What Are Your Terms in Your Sugar Arrangement? - 3
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Sugar Baby / 30
My terms would be that both parties benefit and are not taking advantage of the other. The terms need to be clear. I need things to be spelled out for me so I need to know what is expected of me and what I can expect from my SD in return. I want there to be no room for questions. Also, if a sexual relationship is what he’s after, I need him to get tested.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 30
My terms ina arrangement r fairly simple. I wanna get to know u like u can get to know me show me things I've never seen before jus like I would want to show u, in due time get to gift exchange and weekly or monthly allowance I'm not picky. Unless I need to be but communication is key and as soon as u loose that communication there is no point in countiuneing a relationship
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 30
It has to be a mutual understanding and doesn’t always have to in the terms of a sexual relationship. Communication, trust and respect is definitely needed. I would just want to take of my sugar daddy as much as he would wanna take care of me, mentally, emotionally and financially. There are sugar daddies who try to play games and make it seem like you are using them when you both are clearly here wanting/bedding something.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
my terms would be i would give them anything and everything they wanted in exchange of momey and gifts. i would wnt loyalty and honesty out of them. my expectations would be the same as how they would want me to be. I will treat them like they have never been treated before❤️ my terms arent high but i do expect most from what i give back. trust, money, gifts, etc
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
I never do anything on the first date. I only do something on the second date if I am 100% comfortable. If I feel myself hesitate even a little I don’t go forward with anything and I give him an option to either keep going with me until I’m comfortable or we can end there. I also don’t allow touching the first time either and I make it clear that if you touch me after I’ve told you not then I will get up and leave. Everything depends on how you treat me after I’ve told you how I want you to behave with me. If you listen to me then I get comfortable easier. If you don’t then I stop messaging you.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 32
Probably my most important "rule" it's respect my life project and for consequence respect the life plan of my sugar daddy. I can't promise him that I will marry if it's not in my plan, I can't fix the time to see us if I'm not sure if it's more important my school or my work... I can't be really honest with the men who's looking me for a serious agreement if I'm not honest with my expectatives in life and as sugarbaby. I want respect because I offer that. I want honesty because I'm not a liar and I want the freedom to live something that is not satisfying anymore.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
I want a online based relationship, we can exchange pictures or just talk on a regular bases. without meeting up or doing sexual activities. if i find someone that I really connect with maybe meeting up is a possibility but right now i’m looking for an online based relationship with all of the sugar daddy perks meaning i’d like an allowance and/or to be spoiled a lot. I don’t want my relationship to be purely sexual, either.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’m currently not in an arrangement. In the past, however, it involved an allowance in exchange for messages and sending each other selfies. That “daddy” pushed my boundaries and made me do things I didn’t want to do in sexual videos. Now, if it’s online, I get want to be surprising and treating my daddy/mommy, not getting demands. For in person: I want a real genuine connection. Mutual respect, care, and interest. And if the chemistry is right then we’ll turn things steamy 😉
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 29
When it comes to setting terms, I like to make sure that we are both honest and open to any idea or suggestions. It’s very important that you understand and are comfortable with each other so that you have a healthy sugar daddy and sugar baby experience. Once your agree on terms you stick to them and respect them so that there are no issues in the future.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
A sugar daddy has to be willing to give me an allowance/gifts early on in the arrangement. I have been taken advantage of more than once and I no longer allow that. If he wants you to send him stuff/please him all month before your allowance it is most likely a scam. There also has to be a mutual respect and understanding of limitations. A good daddy won't push you to do things you don't want to do.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 28
I feel as a sugar baby it’s my job to be there and listen to my sugar daddy, you need to listen and pay attention to what they are asking, if it goes against your morals and what you would do. You need to voice that, no one will respect you if you have no morals, meaning you should always be aware of who you are talking to and how you carry yourself! You don’t need to be “slutty” in order to get a sugar daddy, some guys just want a conversation!
