Do You Keep Your Sugar Arrangement Secret? And Why? - 13
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Sugar Baby / 60
I was connected to Sudy by a co worker and she initially was doing it on my phone for herself because she is married, then thought she would just take a chance on her own phone , I like the site but I’m not a paying customer. I’m keeping it hush with a lot of my friends because I seen some of the SB on tv with one of the shows like Maury and they called SB hoes and prostitutes. Just because of that I’m a little hesitant to say anything to anyone about SUDY
2023-06-23
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Sugar Baby / 34
yes because is my personal live and i can whatever that i wish, and i wish this. I would like just casual dates because i don't like relationships i don't have a Lot time for that i like sex and one suggar baby can give me for whichever what she want it. and i would not like what someone knew that i do
2023-06-25
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Sugar Baby / 25
I keep it a secret because although there's nothing wrong with it, many people in society tend to view it as such. They think were just sleeping around for money-when were actually building a new friendship or relationship for some. its just a way to help ourselves in my opinion but I know others view it as something completely different.
2023-06-30
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Sugar Baby / 30
I don't keep my sugaring a secret with my close friends. But I definitely keep the specific details a secret because I wouldn't want to jeopardise anything with my daddy. 😘 I am not ashamed of being a sugar baby and I often have to explain how I can afford such nice clothes when my day job doesn't hand out the cash I need 😅
2023-07-01
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Sugar Baby / 36
Yes, I believe it should be kept as a secret and no one else would know, just the two of you. Unless both decided to let others know or close friends know about the relationship then that would be fine as well. I would not be ashamed of the one who is helping me to be known by others but i would rather be proud because i am a part of the life of someone who is kind, generous and successful.
2023-07-02
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes because you shouldn't mix the two the lifestyle you chose isn't for everyone and some may not respect it so keeping it between you and your SD or SB is for the best. You don't want to cause extra trouble for anyone and it's to be a mutual benifecial arrangement so why bring others into it. Just keep it low key and it'll work.
2023-07-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes because its better for both parties of the situation. Especially bevauae some people you know might judge you and think its weird. Also for tge Sugar Daddy aswell because most of them want to keep it a secret aswell for their own reason like work or people that they dpnt want to find out finds out.
2023-07-05
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Sugar Baby / 30
yes I do keep my sugaring secret. I've only told one person before in my whole entire life and it's only because i trust her to a certain level. I've never told anyone else and the reason is people tend to judge you,they automatically see it as prostitution and there's nothing you can tell them to change their mind
2023-07-06
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Sugar Baby / 25
yes, I am new to the community, and I'm often scared someone i know might show up. i'm from a small town, so everyone know everyone. I'm not ashamed of it, even if my experience I knowledge of the process is limited. I admire babies on here who are confident and know how do attract attention, and i think once a reach that level I might not hide it.😉😄💋
2023-07-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes because I know none of my family or friends would understand that its ok. My friends would think its weird and my family would flip so I'm better off keeping my family and friends out of the situation. It would make things a thousand times easier. Plus my sugar daddy is going to be my sugar daddy not my boyfriend.
2023-07-07
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes, I believe that no matter what it should be kept secret, for both parties lives, especially if they are in a relationship with someone and currently seeing you on the side, unless both parties agree together that it is okay to publicize each other and theyre reasons of seeing each other.. It absolutely needs to be kept hush, hush..
2023-07-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
yes, i believe that it's supposed to be between 2 people, something to be intimate with and not boasted out for everyone to know, unless previously discussed with each other... you never know what the person Is dealing with and what is shared shouldn't be shared for everyone to know and see and talk about.
2023-07-09
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Sugar Baby / 29
yes I absolutely keep my sugaring a secret from pretty much everyone in my life exempt from my girlfriend who will end up being my wife someday and the friend who introduced me to it because it's not a common thing where I come from and i was raised that having that kind of lifestyle was unacceptable. because of this I choose to keep it to myself and a few friends.
2023-07-10
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Sugar Baby / 42
yes I will keep my daddy a secret because it's not everyone's business to know what and how he makes me feel and what I intend to do for him I like it to be secret I think it's better that way because maybe he doesn't want our business out or he wants to keep it a secret but it's really all up to him
2023-07-11
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do not keep my sugaring a secret from my partner. Relationships do not work without honesty. However, anyone else, family included... I keep it a secret. I don't need my family judging me more than they already do. Being a traveler, it's quite easy because people are always at arms length. I let in who I want.
