Do You Consider Yourself a Feminist, And Why? Is It Contradictory to Be a Sugar Baby And Feminist at the Same Time? - 2

370 Answers

Sugar Baby / 28

I believe all women deserve the same opportunities as a man. I believe a woman should be able to do what/who she wants how/when she wants. However, I still believe men should be respectful. I would like nice things done for me and I enjoy reciprocating them. However I still hold each gender accountable for their actions. So feminist? I guess partially.

2022-11-25

Sugar Baby / 36

I do consider myself a feminist. I love men and women who love to treat others the same. I don’t feel that I am making myself look bad, or anything or that sort. I think I am being honest up front. I want a friendship and some financial help with that. I don’t find anything wrong with a man, or women, who would like to help with my finances while we are friends. It’s benefiting him/her as well. They WANT to help me, and I’m hardworking. I work in the special education field. These sugardaddys are helping tremendously for things I could never do.

2022-11-26

Sugar Baby / 33

i would consider myself feminist in the sense that we are equal to men because we are humans with feelings and a body. i dont think feminists with sugar daddies is bad simply because thats two friends helping each other out, sometimes that can turn into more than just a friendship or an arrangement and actually be a real relationship. As long as there is respect towards each other there shouldnt be a problem

2022-11-26

Sugar Baby / 26

I believe that feminist deserve as much equally as an average person we are all human we all need to get together and love one another because we are all one.We are all Human beings and love is what connects us all.This life that we suppose call a journey is really short we are here temporary and need to treat one another with love and respect i love all you

2022-11-26

Sugar Baby / 42

I am a feminist although I believe the true meaning of what a feminist is has been lost in translation by people who want to skew it to fit their own personal agendas. I believe a feminist believes that women should have the same choices as men, the same opportunities. So if I choose a certain lifestyle of my own free will, I’m still able to reconcile being a feminist because I have the choice, freedom and opportunity to choose it.

2022-11-26

Sugar Baby / 26

One of the major points of being a feminist is equal rights, not just between the sexes, but between religions, races, and the way people decide to live their lives. If a woman would rather stay home and have a domestic life, she is no less of a woman than those who want to be independent. So that being said, if you decide to live the life as a sugar baby, you shouldn't be criticized.

2022-11-26

Sugar Baby / 28

I am a feminist. Want to know why? Because females can do whatever they want and thats literally the point. Regardless. And I want this. Why? Because I'm bored and I like making people happy and we all need help so why shouldn't we help each other? And have FUN doing it. We've been gifted with brains for a REASON, dont let them fool you. Happy, is happy.

2022-11-26

Sugar Baby / 35

I believe that being a feminist is about the right for females to choose the life that they wish to lead. If that is being a stay at home mother then that is a woman's choice, no one else's. If a lady wishes to join the military, become president, sleep with a bunch of men or women,find someo e to take care of her whether that is short term, long term whatever that is her right. No one has the right to tell her how to live her life.

2022-11-27

Sugar Baby / 34

I can be a feminist at times but that’s doesn’t mean I don’t want to be spoiled. I believe woman wanting equal pay and equal rights doesn’t take away from the fact that a woman still wants a man to treat like a lady. Feminist don’t want to be treated like man in reality they just don’t want to be discriminated against and want the same opportunities

2022-11-27

Sugar Baby / 26

Being a feminist is not about thinking women are better than men. It’s about equal rights for all. I am not above nor below a man. So yes, I am a feminist. But that doesn’t contradict my being a sugar baby. To me, I’m asserting my own power and showing all women that they have the choice to do something like this! We’re independent, and we have the choice to do these things.

2022-11-27

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself a feminist. Even though you can argue many view points. I myselfbdont find it contradicting my life at any point. There are many many many SD that love strong independent feminist type women that's what so great about it in the end. So long as my SD is fine with being myself it will never conflict with anything to be honest.

2022-11-27

Sugar Baby / 28

I am a feminist. I believe men and women are equal and should be treated as such. I do not believe being a suger baby makes you any less that someone else. It is a choice you make and if eveyone involved is happy safe and fulfilled then thst is all thst matters. It is possible to ve a feminist and yet still allow yourself to depend on another person.

