Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 2
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep sugaring a secret because the social stamina against it is killing it. It's a joke among the online community and it's stupid. If two people have a happy arrangement what's the problem? I know everyone that would find ouy would honestly be disgusted. Ive had people in conversations compare it to being a sex worker which (do disrespect) is completly different!
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 30
I do keep it a secret because my family and background is very religious and it would be extremely frowned upon. I hate disappointing people and so I try to keep these things to myself. Also I know some people can be very judgemental of different relationships so it is just easier and seems smarter to continue keeping it quiet. Hopefully some people can understand that!
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have been thinking about this question for a couple of days and I still don't really know how to answer it. I think it all depends on the person I end up with. If he wants it to be a secret. I would respect it and keep it that way. But if we hit it off and it's amazing. Why hide it? What I do in my private life has nothing to do with anyone but yet that does not mean anyone deserves to be kept a secret.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do with only a handful of people knowing that they will judge me. I normally don't care what other people think of me but sometimes when I say things to the closest people I love they're judgement hurts me even more then anything. My brother, sister and a few friends know and they live the idea for me to be a sugar baby. If you want it in life go for it, don't hold back.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
I'm deciding to keep my sugaring a secret until I have the guts to tell my family. I'm scared of being judged and looked like I'm a prostitute or something. Also, I'm afraid of telling a family member and not being able to follow through with sugaring afterwards due to them thinking I'm too young to do it or being scared of something happening to me due to me hanging out with older people.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 28
I keep it a secret because I'm a Christian and still live with my parents who are also christians. I go to church with them and everything. If they were to find out it doesn't matter that I'm old enough they would try to take my phone and break it to "protect me". It's hard to keep up that perfect image all the time at such a young age, and sometimes I just wanna have some fun.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 36
Well I think nowadays with all the access to social media and multiple people giving their opinion in things they shouldn't even give it it's better to have not only your sugar but any relationship as far away as possible from people... that way you avoid gossiping and drama from other people that want to either ruin your relationship or just give their 2cents without even asking for it...
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 32
i keep it a secret as for my own privacy. im noy shy about it but i just want some discretion on my end. plus, its a bit mysterious of who i am to other people on what am i really doing. sugaring is such a pleasurable and happiness for me as i get what i want and my daddy gets what he needs for me. secrecy is a mysterious and discrete way for my sugaring.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do keep it a secret honestly. There are multiple reasons why. First off, where I’m from it wouldn’t really be acceptable. The people I hang around believe in going to college, getting a job, doing everything for yourself, etc. They don’t think I should be getting help from anyone who doesn’t owe me it. However, I don’t see why I can’t do both. I’m currently going to college and I’m looking for someone to build a relationship with as well.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 29
I want to keep my sugar a secret because it is important to have privacy and everyone needs privacy in their lives. If my sugar daddy wants that we want to go out in public it is totally fine if that’s what he wants but as much as possible things should be between me and my sugar daddy. I can be flaunted to public and anywhere if my sugar daddy feels.
2022-12-20
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Sugar Baby / 34
Do I keep mt sugaring secrete? Yes I feel it's no ones business really but I'm not afraid to let it out either but yu kno more people in yo business you tend to find more problems then expected.I learned through out my 26 yrs of life that there's nothing wrong wit keeping a secrete sometimes a secrete can be more fun and exciting when exercised at the right time. xxx
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 28
I will not lie, Its probably because of tbe negative connotation that this lifestyle has. Many view it as an easy way out, or prostitution. Now, while I do think differently, It's hard to explain. Then, pair that with the fact that I'm young And I'm attracted to older men, that just sets me up for an awjwrmard conversation Plus I don't need anyone knowing about my extra income
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 33
I keep my sugaring a secret because more times than none the man is married. I know the men i speak to married or not like to be descreet. Plus I find it a little exciting and naughty to have a secret with someone that no one else knows. To have secret meetings or to be paid secretly does something for me. The whole reason someone is looking for a sugar baby is because their life is lacking something. I’ll happily be the secret excitement they need.