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
I just want a mutually beneficial relationship. I want a special friendship where I can spoil you emotionally and you spoil me financially. Honestly trust is big, if I’m yours I want to be only yours but... you gotta make it worth my time lol. I’m here for a strictly online relationship because I have goals of being a student, I would love to meet irl someday but not now.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't like the main goal of the arrangement to be about kanoodaling. I don't want to feel like a useless piece of meet. I want someone to be nice to me and talk tonne like a friend and in return I'll be nice to them. I like receiving gifts for pictures and videos. And I like allowances but I can just as easily go for getting paied on a date to date basis.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 28
Many people believe it is solely sex but a lot of the sugar daddies and sugar mommies just want someone to speak to. I find it most intresting when they do not want to have a sexual relationship because I get to know more about them and I learn why they are on sites like this. I always make sure to set boundaries every single time I begin a new relationship because I know that we both should be happy.
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 31
To me you will always be my friend. I want my sugar daddy to know I'm his when he wants ne no questions asked. I want to be able to talk to you and show you that I am here to listen to you. I have a whole world of things I want to do and I want to do them with you. There is not much I camt do so ill focus on showing you everything that I can do to you
2023-04-19
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Sugar Baby / 37
My arrangements are pretty simple, spoil me and give me a good time, and I’ll return the favor. I want just one sugar daddy to pay attention to me and treat me like a princess. Sex isn’t the only thing a woman can do for a man. I like to meet on a more personal level and get to know you and your passions. Don’t get me wrong though, I love a good romp in the sheets with the right daddy
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 30
It all depends on the person whatever they need you to be is what you have to be in my case I need my bills paid and shopping sprees to look nice for my daddy in return I give him all the attention he wants and needs at any time and I think it's a fair trade because you can't get back time which is more valuable than anything just being there for him means the difference when he's had a long stressful day him coming to you and just making Jim feel better and happy forgetting his problems makes all the difference whether they see it or not
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 40
I would like loyalty, love, compassion, cuddles, kisses, hugs, laying in bed together all morning. Just to text is fine with me. I am off on the phone I don't like to talk on it these days. I would like stability and the truth is always good. Just be real and 100 with me about things. We all been hurt in life by someone but we should at least try.
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 36
I believe sugar arrangement should be mutually beneficial. Having good communication, good chemistry, have to respect each other and trust each other. Sugar daddy should be able to spoil her sugar baby the way that the sugar baby will treat him right so in return he should treat her right, that way their will be understanding going on between you too.
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 27
I make sure my daddies know that I don’t like to meet in person for safety reasons. We exchange photos, videos, and casual conversation. I have allowances and presents if I show them something I like while out shopping. Everything is mutually accepted and beneficial, I’m not 100% against meeting but I have to know them for a long time first and I have to trust them.
2023-04-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
I believe that when in a relationship like this you need both parties to have complete consent and understand about each other's wants and needs and not expect anything to happen unless brought up and discussed. I believe that the relationship between the people should be beneficial to both and something that each other want and obtain goals from..
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 34
My terms are to spoil me give me whatever I want ....go on shopping spree...dinner...movie...and anything else I ask for without question....I not looking for a man are anything I just want to have fun and live life without regrets are anything...I also want him to take me on trips whenever he can send me wit no hesitation....I love getting my hair n nails did so that's my terms...
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
I want a fun relationship, I don't wanna have sex unless I feel comfortable to do that or end up getting feelings for my sugar daddy. I never ever have our first meet in private, always choose son public space, you never know who you're going to meet. Be careful at all times. I don't charge for the meetings, I like to be surprised, but I feel like I'm not getting enough I'll talk to my SD so we can get to an agreement. Always be comfortable with yourself and with what you're doing.
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 34
I agree with the fact that there needs to be mutual agreements in things. But my biggest thing is that an SD understands and respects the word No. There may be times where I'm not physically up for doing anything because of my back problem...but there may also be times where I'm up forjust about anything. I just want to find an sd who won't get upset or mad if and when i do say no. That's always been a big turn off for me.
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 27
Well for me I feel as if it’s strictly online because I know there are men and ladies who dont feel comfortable meeting face to face. Some talk to multiple people and some don’t but it all depends on the person. The relationship doesn’t have to be sexual some are but there are ones where you guys get to know each other and please one another in your on comfortable way.
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 35
Being aware of my needs. Im a business grad and want a business savy man to be there to cheer me on and build with me. Not just a one way relay but I have goals and dreams. I want him to see that Im doing something with my time without being forced to work at a job I dont like but actually enjoying my life. I want my sd to know that Im not just there to be some girl.
