Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 4
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes I absolutely keep my being a sugar baby a secret. My friends and family dont need to know about this aspect of my personal life. It's none of their business anyway. Though there are times when I just wanna be like, guess what Im doing yall? But at the same time I feel like alto of my friends will look down on me because of it, so I choose to keep it a secret.
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 35
I do for now. Being new to this life style i dont really want anyones opinion. Advice os one thing but i dont want my friends or family thinking that they know why or how i should live this lifestyle. Im trying to find out for myself if this lifestlyle is one for me. Hoping i find the things ive been lacking. If it doesn't work out it isnt meant to be.
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes I kept what I did on this app as a secret. Note that I feel ashamed or anything, I just wanted to focus on my own life and kept all the troubles away. I am sexually active and thats also part of the reason of being a sugar baby. To tell everyone that I am a slutty is not a smart choice so why not just save this to my sugar daddy and enjoy the lil dirty secret btw us.
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 33
No. It's 2017 people and what I do and how I make money to survive is my business. Society is rapidly changing and people are going to have to deal with it. Its not like I'm going out there and selling my body or stuff like that. I'm giving someone love compassion friendship company stuff like that so I don't see what the big deal is with people knowing.
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 31
Only a few people that are close to me know. And they are also sugar babies. It’s really no one’s business what we do on here. Some of these sugar daddie & mommies want discretion, as do some sugar babies. I’m not a very public person to begin with. I share what I want to with whom I want to. My life, my secrets. If a mommy or daddy don’t mind going public, then I may consider it!
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 30
I do not believe in hiding such a relationship from the people around me. If discretion is needed, we can take that extra step, but if he's comfortable so am I. Especially since having such a special bond. That includes more than just sex. There is real time, feelings, and things involved in this relationship, so I feel as if there is absolutely no reason to hide it.
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 26
Even though people are becoming more open-minded these days, I feel like SD and SB relationships are still a bit taboo. In my experience, people don't see it as a positive thing. Some people thing SBs are "using" SDs for their money, while others will criticize SBs for "relying" on a man. This is really all b.s. These daddies are completely capable of calling out when someone is abusing their connections. As for "relying" on a man, it shouldn't matter. If that's what that person is comfortable with, then let them be.
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 34
My name is Angela , to answer the question Yes I keep being a sugar baby as a secret because I don't want anyone to judge me, especially because of my nationality haitian family does not support you doing anything if it's not going to school to become a nurse or a lawyer. So none of them knows what I am up to . So whoever I mean on here has to be extremely discrete or our relationship won't really last .
2022-12-27
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Sugar Baby / 40
I surely keep my sugaring a secret bc people tend to judge and this is very new to me. I want to get a sense of what it’s like before I share my sugaring with friends. I’m not the type of person who cares about what people think. I know I am a well rounded young lady. However , People in the public eye tend to treat you differently. So to protect myself, I would only share on a need to know basis.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes simple my business is my business. No need for anyone to know what’s going on with us and the things we do. No one wants a person who tells business. You get nowhere telling others business. You have to be a honest person and keep to yourself. Only children go and run there mouth. I am a grown woman looking for fun. No need to tell whats going on
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 31
I'm still new to the "Sugar" concept however I'd rather keep it private, simply because my personal life is solely my concern and those it involves. If someone were interested in something similar then I'd tell them as it has relevance to the conversation. In the end, we don't owe anyone (non-committed people only) an explanation when it comes to our private intimate lives.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 39
I like to enjpy my life without the ever prying eyes of others judging me. When you're discreet your choices are your own. I love the experiences and opportunities that comes with being a sugar baby. Being confident in myself and my Daddy is important. What happens between two mutually consenting adults is private. No matter what the exact sitaution might be. I want to enjoy my life and discretion ensures I won't be judged while doing so.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
Me being a sugar is lowkey. I tell only people I truly trust because it can been seen in the wrong light. A lot of people dont get that you don't ALWAYS have sex or ALWAYS have some 80 y/o man. So I tell the people that I know won't judge or will give me a chance to explain what it is I do with/for my daddies. It goes smoother usually if I get a chance to explain myself
