Do You Consider Yourself a Feminist, And Why? Is It Contradictory to Be a Sugar Baby And Feminist at the Same Time? - 3

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Sugar Baby / 29

I am a feminist. I believe that most people should be feminists, as women are a huge part of everyone’s lives, and I do not think it to be contradictory to be a sugar baby as well. Feminism to me is the belief in equal right and opportunity for women. Anyone can use their assets to make money, and sugaring is no different. I believe that women should have the autonomy to make their own decisions independently.

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 30

I am a feminist. I think people get confused when they hear of a feminist sugar baby, but in my own experience? Being a sugarbaby has made me feel more respected than in a regular relationship. I think sugar daddies are also feminists in many cases. You can believe that men and women are equal beings and also want to spoil your significant other. 💝💝

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 35

I would consider myself to be a feminist. Feminism is really about equality among genders and the acceptance of different societal norms. Feminism is about empowering and uplifting women to be able to make choices that traditionally would not be thought of positively for a woman. It’s more about owning who you are and being able to feel confident and comfortable in the choices you make. It’s not just about equal pay for women, but also understanding that women can be just as dominant, sexual, aggressive, assertive, etc. as men can be. I don’t think being a sugar baby goes against that because it is being empowered by your choice. When done the right way, a sugar baby will feel loved, cherished, empowered, important and all of the things that any person would want to feel about themselves. It is really being with someone that is fully invested in you from companionship to ensuring you’re financially secure.

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 32

Yes! I consider myself a feminist and i think that feminism involves been the woman you want to be despites what society may think. A feminist should do with their bodies, lifes and choices whathever they want and that shouldnt be a problem, beacuse as a woman thats the choice i have made, and should be respected as any other women choice. My body, my decition

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 30

I'm very much a feminist. Women are their own bosses. They can decide what to do with their life. If you limit them to something, even if it's considered a good thing (like university), then you're still being oppressive. Oppression can happen when a group of people are excluded from something that EVERYONE else can have. So, if it's a girls dream to become a pornstar, then great. Not all women want to be the librarian next door. Not all women find being a stay at home mom a terribly sexist thing. Let girls do what they want.

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 41

I just consider myself a woman. I have a little bit of old school ways but I've also been the provider and the main head of household and all my relationships so now I'm looking for something different and I'm looking for someone who appreciates it and wants to spoil his woman and to make an offer it doesn't have to be money all the time it could be something simple like sending flowers

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 26

I am feminist af. It's all about self empowerment and being able to make my own choices. If I want a sugar daddy then that is my choice and my choice only. Even with a sugar daddy, I am still in control of myself and I am still as strong and powerful as people who do not choose this lifestyle. If two people are vibing and have an arrangement that benefits them both, then what is anti-feminist about that?🙂

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 29

I believe that feminism is a spectrum. There was once a time where women weren't allowed to work or drive cars or walk anywhere without a man around. Since I believe that as a woman I should have to option to work if I wanted to or drive if I wanted to or simple walk to a grocery store or a bank without being babysat then I am considered a feminist. I don't however side with feminists often on feminism discussions and debates.

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 39

I am a feminist, absolutely. I am in favor of any ideology that evens the playing field for everyone. With that being said, I think femenism has gotten a very negative reputation in the last few years, or perhaps I only notice it more with the rise of social media exposure. There are extreme versions of any movement, and those versions tend to get more public attention. I dont believe the concept of sugar babies is contradictory to femenism, if you are a female sugar baby you are in control, you determine the pace of the relationship, you start it and end it. I understand from a glance i would appear degrading to females, however any sugar baby will tell you, the female is in control unless otherwise agreed upon.

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 29

You’re a feminist if you believe in equal rights and opportunity for everyone - so, yes, I am a feminist. I used to be someone who thought feminism was dumb because people should be advocating for freedom of choice and all disadvantaged social groups, but I’ve learned that that is exactly what feminism is about. Through numerous scholarly articles, gender and women’s studies, feminist theory, and higher education in general, I’ve learned that feminists (not extremists) want women, and everyone; to have the choice to stay at home or to work, to have equal pay to their counterparts, to have control over their bodies (rather than be government regulated), to be able to own homes, choose whom they marry, and much more.

2022-12-08

Sugar Baby / 27

Being a feminist is fighting for equality and equity. Being a sugar baby is in a way feminism because you are doing something against the norm of society as a way to prove that you can offer more things. Also our sugar daddies mostly don’t treat us as inferior and are often very down to earth about respect and equality. Being a feminist is proving that you can be and do the same things as men.

2022-12-09

Sugar Baby / 37

This is a very controversial topic. I'm a big believer in women being able to provide for themselves and not depend on men or anyone for they comfort and needs. At the same time, as a woman, it is good to have a man that you can depend on financially when emergencies present themselves. I also believe a man likes a woman that can fend for herself, and if things go down the drain for them, she can handle it and help him.