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 29
It's honestly up to my daddy. If he wants to keep it discrete then we can, nothing like playing around in the dark, makes it exciting. But if my daddy wants to go public and let his friends know, then I will show him the most affection. Since there's nothing more satisfying then him being proud. When it comes down to it, whatever my daddy wants he can have. I'm all for pleasing him in any and every way possible.
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
no i dont keep my sugaring a secret, except to my parents and other family members. i tell my friends about it because i mean who really cares????? being a sugar baby is great and im so happy that ive signed up for this app and im just waiting to find the right one at the moment! also, being a sugar baby is better than what would be considered the norm for relationships in my opinion
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 25
One reason I keep this a secret because I don't want very important people to find this and say that I won't be able to do this or that because I'm a sugar baby. For example, colleges I am applying to may see this if I dont keep it secret and will not keep me as a choice for their school. Another example of why I keep this secret is I wouldn't want my little sister finding out since I am such a role model to her or my mom finding out and her being concerned or worried about me doing this because I am her daughter and she raised me.
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes i do. Just because i dont like people to know about my personal life. What i do is me. All me and noone else. And people talk too much and will start drama. Its not needed at all. This is a personal relationship. The whole world does not need to know that i have a sugar daddy. I absolutely hate drama! Plus i love having dirty little secrets ya know? ;)
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep this secret because of many reasons. I keep it from people mainly around here because I don’t want to be judged and told that what I’m doing is bad or slutty. I’d rather just me and the other person know to keep out all that unnecessary drama. It’s not like I’m going to be spending my life with them to the point when I have to say something.
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yea I guess I do keep it a complete secret, cause for one i never felt like it was anyone's business what I did in my spare or private time, I personally feel like some people in my life wouldn't care, as long as I'm safe, healthy and happy, but you always have those that would disapprove, think you selling yourselves or your soul, who really knows.
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 31
I actually don't think it's anyone business. Cuz if you have a problem with it .I think you should be paying my bills and anything else I need. Also people just run they mouth too much. And I'm no not the kind of person who likes my business all out for everybody too know. That's just how I am. Not like everybody ot here i'm truly (one of a kinda)
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 38
Yes. Because I have a life outside this. I don't want my family to judge my need of money and companionship. I want to rise above my situation and do better and I need them to think I did that because I have just been so broken till now. If they knew I'd be shamed out my family. Plus they don't know what a horn dog I am inside lol. So I have to keep this a secret. Its like 007 shit lol.
2022-12-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
It’s just misunderstood and taboo to others. People like their fantasy of what is pure, and others are just traditional. Sugar relationships are just more clear cut. Money in relationships has been too closely associated with escorting which can have a negative connotation to it. I keep my life in general private, and this is a part of that. It’s just harder to explain than a regular relationship, and those are already difficult to explain.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
My close friends know about my sugar daddy arrangements, but I for the most part keep this aspect of my life quite secretive. I do so as society is so quick to judge such arrangements, as they don’t really know what it’s like. Most people judge women for doing such things, and believe we’re “slutty” or “gold diggers,” but I believe it’s really no ones business except mine and my mans.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 38
I keep my sugaring secret from judgmental people because they cant see the good in it. Also its nobodies business what i choose to do in my personal life. The only time other people should get involved is if i am being harmed or threatened. Other then that if i am cool them everyone else should be cool too. My close friends know able my sugaring but that is about it.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 38
Yes for the most part I do try and keep it on the down low, mainly because we have some real up tight, close minded, judgmental, flat out ignorant ass people we have to share this big beautiful planet with & Instead of trying to convince or explain anything I'd prefer avoid the conversation altogether. Less headache. Less dramas. More of what matters most!
