What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 9
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Sugar Baby / 27
The disadvantage of having a sugar daddy is not letting your heart to choose but the brain. You're dating a sugar daddy not for his personality, attitude and etc nor you got feelings for him but the wealth. It can also be so stressful when you know he's already married. He's not completely yours. Sugar babies are just some sort of entertainment for daddies but being paid. That's it.
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 28
the disadvantages of dating a sugar Daddy is that they don’t like to comprehend the fact that you have a personal life and have other things going on other than them. Daddies love to take control of SB’s lives sometimes. You have to be willing enough to step up and hold your ground. Another disadvantage is they may be wayyyy older, which sexually, is hard for some girls as they may feel uncomfortable with an older man. But, that is one of the things, as a sugar baby, you are agreeing to. Being a sugar baby is kind of business, you need to lay out a “contract” explaining what is involved in yalls relationship.
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Some disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy could be he doesn't like the fact that you have your own personal life he feels as if he should be the only man or the only thing you should focus your time on and energy on just because he pays you it can get very stressful at sometimes then it'll start to feel like he's being a stalker more than your partner. Look being a sugar-baby to a sugar daddy is like a business, it's a business agreement you are getting paid for your services. what all that means is sugar daddies are practically not obligated to care about any personal issues or emotional issues that have anything to do with you and some of them are creepy and like to experiment new things that can be dangerous or harmful to either both or one of you. So be safe there are ups and downs to every business so the best thing you can do is just to keep it neutral! know all the facts, know all the rules, know the person is real, and keep it neutral and nonchalant!
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 28
Somestimes dating a sugar daddy can be stressfull your getting paid for your servieces so they don't always have to treat you way the way you think you deserve sometimes they will treat you badly because.if you say anything they simply won't pay you sometimes its also hard as some people see you as an onject and not a human .. thats being a sugar baby
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 25
As a younger member of the community, it’s difficult to find a balance of things that I’m comfortable with and things that a SD wants from me. I am constantly protecting my safety and negotiating terms which can be a bit exhausting sometimes. The financial help is good, but being relatively new means that I’m easy to take advantage of.
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
The disadvantage are. There's alot of disadvantage but few got me attention. Somehow, I haven't gotten into a sugar daddy dating. But as far as I observed the advantage of it is business is a business. You can't have mutual feelings for him or you have feelings for him. He pays you for your service not for your feelings. Put in mind that no matter what he shows or what you see in his interactions could be real or not.
2023-04-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
I think there’s a blurred line with some people between a sd/sb relationship and prostitution There’s a clear difference between the two but some people don’t understand Here it’s like your being paid for your companionship at their convenience rather than a quick fuck and it’s bye never see you again That’s still not to say that you should involve personal emotions in your relationship because it’s still a business arrangement at the end of the day
2023-04-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
I think there only is if you allow there to be ... you have to remember this is a business arrangement; this isn’t a real relationship . He’s not going to want to spend forever with you . You have to remember you’re not the love of his life and he’s not yours . Be available for him like you would any other job & don’t get overly emotional or attached .
2023-04-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
honestly, getting to know your SD as well as knowing that you are strictly being paid for ‘services’ is tough! also, they must remember you have a personal life too, and you are your own person who has the right to refuse anything they do not feel comfortable doing or are not willing to do. thus, i think just being your own person is hard dating a SD.
2023-04-28
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Sugar Baby / 37
This is really tricky.. i mean it supposed that The SD knows what kind of business is this right? But sometimes they get little dramatic....And Guys remember this is No Strings Attached....This is a business,soy they don't have to stalk to you or text like millions of time per day ....So i accept investors not stalkers...Guys think about it........
2023-04-28
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Sugar Baby / 33
Some sugar daddy's don't understand the relationship in which they have have agreed to. They want to be treated like the only priority in your life. They overstep boundaries like saying "I love you", or constantly nagging their sugar baby about other relations in their lives telling them that they refuse to "take care of you if you're seeing someone else." They don't comprehend that at the end of the day,this is a mutually gaining business relationship. That's it.
2023-04-29
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Sugar Baby / 30
The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddie is sometimes they forget about the age difference that in public places you will get many stares also that they don't always care about what issues you are having in your own personal life because of the business arrangement. A lot of them are here having affairs so you can't always call or message them when you want it will most certainly be on their timing.