2022-12-09

Sugar Baby / 30

Feminism is never about telling other women how to live their lives. Women need to stop judging and instilling their own beliefs on what a “proper” woman/feminist/wife/girlfriend/whatever is. Feminism is empowering women to not be afraid to speak up, to make sure women have an equal place in the world and we can’t do that judging every woman who goes into sugaring or any other business where they benefit from men’s desires.

2022-12-10

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider my self to be a feminist. A feminist activates for equality in every aspect. Including sexually. It is okay for men to be active sexually, but a promiscuous women is frowned upon. However, a sugar baby can have a sugar mama or daddy. As a sugar baby and feminist, I have every right to explore my interest in sugar daddies as I please. I would love for women to have a choice in what they would like to do. So, with these options , I choose to be a sugar baby.

2022-12-10

Sugar Baby / 28

I am a feminist but that being said, I fight for women's rights to do whatever they please. If they want to become independent and forge a wonderful career for themselves, then by all means do it! But if a woman wants to become a stay at home mom or a sugarbaby, then I believe they should be able to with free of judgement from other people who don't necessarily understand.

2022-12-10

Sugar Baby / 35

I'm a feminist because equity involves getting support and opportunities that were not normally available. I believe I'm someone that would contribute to a Sudy greatly and my dreams worth investing in. My mind is intellectual property. So when we talk about romance and support, that emotional, spiritual and psychological labor I am contributing to someone.

2022-12-10

Sugar Baby / 31

I do not consider myself a feminist due to its negative connotation associated with the term. I am all for woman having equal rights and women empowerment. Being a feminist is not contradictory when it comes to trying to get a sugar daddy. This is all about using what God has blessed us with to earn a great opportunity to make someone happy and them making us happy in return financially. They are so many different types of feminist groups within that community and i am willing to bet most would be okay with a sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship.

2022-12-11

Sugar Baby / 40

Lol I don't believe that feminist today are true feminist. They are just complaining to complain. Im an old school feminist. I never once believed and our thought I was ever beneath a man, our that he was above me. Most women today sadly don't know how to communicate and because of it believe that they get out down. Look in the mirror sweater, learn that there is not just your way of communicating. You have to adapt because everyone communicates differently.

2022-12-12

Sugar Baby / 31

I honestly would say im a feminist. I believe that every woman should have an equal opportunity as any man should and i believe we women deserve to have the right to decide for our own selves what we want to do and make with our lives. I dont believe it is contradting itself because you need to ve able to have the conversation about being a sugar baby and its the oportunity that comes along with it.. Not the fact that a sugar daddy owns a sugar baby. She decided that she wanted him as a sugar daddy. It was a mutual agreed apon arrangement.

2022-12-13

Sugar Baby / 29

Ofcourse I'm a feminist! As a woman i think its really important to fight for equal rights so that anyone can do what they want as long as its not harming anyone. Being a sugar baby is definitely not contradictory because i am in control of what happens to me, and i see my partner as my equal, just because the relationship is profitable for me doesnt mean we arent on the same playing field, its just the agreement we've made for our relationship.

2022-12-13

Sugar Baby / 26

i am a definite feminist and i believe that sugaring has absolutely nothing to do with whether someone is a feminist or not. for me feminism is just the idea of equality and equity for all, and the mere idea of someone being branded ‘not feminist’ just because they are in favour of sugaring goes against everything i believe in. feminism has nothing to do with sexual, romantic or other preferences

2022-12-13

Sugar Baby / 27

I definitely think it’s possible to be both. Being a feminist, to me, memes having women empowering themsevles and believing that we can accomplish all a man can. I believe being a sugar baby is a choice just to have fun and help support us. Nothing to be ashamed of whatsoever! Being a feminist is demanding that the choices we make shouldn’t subject us, like being called a hoe or attacked by sugar-haters. Who cares what women do as long as they are empowering themselves and having fun?

2022-12-13

Sugar Baby / 30

Yes I consider myself a feminist, I believe in gender equality and recognition of women in society as active members and not just by standers. It is not contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist, if as a woman you are sexually liberated enough to be comfortable in a sugar relationship, that's great. If not, it's still okay because at the end of the day you make the decisions in your life

2022-12-14

Sugar Baby / 26

I’m absolutely a feminist and see nothing contradictory about being both a sugar baby and feminist. Feminism is simply the idea that men and women are equal. I believe it also promotes the idea the women are able to do anything, this includes whatever they want with their bodies hence if I choose to sell mine then that’s my prerogative, just as it is another women’s to choose to not do so.

