What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 5
438 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 26
feelings are often not involved. and if they are it’s not correctly. some sd are rough or even uncaring of your needs even if it’s the slightest thing. your comfort and needs are always first but many daddies are inexperienced or aren’t quite interested in what you want. it’s a “business” relationship more than a real loving one and for some people that’s hard and not what they were really looking for. always know what you want and always be careful !!
2023-03-01
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Sugar Baby / 29
It depends.. Because if you find the right one looks shouldn't be the problem...BBBUUUTTT Some sugar daddies are very possessive though & feel as though they are the only man in your life ( in my case, sometimes they are because if you can't do nun for me u can't fuck me Lol ) & I could see that being a problem for the woman who have husbands/boyfriends or just a extremely busy dating life in general.
2023-03-01
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Sugar Baby / 28
100% no attachment, it can be very dangerous to get feelings involved.Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful . Remember this is a business agreement , you are being paid for your 'services' . Understand your SD is not obligated to care for your personal issues or even care for your feelings as some SD's are very narcissistic...theres no love or feelings in this
2023-03-01
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Sugar Baby / 39
The disadvantages of a sugar daddy is what if you really connect with this man, what if instead of him having feelings for you, you have feelings for him. It's sometimes hard to keep the boundary line thick, especially if you feel yourself pulling more toward the fact o of likeing him in more of as committed relationship. Or it could be there other way around.
2023-03-01
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Sugar Baby / 26
You have to be very clear with your sugar daddy. He has to know that you’re not in love with him and what happens between you is just a business agreement. You’re being paid by your services so if you are dating a sugar daddy it’s just for money, don’t play with his feelings. Be clear every time he ask you something in order to have a good relationship with him.
2023-03-02
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Sugar Baby / 39
You are still your own person. Never forget that and you wont get caught up in this lifestyle. Because thats what this is. Not your sexuality. But the rules are. You must become who they are seeking. Unless your character is a smoker. You stop smoking now. If your character is a drinker. Slow down you lush. If your character is a worker. Stop working so hard. Remember they are here to make sure you stay as beautiful as you are. They are the hard workers not you.
2023-03-02
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Sugar Baby / 31
You can’t really talk about your relationship, or be that open with friends and family. Maybe a really close friend. I worry I’ll be judged, also that I won’t be taken seriously and just be seen as a gold digger. It’s more than that for me. I want security in more ways than money. I also worry about being pushed to do things I wouldn’t otherwise do because of the money.
2023-03-02
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Sugar Baby / 36
When you just really don't want to touch them they kind of repulsed you but due to the fact that it's a financial thing you got to take one for the team. That's why I try to have a non physical relationship pictures or talking on the phone with pay through PayPal or cash app but you put yourself in a situation to where you don't want to touch somebody and they want something sexual
2023-03-02
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Sugar Baby / 31
There’s only disadvantages if you allow there to be disadvantages. There’s always stress because this is a business agreement. Your gentleman might be married with kids. They might have other babies to take care of. Your not on your own schedule. But remember to never be taken advantage of, be strong minded in your goals, and love yourself more....
2023-03-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
The disadvantages to having a sugar daddy is that sometimes he gets too possessive in a way. They believe that all your attention should be centered around them. They sometimes forget you have personal matters and another life beside sugaring. some sugar daddies won’t care about your personal feelings and they are just in it to get a picture or video or something like that, because it really is just a business agreement unless you or he wants something more. Another thing is that you always have to be concerned about your safety. Sugar daddies sometimes are into kinky things like BDSM. If you’re not comfortable with that you could always get out of the situation. Always put yourself first unless you don’t care about morals and all that.
2023-03-03
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Sugar Baby / 34
I think if you dont know your worth or enjoy what your doing then being a Sugar baby is Not Good For You or me Since Your Just Wasting time and money. Dont take away from your Own Talents. Enjoy the small things in life you will go father with respect and true responsibility for yourself.. why be someone or something you dont like their are plenty of ways to catch some money from men in our world.
2023-03-04
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Sugar Baby / 25
You can find yourself in scary or difficult situations. Of course. As an SB you should try to find someone you care about, but that isn't always possible. Sometimes you aren't the most attracted to this person and you go through with it anyway. You may also have to force yourself out of the comfort zone your normally in. You must also make sure you are keeping up with your babe. If you do not talk to him for a while that could prove to be problematic for the both of you.
2023-03-04
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Sugar Baby / 33
The disadvantages to dating an older man are there is little to no chemistry because of the age difference. Spending large amounts of time together can be frustrating if there isn't any sexual attraction. The ideal relationship would be finding someone who's attractive to you and attracted to you. Sugar daddies can be very demanding and picky. It seems the richer a man is the more he expects from a baby.
