Have You Ever Met Scammers in Sugar Life? What’s Your Biggest Suggestion for Dealing with Scammers? - 6

810 Answers

Sugar Baby / 41

Yes yes yes. I think all of us have met scammers on the Daddy and baby side. It’s the most annoying thing especially when you think you have really met someone and they turn out to be a scammer. I think after a while we learn their signs and turn them down immediately. I just let them know they aren’t getting what they want from me delete the concert and report them. At this point I don’t there’s a point to even go off they don’t care. They are just gonna try it again with someone one else.

2022-12-16

Sugar Baby / 27

You always have to tread carefully. In life and in any place and time there are bad people, and their only purpose is to hurt. The advice is to act intelligently, the internet is a whole world, there is everything and you can never be sure who is on the other side, but by being careful you can reduce risks. Fortunately I have not met any, and I hope that I never have to go through with it. It must be a very exhausting and annoying situation.

2022-12-16

Sugar Baby / 57

I have met scammers from those portraying to be peace keepers in Afghanistan to potential sugar daddies who want your personal financial information. You just have to be intelligent and strong enough to stand your ground and call out any potential scammers. They tend to run away with their tail between their legs. That is the response of a strong individual!

2022-12-16

Sugar Baby / 26

I’ve met tons of scammers. I’ve seen everything from asking subtly for bank information, asking for itunes gift cards, to straigh our asking for my amazon log in and password. My best advice is to not share any log in, bank, or personal info, and block them! Be careful who you share information like your name or city with. Never give anyone your credit card either.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 27

Someone tried to scam me. They told me to send them my banking information. NEVER EVER do that. Use apps like PayPal, Venmo, the cash app. Or just get plain icash if you’re meeting in person. And always meet in a public place and bring someone with you. Sex trafficking is very real. It is cruel and dangerous and you can be killed. My final advise to everyone is that you be kind, respectful and stay safe!

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 25

I have not met any scammers I hope to get pointers on how to spot a scammer but honestly if you scam people you're fuckin scum. People are already struggling to pay bills and you're here to rob them of their earnings? I seriously hope I never run into a scammer..if you meet a scammer its pretty possible they have a lot.of other dishonest characteristics.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 54

I am very new to this I have never beem a SB but i could only imagine the scammers. I always have my gaurd up! Being a empath kinda helps me weed out weirdos just by their way with words and seeing their pictures. Always trust your gut!! If ypu get a feeling something just isnt right it usually isn't.. Being the life experience number that I am I have learned to not jump head first.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes just ignore them and keep it pushing u will see its a scam if they are asking for personal information or telling you to buy stuff. Thats how they get u is trying to take your money or saying they need your card information or login stuff for your bank you should never give them any of that information no matter what they say i had a person tell me ill send u $500 if you buy a $50 itunes card and send me the pic of the code on the back i didnt fall for it

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 28

NEVER GIVE OUT YOUR BANKING INFORMATION!!! If they are not willing to accommodate you then it’s probably a scam. There are plenty of them out there just wanting some and half the time they don’t actually have the money if they hit you up on social media out of the blue. It’s a scary thing to deal with but you have to do a lot of checking to ensure you are safe

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 31

Yes. If they ask for your bank account info and login, theyre scammers. Usually, if they don't want to have a conversation first and they ask right away what you want your allowance to be, they're a scam. Never give out your bank info. Always be weary about who you're sending info to, who you're sending pictures to, and what information you're giving out.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 32

I’ve come across plenty of scammers honestly and the best advice I can give to any sugar baby is be very selective and careful. Never give out too much personal information quickly and never give out your banking information for any reason no matter how many times they ask you. It’s important to be careful and use only secure ways to receive money that doesn’t provide them with your personal information.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 36

Of course! Always trust your gut, if you have any proof report them. Never give your bank info, I use delivery code myself. They can send you cash or but items from your wishlist and will never have access to any of your personal info, shipping address, and cannot stop a or cancel a payment. Don't do anything without an agreement up front. I always ask they prove they're serious after chatting for a couple hours, if they won't they're gone.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 27

Upon signing up for this app, I immediately stumbled upon two catfishes (people using fake pictures). So yes, I have found scammers. A very useful tip I can give with regards to that type of scamming (deceitfulness) is to reverse image search anyone that looks suspicious to you. That was how I caught them: finding the pictures on their profile on Google.

2022-12-17

Sugar Baby / 27

There are A LOT of scammers so babies please be careful. I recently had an experience with someone offering an allowance but he refused to use PayPal and instead wanted my banking information. That is definitely and big red flag. So when receiving money from your sugar daddies/mommies be sure to find a SAFE way to receive your money. PayPal and venmo are quite safe.

