kinda live in a society where this kinda thing isn’t considered a bad thing to do. But I’m a struggling college student and this is just one of the ways I can find the love of my life, and hopefully get some money to support myself while I’m at it!
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 57
I think what goes on between to adults should always be personal and keept between the two individual's not to say you can't go and show off your sugar daddy or let him show you off but not everything is for the public eye and not everything is for everyone to know some things should stay private and some things should be dissuced and it be a joint discession of what is knowm and what isn't
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 30
No,coz age doesn't matter if he loves me and I love him then why I should keep it secret? If we love each other I will share it to the world how much I love him, coz I love my sugar daddy I will show them that no matter I am younger then him my sugar daddy will always give him the love that he deserve and I will make him happy and i will always be there for me
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 25
I only do allow my close friends to know because I feel if others were to know about this they would judge me and the seal it would be so much similar to prostitution as people would think. I didn’t want to give sex in exchange for money I’d rather just GIFs of companionship and be assisted to pay my bills. but obviously everyone’s entitled to their own opinions and I feel like a lot of people would look down on or judge upon hearing about it
2022-12-27