2022-12-14

Sugar Baby / 29

No, I do not believe this to be true at all. Being a Feminist in my eyes is one who demands respect for the female, particularly from males. While being a sugar baby may not be considered a socially respectable career, it is not inherently anti-feminist. This is of course when it is given that all members in the arrangement are treated with respect.

2022-12-14

Sugar Baby / 30

To be a feminist is to fight for the rights of the female gender which includes freely enjoying their sexuality without being socially marked as a bitch, the fact of being a baby baby does not denigrate sex or make her dependent on a gender, the fact of being a sugar baby shows sexual freedom and the ability to make the decision to be herself without being what a retrograde society wants it to be. I'm not necessarily a feminist, but I agree that the female body is each feminine and each one must decide how to use it.

2022-12-14

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself a feminist. Feminism is not all about sticking it to the Man and not allowing any man to take any higher role than yourself. it's all about creating equality and giving options. I respect women who make the choice to stay home and clean, cook, maybe take care of the kids. They made the choice for themselves. It's all about not allowing others to make choices for you, unless you chose for them to.

2022-12-15

Sugar Baby / 27

I don’t personally consider myself a feminist but I do completely stand for women and their rights because I do believe that all women should be treated as equals. With that being said I do think that being feminist and a sugar baby completely contradicts each other because when you are a sugar baby you are there to make sure your sugar daddy is happy and to meet his needs and pleasures. I don’t think that’s what feminism believes in at all I believe that feminism is about women who are independent and they do not want any one to be “taking care” of them or making them feel like they need some one to help them in life. As a sugar baby we are here to make our sugar daddies feel wanted, love and as more of a man.

2022-12-15

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself a feminist yet I don't think it contradicts to the idea of being a sugar baby. By being a sugar baby, we are making our own chouces to submit and let someonw care for us. We get to make that choice, no one else. We are still strong and we can still keep fughting for equivality but we can also submit and reach our happiness through a sugar daddy. We are in charge of our bodies, no one else. That is feminism.

2022-12-16

Sugar Baby / 57

I m a feminist to some extent as to women’s rights which I whollly supper but I am a nurturer by nature. I take care of those I love and wish to satisfy their innermost desires. There should be a give and take in any relationship. It is not expected of me to be kind to others but I do so on my own terms as long as it is reciprocated. Equality in that regard.

2022-12-16

Sugar Baby / 25

Feminism helps women in modern society be able.to achieve. Their hopes and dreams. So being a sugar baby is one of the things I as a woman want to do. And because of feminism I can do it. I believe that sugar dating empowers feminism it let's women know that they can still do whatever they want no matter what. Many people think it's not.since you'd have most likely a man paying your bills but if we want that what's the problem with it? Also men can be sugar babies now.so that's amazing. If it weren't for feminism that wouldn't be happening. Feminism helps women AND men

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 26

I am a “feminist” and i say “feminist” because i entirely separate myself with the feminist movement you see in the media. I am a feminist where I believe females deserve equal human rights. I feel women are over sexualized a lot. People have a problem with seeing a breast feeding woman ect. I do not however, support privelage. The idea some woman have where they can be sexually enticing and then say don’t sexualize me. Don’t call unwanted attention to yourself because in the world we live in you will get it. I feel a lot of feminism is directed at everything but feminism. Feminism should be rights for the female woman not reclassifying everything but female under feminism. I don’t feel it would get in the way of sugar babying. There are gender rolls that come with femininity and they need to be attended to.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 26

I am a feminist and I always will be. Being a sugar baby doesn't take away the fact that I agree with equal rights between everyone. I personally make the choice to be a sugar baby and if someone wants to spoil me, who am I to stop them? I don't allow people to push me around, but if there's a mutual arrangement between two people, I don't see how that would go against feminism.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 27

I am not a feminist, but I don’t think being a sugar baby is inherently contradictory to the nature of feminism. At its core, feminism is ultimately about female empowerment, and what empowers someone is ultimately subjective. One person may find being a sugar baby degrading while another may view it as freeing. I am not a feminist because I believe that it is one of those “looks better on paper” type things and I disagree with a lot of the points made by modern feminists. It is becoming a little too extreme.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 36

Absolutely I'm a feminist in the classic sense. It's not contradictory to have called mutual arrangement, in fact that's what marriage itself is. I am independent, do demand respect, make it clear I'm not a possession or an object, and never treat a daddy as less than or as a change purse. We are equals, we're both gaining something, no one would be disrespecting because of gender.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 26

I believe that I am a feminist, and that what women want to do with their body is their choice and it’s not up to anyone else unless it’s their sugar daddy, which the sugar baby had consented to. If women want to get spoilt and live a fun live with an older gentlemen who they know will look after them, then so be it. It’s time to start understanding.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 49

I am absolutely a feminist in every real sense of the word. Feminism is just a way to say that I have no limitations because I am female. I am capable and entitled to the same options as men. I do not believe that being a sugar baby contradicts that at all. Every woman wants to be treated like a woman at sometime if not all of the time. You never know, one day I may be a sugar momma with some boy toy babies.

