What Are Your Terms in Your Sugar Arrangement? - 2
209 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 36
My terms for my sugar daddy is to spoil me and treat me like the queen i am it doesnt have sexual but a great conversation dates some quality time if needed to make my sugar daddy feel great in exchange for gifts and tuition payments also getting to know each other and build a long term relationship and friendship would also be great discretion is a
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 30
I need to be spoiled. Right from the get go and I hate that you kinda have to ask them on this app. Ill travel to you but treat a girl well. Dont be rude please also dont ask for my address if youre not even willing to prove youre a real sugar daddy. Otherwise pove to play online and again spoil me and i will spoil you beyond your wildest dreams or desires.
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 38
I want him to show me the best time of my life give me all the things I want and need make me feel like the only woman in the world make me smile all day when he goes to work I must feel to cry because I miss him I want all the sex we can have it dose not matter where I am doing anything anytime anywhere because I love sex and if I am with someone I want all that I can have
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 27
For me, I’d like my relationship with my sugar daddy to be genuine. Although I am young, I have the intellectual mind of a grown woman and because of this I love to feed from a grown, mature, successful male’s intellect. I believe that providing stimulating conversation, entertainment, companionship and trust in exchange for gifts/presents or money is a good arrangement. I am real with everything that I do and I think it is important to also have a genuine friendship alongside the financial aspect of having a sugar daddy.
2023-04-12
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Sugar Baby / 31
I am looking for a daddy to care for all my needs and i will help with "chores" around the house. I want a serious sugar daddy and/or momma. I want a relationship/bond if you will. I want to be taught to be a good sugar baby. I want to please my daddy in anyway i can. Boys my age don't understand me. I my sugar daddy will. Money doesn't buy happiness, but daddy and mommy do.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
I have no expectations on what my sugar daddy should provide to me. I am just attracted to much older men. In this case I will not expect funding for things like sex or pictures but I would like us to get physical from the get go. I am also interested in having a relationship but if daddy doesn’t want that, we can always have a fun time. Also hope you don’t mind me screaming daddy 🙂
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 50
My only thing is that I have to feel safe. I'm not a sex worker, just trying to find a different kind of guy from those on other dating sites. I don't want to be pressured into sex, or disrespected, or abused in any way. If the communication is good then we may hit it 9ff. I don't date a lot because most guys are just creeps. Hopefully, this site can help me find a good one.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 33
Some of the most important terms for me in a mutually beneficial relationship would be be honest, trustworthy, respectful, understanding, patient, etc. Dont try to force me into anything i dont want to do, be STD free, dont try to take advantage of me, dont take me for granted because you will regret it when im gone, dont be abusive physically or mentally and keep your word. No one wants a asswhole for a sugar daddy. He must be generous, give me a cash allowance that we both agree on and treat me well. Dont constantly blow my phone up, stalk me, etc. Dont be crazy. If youre good to me then im good to you in return. I will not immediately start havimg sex with someone, thats prostitution. We have to create a bond as friends and get to know each other and see if we have a connection before having sex.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
in terms of arrangement-- i am welcome to share photos, advice or company in exchange during the arrangement. i will be their companion, and sweetest darling to them. i will comfort them. i will be their friend because i care about them. yes its a monetary arrangement, but it is also remembered that i am caring for them. sugar baby to me means that i am sweet like sugar, but i will also do what i need to do to make them happy or see a smile on their face.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
Completely open-minded I would do anything to get where I need to be in my life I have a reckless side of me and I have no problem doing what I need to do see I know how to treat myself you know so whatever they need me to do I will do it there's not always bad people in this world there is some good people in it. Don't always expect favor for a favor
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 29
Give everything you desire and he desires to be completely upfront and black and white. Personally I wouldn't mind physical and the company. let him know when you're uncomfortable with any given situation. Nice dinners and gifts and money is the goal but enjoying the company and being able to relax is the true prize. Don't be afraid to be yourself
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
I think as long as there are proper communication and respect it’s easy to follow through with terms etc. I obviously prefer something non sexual with a SD that is generous with financial allowance. But sometimes things lead to more, as long as boundaries are respected and he follows through with the financial gifts it doesn’t matter what happens. As long as everyone’s safe and healthy.
