What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 6
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Sugar Baby / 34
Most people think being a sugar baby is a glamorous lifestyle where you have an older man fund your life. However, there’s so much more work that goes into it. The not so glamorous side (if you will), is that not all sugar daddies are “hot” and you may not want to be physical with them. There is a little bit of entitlement because they feel like they own you since your time is being paid for, but NEVER. I repeat NEVER jeopardize your values or your safety. You come first, even if you have to play fox and make him think he’s your number one priority
2023-03-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
I wouldn’t say that it’s for everyone. However, I think each sugar daddy is different. Some want just sex in exchange for money. Some just want a genuine connection with someone. The disadvantage is when you have one that thinks that you’re a object and that he owns you. Example: whenever he calls you have to drop everything....definitely can be a disadvantage
2023-03-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
The Maine disadvantages of having a sugar daddy that I have came across our when your SD does not understand that you have a life outside of your arrangement. He feels as though all of your time and energy needs to be directed at him. Another disadvantage that I have found is when you are constantly giving advice to him whereas you would like advice sometimes as well
2023-03-13
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Sugar Baby / 40
When people do things for you they feel they own you wheather you ask for them or not. Most sugar daddies are arrogant and pompoues because they feel like since they have money they can treat you and talk to you anyway they. You get what you give and if you give off rude arrogant ass thats what you get in return. I love my self respect way more then money and i know my worth so watch these toes. Lol
2023-03-13
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Sugar Baby / 33
Just like any other job or passion there will always be disadvantagements! You can easily be attracted, but for the wrong reasons, you just have to opened minded about the great advantages you’ll have with your sugar daddy! Think about the great things you want/ will have with this sugar daddy. Be positive about it, life always comes with disadvantages
2023-03-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
It can be stressful on both parties. Timing can be an issue, or if one/both parties are self-conscious about the looks they might receive. But always keep in mind that if someone makes you happy, those who mine don’t matter. And those who matter, won’t mind. So ignore the stares you may or may not get, and enjoy life as it’s given to you. As a sugar baby, keep in mind that yes sugar daddies are there to help you financially, always do what you can to keep them happy.
2023-03-14
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Sugar Baby / 29
There's a lot of down sides to consider before becoming a sugar baby. First, he might not care about you and your personal life. Meaning you're seeing him when he needs no matter if you're feeling bad or you got other things to do. The other thing is that you could catch feelings. Being with someone often could take you to develop feelings and thats not the most convenient thing
2023-03-14
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Sugar Baby / 27
I guess the worst parts are them thinking that they own you and you can only be with them, not your friends and family, you have a personal life, let him know that! Also them teasing you with not giving you things but pushing It until they stop talking to you completely but for the most part there hasn’t been anything wrong with some of the people here
2023-03-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages would be being with a person who is way older then you, and you barley have any attraction to. Also knowing that this person has other sugar babies and even wives and kids could also be hard to digest for some people. But just remember stick to what makes you comfortable and staying safe is the most important, sometimes you might be willing to get out that comfort zone which is always a good and exciting thing but then again remember stay safe and set some boundries.
2023-03-14
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Sugar Baby / 28
I would say that a disadvantage is you have to remember that they are your business, strictly daddy relationship. Not your personal, messy feelings relationships. Not all of them are going to want to hear you talk about how this is hard, and this, and that. They are there for your services and you are there for their generous favors. You can't make this personal.
