Have You Ever Met Scammers in Sugar Life? What’s Your Biggest Suggestion for Dealing with Scammers? - 8
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 30
The best way to deal with the scammers is play them at their on game what ever they ask you flip it right back on them if they hit you with I’ve been scammed before you so have I glad we have this understanding if they say send me bank info you say send me your bank info you just have to play their game and beat them at it to let them know that you will not go for what they trying to sale and most of the scammers say they own companies but is working outside of the country
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 27
If they ask for your bank information directly, block them immediately! If they refuse a phone call or refuse to give a current picture, block them! Make sure they take the time to get to know you, the real you, so that you both can have the best relationship possible. If you have a bad feeling about it, then end right then and there. A real daddy will be willing to prove he is real.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Omg I just joined I think yesterday and the scammers have tried to get me. I didn’t realize it at first. I even opened a new bank account and luckily it didn’t charge me and it’s actually okay for me to use. I have peeped that most of them tell you that they loved your profile and that they would love to set up an arrangement. They then ask to text you (use an app not your real number) once texting they ask you who you live with, do you have a boyfriend or kids, where you from and where you work and free on the weekends. Once answered all that they ask for bank account information and once you tell them that you would prefer PayPal or the cashapp their excuse is that their account manager can only deposit money into banks. AT THAT POINT BLOCK THEM
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
You know you have ran into a scammer when they tell you they will get you something but they don’t. They may want to use the excuse that they have forgotten. So a good way to check it out is to ask them for something small and see if they will, if they do you could progressively go up in the price to see if they would complain or make up any excuses.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
Don't give out your account information for ANY reason. Why would anyone even ask over the internet for this information from a stranger? They are likely going to use your account to launder money and steal anything that is in the already obviously. If you see a generic profile on the app and the guy is quick to promise the world while expecting little to nothing in return without ever meeting, you can almost bet its a scam so RUN.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 38
Because u are a sugar baby ! Fake SDs will dangle money in front of u to get a reaction some of them really broke and qant qat lil u have so that get u to join groups stating that they can get sugar daddies for u ! Best thing to do is block them !! Don't send out ur info ! Bring a lil cash with u if ur gonna meet a daddy ! Choose a public place just in case he doesn't show it he's a complete broke flake !!!!
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
Being a Sugar Baby there are ways you can identify a Scammer .. 1: Pay attention to how many times he ask about paying you💰 2:whenever he Keeps Saying he Needs Your Bank login/Password🔐 3: Say's he works in Another Country🇬🇧 4:when he say's or menchins about an Account Officer 5:When he claims he not able to send thru paypal or western union 💰📩
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
Have I??? Lol yes, I have met so many scammers on these sugar daddies sites. It’s unbelievable how many scammers are out there. The best way I can tell new SB to handle a scammer is DON’T give out your bank information or personal information! You can always tell who’s a scammer by the things that they say and they will be in a rush to get straight into talking about an allowance instead of taking the time out to really get to know you to see if you the SB for them. An a real sugar daddy is going to take his time to get to know you because they looking for far more than to just have sex...they actually want a connection with their SB. Just keep your eyes open and you will be fine!!
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I have encountered many “scammers” and they all say the same thing. Send a big long paragraph at how they looked at your profile and you’re gorgeous etc but then say something about you that’s not actually in the pictures or discription. It is an easy sign 100% that those people are scammers and up to no good. Just be really careful and follow what you believe is right.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
There are many scammers out there. Often they search for nudes! Now you can either ignore them when you feel that they are fake or you can take some money for your photos! Real ones will pay if it's not a crazy amount because they have money. Now some scammers will even meet up with you and not give you your money. You can handle that problem easily by taking your payment at the beginning or an hour in.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 50
I have met a few scammers yes but I look at it this way,...You try to scam me you are only scamming yourself... Because once you have just a simple conversation with me you are gunna know in your heart that I am a Queen...What scammers need to know is what goes around always come back around...They never get a chance to enjoy themselves because they are so selfish.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
Scammers are inevitable. But always be open minded. Some guys are just gun shy. But if you politely ask them to send you pictures of their face or to Skype or FaceTime and they decline every time. Chances are, you're being played. So play it safe, but being a sugar baby isn't about living comfortable, it's about learning and adapting and going on adventures.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 25
I have met more scammers than real sugar daddies. It's usually easy to identify them, especially if they are mean to you or call you selfish. Quite often men try and scam through gaining your banking information and password, etc. Then they put "money" into your account and ask you right away to go buy iTunes gift cards and send them the codes for their bitcoins. If you ask them if you can wait a few days for the cheque to go through they will begin to call you scammers. Keep your information safe and block scammers
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
No never met scammers but in a situation where I would it would probably because I didn't watch the space for instead before you meet your sugar you have to know more about them,search bout their existence then when you finally meet you can decide to meet at a public space. All in all try avoiding meeting before you know a little bit about them or else you can't be certain
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 31
Scammers! The topic jus pisses me off jus hearing about it.. haha . But ya , scammers are definitely ugly little slime balls we all hope 2 never run across, but unfortunately , in the web surfing world .. there jus growing in numbers day by day .. but , jus be smart ladies and lookup on how to identify a scammer . Cus once u know that , you'll automatically always know when u come across one .