2023-04-13
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Sugar Baby / 38
Both people should feel good about the arangment and should be able to openly talk to each other about anything they feel is going wrkng or for that matter going right with the arangment and both people should be honest and respectful of the others needs and wants . I think any arangment should have um...... Guidelines and for lack of a better word rules.
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 50
My terms are we can be friends we can go out we can stay the night over no sex we can become close you can spoil me I'll do what you need me to do but I'm not having sex for money so that's out of the terms other agreements also I need my allowance one allowances do because a lot of these sugar daddies on here are not giving allowance when they are due
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 28
The relationship terms must be equal, i dont care if is only sexual or online, but it must me equal and soo logic, if you cant have that, then the relationship is going to fail so hard with the necesary time, for me, im ok with gifts and cleanings of my amazon wishlist, but ill try to do my best to make the sugar daddy/mommy happy, thats are my terms
2023-04-14
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Sugar Baby / 39
Ongoing arrangement with a monthly allowance and gifting. The allowance is for companionship and my time. It also is for being available emotionally and mentally when ever my SD asks me if he is funding me a lot. In exchange we provide a drama free stress free enviroment where we can relax and enjoy the time together without my SD having relationship stress.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
When i first started as a sugar baby, i thought it absolutely needed to be a real, physical and sexual relationship. But i quickly learned that photos or videos are just as good if you happen to have found a sugar daddy that lives in another country of is just simply away from you. Therefore, like in anyother relationship, you have to set your boundries straight. If i don't want our relationship to be sexual, than it will remain more like a friendship with benifits, such as photos and videos, go on dates, making out, etc. but if i am interested in having sexual intercourse with my sugar daddy and he is also willing in doing that than, yes, i have sex with them in exchange of whatever i need or want.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 34
I feel like communication is the biggest thing, you have to be honest about what you want and so does he. You must go over what you will and will not do before you meet because you dont want any miscommunication involved. I personally like someone who i feel comfortable with and that wont judge my situation or treat me like just another option. Respect
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 31
I prefer to be in a relationship where I can get gifts, nice dates maybe some cash. A lot of people think it’s a gold digging situation but I’m single and just want to pay my way through school with the company of a nice, trustworthy guy. As long as it’s mutal and he enjoys my time and company or whatever else I have to offer, then I don’t see anything wrong with accepting money in exchange:)
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
My terms honestly just depend. I want online communication only where he pays for online communication ex. Photos videos maybe even video chat. But if we really connect good in the way where we have good conversations it doesn’t feel forced or awkward I would want to meet them and go on dates and for him to spoil me. It all really just depends.....
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 29
I see a lot of answers here and I laugh at so many of them this isn’t about finding your true love or it being a perfect date this is about someone who is going to help and invest you , for your time and for your looks and brain , so of course as a sugar baby you should expect that they will want to kiss you and be personal with you and be open sexual with you if you are ready and willing for those types of things you need to look else wear , you want to make your sugar daddy or mama feel like they are wanted and needed as well as you appreciate what they do for you .
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
My terms are that my SD to SB relationship is strictly online. I'll have conversations with people, care about them and their lives and how they are doing. I'll send photos if required. In exchange for my attention I'd love gifts or money - but would never take huge sums and would never take money for nothing. I have to feel like I've earns the money - that's not to say that I sell photos of myself or anything. I mean I have to feel like I have built a relationship with ky SD before he sends me anything, it has to benefit him as well as me.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
I think it depends on the daddy for me, I'd like a platonic relationship with my daddy, (I have many walls and just have an emotional disconnection that Prevents me from being with people romantically.) of course I'd want to get to know you on a mental level I'd love to be spoiled by my daddy just because I'm me, I don't think you need to have a sexual relationship with a daddy people always assume that to be the case, I'd like to allow that to come organically. If I am attracted to my daddy then I will give him me, but in no way do I want to be treated like an escort. I would love to keep it online, I'm too shy in person and I'd probably end up throwing him/her off. I am open to photos though and video, I'd love to get to know my daddy through skype or Snapchat as well. But like I said, It all depends on the sugar daddy.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 41
mutually beneficial. With communication, chemistry and checking in just because. Respect is earned and given. Dates to furrther communication and help get comfortable with eachother. Both people should feel loved, have freedom, feel appreciated, cared for and mostly TRUSTING! Have a scale and agreement sussed out is super important showing meetings, dates, other convos pics etc... meetings take place weekly your price should be in the late hundreds, if twice a month or rarely, I’d say early thousands.