2023-04-30
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Sugar Baby / 33
The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is having a sugar daddy who doesn’t not understand that you have a personal life! He feels as if he is the only man on the world and the only man you should cater too! They forget that you had a life before him and everything should halt because he’s giving you cash. I’ve had to leave many arrangements jjuuuu
2023-04-30
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Sugar Baby / 25
I think one of the disadvantages of having a sugar daddy is that they might not be as invested in to you as you do them so you can drop everything to be there for them and they don't feel the same for you and that's stress full. The second thing that is a disadvantage is that if hes married you have t worry about the wife finding out about you all.
2023-04-30
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Sugar Baby / 27
Usually viewed as most convienent lifestyle, sugaring has it's share of pros and cons. Definitely worth considering I promise.pros: allowances and a full paycheck and everything required to survive As well as ample free time etc. cons: leading double life's, less of a real relationship etc And control over the times: scheduling is wack and all over the place
2023-05-02
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Sugar Baby / 25
Although one would wish for this to be amazing, you can get put down. Just because you are getting some sugar doesn't mean you can be treated like sh*t. You are not a slave, you are not an object. Just like your sugar daddy, sugar momma or other glucose guardian, isn't a bank account. Both of you are human beings. It takes work to keep it equal and fair, but it's definitely worth it.
2023-05-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is having to provide “sugar”, but you have no whatsoever attraction towards your sugar daddy. It is best not to get involved with that daddy if you don’t feel comfortable going on dates, talking, or doing favours of any kind for him. Only date someone, sugar daddy or not, if there is some sort of trust built between you two.
2023-05-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
I feel like the disadvantages of having a sugar daddy is not being obligated to everything. If you don’t do something for him he can automatically say well I can take it away. It gives them the power in the relationship whether or not you like it or not because they provide for you. Most sugar daddies do this to feel needed
2023-05-05
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Sugar Baby / 33
Some can be over bearing or very pushy. Have your limits set. Have your own boundaries. There is a person for everyone and if someone or something makes you uncomfortable then find someone else. I am submissive and prefer a man to be dominate. Not everyone is into that sort of thing lol................................................................
2023-05-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
Distance is definitely a big disadvantage because you can't always be there right away .that is also also an advantage too so that you all can have space and that the fire doesn't go away between the two of you. Another advantage is the funds of course and the physical connections . They give you what you lack in other connections and you do the same for them.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 30
I would say some disadvantages of having a sugar daddy is explaining to other people what your position is and how it works. The judgement from people who dont understand is a big one. People will assume you're a prostitute or something close. But in reality, it's a job like most others. Dont feel bad about it and dont let others bring you down. It's your life and your choice. Another one I'd say, is weaving through sugar daddies to find one that fits your needs and his own, that to me; is a difficult one. You need to find someone that matches your own personality. It takes trial and error but you'll find the right guy in due time.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
It can be a lot of work sometimes which is why it's important to find the right one, if you are with someone that you don't really connect to it will be a lot harder to have a strong relationship and will be much for exhausting and challenging. Don't just look for the one with the most money, find someone you get along with and can connect to and there won't be many disadvantages
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 28
I feel like you need to understand, most sd don't want love, they want fun..... It is a business agreement ( pretty much) and just know mist sd are trying new things so you always need to be cautious. Some sd try the life style out and don't like it, so they leave. Some try it and love it. Dont fall for your sd because typically they won't love you back, and if they do. Then they are new.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 25
Being a sugar baby can be very stressful. It's hard to find one that understands that you have a life outside of them and while you are cherishing their time , you have a life to live too. It is great if you find a Sugar Daddy that, will communicate because communication is key. Communicate your availability to make sure you can provide your SD as much time as you can so your agreement is reached. Compromise is also very important and just be honest with your SD and tell him if it gets to be too much.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
Some sugar daddy’s can be overly dominant to a extreme level of controlling over a sugar baby and at the end of the day I am my own person and have a personal life and I think that should be completely respected. It’s important to make your sugar baby completely comfortable and not feel forced into things and it’s okay for Sugar baby to say no to things as it’s a personal choice
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
Many sugar babies rely SOLELY on their sugar daddies for income, then when they leave they have no source of income. I’ve seen and heard many stories of people who have been living it up, but when their sugar daddy leaves them they don’t have any savings and they don’t have a source of income. Remember, sugaring should be secondary to your actual life and job, not your sole means of income. Save some of the money you get from sugaring just in case of emergencies like this, or to help you during the “transitional period” that all of us sugar babies know too well.