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have met plenty of scammers from a number of differents sites. I also use seeking arrangements, hepays, kik and something else i cant think of right now. They offer u high weekly allowance get u excited and then ask for your bank account information. Bad grammar is another big clue to a scammer. I had one guy tell me to empty my account first if i dont “truth him”. Do not fall for that they can still load fraudulent checks to your account and then overdraft it and you will either owe then bank or have your account closed.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Always trust your gut and if it doesnt seem right or real then its not. If they dont want to deal with your allowance any other way part from getting your bank information then do not trust it as its too much of a high risk. Get your allowance and then give them what they want if they are after things like pictures as then you are sure you wont be scammed and messed around
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have met scammers especially on daily basis on this site and others. Usually they will message you that they can give you the world, but in reality they just want you to fall for them in order to obtain your information regarding credit or debit cards and bank account information. There’s actually a sugar daddy that told me one of his sugar babies were robbed in person. So be careful everyone.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 40
Unfortunately, I have been almost scammed before. The important thing is to stay safe and aware. I’m cautious and make sure to protect myself by not giving photos, sensitive information, etc. We have to meet in person as I’m not looking for an online relationship. So when he suddenly has excuses for why he can’t come or has fantastical stories... just block the acct.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 41
I'm not sure if I'm dealing with a scammer or not right now. I Have two bank accounts.. One I keep like 20.00 or 30$ in just keep it open and the other is my main account where everything is connected to.. Soo I gave out my info for the bank I hardly use. Figure no harm can be done to it.. So he told me he was going to deposit $400.00 instead he deposited two checks totaling $2200 .. And the name on the checks supposedly belonged to his accountant who has access to his funds.. And he said he had his accountant pay me.. I told him that was way too much.. He said well just take the $400.00 and I was thinking of having you send the rest to my father.. So the funds get released tomorrow .. But something just doesn't seem right .. Like how do I know he didn't take a check from some one and put it into my account to make me the fall guy.. ? I just reopened my PayPal .. Going forward ill be sure to use it.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
You don't need to give out passwords and such things about your banking. That's a scam. The most they need is your name and accout number to the bank you're with. Report and block scanners. Try not to send out other personal stuff too (number, nudes, address, etc.) UNTIL you meet and see the legitimacy of these people. You don't want to be caught up in a regrettable situation.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes!!!! While I've always caught it before anything happened, I've encountered it so many times on all sites! There's real people who do this too but all the messages are the same, they send you a long message about what they do and then leave their Kik and PHONE NUMBER! Crazy! If they refuse to to PayPal and insist you have a bank to use, skip them! You can't get scammed on PayPal it just doesn't happen. Politely request they send a few dollars before sending any pictures or videos if that's what you do. But also don't rush your Sugar Daddy/Mommy into sending you anything either or you'll get skipped too!
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have met scammers before. I usually take into consideration most of the things sugar daddy’s send me because if you read between the lines, on some casss you can pick up the “bread crumbs” they leave within their messages. For example, I’ve met sugar daddy’s who claim to be in the military, and since I have military background I noticed he sent me a picture in a uniform opposite to the position he was in.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 38
Scammers are out and about on social sites prying on sugar babies selling them dreams for all their appreciation and time these men trick women into thunking life would be grand with them then after they have had their fun they disappear and leave the babies lonely and in a harder spot then they were in wasting their time and beautiful portraits of thwmselves to keep their daddie happy at all times
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
I’m new and I’ve already been approached by numerous scammers. They immediately approach you with beguiling words like “spoil, my money, honey, sweetie, baby” the works. All in all they will ask for banking info and for you to download and msg them on Kik. So there’s really no way to avoid them but just trust your instincts and stay away from the warning words.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 36
Ive encountered plenty of scammers in here. All to which always ask for your bank account information. Its really bad in here sudy!! My suggestion sudy. Is that you request verification photos from sugar daddies as well. Most of them are the same person. And just make a new profile. Its unfair to alot of us sugar babies. Hope you take all of our comments into consideration
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 32
Always TRUST your gut for a start! If they are soliciting you mainly for pictures and videos let them know it's not okay and most wont ask for things like that right off the bat. Ask as many questions as needed to put your mind at ease. If they are who they claim, making you feel safe and secure will be a priority for them. You don’t need to be afraid of the Sugar Bowl, but you do need to exercise caution, no matter where you meet someone.