2023-03-05
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Sugar Baby / 42
The disadvantages of Dating a SD are that there will always be ups and downs and with my recent experience a serious scammer & jealous SD that doesn't apply himself as apart in a business arrangement way. This particular SD spoke to me like I was "not aware", didn't want to pay for the arrangement & wanted my credit card information and Expected me to automatically give up my own ideal of the arrangement just to talk on a Google number, was dishonest and didn't seem rude at first but gentleman like and romantic and still never followed through with anything he promised to take care of. I'm guessing not all do but yeah some really do that sometimes. Even if you repeatedly answer the same question correctly repeatedly & in many different ways until your blue in the face, some SD's think because they have money to put up for such an arrangement that you're just being a whore or slut for a perDonald gain and that's what I gather from what I've seen some discuss in their bio. Nice sweet touch right? Not really, & some are just plain old scam artists with an other than discussed business arrangement and although you're a college graduate, or what have you that you're just dumb anyways. I am glad mine never travelled to see me to say he had money when he was just trying to get money from my account or my daughter's. Lame. But I'm sure there are a few or so good and decently reasonable and we'll to do but not snotty SD's out there.
2023-03-05
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Sugar Baby / 32
Everyone has there own disadvantages that out weigh others. Many say the lack of chemistry and affection towards your daddy. This is very common, however you are in control. You don't have to be a SB to any SD you don't want to. This brings me to the next disadvantage: being belittled and feeling used. If you turn down a daddy, be prepared to hear why you didn't deserve them anyway blah blah blah.. you only have to go as far as you are willing. If you have a daddy with chemistry (I highly recommend) then he won't make you feel like you are only worth that night. Those are prostatutes, not babies.
2023-03-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
The disadvantages is are you will never actually be happy nor attracted to that man only his money. Also a lot of sugar daddies don’t have respect for you because what you are doing for the money . Also it won’t last forever , eventually he will want something new to play with as a sugar baby you are only around for the moment .. most of these relationships are no strings attached or they should be
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 25
The disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy is that you might be with an older man who you are not attracted to. Theres also some who want to keep in on the downlow and maybe thats not what you want. Sometimes a sugar daddy doesnt know exactly what he wants so its hard to work with that. Also you can come across a lot of scammers which is never fun.
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 30
Sometimes the biggest disadvantage is not knowing when you are being completely scammed by a sugar daddy, you have to be completely careful to know if you are really talking to someone not using you, because all that time you put into pursuing that daddy, could just be a waste of time of him telling you lies and stories. Be Cautious. And be Curious.
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 32
The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy is that they don’t really care to be in a relationship with you . It’s mostly for talk or sex. Remember most of these men are married. Don’t get you’re feelings mixed into this. This is merely business, no strings attached unless stated otherwise. Sugar daddies feel entitled to all your time so if you’re not playing the game right, you can get left. Be smart
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 53
Not knowing the person. Putting your trust and being volunrable. Not knowing what to expect and being open for uncertainty and taking risks of some one being actually crazy. Not all situations can come out beneficial, positive,or good. But that can go both ways. You have too it to know someone even before an intimate relationship by asking questions
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 25
The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is not being attracted to them. Yes The maturity is there but if he is asking for something physical your not going to be interested because of the fact that you are not attracted to him. Another Disadvantage is if your SD always thinks about himself. He had to realize that other people have things to do as well as him.
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 33
So one of the disadvantages of having a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship is that it's either sexual or mental or both but they do not put there full attention into a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship because they are making money and brazing family inside their own they have lives outside of you so just pay attention to that if you don't, it won't last.
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 30
Some people think its ok to bully or demand things and treat you like you only want money or that you are easy when you just want a beneficial relation ship with someone who pays attention to you and has there life together! I mean every one wants to be spoiled, but are you going tp show some affection back? Others want sex and some people just need attention.
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 37
The disadvantage of being with a sugar daddy is when he catches feelings that you just don't have for him. It complicated the situation and makes it hard to communicate because you feel like you have to walk on eggshells so that you don't hurt their feelings. Another disadvantage is when he is married and the wife finds out about you. You have to deal with the consequences and it sucks.
2023-03-06
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Sugar Baby / 25
Personally, I think the disadvantages of dating a SD is the age gap between us, possibly having to leave my hometown, and from what I've read, performinf what type of fantasies they may have. Another would have to be if they have kids. To think of myself in a situation that I end up seeing their kid, would most likely be awkward. I'm worried that when the time comes, I won't be able to go along with it. As a new SB, I'm not sure what to expect, but I'll do my duties.