2023-03-14
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Sugar Baby / 30
It's business, not a relationship: the fact that he is your SD doesn't necessarily mean he is emotionally involved with you, he might have other women, sometimes even a wife. It's up to you to make sure you don't get hurt and are always safe. Also might make it difficult in future relationship to relate to your partner on a more intimate level. Hope it's useful
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 33
The disadvantage of having a sugar daddy is that some of them don't understand that it's an agreement not a girlfriend situation. Also on the sugar baby side of the AD does understand the agreement the SB needs to k ow they aren't obligated to pay more than what was talked about. Is always nice when it does happen but doesn't always happen. Hope this helps
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 37
Disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy include boundaries. If boundaries aren’t set early in any relationship really then someone is bound to cross the line somewhere. This causes awkwardness and other unpleasant feelings. Rest make sure you feel safe in all situations a good sugar daddy will understand the need for this and respect it. When you feel comfortable and connected then by all means enjoy the ride
2023-03-15
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Sugar Baby / 33
The only disadvantage of being with SD is because they are taken. It can be hurtful when you start to get attached and when you realize that you actually dont like sharing. Lesson here is: Never gets too attached with your SD and remember that this is a business agreement. Try to make it less personal so that no one will get hurt by the end of the day
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 35
I think the disadvantages would be having two lives at one time. For instance I'm totally in love with the guy I'm talking to but I feel that bringing a SD into my life would complicate things. I'm a terrible liar at times 😌 Granted, I just don't like juggling multiple people. It becomes more personal. But do what makes you happy and stay focused.
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 40
Well, age is just a number, with that out of the way, dating a Sugar daddy is basically for the sugar, u cannot rule them or take a commanding position in their lives unless ofcourse He lets you..this aint your man you are practically a hobby that gets paid to make the payee happy ofcourse unless you are like me and you dont care so you make the most of any situation and you know why you are on this site.
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 30
The disvantage of being with a sugar daddy is that you have to put your life aside most of the times and treat his life as a priority. You may not be with family or friends and be with him, or Even make things you don't want to be do what he wants. And you must be horny even when you're not, because it's not a usual relationships that love, respect is the base. Money is what make you being ''together'' so the money should pay for it. But, the most important is keep yourself safe, so. Do just what you judge to be OK.
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
The only disadvantage is the income. But don’t fret this is my favorite part! Think like a banker, be smart and use your young brain which can develop more than theirs in gaining knowledge. Brains stop developing at age 26 (U.S. analytics and statistics bureau 2018). This is why knowledge is essential and develop that young brain. It’s like working out, your brain will increase if you use it correctly. Don’t use it you lose it! Knowledge is power!
2023-03-16
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Sugar Baby / 57
I think the only disadvantage would be not getting to be with them all the time! Most women dream of a family but just being a sugar baby can be stressing. Let's say you get pregnant by him but he doesn't want you anymore because of the pregnancy then you have a hard decision to make. If he leaves you then you lose your money for the baby so you have to go it alone.
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sugar daddy’s don’t understand that you have a personal life. Some of them are super controlling and want to know your every move. Another thing, they don’t care about your personal feelings most of the time. They only care about getting their “services” and paying you. It sucks when you meet a really nice guy, and you start to get a little attached.
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 25
For some its weird becuase the dont know each other, for me its that most of them want to have sex and Im not up for that for so many resonse one of them is the fact that I want to stay a virgan untill I get married thats my dream goal. How ever you alway have to be safe some times its a fake you dont know what could happin to you, you just got to play it safe.
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 27
sugar daddies are typically just here for a hook up. they want up front quick, easy, no strings attached fun they never experienced when they were younger. it’s difficult if you’re someone like me whose genuinely looking to have meaningful conversations. sure, it’s a business agreement, but if you’re picky you most likely will have a harder time finding the right man
2023-03-17
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Sugar Baby / 32
The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy are much, to name a few of them. Sugar daddy are not romantic and will always want you to be romantic, while most of them are so self centered and only cares about their selfish interest alone,they do not care about you or your personal life issues, because they have money they want you to always be there when they have erection but doesn't care about yours. Its painful
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
If you have good communication skills and knowledge of what one another want, then there is no disadvantage. You are simply there to help each other with what ever they need. He is not your soul mate or "the one" there will be fun memories but nothing more. The only disadvantage to having a sugar daddy is having the perfect daddy and falling in love with him.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
La desventaja es qué te ves obligada a hacer cosas que normalmente no harías con alguien mayor y tienes que escuchar y estar atenta a todo lo que hacen y te dicen para hacer cuando en las descripciones te dicen que te quieren consentir hay muchas cosas en letras chiquita que no te dicen piénsenlo bien y elijan bien a sus segar dadies antes de salir con uno
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 32
I know what it's like not to have one. I have not explorer this life too much, but this estranged relationship is hard. You don't get to spend as much time as a couple, which changed the feed a lil. But the upside is that you can have a private like, and no one minds a little privacy. Love, for me, is always foremost. Love me. And yourself. Bottom line.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
Some don’t respect that you have your own life. Some will say they will spoil you and give you money, but all they really want is to use you. Some don’t know that this is an arrangement, and that after both agree, you are not their item forever, they don’t understand that an arrangement can end at any point. And some just love to be controlling and manipulative.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 29
I believe that the disadvantage would above all, be the fact that you two may not always be seeing eye to eye. You are here to please him and be his. Being that this is the case, maybe you will be feeling as though you have virtually no power in the agreement when in reality you do. Just make sure to always stay true to what you want and believe in.