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met several scammers from the app. Usually they send super long messages saying they don't use PayPal but they want to spoil you. However it's easy to tell since the scammer only want your bank info. You should never hive our your bank details!! An easy way to avoid having problems arise I'd yo use PayPal and ONLY accept PayPal or gift cards. Otherwise you're risking screwing yourself over
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes there are scammers sadly but realize what ur getting into before you meet or send pics and it’s so easy to just block them if they are a scammer also there are guys promising a better lifestyle if you “join a team” and fly out to him. Be smart if he’s only getting you a one way ticket nothing good can come out of that and he just wants to pimp you out
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
If they only have one blurry picture with their bio stating that they dont play and will only send money with bank information then they probably are scammers! Also if they give you no conversation and only suggest that you give them your bank info then they will definitely scam you! Make sure your demands first people. You are in control of the situation, make sure they know that!
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
Always use paypal. Regardless of whatever they say about your bank and not being able to transfer funds to you, if they can’t pay with paypal they’re probably going to scam you. Most of them will say things that will make you think that they’re okay if you send something first or whatever but always make sure you are getting some type of payment before you send anything.
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 45
I’ve met scammers here in the app. People who try to use the ingenuity of sugar babies... they come with a few compliments, asking a couple of questions, as if they wanted to know you, then they start saying how rich they are or how much they already helped someone and can help you... THEN, they say they want to show they are really serious about you, sending a small amount for the week... then they ask for your routing number and account number, your login and password for internet access. Does anyone really think someone would need that for a deposit??? If someone else see something like that, should report, as I did both time.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
I’ve been on Sudy for a few weeks now and I’ve come across one scammer. I knew immediately it was a scam after reading the message. Their grammar was HORRIBLE and even put their number telling me to call them. I deleted the message soon after. I don’t like my time being wasted nor do I waste others. I real SD would get to know you via the site and wouldn’t be so quick to give you his digits. Be careful.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
Oh my yes! Ive met scammers. Tons to be exact. And one wah you can always telk they are a scammer, is if they ask for you bank information. Ive had it happen. One asked for my bank info i gave it and then next thing you knownmy.bank account was closed and claimed as fraud. If they tell you they dont use paypal or anything. Thats the first red flag.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
I have met many scammers since becoming a sugar baby. So most of the time, sugar daddies are honest about what they want in return which is always a huge plus. But for the (wanna be) sugar daddies, they ask for a face/body pic then to meet up that same night/weekend, with info on what they're seeking for. But when I tell them about what I'm seeking for, they completely diss me and tell me that I'm way over my head. I thought it was all about mutual benefits, or am I wrong.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 36
I'm new and within three days I have over six scammers in my inbox. Mostday the fame thing. Telling you they offer to talk on kik. Or give you their number. Right away wanted my account info. I used to work at a bank for three years as a sales associate....give me a break..not to mention but it's called PayPal. Best advice is when you first join be ready and very cautions. Look at their profiles and read. Look at their sugars, go and start liking your own menand message them instead of you waiting for them to come. Weed them out baby!
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 36
Yes I have had my share of scammers. They are like a polluting virus!!!! But I would suggest getting to know someone and don't give out your bank. Ever, or other personal demographics. Also if you meet someone just know they will be more anxious to see you then they are to send you money on direct deposit 😆😆😆 or mobile deposit 😆😆😆. I'd say send me a pic of your card instead.😆😆😆
2023-01-27
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Sugar Baby / 27
Scammers are assholes they ask for your bank account number and all that stuff so my advice is to totally I nor them if they have no picture or if they’re not trying to give you real information Most of the scammers I came across always ask me for my bank info I just block him and on here is a lot of people who do that so that’s why say be safe with scammers
2023-01-27
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve met so many scammers on Sudy. The best way to be assured that you don’t get scammed is never never never give out your personal info, especially your personal bank info. You should try and see if they’ll send you some money first just to see if they’re serious but most wont do that’s how you weed out the scammers vs the people who actually will and will do it through a preferred app.