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 27
Well, I’d like to have a discreet friendship/relationship strictly online. An allowance in exchange for pictures and/or videos and personal messages to your taste through out the day/at your request, depends what we agree on. payment will be always be expected first... Of course, I’m always open to hearing other terms but good luck changing my mind. (;
2023-04-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do not do anything sexual, it is a pure relationship with an emotional connections. I am practically being taken care of for being there emotionally for my sugar momma or daddy. I don’t like everything having to be sexual, sure things may lead to that at time but I prefer to keep it to a strict decree of getting to know each other and helping each other when needed. They may need a companion and I need money, it’s a win win.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
The terms are pretty simple; I am not an escort. Sex is a natural part of any relationship, meaning if things were to evolve, I wouldn't be opposed to having sex. But it has to be more. I want to be appreciated for my personality, because I am not just an object. Another part of sugar dating is the financial one - it is in fact an arrangement. It should be an equally beneficial agreement. I'm not into getting exploited and used. If we made some sort of agreement, then everyone needs to stick to their part.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 25
Obviously mutual, and I don’t want it to seem like I just want money, I mean, if that’s someones kink or fetish go ahead and send some but still. Also be respectful, and respect my boundaries and so on. If you have super strict rules I probably wouldn’t be able to handle it, since it just feels like being a slave, and I’m not. To the people that live it, go ahead! I’m not stopping you lol
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
I always make it clear that I will send them pictures and videos and would not like to date or have a sexual relationship. I prefer platonic relationships with a daddy/mommy, and gifts or financial support in exchange for pictures and videos, maybe a video call. I don't do anything I am not comfortable with, and hopefully that is respected by the other person.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
I require them to send me money before they even meet me to show me that they’re really about what they say they are. If they really want you to be their SB then they will do it, your time is worth money and you are worth value. Don’t send any personal pictures until they have met your standards/requirements. Don’t give them your real name or any personal info. You never know if they’re a scam or not. Always make sure they show you their Id, to make sure their not a catfish.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 62
I just want to be spoiled that way I will never be with out money And I will be able to pay for all my phone and want ever else that I what and I what them to take me out shopping all the time wene ever I want to go and always go do my nail wene ever I want to get them all the time and be able to rent me a place to live we’re ever I want I want it at
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 62
Just having some fun wene ever I want I want or wene ever they want to I will do what ever they want to do most of the time if they are nice to me and they don’t have any bad things that I don’t like and how much are they going to get me in money because I’m am always needing it more then ever they have to pay me no matter what they want me to do and I will be happy
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 31
I have low expectations for the arrangements as I am very open minded and understanding. Dates, dinner, shopping, and gifts are all nice, but it's also about the quality or the relationship itself. If I get along with the person I feel as though if both parties communicate and know what each person wants, then it's a very simple process. These relationships are a two way street.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
Either gifts or money for pics and/or vids that excite & please my sugar daddy/momma. I want a mainly online based arrangement because i tend to get very busy & caught up with school & work, although we can arrange meetings here & there. I always want to send sexy pics to my daddy or momma and will do whatever they ask of me. I’m a good girl, but i’ll be bad for you if spoiled right.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 35
This is a great question. Everyone on this app should read these responses. IT SHOULD NOT be based solely on sex! Like another sugar baby stated : I am not an escort. If you show interest and I am interested then you should just show a monetary token of interest or gift. Then we could go frm there. But dont think oh im going to pay for sex. I want attention here and there, great conversation, dates when we arent busy, and whatever else we agree with!
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 28
Usually a male that doesn’t live near me and he just sends me money for videos or pictures. I’ve has a couple guys from my area want to meet and hook up but I’m always stressed that it’ll be a police officer doing a sting. If they’re far away i know we’re not meeting so I don’t stress as much. But some guys don’t want the “distance” thing. So it depends on the person to me.
2023-04-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't have any set terms-- I have my limits -- but I'm looking to negotiate something that works well for both of us. I think as long as we have mutual respect for each other and we're both on the same page, then everything should turn out just fine. How I would like for it to go is that I leave the situation knowing a neat person, maybe even someone I'll see again, and a little more financially stable if you know what I mean lol. But my limit is: I am not a prostitute. If we do have sex, which is not always the case, then it's a whole experience with both of us getting what we want from it and companionship is requested so I don't feel like a hoe...