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 29

I am being scammed as i type this post. He won’t leave me alone at this point. Watch out for guys who are adamant about getting your bank information rather than simply downloading other apps that allow an SD to send money directly to your account. Also, i recommend doing a reverse photo search on the pictures they have available. Although it’s not always 100% accurate, sometimes it helps. All i know is, i’m not here to have my time wasted, and any “SD” who is pretending, will get exposed!

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Scammers are real! Dont be fooled by misconception. Genuine people show character. Scammers sell their character. A real sugar daddy has a plan and will drop money from the start. Scammers waste your time and only what to be seen or heard and arent easily willing to give up the bag. Real sugar daddies discuss the plan day One and propose the game and money without hesitation. Beware.. we all out dealing with devils on different levels !

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 53

I have had many men approach me on websites for dating sugars and I have to say most are trying to scam you by asking for your banking info or credit card info. Which you should never ever do, SDs never ask these things off the hoop nor before even meeting you so be careful. I usually delete and block them immediately and report. But that doesn't stop the rest of them out there!

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 26

The best way I see it is...if they're sending you cashier's checks, or they want "nudes" first or cam first, without payment is like way wrong and if you do it for money it's technically prostitution, theres a fine line between that and sugaring. Good daddies won't require sex cuz that's illegal as fuck all. As long as it's "optional" it's legal. It's pretty easy to tell those who is real or fake. A real daddy won't demand things from you 4 seconds Into talking. They'd wanna talk about stuff like your life and theirs before hopping into that right away

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 33

Yes i do believe that i have come in contact with a few scammers. They start off acting like they are into to you but will quickly try to get you to text them personally and i have even had some people to block me from the app as soon as i give them my number. It’s weird. Then when you guys start texting they continuously ask you for your bank info.. that’s automatically a red flag to me..it’s way more ways to receive money bs giving out your back info..just be careful babies

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 33

The best way to spot a scammer is when they aren't really interested in getting to know YOU. Their main concern is getting you allowance by depositing a check! That's total BS! I simply let him know that I don't want to share that information and either we can do paypal or a bank to bank transfer. Lol after that I usually don't get a response! And then i report them...lol simple

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 26

yes i've dealt with many scammers on here already which is kind of depressing. what i have noticed is that they will ask for your banking info and make it seem like there is no other way for them to give you the money. one time a man got mad because i told him no to giving my bank account because people had told me to NEVER do so. there are plenty of ways to get cash to each other without giving personal information

2022-12-18

Sugar Baby / 32

Yes I have met a few and from experience any sugar mom or dad that sends pics of money is a red flag anyone can find a picture of money online so it's always good to reverse search photos, also don't trust anyone that asks for bank info right away or that tells you to delete your profile because they want you to themselves right away these are scammers their only looking for the opportunity to rob you of the little money you probably already have so these are just a few things to keep in mind and view

2023-01-12

Sugar Baby / 26

If you haven’t met scammers then you arnt on sudy. The accounts are easy to spot if you know what your looking for. Similar pictures and names, similar bios and most of all, asking you for your banking info. Or asking for things before paying and refusing to reach an agreement. The simplest way to spot a scammer is to do the following in this order. 1) do they seem real. 2) are they rushing quickly into things? 3) have I seen any of thier information before 4) dose the arrangement seem to good to be true. 5) are they pushy, rude and demanding. And your final step 6) report and block them immediately.

2023-01-14

Sugar Baby / 42

Yes I have met more then my share of scammers since I have been looking for a real down to earth sugar daddy. The best way I can tell you to deal with them is ask them a few questions first like what's there occupation, where do they live and a. Couple more. Most of the time the occupation is a electric engineer, who is out of town on business. They will also ask you for bank info. Never give it if they have a problem where they can't use PayPal, western union or do a prepaid usually it's a scam. You can usually feel it too. I just don't deal with them anymore and l block them!

2023-01-14

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes I have met some scammers. They will ask for pictures (nude) and say they will send allowance but you know they won’t. They always say afterwards Because how do I know You’re not scamming me? It’s the typical excuse and ladies watch out for hear types of sugar daddies because as much as we need the allowance, there are plenty of men out there that would want to spoil you.

2023-01-14

Sugar Baby / 57

Honestly I have not met any real sugar daddies on either of the two sugar daddy websites I am on. However, I have met a lot of scammers on the sites and they are very annoying and extremely forceful with trying to get your banking information or they insist on you going to buy a one vanilla prepaid Visa card or a my vanilla prepaid MasterCard card and they want you to put a hundred dollars on this card. Think send them a picture of the front, the back and a picture of the receipt. This way they can take the money off the card. That's the scam. Don't Do It....