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 40
It can be hard being the sugar baby verses the wife. Being someone's dirty little secret is fun but on important days it's depressing. I have become almost envious at times. I sometimes feel jealous because technically I'm never number 1. And on the flip side most sugar daddy's want us babies to be committed and loyal as if we were his wife. That's my biggest struggle
2023-03-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages is that some sugar daddies are overly possessive. They fail to realize that you have other obligations: however, once you make an agreement, you have to hold up your part. After all, you’re getting paid to satisfy them. You must yield to all of their needs. Even if you don’t like it. You must be careful at all times because it can be very dangerous.
2023-03-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
Maybe the age, because if we want to go out people would look weird at us, Maybe other bad thing about sd is that they sometimes think they can disrespect you, just because they give you money, and that is not fair, both should treat each other with respect, it doesn't matter if he gives a lot of money. Sometimes you can get confused and see him as a boyfriend, that is a mistake because it's not a love relationship.
2023-03-19
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Sugar Baby / 29
I think a disadvantage is he expects you to do everything for him, and you will have no free time what so ever, it may be a temporary status so you may not have him as a sugar daddy for long, he has a wandering eye, which mean he will look at other women, he’s probably been around the block once or twice if you know what I mean and if you don’t I mean that he has probably slept with lots of different women!
2023-03-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
there are a lot of closed minded individuals out there and many can judge or disapprove, talk shit obv., but you have to own who you are and realize that it’s your life and no one else’s so as long as what you’re doing makes you happy, no one else matters!!! it can also, obviously, take a while to adjust to being someone who’s many years older than you, but again, put yourself first and do what makes YOU happy
2023-03-20
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Sugar Baby / 28
Disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy is that they are most of the time not attractive . Knowing that you could be with a man who is married with children and still not being able to care . I also think a disadvantage is when a sugar dady doesn’t seem to understand that you are just a bussiness arrangement and that you do have a personal life and that your time is valuable and not completely dedicated to him just because your getting paid.
2023-03-20
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Sugar Baby / 29
I feel some disadvantages are sometimes your sugar daddy can have a family so you have to be mindful and respectful of that. Also, sometimes you can be viewed as just a product. Your sugar daddy might not understand you or actually want to get to know you or understand how you feel. Your sugar daddy might be way older than you, so you might not have the same interests.
2023-03-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
Having a sugar daddy has many ups and downs ... the plus side to it you have someone who is going to spoil you the down side to it is you will be with someone who is much older then ou and many people wont approve and say things about you because who you are messinng with. You might fall for the person who is your sugar daddy and that is totally fine.
2023-03-21
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Sugar Baby / 30
One disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is that they tend to work long hours and get pretty caught up in their job, which can also include traveling. It can be hard to date under these conditions because it can feel like you don't get to see each other as much as you would like to. Another disadvantage is the stigma around the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships, and how there is an automatic assumption that the relationship isn't real and it's only about money and the two people don't actually care for one another. This isn't true, you just need to get past the judgements.
