What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 8
438 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 40
I'm new in this so I've never been with someone for beneficial matter. What I can see and read is that we put ourselves like objects for things we want or need on that matter. So it's up to us if we are ready to be treated for someone who will owe us and do whatever he feels like to doing. With no feelings or whatsoever attached . Our time and privacy is no longer ours.
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 37
I think the lategest disadvantages are being a fixation of someone’s more personal desires. The expectation is that I should allow/do/hear what a SD may not share on a daily basis. I like to live up to expectations, but I often fear I can’t meet all of them because they tend to stray towards excessive in some cases. Ultimately, you have to be ready for more attention than usual, and also giving more than you may usually give
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
I would say there are a lot of disadvantages to dating a sugar daddy. First off explaining he is a sugar daddy to friends and family will be hard to do. Second, there is usually an age difference and a lot of people will notice it while you guys are out. Thirdly, there is sometimes a weird feeling you get from getting money from this person you are going out with it makes you feel like some kind of escort.
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
The hardest thing about the entire situation, really, is although you could be lucky enough to be attracted to your SD and enjoy his company, but you have a sense of guilt if you are already dating someone. I have been open with one guy I dated and he was kind of okay with it, but if it were reversed, I consider it paying to cheat on a S.O.which feels really bad
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
A lot of sugar daddies don’t realise that we are humans with our own lifes, they expect you to be at their beck and call. Know when to draw the line and reiterate to them that you have responsibilities outside of them. Another annoying thing is having to be intimate with someone you aren’t attracted too, sometimes with a major age difference. A lot of the sugar daddies are married men who have kinks that their wives are not fulfilling, they will expect you to fulfill these for them, but don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with. Judgemental stares from people in public, but at the end of day it doesn’t matter what people think cause you’re getting ya coin!!
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are so many disadvantages of having a sugar daddy. Though the good can sometimes outweigh the bad, it can be hard at times. Your sugar daddy may want you to be loyal to him, but because he’s paying you he doesn’t deem it necessary to return the favor. Because there are so many different options/sugar babies, these men (sugar daddies) tend to sleep around a lot with many different girls to fulfill their fantasies and desires.
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
The biggest disadvantage to dating a sugar daddy is probably not being attracted to them and being intimate. Always put your safety at the top and if you feel unsafe during any period of time, get yourself out of that situation. It can be scary and stressful at times. Be protected and carry mase if you need to, also keep condoms on you because some SD’s will try to not use them and your safety comes first!
2023-04-05
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Sugar Baby / 29
As with any job comes it’s disadvantages, you need to make sure you have enough time needed to meet their needs as well as yours. You need to be able to have enough time so the date does not feel rushed. It’s important to lay out ground rules so you know their expectations and they know your limitations. Find common ground so both parties are happy
2023-04-06
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Sugar Baby / 33
Sometimes being with a sugar daddy can be quite stressful. Some don't realize that you have a personal life as well. Make sure you set your boundaries and remember that this is a business arrangement between the two of you so if you are not haply then it is not a successful relationship that is worth your time. And as a sugar baby you deserve to be spoiled!
2023-04-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
Well, its actly hard because you or the sbbneed tobfullfill the need of sugar daddy and put aside our needs. For example, the sd love bondage , sbbwill have to govalong with it and let say even though you dont like bondage.. u just still have to do it no matter what. If not sd will take bafkvtheir money and will never see u again. Or maybe the sd is married. Wew, sbcij big trouble then. Thanks ;)
2023-04-09
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Sugar Baby / 43
Time constraints. There aren't enough hours in the day sometimes to make everyone happy. You have to have time.for yourself and time to make yourself presentable for your Sugar Daddy. Sugar Daddy not being understanding of family obligations. Family's always a priority. Being led on by a fake Sugar Daddy. Time is precious enough without games being played.