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 27

For me my number one verification is getting. Take his picture and do a reverse Google search. Then you can find out immediately if you're being catfished. If it is him well now you have an in to verify some information. Most photos connect to some social media, verify his location, his lifestyle, his relationship status. Makes sure that your keeping yourself safe. And if you can for an added bonus, dig up some dirt on him.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 42

I am new to this sugar daddy deal & I have bumped into people that ask for my number and offer allowances then they tell me they would like my user name/password & once I tell them no they stop messaging. It's like the other girls say a gut feeling is always correct. I don't know what having a sugar daddy is as of yet I hope the right 1 will come along soon & worth the wait

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 32

Yes omg i have . actually not on this site. He was horrible . and CHEAP . as a sugar baby im very reasonable .. But this sugar daddy was married . and complained about how he had to take care home . so i told him he shouldn't be something he couldn't afford to be. He tried not paying me. I then blackmailed him using his home as bait . some things you just don't share with people in this business.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 30

Everyone has been scammed, and if you haven’t you’re lucky. If a guy says he’s going to pay you if you be a good girl and send the pictures he wants, he’s lying. Always get your money upfront, and always know exactly who you’re dealing with. If he has a picture of your face, you should be able to have a picture of his, at least. And only use the cash app, if he says girls have scammed him using the cash app, drop him immediately.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 26

Scammers are very common you should ask for a small deposit of allowance first and if they can’t deliver they’re usually fake I’ve dealt with many fakes before as a sugar baby there’s many ways to send money without bank info and they’re lying if they say they can’t or they need to have your bank info there are many different apps that can be used to transfer money.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 27

The best way to sift through the scams is to ask for something small before sending nudes or vides . Never accept “ill do it afterwards “ because that usually ends in a scam . Usually when its a scammer they avoid your direct questions about the money with a question or they try to bring up the pictures again . You cant alot them to take advantage .

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 27

I have definitely met some scammers..., but I think the best way to avoid that is to keep talking to the person, getting to know them on a more personal level..... requesting photos, maybe social media, do not meet up with someone before being Shure he is not a fake profile, it could be anyone....... And you don't want to be in danger... So be safe everyone😘

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 26

Being a model had me learn the hard way, that people often will fuck you over and not pay. I've lost so many opportunitys because I had to sever connections with bad people. But I realized my nice face had a price, and modeling taught me guys could be just as attractive as woman. If not a little more sane and sensable, with a far better taste for whats enjoyable in life - at least in my limited experiance.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 33

The best suggestion I can give for scammers is to calmly call them out. Express that you feel like you’re being scammed and ask them to either come clean or do what they say they were going to do. If they are still not coming clean and instead doubling down on the scamming, you need to get out of that relationship quick. Tell them you are leaving and never talk to them again.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 31

Yes I've met some scammers. The main advice I give to fellow sugar babies is to trust your bank and the information they give you. If your sugar daddy is asking for your credit card info or online account access he is FRAUD. All is needed to transfer funds is an account number amd/or routing number and nothing else! Be careful. Ask questions. No nudes before allowance

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 37

Yes, I have interacted with scammers since joining this app. The first person that contacted me was a scammer. He hit me and shortly after we exchanged numbers his profile was gone. We exchanged photos throughout the day and I was different person than the person in the profile pic. He told me he wanted to take care of me and give me a $500 allowance. But in order for me to receive. This allowance he’d have to give my credit card info to his secretary in order to put me on his payroll. When I didn’t respond he hit me up from another number. I told him I thought he was catfish and he stopped msging me. I’ve received other as well. I tend to ignore guys that say they prefer to be contacted via kik.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 28

This is my first time to use this app and ive never been scammed before cause there is nothing too scam , I dont have money thats why Im looking for handsome and rich man or some kind of christian grey in reality , but ofcourse I know how to deal with those scammer , I work for a company whose email provider before and we sell some personal ,bank protection ect. So yah theres a lot of scammers in this app too and few real sugar daddies so for those sugar babies like me specially those newbies in this apps, always be awake and alert! First thing Do not provide any personal information!!! Do not give what they want , do not send nudes , do not show your tits or any private part of your body unless they send you what you need (your allowances)

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 33

I’ve encountered a few scammers already. They want you to purchase a one vanilla card and send them all the info. As sugar babies, we shouldn’t have to buy anything to receive our allowance. I learned the hard way. So when I’m asked to buy a card, I stop replying and block their number. Or tell them you’re not going to buy anything and they will definitely stop replying.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 26

