Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 12
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Sugar Baby / 26
Personality yes I keep it quiet I don’t want everyone knowing my business and I feel that’s fair plus some sugar daddy’s don’t want everyone knowing their business either so I keep it on the down low if the daddy wanted to go public that’s his decision and I’m open to it but until then it’s between me and my sugar daddy
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 52
I was very open about my only mommy but she always bragged on how much she let me spend daily. do everyone knew. now had she asked for discretion I would have respected that. but when you are in a town this big spending that much money people know very fast. I left her because she was having sex with alot od people and lying to me all the time. for no amount of money will I break morales. Now I am looking for a mommy that wants to settle down but still have fun.
2023-05-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes. I’ll keep it a secret it’s not anyone business what I do. And if I do tell them they will probably just judge me to. I don’t find anything wrong with this. We are here to make friends to be honest some people could just be lonely and don’t have no one to talk to or some people really need sugar daddy to help them out in life
2023-05-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
yes, because this is the only way I can get ahead. I've tried alot and don't have much. I'm losing every time I turn around. I just need help and a way out. I need this to work to go myself go somewhere in life. I'm trying to get better but I do everything. alone and I can't let this be known to anyone.
2023-05-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
I keep it secret because I don’t want my sugar daddy to be uncomfortable/ looked down on if anyone finds out. So lets keep it a secret shall we ;) Plus i’m a student and it would be awkward as hell if i had to explain shit to my classmates or teachers so yeaaa keeping it a secret is probably the best.
2023-05-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
yes I keep it a secret for the most part. I have one close friend who knows I'm a sugar baby and she could care less, she actually thinks it's kinda sweet. But otherwise yes this is my lifestyle but I dont see how it would be anyone else's business. And your sugar daddy/mommy might not want others to know about them
2023-05-15
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes I do. Unless it's between another baby or any of my friends who have been in the entertainment industy/ sex work it's very hard to describe or relate to someone who hasn't walked a day in the life. Lots of scrutiny can come about especially with so many women claiming women's rights and whatnot. Alot of women AND men tend to look down on this sort of thing and don't understand what REAL empowerment means. It's just like politics, stay tight lipped in company and if you do choose to speak on it make sure you have facts and evidence to support your case. Otherwise, keep it hush hush 😘
2023-05-15
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Sugar Baby / 30
I would personally prefer to keep my business between my sugar daddy and I, but I also wouldn't mind having an open relationship. Honestly it would be up to him because I would want to respect his wishes or even if he has family, not everyone needs to know what we do or where we go. The relationship between you two should be on mutual terms and that's that.
2023-05-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, I believe the relationship should be kept discreetly. unless of course your daddy approves. Reason being is that most daddies have a career where being a sugar daddy would harm them. And also, keeping things to yourself is a good idea. you never really know who your friends are! Sometimes, people you thought won’t do you wrong, will use this information against you or even exploit it
2023-05-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
i do keep it secret. even when i am not embarrassed i believe that it's just a part of my life i don't want to share with someone outside this world. sometimes people see sugar babies as just someone that wants to take money from the sugar daddy, in my case i really would like to connect with someone i can respect and admire more than just take his money. and since i dont want to hear all the bad talk i keep it to myself
2023-05-16
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Sugar Baby / 44
because what we do is between me and him especially if he wants to be discreet i will keep him to myself I want to keep hom as happy as possible especially if he is a good daddy then he deserves it I think alot ok babies would agree to this seeing how most are married or have jobs that call for everthing to be hush hush...
2023-05-17
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Sugar Baby / 25
I keep it a secret simply because not everyone is open to it and some people don’t agree. Although I do think it’s a great way to get yourself out there and explore whilst getting what you need. Also it’s important to respect both parties when it comes to a situation like this as they might not appreciate the relationship going public. X
2023-05-18
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes. I live with my brother and our Christian family so if they knew that I was a part of the sugar baby lifestyle they would mock me about it or not accept it. They work with teens so it does not look good if someone in their house is a sugar baby or just if they do not understand they lifestyle. To me, its way more than money and sex, but that may be what they think it is all about so I dont want to chance it with them knowing at all.