2023-04-21
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Sugar Baby / 25
Obviously everything has to be consensual! The terms would probably be just like a normal couples relationship. Sugar daddy and baby relationships aren’t built on bond and trust (sometimes sex) but in my own terms, i’d want a sugar daddy that is demanding and super generous because being a sugar baby is literally all about the money. Aren’t we all here for that?
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
I just want to be me, and someone happy to to get to know me and like me for being myself. So therefore I do not want anything sexual just someone who is proud of me for being me with a little extra on the side. Just talking and having good time being happy and sharing the memory with someone else. Keeping or relationship private and discreet would be best
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have been doing this for a little while. I've found that having certain expectations work well and others do not. As a SB I expect that my SD understand I'm not a hooker. I expect to be respected, spoiled, shown off, have my needs met and to be mentored. In return I will submit to any of my SD's wishes, I will make him feel important, provide great companionship/friendship and always make sure his needs are met (not just sexually). Allowances are always open for discussion as every SB/SD relationship has different terms. Money is discussed once and should not be the center of a SB's reasoning for the lifestyle. Your SD will take care of you if you take care of him.
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
They need to understand my boundaries. I’m looking for something purely online based unless I find someone local who meets my standards. If I did find someone who I’d be down to go out with it’d be purely platonic. Traveling, going out to eat, or even things like hiking or skydiving. I’m not looking for a physical relationship whatsoever and they should understand that but both parties should be putting in effort.
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 50
The terms of my sugar Arrangement are basically just saying hello each day or keeping in touch there's no nudity there's no and there's basically nothing this is a simple Arrangement way I just speak to the person each day they have gave me money and they have bought me a car but I haven't seen the car as of yet but I seen the title that is in my name but their management is simple
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Honestly I am super new to Sugar dating but because I have no interest in a romantic relationship nor do I have any obligations to anyone but me I feel like me and my SD can gain a lot from our relationship. When I finally meet a potential candidate I want it to be understood that we are both human beings with emotions and thoughts. Boundaries will be set right off the back because I will not be pressured to do anything sexual I am not comfortable with especially if I an uncomfortable with them. I want us to have a friendship, one in which we both of course benefit from. Everyone loves company, that is what I'm here for. An ear for his troubles and bad days. Someone to encourage and support him, however I expect the same. We are not tools to be used, baby or daddy. We are both bringing something to the table at the end of the day like with anyother relationship, friendship, or contract. There's no telling how far our arrangement will go, but the foundation has to start off with trust, respect, and understanding.
2023-04-22
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Sugar Baby / 49
I want a man or woman that wants me to be at home. I want rewards and time to chill the way I see fit. I will pleasure that person with all I have but expect to have no restrictions on leasure time. I want to enjoy fishing gaming and whatever else I want. I expect my Daddy/Mommy to make it possible for me to be a writer as I desire love is optional
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
I like to know first. Be friends and see what happens. If tings go well then something more. To have lots and lots of fun chating. Send some pictures... And well just get to know each other..sugar daddy or sugar mommy it does not matter to me actually i just want to get get to know more people... Who know maybe make i new friend and get to meet wonderful people.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 29
I thinknthe first and most important trrm is respect. Their should be mutual respect for each other. No daddy who tells you you should change a certain thing about yourself, and you dont change something about him either. Second should be agreements abiut the dates, what kind of dates does he like, wich days should be with him , ... Then agreements aboit the financial aspect. I basic recipe if you want to have a good experience.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
Im primarily looking for an allowance based friendship. A sugar daddy who wants to spoil me simply because he wants to. I try to make it clear that I am NOT in this for sexual encounters. I am however interested in making new friendships/companionships. I prefer for everything to be online as it's just what I'm most comfortable with, but I am not opposed to coffee or dinner on occasion AFTER I feel comfortable with meeting.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
Honestly I don't think there are set terms. I feel that every sugar baby relationships differs from person to person. I am not opposed to sending pictures and videos to one another while we are getting to know each other. This way that builds up dress so that I know you are serious about this. Once we establish some ground rules then we can go from there. I am not opposed to going out and kissing etc the way a real couple would. But I also am not one to open my legs just because, there has to be a real solid connection for that to happen. As things progress then we can always see what happens between us.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
I would love to have a Nice chat with a man who needs a little more attention a Man who needs someone who listends and gives advice. Nothing sexual! Just getting paid for a good Conversation. I like to have a nice conversation where de sugar daddy spoiles me and also listends to me! And sometimes that includes a treat! A picture maybe Or a nice voice over just for him.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
I’m super new to this but I feel as if my ideal arrangement would be an older female who I could grab a coffee with and be able to talk to about things I’m not comfortable talking to girls my age about. I’m not comfortable with the idea of sex in exchange for money but staying the night and being able to feel comfortable with someone would be amazing.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
I personally am just looking for someone who can help me kick start my life up. All I have is love to give. It’s important for me that my sugar daddy and I build a friendship foundation first before anything else. That is because it is in frienship where we start to earn someones trust and that is the most important thing in any kind of relationship.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’d love for it to be mutual respect, and terms. However, i wouldnt give out my username or password to my bank account. I’d love for this to be emotionally connecting, as much as physical. I’d also love to be honest with one another, and know that we’re on a mutual agreement. With this being said, also know that life exists outside of technology, so if i don’t answer right away, please be patient.