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 28
I let them know that I'm good on dates but nothing sexual. I am faithfully commited to my boyfriend and I'm only looking to keep SDs company and male money to save up. Not everything has to be sexual, companionship is just as important to some. If an SD just wants hookups then I would if I was single, but my boyfriend is faithful to me and so am I to him.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Daddy / 39
I'm looking for a baby who meets me multiple times per week, treats me nice, and give me lots of kissing and affection (but not sex). It's basically like a relationship but with more benefits. Some of the answers here are hilarious. Most of you seem to want a SD that gives you ludicrous amounts of money just for chatting online and never meeting in person? For being pen pals?? Give me a break.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 30
Well, I’ve had many Daddy’s reach out to me and none have been legitimate (all have asked for my banking information). When I think of a sugar daddy I think of companionship. Someone who has the time, money, and energy to invest into you... & in return making sure both parties are satisfied.... which doesn’t necessarily have to be sexual but in other ways are possible.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 58
This is a decision we both have to make, we have to be on the same page so there are never any misunderstandings, keep all your cards on the table no secrets this man should be your friend and a confidant, willing to be there whenever you need him. We both are here to keep and make each other happy and to keep a smile on our faces, we need laughter among other things.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 44
First and foremost I would like a friendship. Even a NSA relationship is still a relationship. Chemistry is vital. I am not seeking an ATM but a man, a person that I can relate to, and spoil him when he has had a hard or hectic day. A SB should meet her potential SD and determine if they have chemistry. Find out who he is, what he wants, how will your time be spent? The SB should determine if that is a good fit for her. Once each agrees that they would like a relationship, spell put the terms so that each is clear. That way there are no hurt feelings? Lines are not crossed and your time spent together is fun
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 25
Some of the basic things I look for in the arrangement is that we both know what we are doing & are aware of the choices we make throughout. I would only accept the money after we've met and discussed if what we feel is mutual & establish guidelines together. However, I am still rather new and I'm not exactly an open book, therefore the relationship will lack any sexual needs they have in their end.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 36
I want to learn from the life experience of others. More than money, we are millennials and we want experience to save for the rest of our life. I don't want a controller guy I want to be myself and show what can I do for my partner, and of course I want to know what is going with his life. Is about to create a conversation to meet each other, being kind.
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 28
I would exchange in friendships calls and a certain allowance. Id make sure that no one knows of this if they want to be known.. I would man ensure they felt loved just as much as i feel cared for by them.. Since I have my phone all the time is always be quick to respond.. I would be respectful enough to set up my boundaries individually with them
2023-04-17
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Sugar Baby / 36
We're both grown adults, knowing what we want from one another. I don't want an arrangement. Rather have an understatement and bond. I know how to treat that special someone, as long as he can deliver what he has put forth, to the table. If we can stay true, open and honest about everything. My special man, will forever be taken care of like a king needs to be...
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 29
My terms are that you just be honest with me don't try to minimize my likes and dislikes I am a great person with a wonderful personality and I expect to be treated in that manner. I am human so treat me like one I am not an escort or a cheap fling. Basically how I treat you is how I expect to be treated.This is just me trying to have a good relationship with my kind of guy.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 29
My terms are you respect me and I'll respect you and we both have boundaries... There should be no feeling of stress or anxiety when talking with a sugar daddy, if there's an issue such as that then you're uncomfortable and it will make him uncomfortable and make your experience a bad one. It's best to be open and blunt about what you want and are looking for to avoid possible awkward moments in the future.
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 41
I believe both parties should determine up front what they are looking for and both should set the boundaries and make sure those boundaries aren't crossed. Honesty is key, don't lie about your income. Also, don't treat the woman likes she's your toy have respect fior her as a woman. Don't force anything if it wasn't discuseed or agreed upon in the beginning don't ask for it once you get comfortable just move on to someone else if you decide you want something different
2023-04-18
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Sugar Baby / 30
I am testing the waters with this new SD but his terms include exclusivity. With that, I have to make sure he legit and actually plans to compensate me to where I will be okay not have another SD. He actually said he wanted to get off the app and give him my loyalty but this was at the very beginning of it all. I have to know that he is committed before I comply.
2023-04-18