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself a feminist. I know this job seems like it might be contradictory to feminist beliefs but the way I see it is I'm WORKING to get this money from men. It's kinda like a 'stick it to the Man and take their money' kind of thing. It tends to feel empowering and when I tell others about it I say it proudly. It doesn't matter what others think, if you feel like you are doing the right thing, then you are.

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Nooo,i can be also feminist and suggar baby at the same time,that's not something offensive in order if two persons just match well and spend time together in order to improve themselves at the same time even everybody have their different interests and hobbies,Feminism is knowing the women power and to know how u can manage with it.Feminism is about fredom of the soul.

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself a feminist although I dont think there is anything wrong with being a sugar baby and a feminist. Mostly because boys can be babies and girls can be mommies. I personally do it cause I like the sense of being taken care of. Boys can feel that too. Its because I'm a woman, its not because I believe men should be the ones to bring home money and all that, I would gladly have a sugar mommy. I just wanna feel protected, that doesn't make me any less of a feminist.

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 32

I absolutely believe you can be both. I like to classify it as a feminist dick lover 😘 gotta have that balance in your life you know? I always look to Rupi Kaur and trend setters like Beyoncé for how to find that balance. Her poetry helps remind me (when the nagging questions start coming) that I can make my life exactly what i want it to be. Keep slaying out there ladies 😘

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 26

I Hate this preconceived notions about feminism. And of course they are there by no fault of our own, but seriously there’s a difference between the feminatzi and the feminist. I am a feminist because I believe I should have the equal rights as a man, and the option to choose, and should he. He can stay home with the kids, or I can stay home with the kids, or neith of us can stay home with the kids. It’s about being able to make the choice. And sugaring is no different. I make a choice to sugar, and taking that choice away from me, is taking away my freedom, and defeating the point of feminism all togther.

2023-01-14

Sugar Baby / 29

I AM A FEMINIST! Being a feminist is about believing in equal rights for both men and women. And I do believe that. I choose to do what I want to create a better life for myself and should not be looked down for that, when men do the same thing and they are seen as strong and a go getter. I am a go getter and nothing less. Don’t worry ladies. These rules have been put in place for us for many years to keep us timid. TIME IS UP! And I stand w all women who can not speak in sexual harassment cases! I love all women

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 41

I consider myself a feminist because I believe women should be on the equal level with men. However it MAY seem like being a sugar baby is contradicting to feminism but it’s not. Being a sugar baby, women understand the power they have to use their confidence and body to help themselves financially or for experience. They aren’t selling themselves to men or letting the men have all the power. A sugar relationship is a respectable and equal relationship.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 25

I am a feminist and, because of it, I think that women can do whatever they want (unless you are not hurting someone). Being a feminist sugar baby doesn't make me, or you, a hypocrite. If someone thinks like that, they have to rethink their mind. ......................................... ......................................... .....................

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 28

I am a feminist. To me, being a feminist means that I decide who I am and what I want to do. I can choose to go off to collage and never step foot in a kitchen. Being a feminist is doing what you want, not because it's "normal" but because you want too. If I choose to sell my body for sex, I should be able too (as long as a limp isn't behind the madness) If I choose to be a sugar, I am aloud.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 29

Being a feminist has nothing to do with your choices regarding your body or life. If you feel empowered doing something then do it, as much as you like. Don't let other people influence your choices only because they regret their own, and forcing you to follow them makes it better. You don't have to force yourself into a mold to justify your behavior

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 26

I’m a feminist and I’m a sugar baby. I believe anyone can be a feminist no matter their occupation. Feminism isn’t about thinking women are superior it’s recognizing them as equals with equal rights. It’s my right to be whatever I want to be and right now I want to be a sugar baby. It’s my life and my choice. For those that think being a sugar baby is anti feminist like are just confused on just what it means to be a feminist

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 25

A feminist is someone who believes in the social political and economic equality of the sexes, so yes I am a feminist and I’m damn proud to be one. The women of the world aren’t getting enough credit for the amazing things that they do every single day to keep out world spinning my goal in life Is to try my best to help fight for equal rights for everyone on planet earth

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 30

This is a very tough question... now of course I am all for women’s rights and all of that.. however there are a lot of people nowadays that take this whole “feminism” thing to a whole new light. Being a feminist does not mean that women are better than men or that I hate men..as for the “do you think women could be feminists and a sugar baby” question, I do think that you can be both if you’re an actual feminist & not a feminazi

2023-01-16