2023-03-21
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Sugar Baby / 29
The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy would be there is no attraction so the sex is week... It's hard to have good sex or even okay sex when your not attracted to the other person at all! I know we are getting paid for our services but it would be nice if we got just a little enjoyment out of the sex! Oh and another disafavnge is when daddy is hot 😍😂
2023-03-21
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Sugar Baby / 34
I haven’t successfully found a sugar daddy yet. But in my opinion I think a disadvantage would be an big age difference. You two might not have a lot in common. Also I would bring a sugar daddy he’d have a busy schedule and it would be hard to make time. Like for dates and or trips. Unless his job has an advantage for time off for vacations. When I have experienced my first sugar daddy I’ll definitely be back to update my review.
2023-03-21
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Sugar Baby / 28
Some can be pushy. They may build up your trust at first but then later try to get you to go far out of your comfort zone. The key is to be cautious. Always let a trusted friend know where you’re going to be during your dates in case something happens and you need out fast! But most of them are very professional. Just remember to be extra extra safe!!!
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
The intimacy level that the sugar daddy needs. Sometimes they try push too far to get what they desire. Also the age difference may be too great and you feel like you can't connect with them on a social level. But its mainly about the intimacy. It can be difficult trying to please a sugar daddy if you feel like you aren't on the same page and they may be more experienced than you
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Each relationship is different, I think to ensure that there are minimal disadvantages in your SD/SB relationship you should meet in person and go over what each person is looking for. Some SD may be looking for a strictly physical relationship and you’ll have to understand they don’t want to be a part your personal life. Other SD want to know you.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
A disadvantage of being a sugar baby is that you are going to constantly be spending time with someone you may not be attracted to at all. Heads will definitely turn and you will be the one that’s judged in public before they even think about judging the SD. You have to be discreet about locations and keep in mind that safety comes first. You do not actually know this SD/SM to the full extent.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
Dissavantage is that you cant have your lover if he cant accept you doing this, so private life is quit restricted, but you can find SD young to, wich will also be ugly or not without good intentions, if you accept because you are poor, then this is an dissavantage, thry buy your poorless with theyr money and you must do almost all to satisfy him. Up and downs in this 'job' .
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
The only real challenge would be the age difference if that’s something that could make you uncomfortable. For me it’s important to not be a sugar baby to anyone who could be my dad’s age. So no one older than sixty is very important for me when deciding who or how I interact with certain people.4)7546864225675446776533((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantage is that they don't care for your personal issues as it is strictly a business relationship. Furthermore, it can be very dangerous and stressful since some SD's are experimenting with things they haven't done before but also many SB's develop feelings for their SD's which often leads SB's to be taken advantage of which could be very risky..
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
The disadvantages of having a sugar daddy are sometimes these daddy's expect us who are babies to behave like their agements...which is difficult at times,you tell him I want to finish watching my soap , he wants e both of us to sleep before midnight, then arguments, some sugar daddys reach a stage where by they want to act as our real fathers and yet we fuck them , they like to control because they have money,yet some of us sugar baby's want to dominate .
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
Disadvantages definitely is like if you are like the side piece and they are married and have kids you sort of feel bad that they put all their time and money into you and your needs. Not saying that they don’t help their family but sometimes when reflecting back on a day of shopping or a lavish dinner you find yourself realizing like this could have been money or time with his family or like being secretive about it so his family never finds out it is the worst thing ever for the family to find out that you know someone is out there spending money and having a relationship with someone else.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 28
I feel like the only disadvantage to dating sugar style is if emotions begin to get in the way. Of course there should be some emotion in order for it to work well however if there are too many then it could also negatively affect the relationship. It's all about perspective and balance. That being said, you have to know what you want ahead of time. What you want out of the relationship.
2023-03-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Some disadvantages to dating sugar daddies is that they can most certainly be fake. I just had someone recently not pay me over $500 for my services and I’m quite upset over it. It makes me feel used and disgusting, they used me for their own delightment and didn’t even consider trying to pay me. He only tries to lure me in to meet him in private so he can try to take advantage of me more without paying. It’s horrible, and I hope nobody else goes through it.
2023-03-22