2023-03-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sugar daddys have it hard sometimes because they lack time to create a friendship and then a relationship, most of them don't have the time to be with someone they're in a relationship with so they usually fail, they're always working or away so sugar babies are the best solution. Although there are good parts like the way they want to spoil you and how they like you no matter how far away they are. It's worth it!
2023-03-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
A disadvantage would be the SB that are potentially getting taken advantage of. Do what only you believe you are comfortable with, and don’t be naive. Your safety is everything! Someone else will be understanding to making you as comfortable as possible. Also, don’t give out your banking information!! This is personal information. Another thing is making sure you’re not losing sight of your self respect.
2023-03-07
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Sugar Baby / 30
There are many ups and downs to dating sugar daddies but some of the downs trump everything good about the process so it’s improtant to be decisive on who you choose. Many daddies are here because they have very kinky desires that their wives or others won’t provide or do with them so they think here they can get what they want because they are paying for it. Stay in your comfort zone!
2023-03-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
A disadvantage to being a sugar baby is the secrecy that comes along with it. Depending on your situation you may need to be very secretive and discrete for your sake or the sake of your sugar daddy. This means you could have to lie to friends and family which could make you feel like you're leading a double life. It could also mean you have to go to extreme lengths to be there for your sugar daddy and you may have to make some tough decisions about where you're willing to compromise based on his availability.
2023-03-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are many pros and cons to being a sugar baby. Most sugar daddy's don't care about anything but your services. Just remember that in order to protect yourself do not get attached and stay in your comfort zone. And if you start talking to someone on sudy or any other sugar daddy dating apps that you take procation just incase the sugar daddy or sugar momma is not who they say they are. It could be a creep or it could be who they say they are. If your going to meet them do not do it alone, and do it in public or big crowds
2023-03-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
Challenge he went out of his I think that there are many disadvantages to having a sugar daddy or having a relationship with a sugar daddy. One is that you are his sugar mainly most of them are married and have kids or have completely other lives that they lead. They can't always be there to talk to you or be there for your needs. They can also stop seeing you whenever they want.
2023-03-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy is mostly comfort, for me at least. There may be things that you are asked to do that you might not be particularly comfortable with and sometimes it may feel hard to say no. Especially if you’ve already received anything from them. Might feel like you owe them something. But I think you can deal with this by setting hard boundaries for yourself, and listening to what YOU think. Don’t do or agree to anything you’d regret in the long run.
2023-03-08
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Sugar Baby / 25
There are many disadvantages to being a sugar baby and having a sugar daddy. I suppose the primary one would be the unreliability of the service itself. A sugar daddy does not have to care for you, or keep you as a sugar baby. The sugar daddy retains control over the relationship, and unless you are granted some control, it is explicitly owed to them. Another disadvantage would be dependence. If one is dependent on the income provided by the sugar daddy, then you are essentially under the control of that sugar daddy. Perhaps another disadvantage would be the social aspect. Many people who know you may not exactly be too keen on accepting that you have a job catering to an older person's desires, and for many people, the sugar daddy business is one to frown upon. I dislike the level of secrecy that I must maintain; however, secrecy is also thrilling in itself, so perhaps it makes the relationship more interesting.
2023-03-08
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Sugar Baby / 29
The disadvantages including them trying to become your boyfriend basically. Like if this is a sugar daddy relationship, strictly keep I.T like that don’t wonder where I am and who I am with all the time. Also another diadvant is when the scammers come out and try to scam us poor innconent girls and sudy doesn’t take them down or anything. This are some disadvantages
2023-03-08
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Sugar Baby / 32
The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy is that you never get a real boyfriend and this relationship is temporary and can end abruptly when your partner is bored. The chances of getting married to him are also very low. The life of a sugar baby is often a secretive one,particularly if the sugar daddy is married and has a family,your friends and family might wonder qhy you have so much time when people are busy sorting out their mess
2023-03-08
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Sugar Baby / 42
Some disadvantages in dating a sugar daddy is time yes SB come into the arrangemnet knowing he has little time. But hes your SD and feels like not enough time to show him SB appreciation. Lifestyle is as well, because if your small town girl that lavish life is out of comfort zone. One major disadvantage is Sugar Daddy ! He is no regular joe! So to feel like you have to be top of your game as his SB gets at you sometimes SD can drop yku like a bad habit if you dont be that SB!