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
I've only been on the app for a day and I've already told a few people. It's really not something i am ashamed of, i look at it as just another dating app really. I dont think i would want everyone to know purely because of the taboo around it, i know that some people wouldn't understand and would judge me for it. But close friends get it, a few even recommended it to me.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 37
I dont believe relationships are really anyone's perogative except those who are apart of the relationship. You don't have to explain and dont owe people anything. There are so many relationship structures, people are not all traditional and apart of monogamy and i believe we should leave that thinking in 2017. Im not opposed to telling people of it comea up and me and my sugar are comfortable but i like my privacy. .
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 51
I absolutely do keep my sugaring a secret. The best kept secret is one untold! I am extremely busy and have many things to accomplish! I feel that intimacy and privacy are of major importance. Know one needs to know all my business. Most like to watch others fall and would attempt to destroy using what I find to be a huge turn on. Life's to short to live by someone else's rules unless. . I'm in midst of role play. Letz have some shhhhhh fun.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
I keep sugaring a secret because as a female, we’re supposed to have morals thanks to society. While I do have morals, sometimes morals mean that I have to be alone. No one really wants conservative nowadays. I’m new to this but personally, I think it’s fun already. When I’m comfortable enough, I’ll eventually share that I’m engaging in things like this.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
No, not really, I don't. Some people may frown upon it, it may be deemed taboo but I personally feel there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. A connection is a connection and materials are materials. I do what makes me happy and nobody else's opinion really matters. It doesn't affect anyone else in any way. Company is company and I want to embrace every opportunity I'm given.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
I’m extremely open so no, I don’t keep it a secret. You never know what’s around that corner, for all you know it could be your next sugar daddy/baby/mommy! I love empowering people to put themselves out there and strive to be who they want to be. For me, I wanted to be a sugar baby. I have gotten tons of support from both my family and friends. I love being a sugar baby🍒
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 28
I still plan on going to university and building a life for myself. If anything was to go public it could have an effect on future job opportunities. Some people can be closed minded and negative. I like to keep my personal life private, this is my life and how I choose to live it is my decision. I should be able to do so without others being involved where it doesn't concern them.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do, in fact, keep my “sugaring” a secret for the simple fact that I owe my Daddy their privacy. Plus, having been raised in a strict religious setting, I try to avoid any startling news that could put my parents in an early grave, lol. What I do with my life runs smoother the less people know about it. It’s also more intimate that way, pleasing both parties.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I feel like it’s not something that’s needed to be kept a secret. It’s the same as someone using a mainstream dating site, should that be kept a secret? Sugaring is just less commitment than meeting people through dating sites, and you get to meet people who just want company when travelling the world which is nice, it’s nice to not have pressure of being serious with someone.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Not at all! When I was 15-16 I would tease my parents telling them when I turned 18 I would get a sugar daddy and now it's coming true! I think it's very exciting and don't see the point in hiding it. Also, if my girlfriends ask I can show them and they can get a sugar daddy too! Of course some people will judge, but it's my life and if I think it's ok then it is!
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 31
I do not keep it a secret from anyone, except my parents.. They have such high expectations set for me and if they found out, my mother especially would be so disappointed.. I'm not ashamed, but I don't want to distort the image my mother has of me in her head. My friends all support me. I'm not ready to settle down and I'm having fun. They wish they were in my shoes. ♡
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I do keep my sugaring a secret, mainly because it’s not acceptable to tell others something your sugar daddy might not be willing to have shared, and it’s a secret luxury lifestyle, not something everyone will understand and may try to exploit. I would advise if in need to talk to a confident, choose wisely with who you would want to trust with your secrets.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep it personal because no one needs to know my business. I was kicked out after high school and I had to find a way to survive. I am a survivor and a fighter. I go to college full time, play college basketball, live on my own, and have my own car note. Everyone wants to judge but I do not see any of them giving me a helping hand. I feel that it’s harder for someone with my build to find a sugar daddy that is interested in more of a muscular-thick build over a skinny peitite woman.