2023-05-19
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Sugar Baby / 28
I actually keep it as a Secret for numerous reasons. 1. To respect his life (I like to call it my “Side Chick” personality) 2. So it doesn’t interrupt my life 3. Because I come from a family where you WILL be judged easily if you do something outside of what they believe in. It’s even harder because I’m the youngest of all of my siblings. I’m the first child to attend college within the past 1-2 generations. So I tend to have a lot of pressure. So yeah…you might understand where I’m coming from.
2023-05-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes of course and away you have to keep it a secret I mean you don’t have to but I do because you know first of all it’s not really anyone’s business to now and I feel like if they did I wouldn’t care but people are very judgmental and they would get jealous or just something would happen to the point where you would lose friends or something so it’s just better to keep your personal business to yourself
2023-05-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
My sugaring would definitely be kept as a secret, simply because many would not approve. Personally, I understand why someone may not approve but I mean, it’s my life, lol. Also, keeping it a secret would make it more thrilling. It’d be our dirty little secret and it sounds pretty sexy if we keep it that way. ;)
2023-05-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
No I tell my boyfriend straight up. I WILL FIND A FREAKING SUGAR DADDY NAMES KEGAN WHOSE CAUCASIAN AND WILL TAKE ME OUT TO DINNER EVERY NIGHT. Well the take out part is a lie. I just want Uber eats and I’m happy. I feel as if something that’s so big in your life should not be hidden. Respect the person who’s giving you that cash. You’re on the same level as them. Just different qualities.
2023-05-23
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Sugar Baby / 39
Everyone reacts to it differently. people that are not in the lifestyle tend to have some pretty awful thoughts about me and my situation. To avoid being judged I think it is best not to flaunt your life style. Daddio should have a say in the openness as well. You don't want to put him in an awkward place where his actions are being questioned.
2023-05-23
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes I believe is personal and should be kept between 2 persons. In my case that is mostly I like online relationship bcs is more anonymous. Protecting that person identity is important mostly if you have kids and family. The pros and the cons of not being a secret is having way too much money that you don’t give a fuck.
2023-05-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
I think the secrecy of sugaring should be determined by each couple. I personally probably wouldn’t be very open about it at first, at least not until I was comfortable with my situation first. I think it’s important that both parties are comfortable with being secret or being open about it and come to an agreement together.
2023-05-24
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes, because not everybody needs to know you business, keep it private to yourself. Not all people are accepting to your sugar life, everybody is going to have their opinions on being a sugar baby. If your sugar daddy doesn't want you to say anything about what you guys do, then you gotta respect that. keep your personal life separate from your reality, I just think it's best. I mean if your comfortable telling the outside world that's up to you. Some of us like to keep it separate, what ever you and your SD feel comfortable doing, it's up to you.
2023-05-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I do because for one it's nobodies business what I do or who I do stuff with. Secondly, people in this society are so childish and simple minded, they hear "sugardaddy/momma" and instantly think you're fucking someone for money or resources.. I'd rather not deal with people's nasty opinions or thoughts so I keep my relationships private.
2023-05-24
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes, I keep it a secret for many reasons. He could have a wife and I'm the excitement on the side. Or every now and the. I'll have a boyfriend who doesn't know about my daddy. My daddy takes care of me and I take care of him. Unless we be both decide to disclose our relationship to other parties, it stays between us.
2023-05-24
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Sugar Baby / 29
No I don’t but I don’t feel as bough there is reallly any secrets. I think for the most part it is common sense. And more so a “luck” thing everyone won’t be successful in getting a sugar daddy no matter how good they look. Maybe it’s certain things you should say but you could say the same thing as a successful baby and still not be in their position!