2023-04-09
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Sugar Baby / 36
The disadvantages are those of your own. If you want to be a sugar baby with rules then you yourself have to deal with the repercussions of the rules as well. Some sugar daddy's won't like your rules or time retainments. When you out up walls you have to deal with them as well. If your walls wont bend then don't turn into a meanie when theirs don't as well. Remember this is a mutual agreement for ALL
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 27
The disadvantage can be when your SD demands all of your time, without respect that you have an actual life. Or they can tend to treat you as property, not a person with feelings. It’s up to you to set your rules and boundaries and what you are and are not comfortable with, safety should be you’re number one concern. It’s a business AGREEMENT, you’re not powerless. You are the one in control.
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 43
If you are clingy, this is not the best arrangement for you. SD’s usually have very complicated schedules and tis the reason they look for a mutually beneficial arrangement. If you want a boyfriend who is there 24/7 or someone to text every 5 minutes do not engage is being a SB. If you want someone to show off and post about in all your social media networks, forget being a SB.
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 32
Many of the daddy’s want sexual relationships. I’m sure many of us babies wouldn’t mind an online relationship. Another disadvantage is that many daddy’s come off pushy or too strong. Many of them feel as though if you don’t give them access to a bank account that there is no other way when in fact there are plenty of ways. We like being spoiled. We don’t always need to go shopping. I wouldn’t mind just having money to use for personal reasons like fixing my car. That’s something I would rather have
2023-04-10
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Sugar Baby / 27
The disadvantage of being with a sugar daddy is the fact that it is a sort of a relationship but one that is meant to eventually end and is emotionally draining as the SD may not be there for you completely as a boyfriend would. Not forgetting that some SDs have families and that will be their main priority, so there are times that one can feel used to some extent.
2023-04-11
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Sugar Baby / 51
The disadvantages of having a Sugar Daddy is being with some that your not attracted to and when they think they owe you just because they give you money and buy you things. Also when they want to to act like your in a relationship when they are out living the single life. And if you do develop feelings for your Sugar Daddy always wondering will it ever be more than what you have with tgem
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 32
There are many things that can make these relationships difficult. Some Sugar Daddies can be very clingy and demanding and you have to make the decision to either deal with that or decide that you have to end the relationship. Some Daddies are here to release their sexual frustrations and try new things sexually. This can sometimes be dangerous so it’s important to communicate and be safe.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 33
48 Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful . Remember this is a business agreement , you are being paid for your 'services' . Understand your SD is not obligated to care for your personal issues or even care for your feelings as some SD's are very narcissistic . Remember to always put your safety first , some SD's are experimenting new sex fantasies they have never done before and you can get hurt . There are ups and downs with every business relationship . Remember mutual benefit is a must to all SD/SB relationships !
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
I feel that if you are straightforward from the beginning about the type of business/personal relationship that you want with you sugar daddy, all problems can possibly be avoided. Problems and disadvantages arise when there isn't miscommunication. If you have a busy schedule, let him know, so that you guys can talk or meet up when it's most convenient for both of you. Establish boundaries, like what are some appropriate times to call. Sugar babies and sugar daddies have lives outside of the financial arrangements.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 31
It can be very difficult sometimes for be a sugar baby! It’s a lot of stress at times to maintain the relationship, since it is originally a business agreement. Getting paid for things can sometimes be a stress sometimes too, as at times you’ll feel like you have to always say yes to anything. Also, keeping it hidden from judging people can be difficult at times too! A lot of people don’t understand this world. Always being there for your daddy can be hard as well. It’s a lot of time and dedication.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages of having a sugar daddy is that you may feel like they have some kind of ownership over you, so anything they say you feel obligated to do. And you are not independent, you sort of rely on this person to look after you, and to fulfil your needs.. aswell as sometimes your sugar daddy may want you to do something for him and you don’t feel like it, but you might still have to.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
Many many SD can be very controlling, clingy, needy and arrogant. It can be hard to deal with. Many will have new fantasies that will put a girl in a situation they never intended to go. So I make sure I’m clear with my boundaries and if they weren’t clear it’s their needs (which happens too) then that’s not my issue. Often they’ll say they’ll give you this or that but it’s all talk. There are too many fakes out there!
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 29
I haven't found any stresses from being with one. But have found all the stress in trying to find one. So I would say take your time in finding the right guy. If your looking for love then make it apparent and if you're lookinf for less then you should let it be well known that you are looking for less. These are people's feelings that your dealing with.