2023-03-09
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Sugar Baby / 30
As with any job, there are disadvantages that come along with being a sugar baby. Some of these disadvantages to sugaring include but are not limited to; having to sift through ‘fake’ daddies, or guys who want to talk about it but not actually pay up, not being attracted to the men, not having time for them, emotional labour spent taking care of them, etc
2023-03-10
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Sugar Baby / 32
The disadvatages of dating a sugardaddy could be that if you fall in love with your sugardaddy and you start to feel like you want a relationship with him but he doesnt feel the same as he is comfortable where things are. It could also be that maybe he is a very busy man and can not see you as much as you would like him too, its part of the excitement.
2023-03-10
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Sugar Baby / 32
Its stressful unless you both can come to an agreement. To much time together can cause emotional tension on a strictly biusness arrangement. You need to be able to have restrictions and boundaries as well as being able to be together in public so he is happy to show you off but make sure he isn't mingling with anyone close to you that way tension didnt make things awkward.
2023-03-10
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Sugar Baby / 30
Some disadvantages of being with a SD is doing some things that you are not comfortable with. This is all a business plan. Sometimes you may do things that you don't want to do, but you want the money right? So you suck it up. Sometimes, some situations are different. Also, you have to be willing to be ok with the age difference and the rumors.....
2023-03-10
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Sugar Baby / 26
Not feeling comfortable telling the truth to friends and family. It's like you have this huge secret with no one to talk to about it because you're afraid of being ashamed. Another thing is feeling uncomfortable when you're together. It can feel rather forced at moments but you gotta do what you gotta do. Also if for whatever reason you have a shared bank account be prepared to explain the deposits
2023-03-11
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Sugar Baby / 25
It’s not even the dating part — it’s beforehand. Just like SB’s , there are PLENTY of fakes wanting a lil actions and will lie about it and waste your time ! Having my time wasted is the worst & is so annoying ! Another disadvantage is when a SD thinks that he is the only person in your life, as if you don’t have your own personal life to worry about. You have your job and responsibilities, respect the fact that I am human and i have my own responsibilities and well. There could be many more, but if an SD is really willing to make you happy, i feel as if they’d compromise as well as yourself to make things work out x (:
2023-03-11
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Sugar Baby / 35
A lot of times if people know what you do they will judge you for it. Even your friends. They think that it considered lower class or to find a real job. And sometimes you have to deal with how your sugar daddy doesn’t really care about what’s going on in your own life because it is about him and him only. You have guys who think that you should drop everything for them.
2023-03-11
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Sugar Baby / 29
From what I’ve seen on this app, many of the sugar daddies have unrealistic expectations of what women looking for suger daddies should be like. They essentially want perfection without considering how ridiculous that is and how they aren’t perfect themselves. The best relationships have a mutual respect for both parties involved. As long as you can find this, you’ll be good.
2023-03-11
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Sugar Baby / 25
They can be controling and are sometimes not intrested in you and make you feel bad about who you are... I find that I like mummas more than daddy's because mummas know me more than a guy they can comunicate and understand being Bi helps becauae I dont have one choice I can choose who treats me best... I just want mad sex and to get a good orgasm from an experienced person 😜
2023-03-12
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Sugar Baby / 32
I believe the disadvantages of dating a Sugar Daddy are Not being able to find a SD THAT FIT YOUR PERSONAL PREFERENCE. Them changing their mind at the last minute. Also them having a family and the wife finds out. There’s even people scamming pretending to be a sd. I’m looking for a nice gentleman sd in Stl please msg me, I’m ready to meet you...
2023-03-12
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Sugar Baby / 30
With every up comes a down. Dealing with a sugar daddy can be a stressful relationship due to the possible lack of physical attraction. Also knowing that some sugar daddies fail to realize that females have personal lives outside of this "business transaction" so to speak! But most importantly would be the safely aspect of it, you never know what could happen in today's world.
2023-03-12
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Sugar Baby / 26
When you are dating a sugar daddy it’s hard to be social with you’re own group of people since the judgment is hard, so the best thing to do is just not to care!, not give a shit what anybody thinks, you are getting your coins and having fun at the same time. But a good thing is that you get to meet new people and new connections that get to help you in the long run
2023-03-12
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Sugar Baby / 28
I would have to say that having to be around someone you just simply are not attracted too is hard but then when it gets pushed more your going to have to kiss him and even get as far as sex. Not to mention that most sugar daddy's are around 40-60 and are looking for girls in the young adult 18-25.. some people are just not attracted to older men or the type of men. But money talks and u do what u got to do to make the money
2023-03-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
There are many ups and downs to having a sugar daddy but the biggest disadvantage would be doing stuff that isn’t in your comfort zone. Always stay comfortable and don’t put yourself in a position that makes you feel unsafe or afraid. The advantages easily outway the disadvantages from my experience but it’s different for everyone! Stay in your comfort zone and don’t sell out your morals.
2023-03-13