What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 7
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Sugar Baby / 28
Them being on some weird stuff , being very clingy, not trying to pay any allowance at all . Calling you at moments you're with your boyfriend or family . Just to meet for 10 minutes. Random calls n meets . Not being attracted to them at all . Not finding them appealing or nit having any money at all . Just lying for the site . It be very thrilling but watch out
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
I feel like the biggest complication you deal with being a sugar baby, is your SD. There can be a lot of complications, the biggest one being that SD's feel that because they are paying you, that you are obligated to do things for them even if they are outside of your comfort. The best way to deal with this is by talking to your SD about what you are comfortable with and just be honest. We are all people and communication is key to an arrangement.
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 47
The disadvantages of a SD relationship is the emotional detachment. It is a bussiness arrangement and most are already married and not looking for a life partner. Also theirs always the chance that some other SB will replace you if they seem more appealing. This can definetly bruise the ego. You must be available to please them in anyway that they want even if you're uncomfortable with the request.
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 29
Like everything in life, there are disadvantages to even the sweetest of deals (I.e., being a sugar baby). Everything gets more complex in terms of expectations. Is it dating? Is it a business transaction? All of these questions must be addressed before starting. I work as a research assistant and the same rules apply when it comes to mentors. Lay out all of the questions that may come up in the future to avoid awkward situations. Are you both willing to try something new? Will there be something more than a companionship? If you don’t, this might turn into an adversive situation for both of the parties involved.
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 43
In my experience the disadvantage to dating as sugar daddy is that he’s always going to have the upper hand. Is long as you keep in mind the boundaries that he is going to keep when it comes to you and his personal life you should be OK in that relationship. Now there will come a time where he’s just not gonna want to give it to you because he feels like he has been doing that for sometime so you owe him something and this is where I advise you to just go along for the ride because in the end in order to be a successful sugar baby you’re just gonna have to take one for the team
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
There can be a ton of disadvantages. To start, SDs can be pretty busy. They expect you to give them all the time and attention they want but in reality, sugar babies have their own lives too. It's pretty difficult making time for them when you have work/school but they have an irregular schedule. A lot of the time, they are significantly older which can be weird for some people. It's really important to know that they are looking for a sugar baby for a reason. Some are only looking for sex, a lot do not care about your feelings, many feel entitled to you (because they give you money), some just want to take advantage of sugar babies. Regardless of their reasons/intentions, it is important to remember that your own safety and mental health should come first. If your SD is demanding too much or is forcing you into something you're not comfortable with, leave.
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy are the judgment and stigma around it. Most people think it’s some form of prostitution or that it’s creepy. It would be nice to have a more accepting social view of these relationships. Another disadvantage is the complications of setting up relationships and avoiding scams and people in it just for money or sex.
2023-03-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
El hecho de que no sabes que esperar, cada persona es diferente y debes ser inteligente para hablar y tratar con ellos, si haces algo mal en la primera cita puede que ya no haya una segunda. Aparte de los clásicos peligros de las citas por internet, el que no sea real, que te dejen plantado/a o que sean delincuentes. Siempre haya que tener cuidado y tomar precauciones.
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
At times it gets frustrating because a lot of SDs perpetuate double standards. They are oftentimes married, with kids however for them it is unthinkable that their SB have a life of their own outside of them. They think that because they supply you with money that they should be the only person in your life and that's pretty ridiculous. I've said it before and I'll say it again. These relationships are meant to be mutually beneficial.
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 29
Most Sugar Daddy get territorial & only want submissions to themselves alone. It's safer understanding that the same way you approach a person, another will. This ain't for better or for worse type of situation. It's more of a win win deal. Daddys hit and babies get the money. This is a connection to each getting what they want. So let's get back to business & have some fun .:)
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 33
Like any relationship, it takes time to build trust. Some previous relationships may have your SD skeptical of your true intentions. Understand it’s a process. Don’t feel discouraged if it doesn’t work out. Always be confident and be clear of expectations. That has to be the most disadvantage that I have experienced with a SD. Besides the fact that some can tend to be emotionless.
2023-03-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sometimes there are disadvantages especially if the Sugar Daddy/Mommy gets too handsy when unwanted or you feel uncomfortable or wants to do something free of charge. For me recently I sell photos and a Sugar Daddy was wanting to get the photos for free when I said I do prices. My prices are expensive and I do poses if asked but sometimes Sugar Daddies/Mommies try to get them for free. There's a disadvantage.