The best way as a sugar baby to tell if your being scammed ask then to financially do something small. And don't sleep with or send nudes till you get some allowance. Always trust your gut. If they don't have a picture and won't send one be weary of him. I'm ways sketch bc I bc I never have had a real paying sugardaddy. So ladies just be careful. Thanks

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 36

Gotta look out more as a male imo. Being upfront weeds out most fakes. The best way as a sugar baby to tell if your being scammed ask then to financially do something small. And don't sleep with or send nudes till you get some allowance. Always trust your gut. If they don't have a picture and won't send one be weary of him. I'm ways sketch bc I bc I never have had a real paying sugardaddy. So ladies just be careful. Thanks

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 32

I’ve dealt with a few have and I’ve noticed they’ll immediately give you their phone number and want to jump into a arrangement. They’ll ask for your bank info and you mention PayPal they’ll stop replying lol. Just tell them you don't deal with scammers and they will usually stop replying. I’ve also had a guy ask me to go buy gift cards and then he’ll western union some money. At that point just delete their number. There are plenty of ways to send and receive money & a real sugar daddy knows them.

2023-01-15

Sugar Baby / 32

There is one guy who messaged me and wanted me to message who showed me some information, but was talking to a friend who had the same information sent from a different account. And then he deleted his account he messaged me on and made a new one to message me with a different phone number and what to message him at. Kinda sketchy and didn’t reply, idk what else to do about it but just say be careful and figure out what the proposal is exactly, get all the details and as much information as you can. And as the app says “don’t give out your personal bank information!”

2023-01-16

Sugar Baby / 26

I have come across a few scammers or fakes in this app.. I can tell if someone is scamming if they are persistent with asking for your bank information... If they jump to want to give you allowance and just immediately want your bank information... Beware, ask them if they PayPal, it's non risky for both parties or even cash app... If not then don't risk it! Keep your private information, private.

2023-01-16

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes i have met a scammer on here. I usually ask questions to make sure they aren't a bot or scammer. Like a question relation to previous information we were just talking about. Or I check out there profile to see how long they have been on the site and how active they are. Or even just making sure they are verified first. I mean 1 strike is ok 2 strikes and to me your out. If you can't even remember my name block because im on of a kind ❤.

2023-01-16

Sugar Baby / 30

I think that Sugar dating has some similarities to regular dating in this aspect. This sounds cliche, but I usually trust my gut. If someone with no/bad quality photos, no/very low effort profile contacts me, I don't give them the gift of my time. If it's just one photo and a fabulous profile, or loss of photos and a lacklustre profile, I'll maybe give them a chance to show that they are both who they say they are and that they're serious. A potential SD/SM should always be comfortable talking via Whatsapp, telegram, or FaceTime, and they should be okay sending a small gift prior to meeting.

2023-01-16

Sugar Baby / 28

This has happened to me personally and I have learned over time that if you want to be safe in the sugar relationship when it comes to payments to have them give some time of insurance before sending pictures or videos or even meeting up. Once you both see you can trust one another then maybe talk about bigger prices but if you start off small (with a insurance) you at least know that if they don't pay more you still got a part of your money

2023-01-16

Sugar Baby / 29

The biggest tips I can give as a sugar baby are: never provide your personal information: (bank info, real full name, address, etc). Ask for a small favour before you get too deep with them. Try and get them to video chat or even talk on the phone. I prefer to chat for a few days before meeting or making any major decisions on meeting up with a sugar daddy,

2023-01-16

Sugar Baby / 31

Yes, all the time. Ladies there are a lot of SD scammers so be careful and be smart. Don’t send your bank account information. I know that seems like common sense but there are a lot of new and young SB that don’t understand that so that is for you all. Also, make sure you get your SD to verify his income and send you a small amount in advance to make sure that he is indeed serious about your arrangement. If you keep your eyes open and stay smart, you will be just fine. Go finesse these SD ladies and be great at it!

2023-01-17

Sugar Baby / 33

I’ve experienced scammers and I am sure we all have. The best way to deal with a scammer is to simply be aware. A scammer will ask you to contact them in a first message. What real person would want a random to have there contact info without any additional information as little as your name. A scammer will also make up scam stories about cash app and PayPal. Ladies please be aware there are several ways to transfer money without disclosing your bank account info. I have also been asked for my address so that a scammer can send me a check. These are all scams, please be cautious. Do not meet with these guys unless you feel 100% comfortable. Ask for drivers license, and always tell a friend if you’re meeting with an online date.

2023-01-17