2023-05-24
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Sugar Baby / 36
I do keep my sugaring very discreet. The reasons are different for each sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship out there. Alot of times its the sugardaddys wishes. Sometimes its the sugarbaby. I personally feel like it all depends on the relationship and what works for your particular situation. Muah Sudy! XOXO
2023-05-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
Personally, I do. The people in my life would definitely not be accepting of this life style. I come from a strict family so anything I usually did growing up was kept a secret so at this point it’s more force of habit than me being scared to tell them. However I do confide in the people I trust and they are ever supportive of how I make my money. At the end of the day, you gotta to what works 🤷🏽♀️
2023-05-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
It all depends on the nature of our relationship, if we have a discussion and agree that our relationship should be secret, then it should unless we get serious and decide to take things to another level and even then, I'd rather have his opinion. Our society is not very open-minded about that kind of a relationship. So, we have to discuss the terms of our relationship before anything else.
2023-05-25
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Sugar Baby / 31
I leep it a secret because I don't want people hackling me for what I do in my spare time. As a college student I work hard to earn my education on top of working on my busy schedule. So what little time I do have I am going to spwnd it how I darn well please. Ontop of the fact that society deems such relationships as parasitic and improper based on their nature it only gives me more reason to keep underwraps. it shouldn't matter what we do if its between two consenting adult and is legal. plus doesn't help my family is super religious. lol im already the rainbow heathen sheep of the family. might as well not add another penny to the sin bucket. 😂
2023-05-25
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Sugar Baby / 49
I believe that the secretiveness of the relationship that I have with my Sugar daddy will be based upon the nature of our relationship. Honestly, I have never really cared of the opinions of others, so what business is it of the relationship that I have with my man. If he is married, then of course it would have to be kept a secret to protect him.
2023-05-26
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Sugar Baby / 39
I need to keep this discreet because I'm working toward a career in the publishing industry. The absolute last thing I need is this leaking to the public and destroying my image/career. I also don't need my already judgmental family knowing about this. The only person who knows I do this is my best friend.
2023-05-26
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes I’ll keep my sugaring a secret because it’s nobody business, and it should be kept between me and my daddy lol, I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business. I definitely like to be discrete about things anyways unless it turns into something very real, I’m not opposed to that but I really would like to start off keeping it under covers
2023-05-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I keep my lifestyle private. I don’t think it’s anyone’s business how I make my income as long as I can live a happy life. I’m fulfilled in my work and whether it’s taboo or not shouldn’t matter. I love what I do and I want to continue doing it for as long as I can. Sugaring is my passion and happiness 😍
2023-05-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, I do believe it should be kept secrets by both party unless both parties agree to not do so... sugar daddy is not something that can be accepted by everyone. I think there should be level of secrecy that both parties may want to keep like being seen in public, etcetera.. Unless it have gone to the serious level or agreed by both parties
2023-05-27
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Sugar Baby / 43
Yes, I am an private person. I don't like for people to be in my business. I don't do messy people and drama, so I stay to myself. A lot of people will try to judge you, because they don't really know you. Plus I am a very shy person, but once I have a couple of drinks, I open up just a little.
2023-05-27
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I do keep it a secret because it's easier that way. Not everyone understands this lifestyle so many make assumptions about it all or are just quick to judge those in that type of relationship which could affect some. it's just a safer way because the less people who know the details or even know of the relationship the better the relationship should be.
2023-05-29
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Sugar Baby / 37
I've haven't told any one, although I am tempted every day to tell my best friend. My ex knew when I first registered, but that doesn't even bother me. It fuels me to be a better woman than the girl I was being when he was around.. I've had an "arrangement" before but never from an app or social media.
2023-05-31
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Sugar Baby / 48
Absolutely. I am a very private person and believe that many things are need to know basis and most just don't need to know. I live my life how I see fit and too many people these days are quick are quick to judge or gossip or worse. It's also a very small world and information travels fast, what if someone I know works for is family to my daddy and I didn't know? If Daddy wants people to know about us he will tell them. Until then my lips are sealed.