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes I do because I understand and respect one's privacy and understand that when your living certain lifestyle not everyone should know your business because not everybody wants to see you happy, if my SD want things to be on low key I'll totally agree because I'm not for everybody plus I'm a secretive person but he want few people to know about us I have no problem with his decisions.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 38
To the contrary, I do not keep it a secret. I do not feel any shame in this lifestyle. I do in fact look at it as a lifestyle and it is quite normal to me. Since the beginning of time men have provided for women financially and women have provided for men in multiple other ways which included sex and affection. I do not find anything wrong with a man of means going after the specific type of relationship or arrangement that he wants. He has worked hard for his money and he can use it as he sees fit.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
No. I tell all my friends I am looking for a sugar daddy and even recommend this app to them. Even though I havent gotten and serious daddies yet, I tell my roomates, my close coworkers and friends all about my desire to be spoiled and treated like a princess and most of them share my same desire. I am not ashamed of what or who I like. I see no reason to keep it a secret.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I do, its more comfortable for me and my career. I mean if one of my sugar daddies I could take serious and be intimate with then it would be no problem. For right now though, yes I do keep my sugaring a secret especially with me being in college. Its def the right option but it shouldnt be treated as a double life. Its honestly not that serious.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 35
I keep my sugaring secret because it's really no one's business except mine and my sugar partner. We all know there are those small minded people who just don't understand the Sugar life. These people want to equate sugaring with prostitution and judge the men and women who indulge In this lifestyle. I don't need to change anyone's mind and closed minds seldom are, so I let sugaring be my fun little secret!
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do keep it a secret. It could influence how people see me and my family would not approve in anyway. I do it as a way to have fun and fill in the time as well as earn some extra cash and possibly make someone's night ot day or something. People might not take me serious in my line of work or in my personal life if i told them about being a sugar baby.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 32
People judge for everything and I feel like a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is something that people would automatically just assume the worst. Not every person is in it for sex and money. Some people really just want companionship but without a huge commitment or want to be able to take care of someone. It’s my business what I do and why I do it, nobody has the right to judge.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 36
I keep it quite I don't think it's anyone business to know my moves, I don't ask for much as a sugerbaby so no need to put myself out there.. I do talk to different ladies about Suger daddies but I try to keep to.myself, if they want to show me off I have noo problem but it will come with a cost . My.pussy is like NEW only been with 4 ppl my whole 28 years of life
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 35
Why do I keep my sugaring secret? Well for starters I grew up in a religious family. My whole family even on both sides goes to church every Sunday. Now the real kicker is my father is a pastor. So, telling my parents what I do in my personal life always comes with judgement. I have told one person and she is my bestie but, other than that my secret is my own.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't keep it secret. If family suddenly wonders where I'm getting stuff from, I don't want to lie. I'm not like that. I also really appreciate what Sugar Mommas and Sugar Daddies provide, companionship, thoughtful gifts, ect. If a sugar daddy/momma wants it secret, though, I can completely understand why. So, in conclusion, for me, it depends on what the other wants.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep my sugaring a secret to everyone other than my close friends. Everyone else in my life would judge me for it or think it’s something it’s not. many family members think of it as prostitution. I also like to keep my relationships secret for the most part from anyone other than the close friends i talk to everyday. Most people i know frown upon this kind of thing and would see me in a different light.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yes I keep my sugaring a secret. I am a lady who is tired of being in love and your partner does not reciprocate the love. A one sided relationship is exhausting, it's time I got into a relationship I know is a give and take kind of relationship. So why do I keep my sugaring a secret, well I am an educated woman with a respected job, society would not understand that I am a woman who has been burned too often to let it happen again. And of course I want a relationship just not a one sided one.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 27
Personally I keep sugaring secret from a large portion of the people in my life, other than a select few such as my very close friends for example. I keep it mainly a secret because most people do not understand or do not want to understand how this sort of thing works and I just do not think it is something that every one needs to know about me. It's a part of my personal and private life and I like to keep it that way.