2022-11-28

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself to be a feminist. A feminist is someone that believes in equal rights for women and for them to be able to do whatever they want with their body without being judged by other people. I don’t think being a sugar baby contradicts being a feminist because the whole point of being a feminist is doing whatever you choose to with yourself

2022-11-28

Sugar Baby / 31

I believe I'm a feminist. I believe you can be a feminist and still be a sugar baby. Remembering that you don't have to be confined to a certain idea, in my opinion is what it means to be a feminist. The notion that I cannot build a relationship with another individual any way I'd like and be a women deserving of equality is not an option for me, and shouldn't be for any woman.

2022-11-28

Sugar Baby / 30

I feel like I am very feminist of course I have always been a a very independent woman who knows hoe to take care of herself.I eat healthy I workout I take really good care of myself. I very so do take care of my hygiene and love to shoe my confidence as to modeling I am very open with my body as to taking pics and showing off what I have so I am very so feminine as the dominant one

2022-11-28

Sugar Baby / 32

I don't consider myself a feminist. I consider myself a person, the same as anyone else. I think people are people no matter what or who you are. I don't think being a sugar baby goes against the ideas of feminism at all! Some women could think of it as shallow or demeaning but that's just judgemental. This is empowering & freeing! There is nothing wrong with a strong woman knowing what she wants.

2022-11-29

Sugar Baby / 29

I'm not a feminist. I believe men and women were created differently for a reason. However I think as far as wages go they should be the same for doing the same job. Women were not made to be physically able to handle everything a man was and a man was not made to be able to carry a child like we can. There are reasons we are different and I think we should all embrace those differences.

2022-11-29

Sugar Baby / 28

I am not a feminist but from what I do know about feminism and it’s concepts is that it is all about equality. If anything, sugaring is empowering women as it normalizes the same things that men do except that we get to have a little fun with it. Being a sugar-baby is Inspiring to a lot of new age woman as it boosts your confidence. It takes a lot for woman to just step out of their comfort zones.

2022-11-30

Sugar Baby / 29

I am definitely morenin the middle. I do believe women should be held to the same standards as men whether it be enlisting in the military draft to job salary. I don’t however feel like women in America are as oppressed as women overseas due to the fact we have more freedom here than just about anywhere else (sans canada and the UK), when we are able to walk outside without a burka or without a man present we do not need such high levels of feminism in my opinion.

2022-11-30

Sugar Baby / 27

I feel like I am reasonably feminist, but I also don't have typical ideas on feminism. I don't believe that being a sugar baby makes you any less of a strong, independent woman. To me, it shows your strength and your willingness to work and find what you want. Feminism is about equality for men and women, and what's more equal than sharing in money and pleasure?

2022-11-30

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes I do consider myself a feminist and being a feminist honestly I think has nothing to do with having a sugar daddy it’s just simply another relationship in life. Being a feminist doesn’t mean you have to be completely independent but it doesn’t mean you have to be dependent either. You choose what you want to do and that’s nobody else’s business.

2022-11-30

Sugar Baby / 34

I absolutely do consider myself to be a feminist/womanist. As a Black woman, matters concerning me and all other women are incredibly important to me. We deal with so much violence,sexual discrimination and hardships, i wouldn't feel right not speaking out against it all. I don't feel that being a sugar baby is contradictory or problematic for a feminist/womanist because i believe that feminism means being able to do whatever you feel necessary to fulfill your own life or make you happy. Whether being a sugar baby is a fetish for you or a career, you should be allowed to engage in this kind of thing safely and without being judged in any way. Realistically, if you do this thing right, you should feel powerful- right? 😁

2022-12-01

Sugar Baby / 34

There's unfortunately no way you can be a sugar baby who indulges in feminism... and really it's no bummer not being a feminist because I personally am not feminist I do have a level of independence if needed but I personally believe male is always alpha and women are omega... ladies tend to trip on a bad high from feminism I'm down for equal rights but draw the line making men feel less like me... men are our providers and protectors and if you want to wear pants wear them alone.

2022-12-01

Sugar Baby / 28

I consider myself to be a feminist. I believe that women have the right to do as they please and take our lives into our own hands. Believing in feminism to me is believing in women’s freedom and not being bound by a specific set of rules that are put in place to hinder us from acting freely. Me being a sugar baby is me making my own decision on what I want to do.

2022-12-01

Sugar Baby / 26

I do consider myself to be a feminist because i believe men and women are EQUAL. No one is greater than the other and we both need each other to survive on this earth. Being a sugar baby and feminist isn’t contradicting for me because your choosing to put yourself in a postition where you could possibly be slut shamed, however, if you kiss a guy and people find out you can get slut shamed for that! now and days it’s so easy to get slut shamed for everything at least this way you pay your bills!