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 50
Dating a sugar daddy has his disadvantage because they feel as if they own you and that you're the only person in the world that they are supposed to cater to at all times and if they text you and you don't respond it's like what are you doing why haven't you responded back to me so quickly when you have a life of your own you may have children that you have to deal with and you can't always respond
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 39
They can use money as away to control you and try and break the financial agreement without any good reason. They can discard you at anytime when they get bored. Some SD feel that this is a business arrangement and treat you as though you are there property and you must do whatever they want. People lose site the financial help is in exchange for us giving you everything without us getting back so we are then compensated.By this I mean we don’t ask questions,we are available emotionally,keep a flexible schedule, and lastly have to deal with people staring at us if we look much younger.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sometimes your sugar daddy will be married, and that's a bummer because it makes the relationship even more complicated. And i have to say, you might feel a little bit guilty. But it's normal! just don't focus on that too much. If he chose you, it's because he wants to spoil you. Another negative aspect might be if he has children older or the same age as you. If they happen to know the relationship you have with their father, it might make things a little uncomfortable, but just remember you're your daddy's sugar baby, not theirs, so don't mind them!
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 31
Honestly there are no disadvantages to dating a sugar daddy, I fact you knew what you signed up for I mean it's a lot better than being in a relationship with a guy who is nine out of ten going to cheat on you lol especially in today's society, as a sugar baby you literally just need to be cute be a good listener and be DRAMA FREE! And what ever you desire will come to you!
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
neither you will ever truly have an undertanding of what you are to each other. as a baby, you’ll feel like you’re using him in a way, even though you have feelings for him. you don’t know when to transition from “this is my sugar daddy” to “this is my boyfriend”. and sometimes it’s hard to make that differential. and you’ll definitely be judged by others for your decision and if you’re someone who’s sensitive to that it can be hard
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages of dating a sugar saying is dating someone you have no physically or personal attraction too. I feel as sugar babies, we’re in a position where we would choose money over our happiness in the actual relationships because of some of our incomes. Also, some sugar daddies aren’t very understanding if you’re busy with work, school, or family.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 31
Is not always the best guy. And you have to be nice sometimes as a sugar baby, but it's ok to know some new sugar daddy's and get some presents and good surprise from them. Some times at last they are nice and you get with a good flavor at the end of the dinner, or any conversation and moment with that new sugar daddy. There is always a chance for both
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 25
Dating a sugar daddy could be a disadvantage when comparing to a normal boy-girl highschool dating. It is definitely not the sugar daddy's job to take care of your personal feeling as this is a business contract(they pay you and you provide "services"), which means you can never expect them to cuddle you whenever you feel scread and lonely or get you ice cream if you are sad
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 35
Some disadvantages that come with your SD is that they catch feelings and become too clingy. I have experienced where the SD I used to have would become jealous and controlling. The SB and SD relationship is a business relationship and sometimes they forget that and want to become more! Boundaries and communication is the key. Also respect!!!!!!!!
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 60
The disadvantage would be a whole list of things starting with the married sugar daddy, he will make you fall in Love be and if you start showing it, he will go distant. Falling in love with your sugar daddy and he is not in that place is a disadvantage. If a sugar daddy fall in love with his sugar baby and she is not into the relationship for that, could not only be a disadvantage, but a disaster!