2022-12-28
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Sugar Baby / 35
Well it all depends because too many people start talking about to much non sense and that is what make me mad so if all that drama and unnecessary bullshit starts to happen that's when it goes all bad and have to keep it under raps from everyone and any one but other then that it is perfectly fine to show them off to family friends and any one who even cares
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes, I do choose to keep my sugaring secret. There are so many false perceptions of the relationship between a sugar daddy and baby. Many people believe that these are women who are nothing but gold diggers trying to scam older men with thei body. It is SO much more than that. Being upfront and honest about what you are looking for in a relationship allows for it to flourish and both parties are looking for something that suits them. Don’t judge others about something you know nothing of!
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 29
The reason I want and need my sugar daddy to be secret is because I'm engaged to my baby daddy and fiance well he cheated and I'm over it. I'm sick of being treated like shit and made to feel unwanted I still love him just not sure how things will work out and just don't want to be stuck in a spot where I feel like I'm wrong. I want to be happy but I want to try to fix things even if just for my self and kids
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’m new to the sugaring community so I don’t have much experince as I only turned 18 a few months ago. As of now, I keep my sugaring a secret because I feel that people generally don’t understand the relationship between a sugar daddy and his baby. Some people think it’s like prostitution and it shouldn’t be accepted, but I hope that it will change in the future.
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 41
Goodness no! I am not ashamed or embarrassed. I don't need to hide it. I'm a proud woman and I don't shy away from controversy. Yes it is a little different but if the balance is right is it something to be proud of not hidden. I am proud to be who I am and get what I deserve and give what others deserve in return. Why hide who you are? I don't.
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 25
I have to keep it a secret cause a lot of people dont understand this kind of a relationship. They think its a prostitution and its bad bit they are absolutely wrong though. Its more than that. Its a relationship just like every other and people need to get that cause I'm tired of hearing that its a prostitution cause its not. People are way too rude.
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do keep my sugaring secret because where I live is not very well seen and I don’t want to have any kind of problem with my friends or my family. If the situation was any different I wouldn’t mind to be open about it but sadly it isn’t. Also I think it’s more special to keep it as a secret at the beginning at least. I think I’ll tell first my best friend and if sugaring goes good for me I’ll be more open about it
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 25
In all honesty I'm new to this and I'm afraid that people will judge me for wanting a sugar daddy. It's not too often that I hear people being sugar baby sugar mamas and sugar daddies. So there's kind of this pressure to keep this a secret so I'm not in a way exposed. This is a great opportunity to get what I want but it has to be secret. Not all others are very understanding like some.
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 43
No, my account is not secret. My long time boyfriend of 7 years up and walked out 2 days before thanksgiving so now that I'm single there isn't anything to hide. If I was still in said relationship I wouldn't be on any of these apps. So, here's to trying something new. All the best to all you daddies and babies out there. Although I prefer to eliminate the terms lol
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 39
Only 1 person knows about it. I am a private person, I value privacy and discretion very much so. Not only for me but for my sugar mama. She deserves to have anininity on my end. I am by no means ashamed of being a sugar baby, but not everyone understands the lifestyle. I think the most important part regardless of opinion is transparency with each other, some sugar moms perhaps would want a fully involved person in their life and out in the open. Under certain circumstances anything is possible!
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I actually don't keep being a sugar baby a secret because theres nothing to hide. I'm giving happiness when receiving some, nothing to hide about that. Of course no one is going to ask where you get all the money from anyway, but if they do I simply say a sugar daddy. I would even advice being one to other people. Being a sugar baby is a fun experience, why would I hide that?
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I do keep my sugaring secret! This is because I wouldn't like my religious family to find out! My family don't agree with my values and so this is why I keep my private life private! They don't need to know about my business! However, my close friends know about it and are fully supportive of my choices! They even want to join in on the fun with me!