2022-12-01

Sugar Baby / 27

I absolutely consider myself a feminist and I do not think I'm contradicting myself by being a sugar baby. Feminism is about empowering each other and fighting for each other's rights. It mean being free of society's own norms that aren't letting us embrace that freedom. Which is why being a sugar baby isn't a contradicting term. We're free to be who we want to be, be with who we want and making decisions we want.

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 26

I consider myself to be a feminist , I advocate for equality for all, not just women. I don’t think being a sugar baby has anything to do with equality, this is how I’m choosing to spend my life, which is not to be below men. Just because I enjoy having an older man/woman take care of me does not mean that every woman should have just as much opportunity to do anything a man can do.

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes i do consider myself to be a feminist. I di not think it is contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist because sugar babys are choosing to show there body and stuff off to profit from it snd i really dont see anything wrong with that. I can see how some people could think its wrong but why should others have anyhing to do with our lives and how we spend them?

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 27

feminism is about equality, i believe femininism is also about being confident and strong in anything you do even if thats sugaring, you should be comfortable in your own skin and take matters into your own hands! i see nothing wrong with sugaring as long as you and your daddy and respectful to each other and you still empower yourself:) ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 29

Of course, feminism should be the new standard, as all it entails is equal treatment among the sexes, leaving more room for people to express themselves and their relationships in what ever way makes them happiest. For instance it's very common that men are shunned for acting feminine, and women for acting masculine. However it could also be observed that acting feminine, for man or woman, is generally less accepted than people acting more traditionally masculine.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 34

Feminism is the ideal that men and women are equal. Unfortunately, we don’t get treated as such. I am a feminist, and I think being a sugar baby is empowering to both me and my sugar daddy. Feminists tend to be more intelligent, theyre more compassionate and open minded..in my opinion, we will be scammed less because we know the signs and how to avoid them.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 26

Considering I believe in the equality of all; regardless of race, age, gender/identification, or etc. — I would definitely consider myself a feminist. It’s not, in my opinion as a sugar baby, to be a feminist and a sugar baby at the same time. Simply for the fact that I am getting paid for spending quality time with someone that I have personally made a contention with, and it is consensual as well.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 28

I consider myself a feminist because I really do believe in feminism. I don’t believe that sugaring contradicts the ideals of feminism because sugaring isn’t all about objectification and inequality. I like to think of sugaring as having a nice person to talk to, and also having somebody to count on financially if you are in need. I really believe sugaring has lead me to where I am now in life, and I am eternally grateful

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 33

Oh feminism. Such a loaded word. One that I feel is very misunderstood. People often think of feminists as being angry man haters, but not all of them are. I do consider myself to be a feminist because I believe women shoukd have equal rights and the ability to make choices regarding our bodies. I also believe we live in a world that had perpetuated a rape culture and has taught men to be predatory and that grooming starts in childhood. With that being said, I do believe in gender rolls and value their importance. If I had it my way I would solely take care of the home and hold the fort down in that aspect while my man worked and paid bills ecr. I guess you could say thats a contradiction lol

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 31

Feminism is about more than just ridding our lives of men or dependance on them. Feminism is about embracing who you are as a female and doing what makes you comfortable, not living by someone else’s standards. If you want to stay at home, not wear makeup, not go to parties, that’s fantastic. If you want to meet a man and dress up for him and let him spoil you, that’s also fantastic. You can be anything you want to be and still be a feminist, as long as you believe in yourself and stand up for what is right.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself a feminist. A feminist isn't some bad person that thinks women are superior. We just want equal rights for women. I don't think it's contradictory because it's what I'm choosing. My sugar daddy isn't going to be there forever, just the amount of time we want to see each other. It's not like I'm depending on him for everything, just an extra here and there. I have a job I can provide for myself, but with such a busy schedule I don't have time for a traditional relationship. I still want someone there, but without all the labels so that's why I choose to be a sugar baby.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 31

I am Not a feminist. though i am All for Girl power.I truly believe that as a woman i truly can never be a hundred percent equal to a man and dont mind at all.Men are expected providers,protecters, head of the households.Not to say a woman cant or our role is any less important Its just different. Honestly speaking would you be okay with Unisex UFC matches? Or in the middle of the night hearing strange sounds and being told to go see who it is by your man?