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 40
The only true disadvantage of being a sugar baby is knowing your Sugar Daddy could grow bored and drop you and find another, and depending on how much he spoils you, could leave you going from riches to rags. Better hope you catch his eye and keep his attention. By that I mean if he is dominant be submissive if he says don't go on a business meeting you better stay home. If it means your job... he maybe willing to keep you. All of life is about taking a leap of faith and if you don't you'll miss that exhilarating feeling from falling head first and onto something soft or hard. Which ever it is that's why it is called a leap of faith you trust that there is a HUGE pillow to catch you.
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 56
The disadvantages is that some Sugar Daddy's want it his way and thats it either you gone please his appetite or risk walking away..He is spending his money for a service and either you gone be well kept or well left.Other disadvantage is that they can tell you there income is 1million but only make 20,000 you have to take a chance on what they said.without full knowlege of there finances yout be taking a chance, pictures maybe filtered or decade old thats another disadvantage.
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
Well I think the most "popular" will be the age gap, because when you want to go to a party or another place some Sugar Daddies are not up for it, because of the already had like that part in their lives where they were young and wild (some of them) and they'll just finding boring be threw all that again. Maybe not all of them are like that I'm sure some of them are really flexible and go wherever you want with you
2023-03-25
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Sugar Baby / 25
Dear Sugar daddies, yes you guys can be very demanding (which is hot, so hot) but being insensitive is such a turn off. For us to relieve your stress, you need to understand that we have to be stress free. Well, it is no surprise that most of the sugar babbies have almost the same complain. Sugar daddies often tend to forget that we do have a personal life. No, we aren't asking them to tend to us like caring boyfriends. But a little bit of understanding that we too are humans with friends and family and some of us also have to keep up with college, jobs etc can ease the life of many sugar babbies.
2023-03-26
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Sugar Baby / 31
Something stressful or difficult about sugaring is that it’s a real person you’re dealing with! They have feelings and thoughts and ideas just like the sugar baby. You have to keep that in mind and vice versa. I know some sugar babies that do it on the downlow and the daddies want to show them off and kiss in public or hold hands and stuff like that. For this to work though everyone involved has to have a say and have terms and rules to obey and must importantly respect each other
2023-03-26
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Sugar Baby / 56
Disadvantage is that its a business adventure as any being paid for services but I believe when you cant satisfy the sugar daddy he can trade you in for the next treat. This can be a tricky relationship as any other relationship or business venture.If you are not sexual, freaky or sexy believe this is not for you.I believe most are looking for a fantasy and if you can't provide that experience or service..Be prepare to be dumped.
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 36
Well, as most of you say it's really hard, especially when the business contracts goes for years you start to develop feelings and keeping those bottled up can be a little tricky sometimes. My advice is have a clear mindset as you Bedingfield the relationship conscious decisions are the best and if you are consient that this is a business agreement holding the feelings will come easy.
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 26
Being with a sugar daddy is not like being is a "normal" relationship. It is a business arrangement, so at times it can be difficult to avoid getting too emotionally involved especially when you actually do like the person and enjoy talking to them. Also, some daddies can be very possessive, and have rules to the relationship that must be followed to receive your money.
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 25
I think one of the biggest difficulty with dating a sugar daddy is how difficult it can be to find a genuine partner. Many men don’t understand the concept of a sugar baby and get weirded out by it so we all resort to online websites. You can’t just go to the Dunkin Dounuts down the street and pick up a sugar daddy but you can sure as hell find the average man that will give you a less than normal relationship.
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 25
SB/SD relationships can be very stressful. But you have to remember it is an agreement and you’re being paid for your services. Sometimes, you have to set limits and other times you may have to extend them. The relationship is meant to be mutually beneficial. It isn’t just being paid for being cute. It is a mutually beneficial relationship that can get intense and stressful. Never be afraid to cut off an agreement you’re not okay with. Never have to question your decision.
2023-03-27
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sometimes you don’t feel like you get the same companionship as if it was a real relationship but it’s still nice to share your life with someone wether it jus be physically or mentally you still have to connect in some way shape or form so even though he is a sugar daddy there are stilll certain standards that are being held there so you have to currently keep yourself up!
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 36
Being a SB can take a toll if you try to go at it with your heart. It's not possible for a working relationship, SD are there for their pleasure, you are not their top priority. Take each interaction in strides because they can change their mind just as quick. Don't always think you'll be able to find a good looking SD, come to terms with the chance of a total lack of physical attraction if you truly want someone to take care of you.