2023-07-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do tend to keep it a secret. I do that for the safety of myself and the person I am with. I'm perfectly fine with dating older men, and I am not ashamed of it, but that might not be the same for my partner. if I do keep it a secret it's for their sake. Unless both parties are comfortable with this closing the information to close friends or relatives, that's between you and that person.
2023-07-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
Id keep it a secret because I dont like ppl in my business. It gives ppl another reason to talk about you. Im a low key type of person. Sugar Daddy could want to be discrete also, you have to respect his wishes or youre gonna end up having to find a new sugar daddy and its a real pain in the a** trying to do so.
2023-07-28
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Sugar Baby / 25
i feel like lots of people keep it a secret like myself bc many people have preconceived ideas when someone says I have a sugar daddy or sugar baby. People will most likely just think your getting money from some old man that lives somewhere far away. But I feel as if you can find so much more on here and make genuine connections on here and that being a sugar baby is so much more and can be so much more.
2023-08-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes. I believe discretion should be maintained until it's discussed whether or not that's what both people want. Some people just want a break from, what's going on at home and unless you're looking for marriage their choice should be respected and honored.
2023-08-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
si porque quiza el tenga familia y prefiera mantener su relación en secreto, al igual que yo prefiero mantenerlo en secreto por mi familia y conocidos. Ya que actualmente se juzga mucho a las personas por este tipo de acuerdo o relacion entre una persona mayor y alguien joven, aunque hayan interés de por medio tanto de uno como del otro.
2023-08-19
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Sugar Baby / 47
Whatever fits the arrangement between us best. I don't need too be 100% discreet but I will be if necessary. I have no issue with it being a secret because it's between the two of us, not anyone else. It's also so very hot to be daddy's little secret girl. I'm down with any situation that keeps us happy!
2023-08-19
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes, I do keep it secret from most people. I've only ever told 2 people that I'm on this app. I have seen how people react to sugar babies/daddies and I don't want to deal with the stigma surrounding it. Also, I have not yet had a sugar daddy and I may be more apt to tell a few other friends once that happens. I just get worried that I will get judged for being a SB, and whomever I'm with will have to deal with it as well.
2023-08-19
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Sugar Baby / 27
Todo en secreto es más divertido, se mantiene más la chispa, hay más adrenalina. No quiero que nadie conozca a mi Daddy para que luego quiera lanzarcele encima, es mío. Mi daddy me puede tener publicamente donde quiera. Pues seré suya. Pero debe complacerme en totalidad para seguir siendo suya. 😙😙😙😙😙😙
2023-08-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I keep it secret. I don't think there is anything wrong with it, but people seem to have a very negative perception of sugar babies/daddies, and see it as one or both parties being taking advantage of. I also understand some people wouldn't like it being public knowledge they have sugar babies, so I don't share that information with anyone.
2023-08-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't keep it a secret but I always respect the privacy of my partner so if my sugar daddy feels for any reason he wants to keep things between us I will. but I have had some that I've gone with to local BDSM events and didn't mind showing off that they were my sugar daddy in front of my friends and other people that wanted me and while I don't mind discretion one but I absolutely loved being showed off as someone so special I'm worth having as their sugar baby.
2023-08-21
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Sugar Baby / 49
Yes! As a sugar baby its not a secret but its not for the world to know unless we choose otherwise. If we eventually fall in love them yes tell EVERYONE if we both mutually agree. But if not then it should be don't discreetly! Yes, do what make you happy! But Think of others to such as your family. But To Each There Own, LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND HAVE FUN DOING IT! 💋
2023-08-21
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Sugar Baby / 25
I'm in high school so I live at home. I keep it a secret from my family and friends obviously. I almost got caught when my parents found all my shoes and jewelry which is probably the most expensive things in our house. I had to beg my sugar daddy to get an apartment so I can keep all my stuff there. He promises to lease me a car and I have no clue how I'm going to keep that one under wraps lol
2023-08-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I haven't actually got any proper sugar daddy yet, which is sad... So, I don't know maybe yeah I would keep it a secret and I am sure so would my sugar daddy because this is India that's how it works here. Moreover for them having a sugar baby is more of having extra marital affair. I really wish to find a good sugar daddy.