2023-04-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
You must have shown me a picture of you, or talked to or video chatted on the phone before we where able to meet up. You don’t know who’s real and who isn’t. I would also like some proof that you’re the person I’m talking to and not someone else. And we’d have to have some sort of communication before we where able to meet up. Messaging for sometime or phone chatting.
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 28
I've never done this before, so I'd have to guess. Mutually beneficial, of course. Guide lines and hard limits. Your partner should be reasonably fit, because let's face it we're all a little shallow. You should be very up front and honest, but also extremely careful. It would be safest to hash out a list of rules and guidelines to follow so that everyone is safe and happy.
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Something of a more online relationship without the hassle of meeting up. I feel like its really hard to find a decent sugar daddy who isn't a complete dick with money. I wouldnt mind being physical on my part on pleasing him but some guys can blow it out of proportion. Personally i dont mess with the foot fetish or ang kind of things from thats sorts because i wont enjoy it and i want to do something thats going to get my pay good .
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 32
I like arrangements that are mutually beneficial. I like being respected and respect the other person. Sometimes I appreciate a weekly or monthly allowance but each arrangement is so different. The biggest thing is respect for me. Oh and it doesn’t hurt if my sugar daddy can go out of his way to make me feel loved and beautiful every now and then with presents and cute things.
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 36
There has to be a mutual benefit. And it differs from Sugar Daddy to Sugar Daddy. I'm always willing to meet in person because a Suggar Daddy needs to know He's with a real person. You have to invest your time in him. Know his likes and dislikes so you can be a good Sugar Baby and fulfill his needs, what ever they may be! As long as I'm taking care of him he'll take care of me.
2023-04-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
I love chemistry. Have to be specific on requests i prefer specifically online in exchange for gifts and pictures themselves. Id like to be aem candy for the night. When we meet in person. Simply to show off how amazing we are together. Somone sweet amd hamdsome! Cant forget the amazing personality. No sex,maybe just a bit touchy but im very passionate and in the moment
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 35
My terms would be pretty simple and straightforward. I feel as though we should be meeting one another's needs whatever those Maybe. I would never do something that made me feel uncomfortable and I would never ask them to do something that would make them uncomfortable and I feel like that depends on the person themselves. I want someone who I can connect with mentally and spiritually I want someone who I can grow with and build a strong bond. I'm the type of person who likes to please so I'm always trying to do my very best to provide happiness in every way. I don't think that having a sugar daddy should mean that you take your clothes off and hit the sheets not to say that that couldn't happen one day but I have respect for myself and most importantly respect for them as well
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
My terms are pretty simple I'm not looking for anything as serious as a marriage but maybe a relationship would it hurt. The type of relationships I like to have are laid-back and nonchalant. I go about my relationships in the way I act in my relationships based upon what the other person involved is giving to me such as their personality and what they can bring to the table. On the sugar baby so of course I love and want to be spoiled but it isn't the most important thing as long as we're connecting on a level where I can feel safe and secure.
2023-04-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
I honestly really really really want my relationship to be like really god friends that get each others references and laugh at each others shitty jokes but also we fuck and he pays me. It would be such a comfy and relaxed deal and I honestly would bevso happy. I know the chances of that happening are slim but hey a girl can dream can't she? Lol hope this helps
2023-04-26