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are a lot of disadvantages to having a sugar daddy/baby. these men say they are going to spoil you and take you on luxurious vacations and buy you clothes and cars but they lie, they are verified, They waste my time, no body is serious on here anymore. Right now my sugar daddy is with his wife and 3 kids and says he wants to leave but i don’t know if i’m gonna put up with him any longer
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 38
It will be stressful at times. Gotta remember that by the end of the day this was all bout.business. Don't let yourself fall for your SD. They can be rude sometimes, but it's the price you pay for the service you give. They can.be too needy or they can.be very lousy at times but it is the agreement that you agreed to. If it gets too hard sometimes you have to let them know. Its still a two way street.
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 26
The stigma that comes with sugar relationships is probably the biggest downside. It’s considered taboo, and it’s definitely not something I’m bragging to the parents about. I can’t be as open, and sometimes have to lie about where I get money and things like that. I can tell my friends, though. They’ve all supported me through it and love some of the funny stories that come out of it!
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
A personal disadvantage for me is being involved with and interacting with an older man who I am not into for reasons that a lot of sugar babies are here for, mainly some $$$. If I’m genuinely attracted to the person, then time spent with them will fly and all interactions will never feel like a chore. This is the case with older men because I’m not into that. Just into their wallets, honestly.
2023-03-28
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Sugar Baby / 39
It's not really hard it's buisness. Everything in life is a business. Nobody is obligated to care for you. Your "deals" can fall through & new ones can start up. It's all about how hard you make it. It can get stressful by constantly feeling like you need to attach to som eone or make sure your ducks are in a row but that apart of the territory. Make what you want of it.
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 29
A Sugar Daddy That Does Not Understand That You Have A Personal Life And There's Certain Boundaries.They Don't Totally Understand Just Yet So It Takes Time For It To Sink into Their Heads.. Another Thing Is TIME. Being With A Sugar Daddy Can Consume A lot of your Time So Just Try To Make Sure That You Gus Are On The Same Page.It Could Get Pretty Crazy.
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 35
Sometimes a sugar daddy feels that money is the way to keep you. If you have other needs, like wanting to stay up late talking, or walk in the park, they may not realize that. I was in a non-sugar, real/emotional relationship with a man who made $800,000 a year. He showed love by giving gifts. I felt crazy leaving someone who would spend thousands to see me smile. But i needed cuddles and dancing...
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
well Firstly they can be very quick to get aggravated when you aren’t quick to be in their control they can easily just say fuck it and leave you with nothing and also there’s the payment issue some SD’s may take longer than you need to pay you and that can be an issue for some . Lastly they can and most likely will be horny almost all the time and to keep them at your kneel you always need to provide them with the sexual affection they need or want even when you don’t want to at the moment .
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
A disadvantage is that sometimes, the sugar daddy can really catch feelings for you and fall in love! Don’t get me wrong, some people are looking for that, but for the babies who just want to meet exciting people, it puts us in an awkward situation! Plus they can get needy and very attached, which again is a personal preference. Make sure to establish your intentions so you don’t fall into a situation like that!
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 29
~Well, there are many disadvantages to be dating in a sugar relationship, one of them is that you are going to receive money for your ""attentions and services"", other is that you have turned out your limits with your sugar daddy, and some of them are not going to treat you really cute. Other disadvantage is: it's really hard find a good one, a good sugar daddy that really takes care of you.
2023-03-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
The hardest part would be communication when you’ve miscommunicated something. You have to understand your SD and he has to understand you. You guys can’t clash or else it will never work. Also, you have to remember that you’re mixing business with pleasure. You can’t only take your feelings into consideration, your SD had feelings toooo! You have to be open minded.
2023-03-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
Your sugar daddy is never your real boyfriend. This relationship is temporary and they leave whenever they get bored. Sometimes they might not have time to have fun because they have such a busy schedule they work and might be married. You start to live a secretive life, lying to your loved ones. You start to do the most craziest things for money.
