Also known as What are the duties of the ‘sugars’ while they are involved in their mutually beneficial relationship?
For Sugar Daddy
1. Don’t Patronize
I have heard from sugar babies many times that their sugar daddies treat them as second-class citizens, especially in their early dates. They figure that they (sugar babies) might be desperate to meet someone and therefore this gives them the license to look down on them. That treatment, actually, is one of the leading causes why sugar babies decide not to enter an arrangement with the gentleman they are meeting: the intangible feeling they get from the potential sugar daddy that he is looking down on them.
2. Be Nonjudgmental
There are so many reasons a lady may be wanting to become a sugar baby. Most are good reasons: perhaps they need financial assistance for college. Or maybe they just want an NSA type of relationship with some benefits on the side to help pay down some debt. So sugar daddies, just are patient, give them some space, and don’t pass judgment on the ladies. They are people too, mostly younger, who are still trying to figure things out for themselves.
3. Keep Your Promises
If you promise an allowance of some type then you have to be professional about it and deliver on it. If you promised a shopping trip, do it. Don’t go back on your word. It does not reflect well on you, or other sugar daddies she might meet in the future.
4. Do Offer Any Advice to Your Sugar Baby
That could be advice about jobs or business plans etc. Sugar babies would really appreciate the feedback and career guidance from someone more experienced than them, someone just like their sugar daddy.
For Sugar Baby
1. Be Discreet
Don’t ask the man more information than he is prepared to give. Most have marriages, lucrative careers, so they are taking a lot of risks doing the sugar daddy lifestyle. So please don’t ask them to give you their full last name, their employer and his wife’s name at the first meeting.
2. Don’t Pretend You Are a Diva
Be down to earth and don’t act like the world owes you everything. That attitude is obviously a red flag for us. We generally like classy ladies.
3. Be a Good and Understanding Companion
Sugar daddies are there to enjoy your company and perhaps find something that is missing in their home life. So be fun! Leave the drama for your momma, or better yet, your boyfriend!