2023-01-27
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I have experienced a scammer I’ve been here for a few days and I’ve already had a scammer come to me he was charming and generous when it was time to actually upload the money he asked for bank password and username since this is my first time searching for a Sugar daddy I didn’t think anything of it but I still was hesitant to send my password so I went Back on the app to see if any baby could tell me what to do and it turns out he deleted his entire profile. I guess my silence made him worried and he fled. My advice to you babies are don’t be afraid to be hesitant think it over first if he’s giving you a hard time then question it I still don’t know how this works but I know now how it doesn’t !
2023-01-27
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have definitely handled my fair share of scammers. They have wasted time and allowed a relationship to build, just for the time to come of an allowance. When a sugar daddy is asking to provide your allowance, he NEVER needs your personal information. Never needs a log in for bank, doesn’t need the CVC for pre paid and also doesn’t need you to buy a Vanilla card. You are in charge and whatever is most comfortable for you is what is best.
2023-01-28
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met a few scammers. They always try to take advantage of new sugars so the first thing I always tell women is that it's okay to say no. Don't feel obligated to talk to anyone if you feel uncomfortable. A lot of people will try to make you feel inferior when you're not, so just always remember your worth. Also, it's okay to stop anytime! You do you.
2023-01-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yesss!!! There will always be scammers. The first cluse you want to look out for is immediate talk of potential sexual activity from the SD. Secondly, a scammer will ask for SO MANY PICS. They’re a picture hoarder and are probably just using you as meat beating material. I’m a fairly new baby, so I haven’t had many encounters but for the most part, there’s more scammers out there than there are real Sugar Daddies.
2023-01-28
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Sugar Daddy / 51
Be honest and Direct. No need to give any personal info until you are 100% sure it’s real. After few meetings. A Real sugar daddy will want to make arrangements not a quick one night deal. Be direct as to what you want. Financial help, gifts, travel ..... and lastly don’t over sell yourself. If it’s right. It will happen. Best of luck to you allll💋🌹
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 25
Im new here on sudy but trust me I have came across a couple scammers my self . Honestly I hate them .. like do u not have anything better to do ? I mean really there taking it to far From SD To SM I Had about 3 in 2 days . I thought that we’re serious inquirers and I started off with a great start Until once they gave me there number & we started furthering our conversation talk about each other , then came the allowance conversation and each and every single one of them had the same set rate & asked me to open the same bank . That’s when it dawned on me that I was about to get scammed then they asked for online access & etc . I didn’t give it to them told them they were trying to scam me and they all acted like I was assuming when it was true all along because they never texted back . Wich is sad I say I agree with posting scammers in moments , screenshot messages , there profile & #
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes! The easiest way to tell is if they are all talk. Make them do something small or prove themselves before you help them in anyway shape or form. Don’t just throw yourself out there. Have them order you something and send you all the tracking info or things like that. Gaurd yourself and don’t hive out any super personal info till you know for sure.
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 41
I have meet a few they want all your log in information and they want you to do things for them and you get nothing out of it or they still steal your identity or steal your money. Like the others say do not give out any information or pictures untill you meet the person and know that that person is for real and you both agree on everything and if you think it is not right most likely it's not
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I have met scammers. Sadly in the sugar world there are loads of them . I haven’t been sugaring for particularly long , however the amount of men you will come across who will literally just want to get in your pants without anything in return is ridiculous. Best advice I could give is to be quite forward about what you want and that whatever they want whether it’s meals, outings , sex,etc will not be given until he can prove he’ll actually provide financially.
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have already met so many scammers in the past week. Some will ask for you bank info to deposit money which means they will just steal all of your money in your account. Some will ask for pictures and videos but don’t want to give any amount of allowance in return. Some say they will only give money for sex which is soliciting prostitution and not being a sugar daddy! Trust your gut instinct.
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I have dealt with plenty of scammers. The best way to deal with them is to compromise the relationship. Ask for a small allowance before do anything major to satisfy them. This should establish trust in the relationship. Likewise, sugar daddies should request a sample of what the sugar baby has to offer. If either of them are authentic, they should have no problem giving a little to get a little trust :)
2023-01-29