2023-03-31
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Sugar Baby / 29
There are a lot of advantage you can take by being a sugar baby, but with all the excitement and fun you have comes also a price, that can be sometimes a disadvantage... It might me emotionaly draining sometimes because some sugar daddy's are really narcissistic, it can be stressing depending on your views about this matter and also your own personality plays an important role in this question
2023-03-31
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Sugar Baby / 30
It's hard to make it clear you don't want a relationship then you get feelings and you realize they have so many other women then just you. Money talks but damn feelings are louder then words and some men just won't care what do ever so don't get attached most of the time it's not all what it's cracked up to be men on here don't just give money you have to work for it
2023-03-31
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Sugar Baby / 60
The disadvantage for dating a sugar daddy can be a little scary at first, you only can go by what they are saying, they can be lying the whole time not knowing what’s the truth can get you in big trouble as a sugar baby. Some sugar daddy’s can be straight forward and say they want to spoil their sugar babies and some just want to get off on what you can say sexy to them.
2023-04-01
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Sugar Baby / 33
Well, I guess the important thing is to be safe and wise. Make sure you don't put yourself in some weirdo's hands just becouse of the bling. Money can buy a lot but your dignity. Talk to your Sugar Daddy as much as you can. Try and understand who you are talking to with with no fear and than decide what to do. Be passionate and spread love. Do you be you.
2023-04-01
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Sugar Baby / 27
Having a sugar daddy can be very stressful for some people on either side because depending on the relationship most people are looking for something they can keep on the down low because of the lifestyle they have. But also there are other people as well who like projecting what they do because they don’t care/aren’t ashamed of anything they do...
2023-04-01
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Sugar Baby / 25
The need to be discreet can sometimes interfere with your personal life if you’re not comfortable with that. I think people forget that although you’re treating this like a business arrangement, you’re entitled to privacy. You’re in no way obligated to do anything you’re not comfortable with, but it can often feel hard to turn down. Make sure you’re staying safe and within your comfort zone.
2023-04-01
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Sugar Baby / 26
its stressful that most probably you wont get a real relationship actually. there might not be love at all just attraction. you will be paid for your services and you will never have the warranty you wont get broke all over again by mistake. and you never know if you get in business with a dangerous sugardaddy that will get you in problems or turn you out as a prostitute. never trust. BE SAFE.
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 28
The age difference can sometimes be a problem. It can cause conflicts between the SB and the SD... They may sometimes expect more from you, not established in the arrangement which may cause problems. Sugar daddies can often expect sexual favours with no arrangement and this should not be an expectation and rather something that has to be discussed first.
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 28
The backlash of a sugar baby is real. You WILL be judged, and that judgement includes close family and friends. Unfortunately, having full confidence in yourself and what you enjoy is still a big intimidation and forgein nature to most. Fortunately, you can ignore the hateful comments and jealous remarks by just enjoying your life and politely not giving a fuck. You shouldn’t feel ashamed for wanting a relationship that gives stabilization, nor should a man feel shame for wanting to give it. The biggest misconception of a SB/SD relationship is that someone is being taken advantage of and is unhappy In some sort of way. When- in reality- it’s the complete opposite. No one is ever forced into a relationship of this nature, nor will anyone ever be Lol just like any other couple, you are more than voluntarily with that person to hopefully benefit each other.
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 28
The worst thing about being with a sugar daddy is you never really know if the relationship is material-based or if he’s purely into you. And that can contribute to so much anxiety because he might end the relationship at any time. Being in the submissive role in the relationship leaves you at your daddy’s mercy throughout anytime during the relationship and the fact that he might terminate the agreement at his will can be so scary!
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 30
Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful because the one time I did it he thought he owned me. He thought I was just sit at home and never do anything. A lot of the time he made me mad... I couldn't even tell if it was worth it. I am not saying that it's like this with all sugar daddies. Just the one I have been with. Also it becomes a rush of getting all these gifts and when ur use to them saying yes and at one time they say no, it gets frustrating
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 25
I think one of the troubles of dating a sugar daddy is when your daddy is significantly older than you. Going out can be kind of a spectacle in smaller areas. Thankfully since I live in L.A. its not that hard to ignore a relationship like ours. I love going out and being able to do normal couple things with my daddy and not have anyone look at us funny.
2023-04-02
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Sugar Baby / 27
Generational differences within major age gaps can form a disconnection which can be difficult. Also, societal judgment and the fact that this isn’t really a mainstream, accepted community at the moment therefore it is easy to face judgment and accusations from those who don’t understand. Also just the fact it’s hard to find trustworthy and reliable relationships sometimes
2023-04-03
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Sugar Baby / 29
I guess maybe the sexual life is not the best when u dating a 60 years old man or something and that he can't get hard properly lol. Also when there's a huge age difference the man can not understand that u using a lot your phone or hanging out a lot with friends etc. Finally if the man is too possessive than can make the situation complicated. Thx
2023-04-03