2023-05-10
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Sugar Baby / 56
Dating can be nerve wrecking because of unknown expectations. What is he expecting from me tonight?And then there’s the factor of, is he real or is he trying to get something for free out of me. I’ve had some bad experiences. Lots of these men are business men who think we are stupid and desperate so they may try to pressure you to show how good you are as a foretaste of what’s to come. Don’t fall for it!! Keep your self respect and say no. They WILL use you ONCE and not give a gift. Being together once is not sugar material. Men can be shrewd don’t give yourself to a user. So the disadvantage is we can be used.
2023-05-10
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Sugar Baby / 44
I think the disadvantages of being a sugar baby is your on call when ever when ever he wants you no matter what you have to be ready to provide your services to him no matter what and what sucks is you could be in the middle of taking care of your personal business and he luke i will be there in 30 minutes so yea i agree it can be stressful
2023-05-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
Busco a alguien que quiera estar conmigo pero que pague mis caprichos, alguien a quien divertir y que me consienta y yo le daré felicidad, solo busco diversión, no nada serio si hay un hombre que quiera hablarme o buscarme puede hacerlo y nos ponemos de acuerdo 😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘 estaré esperando su mensaje 😊
2023-05-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
Some sugar daddies are full of sexual fantasies and you just have to be careful on what they require and if you don’t feel comfortable with it then don’t do it but usually it is an agreement and it is to fulfill his desires so that’s one con about having a sugar daddy. And it would just be great to have an agreement that both of you guys equally agree on
2023-05-20
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Sugar Baby / 32
The disadvantages are that most of the time they are married and have another life and my last sugar daddy I got quite attatched to! He had kids almost my age but he always knew what to say when I needed someone there for me! He wasn’t the richest that’s for sure but that didn’t matter to me What mattered to me was that he genuinely cared about my wellbeing ❤️
2023-05-22
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Sugar Baby / 30
La desventaja es que la mayoría quieren solo sexo y no conocer a la persona primero, eso tiende a ser incomodo ya que algunos buscamos conocer e interactuar primero y que las cosas fluyan. No sé la mayoría, pero yo entré acá porque me parece interesante encontrar gente diferente y además de eso hacer acuerdos que beneficien a las dos partes, me encanta lo del "tú me ayudas yo te ayudo".
2023-05-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
There are lots of advantages and just as many disadvantages. But I think the main disadvantage of having a sugar daddy is that there’s almost never going to be an emotional connection between the sugar daddy and the sugar baby. There’s no emotional investments, there’s no love or connections, it’s strictly business. No matter how much you could crave and beg for a connection there will be nothing and it’s really sad as sometimes people do get feelings for their SDs.
2023-05-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
Para mi, no tiene relevancia que salga con alguien más si me sigue consintiendo, el no tiene como obligación ser mi pareja oficial ni yo la de el, esto es un acuerdo de "tanto me das y tanto te doy" entonces si yo ya se que el no tiene interés en algo formal conmigo debo saber separar los aspectos de nuestra relación y dejar de lado el sentimentalismo que en estos casos no sirve de nada
2023-05-27
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Sugar Baby / 27
Para mi, no tiene relevancia que salga con alguien más si me sigue consintiendo, el no tiene como obligación ser mi pareja oficial ni yo la de el, esto es un acuerdo de "tanto me das y tanto te doy" entonces si yo ya se que el no tiene interés en algo formal conmigo debo saber separar los aspectos de nuestra relación y dejar de lado el sentimentalismo que en estos casos no sirve de nada
2023-05-27
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Sugar Baby / 27
You end up with a lot of scammers, the men are real scammers!! They always ask for bank account information! Ugh i really hate that, They waste your time and still from you, when you are innocent and do not deserve that!!!!! I have so much hate for thief’s i could never forgive it !!!! Do not contact me if you are a scammer
2023-05-28
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Sugar Baby / 31
for me it would have to be discrete, some may have a problem with it but its something that for the right person can change. im ready to have a little more fun in my life dating and intimate wise but that i can keep all to myself until i can find the guy that is absolutely perfect for me, then ill never let him go, and ill treat him right.
2023-07-10
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Sugar Baby / 26
for me ever since I started dating older men, the one disadvantage or the one thing that I've struggled with is how my family thinks of it. they believe that they're just older man trying to take advantage of me, but after being with my last partner I was able to sway their opinion. another thing that was hard for me was the fact that a lot of these men assume that I'm only there just for financial gain. I believe that if you are just are for the money then you will never have a successful sugar daddy / sugar baby relationship. It has to be about building those emotional bonds too
2023-07-26