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 30

I would not say am100%feminist ,for example a few weeks ago here in Kenya one of the most important examination(KCPE) here announced their results which a lot of females passed more than males,which is an amazing amazing thing because in Africa,men tend to believe that women only belong in the kitchen and making babies.My point is the number one candidate (female)is still being celebrated to date and I don't like the fact that the males who passed are not being broadcasted as much,if anything they only appeared in the newspapers once and that was it,am all for women empowerment but boys also matter

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 30

Feminism is all about everyone being treated equally in terms of human rights and to have the freedom of choice. Everyone should be allowed to choose how they want to live (as long as it is not illegal) without being judged or scrutinized by others, regardless of gender. People need to stop trying to control people's lives as I way of entertainment for themselves

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 26

I definitely consider myself a feminist. In my eyes, a feminist means a person who believes that every person should be treated equally, and this includes people who are involved in sugar relationships. In my personal opinion, it would be silly to disclude people who are involved in sugar relationships from a "feminist" label. Just let people be who they are and respect them!

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 30

I definitely consider myself a feminist. I don’t think sugaring goes against that as the core of feminism is equality across genders. Feminism is most displayed in women following the path in life that they decide for themselves and that choose, not the one that society has laid out for them (if they do not want it). I think sugaring gives propel a sense of agency because they are doing something that they want to make themselves happy, no matter what side of the relationship you’re on.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 26

I consider myself to be a feminist, especially in light of my sugar babying. Feminism gives the women the CHOICE on how we wish to live our lives and express ourselves. From my experience, a sugar baby must posses resilience, intelligence and awareness to deal with both the good and the bad sugar daddies. Although a lot of people say that being a sugar baby is relying on men, I still hold my own career and study, with the added flexibility and support that a sugar daddy can provide.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 31

I defiantly consider myself a feminist. Women should feel empowered at all times. We have fought hard to be treated with respect and have our bodies to do with as we please. If I choose do do this along side my career as I enjoy it I should be able to. I do not see it as I do not respect my body but I see it as having control over myself and I will do as I please. Feminism for the win

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 28

I do consider myself an intersectional feminist as in there should be equal rights for all women trans women women of color etc. And no?? why should it. It’s my body my choices feminism has nothing to do with any of that. It just depends of the sugar daddy you meet on their ideas and views and if that will affect you while being a sugar baby. It basically just depends.

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself a feminist, and there is nothing contradictory about it! Strong women are seeking out strong men to build a non traditional relationship that benefits both partners. The women on the site are largely in charge of how interactions occur and there are numerous ways to block/report someone who has made you uncomfortable. This site benefits all involved, and is far from anti feministic in nature

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 29

Yes, I’m a feminist, and I don’t think it’s contradictory to be looking for a sugar daddy/mommy. Being a feminist means that I think everyone can and should be treated equal. That means both equal pay and punishment, equal expectations in the workplace, and that I have the right to date whomever I want without judgement, or without being shamed. No one has the right to shame me for doing this. In any relationship, as long as all parties consent to what is being done, there shouldn’t be an issue.

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 26

I am a feminist! I think people forget the detention of a feminist which is the advocacy of women’s rights regarding equality and sex’s (gender). just because I’m a sugar baby doesn’t make you less of a feminist. That dumb feminism is supporting a sister empowering them not degrading them . That’s a problem many sugar baby’s face from my perspective

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 26

I'm a feminist but not a feminazi. I think everyone deserves equality and freedom in choices. Being a sugar baby, it's a freedom to choose. No one's forcing me into the box. A guy can do it too, it's his right to choose. As long as it doesn't become expected for all girls to be sugar babies, then it's okay and equal or whatever. Being a feminist doesn't mean being radical

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 27

Being a feminist and being a sugar baby have no correlation to one another. Being a feminist is striving for equality in a patriarchal society. Being a sugar baby is getting what she wants by using what she wants to offer. It’s not degrading herself, it’s not making herself less of a person against a man for doing this. If anything, a sugar baby can be above the sugar daddy because she gets what she desires, at the cost of a sugar daddy’s hard earned work.

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 26

I would say I'm a feminist, since equality (in every sense) is extremely important to me; no inequality, whether based on gender, race or sexuality can be justified. I don't think it's contradictory purely because I think that feminism should be the promotion of the ability for women to live equally with men, and have the choices and opportunity to do what they please. Thus, since this is a choice a woman (or man) can make, as long as they are not forced into it, it does not go against the values of feminist theory.

2022-12-06