2023-06-01
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Sugar Baby / 25
Es mucho mejor tenerlos en secreto y mas divertido ademas de que es mas fácil y no están en constantes cono que criticas y así disfrutar de la relación sin ningún problema y no tener que dar explicaciones a las demás personas esperando algo que no aceptaran nunca porque son de mente cerrada y no les gusta disfrutar
2023-06-03
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Sugar Baby / 29
I do from most people but my mom knows. She is the one that suggested the lifestyle. But its not for everyone and i know a lot of people do not agree with with the lifestlye so I would not be telling everyone. I think if ypu are meeting someone you should let someone close to you know just for safety reasons.
2023-06-05
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes. I strive to remain discreet. This particular lifestyle is not for everyone. And frankly it's no one's business what exactly i do in my personal life. As long as me and my sugar daddy have an arrangement that works, i fail to see why anyone else needs to know the details. Then again that's just my opinion.
2023-06-05
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes since I prefer privacy and discretion. Nobody has to know from where do you get all your new goodies and money like it’s nobody’s business and also people still have closed minds so they wouldn’t understand this new concept of ” relationship “ and since people are so judgmental I prefer keeping this discrete and as a secret so no problemas and no drama
2023-06-06
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Sugar Baby / 26
I am kind of in between. With most of the people i know, i dont tell them about my sugaring because i kniw the only thing they would do is judge me. However, there are like one or two people i tell because i know they wouldnt judge me. They let me do what i want as long as i am safe. Plus, you have to have a cover sometimes, right?
2023-06-06
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes, I'm a secretive person! I love the idea of having a sugar daddy but not my people in my life would understand me kinks. Message me, baby! I'll make your night, I promise! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
2023-06-07
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Sugar Baby / 38
yes because they may have a private life other then just with you. they may have a wife and family at home and you never want to mess someone's home life up. they are trying to help you so why do wrong to them. plus more then likely when they want to be a sugar daddy its because they dont want a complicated relationship.
2023-06-07
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Sugar Baby / 36
yes i keep everything between us a secret. Because that's one of the boundaries we have.. You have to have loyalty and trust. If he trust you not to speak on anything then you have to respect that. Meaning not even your journal because journals get misplaced too.. I always say A LISTENING EAR CAN BE A RUNNING MOUTH. And besides once you tell outsiders your sugaring secret they will have inputs and opinion.
2023-06-09
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Sugar Baby / 27
i usually keep mine descrete ill tell mybest friend but i wont show a picture of the person ever unless the sugar daddy is ok with it. i always try to keep it secret tho because its a personal thing not everyone should know unless yall are dating and make it public because you fell in love with eachother then of course you can tell people if yall are comfortable with that
2023-06-10
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Sugar Baby / 39
I give it the same spotlight as I do my sexual orientation. I don't broadcast it, but if asked about it, and the other is ok with disclosure, I'd reveal. It's important to respect the level of discreet that the other may have. I wouldn't go around spreading gossip or parading my relationship around. This has great potential to backfire!
2023-06-16
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Sugar Baby / 33
I would need to keep my sugaring a secret not because I'm ashamed but because I have young children and I want to go into a medical therapy field. You never know who may be your next boss or coworker. You don't want to be barred from something you want and/or are qualified for just because of what you do outside on your own time.
2023-06-17
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Sugar Baby / 43
Yes I do keep it a secret. It's between my daddy and I. I don't kiss and tell..that's very childish. I keep it a secret for both of our lives to be safe and stress free. No need to put our business out there for the world to see. It's about the two of us..not the world. If he wanted it public then we would have a talk about the consequences and if it was a good decision or not.
2023-06-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
I keep it secret in front of the most people because i am young. Just friends, which are kinky like me, are knowing it. i dont know, it would be cringey to my friends haha. But i like it to talk about it with others which have a kink. Idk what to write but they want 300 character from me oof........
2023-06-23