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
The worst is the fear that they will try to push beyond your limits. This is a power dynamic relationship both in age and finances. It’s scary to think they could potentially threaten you if you don’t do what they ask of you. On a lighter note, potentially missing out on the experience of dating people your own age. And having to face the stigma surrounding these types of arrangements/relationships
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 25
I think being a sugar daddy can be very stressful because they have a lot to deal with besides their business, their home life, possibly kids and a wife. They probably feel as though they're being pulled in many different directions. That is where a sugar baby comes in handy because her purpose is to alleviate as much stress as possible so that he can be productive
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 28
Much lkke what the other SBs say, its stressful. Finding a SD who wants what you want or is willing to work with an arrangement that both can agree on is hard, as we all have different reasons why were here. Being in a relationship isnt easy when on here, but finding the right SD can be really rewarding for both me and the SD. I hope to find the right one soon.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 26
The hardest part about it is that it's kind of a fantasy. Y'all aren't really together and you can't tell him what to do you can't get jealous. And he can walk away whenever he feels like it. My best advice is to keep it fun but don't get too emotionally attached and don't depend on them to support your whole life always have a back up plan. Just in case.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 27
Being with a sugar daddy can take a toll on your emotions. You have to remember that you are being paid, he may only like you for your looks or some other feature. And you may not be the only sugar baby. You probably won’t be his top priority either, so if you are looking for a text back, you may not get one. He may not like it if you get clingy either.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 36
The hardest thing for me has been actually falling in love and not having other people respect my relationship because of bias. It's fun when things are just casual, but people tend to judge relationships with an age gap if they become long term. I think that my closest friends and family understood and supported me, but I got a lot of questions and comments from others. It was okay though because my Daddy at the time was very protective and loving and didn't let other people's opinions affect our relationship.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 27
Being with a sugar daddy in person can be a little risky. Sometimes ladies don’t put their safety first and end up in a tricky uncomfortable situation. Sometimes sugar daddies can be a little aggressive and demanding and a sugarbaby wants to feel comfortable . Make sure that you have gotten to know the person better, and make sure you understand and know what to do when things do get out of hand ,like a back up plan
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
When dating your sugar daddy it closes opportunities to connect with other daddies and in turn limits potential sugar. Another disadvantage is if you and your sugar daddy become too close and the arrangements become less of a concern, that is why open relationships with multiple sugar daddies off you the best life and then you have a safety blanket of other daddies if one breaks off your agreement
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 31
The disaadvantages of dating a sugar daddy/momma is having to know that there are others, and that its all about the money. Its not for everyone and most people look at it differently so its merely just an opinion...but hey to each their own! It is a high stress type of environment but at the end of the day, its highly useful and could change youre life if you let it. But it can also ruin your life as well.
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 28
The chance of them becoming serious with the relationship. Its pretty much a business agreement where both parties are aware of this from the very begining so most of the time serious love isn't in the equation. Also the chance of them becoming obsessed and it becomes a threat to your well being. Its just important that your careful with your sugar carried.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
The stress. Also not being able to call them yours, it's not an actual relationship, your not dating the person which in turn makes it harder. I think that the stress is over all the worst. Not knowing if you will have time for him, him thinking the same about you, not being able to spend actual time with them like you would in a real relationship is the hardest.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
Being a sugar baby has its disadvantages. A few may be that your sugar daddy doesn’t believe that you have a life of your own, feeling can come about when that isn’t in the arrangement, or you would have to be secreative which sometimes get old. Most sugar baby/sugar daddy arrangements are business related which means it should be mutual benefits and you should be respected at all times. Remember safety is first!
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 32
Disadvantages of dating a SD. I really think this is subjective to each person because people's advantages n disadvantages differ. So, personally my disadvantages are no long term relationships in it for me because of the titles pre-established. Another disadvantage I feel is no matter what is said or done with some SD SB title deems gold diggers!
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
honestly when they get very clingy, this is an agreement im mot your wife or girlfriend. please understand that. i just hate the face that sometimes people don’t understand we get busy, have separate lives and cant always answer or reply on your time. we all need our space so it sucks when they do not respect that. but its very rate that it happens
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
Talking about the Disadvantage Of dating Sugar Daddies? for me The Key Word their Is Discrimination and Judgement. But the only thing that we could Response is To Be patience Of every Rumors Against Us and Be openminded Because If we are educated We are openmided in a sense that we Should Not Take that thing as Negative But We should think that As A challenge In us. hold on Dont break the tie. because In The Forest It is So impossimble That there was no Snakes And Distructive Animals.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 34
You could fall in love. That’s the scariest thing. Especially when you’ve become so vulnerable that it’s hard to regain that strength you had in the first place to keep the walls up. Whether it’s a discreet affair or public knowledge, having a big heart makes everything else that much harder. You might be in it for the long haul, but they can drop you whenever they felt like it. Emotions.
2023-04-24