2023-08-22
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Sugar Baby / 27
si, porque mis padres no lo tomarían de una buena forma y les tengo que decir que estoy trabajando para comprarme mis cosas y tener mis gastos, ya que si se enteran de donde saco dinero pondrían el grito en el cielo y me prohibirian salir, entonces de alguna forma tengo que ocultar lo que tengo y de donde saco para mis gastos.....
2023-08-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yea. I personally keep my sugaring a secret because some people in my family think of it as prostitution and they don't agree with some of the things that they think happen. Even if you don't sleep with someone it still looks bad in some people's eyes and I don't like to argue with people so I would rather just not tell anybody
2023-08-26
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Sugar Baby / 29
confidentiality is extremely important unless they want to show me off than that is fine too. otherwise ya secret is mine to treasure. the reason this is important to me because when ppl talk usually it's never good or the story told r false and I wouldnt risk the likes of a wonderful sugar daddy for a lil gossip. I'm loyal to my sugar daddy. when I get one
2023-08-26
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Sugar Baby / 41
yes, yes I do. my personal business is just that......mine. my family is to judgmental. not open minded at all. plus what makes me happy should make them happy at the end of the day if he and I are happy with the arrangement then to me that's all that matters. I say your life is just that your life......live it to the fullest!
2023-08-28
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Sugar Baby / 30
I am fairly new on here unfortunately I haven't been lucky. However, it should definitely be a secret if it happens. It depends on what we agree on and how close we are to each other. I definitely won't keep it a secret from my best friend though. Overall, I don't think it's a lifestyle to brag about if meeting with multiple SD
2023-08-30
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I do. first and for most it is a trust think with me. I have to be able to trust my partner, and unless we both agree there is no need for it to be a secret then I believe it should be. Secondly my family tends to be very touchy with subjects such as this but in the end they support what makes me happy. Finally, I want to spend more time getting to know my partner not showing them off.
2023-08-31
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Sugar Baby / 36
I naturally don't share any info on my POTs with anyone. But aside from that, I am actually open about being a sugar baby to my inmer circle. It's just less stressful because I don't need to lie and can accommodate my SDs/SMs with way more ease and flexibility! It's also more secure. I can keep a person in the loop about where I'm going and that gives me additional safety.
2023-09-02
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Sugar Baby / 41
I absolutely keep my sugaring a secret. I believe in respecting my s/d's privacy. Besides, not everyone will approve and I dont need that kind of negativity in my life. I'm very capable of decisions and I know being a baby is a decision well thought out. This does not mean I am private in my relationship WITH my s/d ..if that is what he wants. We take care of each other, yeah? 😘💎
2023-09-13
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Sugar Baby / 27
yes , but I tell to my best friend. because not everyone have open minded. i do i don't really care about what will people say, but it is annoying sometimes. especially i live in Indonesia which is people always minding other people business. it make me wanna go out from this country actually haha..
2023-09-17
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Sugar Baby / 43
I do keep my sugaring a secret because i'm a female and if the people that knows me finds out what I've been doing, they will make conclusion of me sleeping with old men for money. Sugaring doesnt always has to do with having sex for getting something for return. If both of the partners are very attractive to each other then its perfectly normal. If not, then just think of a date you just rented for that night/day.
2023-09-18
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Sugar Baby / 36
In the beginning, I did keep my sugaring to myself because I was unsure it was the right choice forme. I slowly opened up. First, a close friend. Then, my sibling. Next, my mother. Long story short, the more confident I become about being a sugar baby, the more outgoing I ever thought I'd be about it. Daddies, I hope to talk to you soon!
2023-09-20
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Sugar Baby / 36
I'm kind of a private person. I'm very open with the person I am in a relationship or arrangement with, but to anyone else I can be a mystery. It would depend a lot on my SD. If he is open about it, after a while sure. If he rather keep our personal life personal, that totally works for me as well. I don't need to justify myself or my business, to anyone outside of it. 😁😘
2023-09-25
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Sugar Baby / 34
for the most part yes but I do have a best friend who we discuss things but I wouldn't tell certain people or family unless the sugar daddy and I agreed on that its mainly mine and his business why should I be telling others about what me and him agreed on it shouldn't matter if everyone else knows etc
2023-09-25
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Sugar Baby / 25
I don't feel it's anyone's business. My close friend and I are both sugar babies which helps greatly as we can share tips and occasionally warnings but our other friends don't need to know where we get our money from. As far as I'm concerned, unless the sd states otherwise, it's far better to be discreet.
2023-09-28