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Only if my Sugar Daddy wants me to be discreet why because those are part of the rules we agreed apon. If he doesn’t want it to be a secret then it won’t be. But honestly who’s business is it other than his and mind! People can know of us but they don’t have to know anything about us... You can say I’m very private but you can still read me like a book
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 30
If he wanted to keep it a secret i would but I wouldn't mind showing him off plus I'm arm and eye candy why wouldn't he wanna show this sexy ass off!! Also I don't wanna have SEx or date a married man because if I'm married one day I wouldn't want my husband fucking a sexy girl like me I would hope that sexy girl would say no to married man maybe that's why he would want it to be a secret just guessing
2022-12-22
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Sugar Baby / 55
I do keep sugaring a secret as I am a very, very private person. I wear my heart on my sleeve but my private life belongs to me. I do not ask anyone else to be part of my adult relationships. Unless it's a three some! ;). I enjoy my private life and I'm sure you do too. Let's keep it that way. I'm new to this. I'd like to just ease my way in. I'm sure someone will find me intriguing. Lol
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 36
Yes because sometimes identities are best kept secret. Certain careers require a very tame life. Certain people are in relationships that just need an extra flame to keep things going. Usually honesty is the best policy but what happens behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors. A lot of people need to learn to mind their business when it comes to certain other people's happiness.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 33
I would like to keep it a secret, but if that relationship flourishes I will not stop it. If we both decide to let everyone know so be it. Usually, they just want to show me off to their friends and co-workers. Or they are very DL and it's our little secret. I am ok with either so long as we tell one another what we decide to do. Dates are a must though.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 29
I do keep it a secret. Being raise by my Latin and European parents they instilled in me a sense of independence. So they don't really see me having a sugar daddy a good thing because I can support myself. But at the same time, I don't believe I am doing it for the money. Although currently unemployed I use to make my one money before I left my job for being mistreated. I loved working and making my own money. I have always juggled with the idea of how it would be like to accompany someone of a sugar daddy status and make then feel awesome with the company I give them.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes I keep my sugaring a secret because I wouldn't want may mum to find out plus I have a very judgmental Family.... Further more I prefer it been my business only on what I do with my sugar daddy... Only me and him have access to our arrangement. I don't Feel it's necessary for my friends and the rest to know where am getting luxurious life from .
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
I have told a few close friends that I’m on this app just trying out the sugaring lifestyle but that’s as much in depth as I’ve told anyone. I don’t feel as though anyone needs to know about my relationships in depth besides me and whomever I decide to be in a relationship with. That goes for any type of relationship including a sugaring relationship.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 29
I feel that some people wouldn’t understand and they would judge. With that being said I think that knowledge is power and the more you know the more powerful you are... and depending on your sugar daddy you want to be able to display that power of them... Opps, getting carried away here. Anyways secretly can mean the difference of life or death. It’s a crazy world we live and no I be is who they say they are. This type of relations require trust and it’s hard to trust some one you know st met online...
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 34
I do keep my sugaring a secret. Other than my two sisters and one of my friends, I don't allow anyone to know my business. I don't want anyone outside of who I mentioned to over think things and try to judge me or cause any problems with anyone I associate with because who wants that? I don't think there is anything wrong with being a sugar baby but there are people who act like it's a big problem.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
i don't let everyone know, but there are a select few people in my life i deem to be very close to me, so they know. i don't tell the other people in my life because as it is a very controversial topic, i decide to keep things cordial with them so i don't find the need to tell them. after all, they're not close enough to me to know every part of my life, being a sugar baby included.
2022-12-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
I kind of keep most things a secret. Not by intention. I come from a family that includes some high profile kind of people so I've grown to not talk about too many personal things just as a general rule. I'm in no way ashamed about being a sugar baby. I am a single adult and what other people think is their thoughts and I can't base any of my life on the thoughts of others so I'm a proud baby, sugar.
2022-12-23