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 36
Well I keep my sugaring a secret because I have a daughter that I want to give her the things in life that I can't do on my own. I'm currently trying to get my own place so I can have no one to answer to and do as I please. But mostly for the protection of my daughter and family. I have never been spoiled and I'm a good woman who deserves to be. An this is my first time doing this and I have to see how this goes...
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
The general association with sugaring is sex work, which is still a largely taboo topic in the west. Even as we move into a more accepting social climate, people are quick to make snap judgments to those participating even if the relationship is obviously consensual. Part of it is our society’s roots in religion and conservative ideals, but on the same note - I’m completely open about sugaring with my friends. It’s family I would be hard-pressed to tell.
2022-12-29
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Sugar Baby / 34
I do want to keep a secret, because I really don’t want any and everyone in my business. I keep to myself just as well I keep my business to myself. Everyone don’t don’t need to know either. I want to be discreet and I’m sure he wants to be discreet also. If and when we are ok to be open with our sugaring, that’s when I don’t mind it not being a secret. People are on here to be discreet and some just don’t care. I prefer to keep it a secret.
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 28
I keep my sugaring secret mostly. A few close friends know about it and think it’s geeat, but I would rather not deal with the lecture of “isn’t it dangerous” or thought of any different. This is how I make my money and live comfortably, and that is my main focus. There is a lot of stigma towards sex work, and I would rather not deal with the cliche judgement I would have to hear.
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 34
No i do not. There are plenty of women who give their time away to those so undeserving. In return often getting nothing but stress and heartache. Why not be in a mutually beneficial relationship with cheat intentions vs. One where your used? In other words know your value. So me well I encourage "sugaring". There is an someone out there waiting to share the adventure with you. Would you like to come share it?
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes I keep my sugaring a secret. Never tell your left-hand what's the right hand doing. It's not something that'll make your family proud of. It's not something that is encourage publicly. Sugaring doesn't need to be shouted about. It's a way to make financial, social, emotional, and sexual needs met. Besides there's no complaining when you get spoiled.
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 36
I keep my sugaring secret to protect the privacy of my sugar daddy in case they don't want to spoil the relationship or have families that they may not want to know I think it's important for a sugar daddy to be able to trust his sugar baby and that is why I would keep it a secret plus some men may be married or be in serious relationships but need a little fun on the side
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 27
I keep my sugar daddy a secret because, It's not there busy I'll tell them what I want them to know. I need the money to support myself and my family. I'll keep it to myself:3 if they ask if I have a sugar daddy or not I'll say "yes I do have one". I wouldn't lie about it. There's no reason to lie. People may judge or thing negative things but, I don't care it's my choice. For all I care they can suck it!
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes because it’s nobody business of who I’m entertaining and having fun with I’m young and attracted to older people and most people still don’t approve of that plus it’s slwaus more interesting and spontaneous when you have to keep it hidden from everybody else lol one way to get all the juices flowing around these parts besides some nice funds $$$$
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
I wouldn’t say I’m ashamed of it, but nobody in my life knows how open I am with sexuality, they have this idea of this innocence around me and I’m not sure why anymore. But I don’t want to ruin that facade they have of me, if I can keep it a secret then I will. They wouldn’t understand how I enjoy 50 year old men watching me or talking to me at times. That’s all.
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 38
Yes, I keep it a secret because everyone doesn't need to know my business. I'm very private. I'm not a dating site type of person so I honestly just wanted to try it out and see how I'd like it. So, far it hasn't been good to me I've gotten alot of frauds messaging me. Maybe I'll find someone soon or else I'll be deleting it. That was part of the reason I was skeptical to dating sites
2022-12-30
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Sugar Baby / 34
No I don't. Why be ashamed by doing something to help me and my child?! Would you be ashamed of telling people you worked at Wal-Mart? No. Why be ashamed of doing something that can benefit both people? I love older men and don't mind being showed off and spoiled!!! They always know how to treat you!!! Also being apart of this lifestyle is very satisfying!!
2022-12-30