Have You Ever Met Scammers in Sugar Life? What’s Your Biggest Suggestion for Dealing with Scammers? - 16

810 Answers

Sugar Baby / 30

I was recently scammed by a man on here. I wouldn't even call him a man, because the things he did to me. My bank account is negative nine hundred dollars now because of the scammer i ran into. My advice to you would to be to have your SD send his credentials first before you send photos, give your personal information. Because as unfortunate as it is, people are not trusty worthy.

2023-05-17

Sugar Baby / 28

I've been here a very short time, and so far I have seen a few scammers. when they send me their kik name I look them up and start talking to them. They asked me what bank I use and I tell them I do not give out my bank information or use checks and I only use PayPal. They just stop talking right after that. One scammer told me to go to hell 😂😂 Not my fault you are only looking to scam 😂😂. Biggest clues to find out if they are trying to scam you is if they give you social media names or phone numbers. If they say they only send money through bank or send checks, do not give any information and do not cash any check! That's how they scam you. use an app like PayPal and only receive money that way. A real sugar daddy would never ask for bank information or send out a check. If you receive a check from someone you don't know, call the bank written on the check and always make sure it is real before depositing or cashing because it can come back to bite you in the butt later.

2023-05-18

Sugar Baby / 38

Yes this was I first time on here he put 1000 in my account on the 15 now it may 19 I called my bank she said Miss this was a scam I had to change my account name an all I want do that shit again so I told his like u out of line u no what the he'll u was doing he gone say I'm hone call my bank I told him I'm good you on bs

2023-05-19

Sugar Baby / 30

My very first hit from here was a scam... it was going quite well, he was saying nice things, did what I guess he was supposed to do offered me an allowance and asked if it was okay but then wanted the name on my bank account and he wanted the login info for my banks mobile app. Tried to say the easiest way to get me an allowance would be to setup an automatic deposit. I may be young and naive but I’m not stupid...

2023-05-20

Sugar Baby / 33

The pool of scammers is deep and some are very cunning. When I first entered this lifestyle several years ago, I wasn't looking to be lavishly spoiled. I just wanted a partner capable of providing a decent living. Twice, I thought I found that and even let them each domesticate me. Those would prove to be my lowest moments in life because their personalities' seemingly did a 180 and they were no longer recognizable. With the latest one I even ended up homeless! Needless to say, I've definitely learned alot from those experiences. Sis, I'm telling you if it feels too good to be true it very well might be so keep your guard up. 1. Don't give out your banking information, social or any other info that a scammer could use to steal your identity. No matter how trustworthy the person seems. Trust me I trusted one enough to say yes when he asked me to marry him and as soon as he got ahold of my vital docs I was on the street. I know this is an extreme example but it's a possibility for anyone that isn't careful. 2. Never offer sex immediately in exchange for any spoiling. A lot of scammers expect sex and will try to get it before they live up to their end. At best you could feel used or violated, at worst you could end up facing prostitution charges.

2023-05-25

Sugar Baby / 28

yes i have many times, if they message you first and ask for all your info thats a big no no or say right off the bat im going to give you 500$ weekly thats a scammer.. all the scammers message you first well thats my experience. i got fucked over and had to unlock my bank account because of a scammer

2023-05-25

Sugar Baby / 31

My first daddy scammed me and I was really heartbroken. My suggestion is to NEVER give out your bank account info or buy the gift cards or whatever. As soon as I feel someone is up to something I speak up and confront them. Don't play dumb or allow yourself to be naive and taken advantage of. They will give you an excuse or just leave you alone when you catch them. Also, report them because Sudy would be a much better place without them.

2023-05-26

Sugar Baby / 39

I'm fairly certain that anyone who mentions Kik is a scammer. It's getting to the point where if I see it, I want to automatically report it. It took learning about the app to figure this out. Sometimes they hide it and it takes a little conversation for them to mention it. "Talk to me more here. I prefer to talk through here." Otherwise it's either in their tagline or their bio. I actually set up an account to talk to a guy and noticed his answers were really...generic, and then he asked for my bank account information. So I tried to report him on the app. I had to go into the FAQ section or help or whatever and type in "bot". Immediately I got a response of "You want to create a bot? That's great!" Eff that.

2023-05-27

Sugar Baby / 36

All the Pot SD on this App (and other apps) have been fake! About 10 on this app alone so far & I have several other accounts on different sites. Scammers are everywhere! They are charming and will try to talk your defenses down. DON'T FALL FOR IT! They are smart enough to mirror your desires and then eventually flake. Until the proof is in the pudding, don't give up any personal info (name, #, etc) to a Pot SD. Until they have proven themselves and worth. (if you can't trust them it's not worth it) Anyone can send money/deposit fake checks! Be safe ladies! Good Luck!

2023-06-01

Sugar Baby / 31

I've definitely had slot of scanners message me and have even met a few.. it can be quite annoying and disheartening especially when your new to this.. my suggestion would be to make sure to speak to the person for a while before you meet, get to know them, find out what they are wanting and if it's something you want, stay on the app speaking until you feel comfortable that they are serious before giving any info and start texting etc, most of the scammers I have come across just want sex, pictures etc they don't want an actual sugar relationship... but with anything you still need to be careful, the first time you meet with someone please make sure a close friend knows where you are going (even if they don't know what for) so if anything was to happen someone knows where you are... :)

2023-06-13

Sugar Baby / 29

if they send you a check in the mail, verify it with the bank that the check came from. could be fake and could cost you more than what it's worth.Many of these fake SugarMums/sugardaddies are attempting to get people ti cash fake checks and complete a favor for them that might include sending some of the money elsewhere.

2023-06-13

Sugar Baby / 27

The best advice I have to NEVER ever ever ever ever EVER give out your bank login and password to your sugar daddy especially when you’ve only been talking for a few days! There are ways to receive payment that is less intrusive ( PayPal) or if you have made a real arrangement with someone you trust then set up a separate account with a separate card hell, even a separate bank branch that is just for your daddy/mama. Another tip I have is to ask for specific thing (make a wish list ) or ask them for a gift card instead of an allowance! I hoped that helped x

2023-06-19

Sugar Baby / 28

Yes. I have been scammed. It was for a small amount, but they tried to push it into a bigger amount by saying that I needed to prove that I was real. Of course, in this situation the only way to prove my legitness is to send an outrageous item. (a $100 itunes giftcard) Of course I declined, and offered a rebuttal... To know avail.

2023-06-22

Sugar Baby / 36

This is just like any other type of event in life. youre going to find good men and bad men, rich men and poor men, honest men and full of shit men. you have to take precautions to protect yourself. If he wants to get very intimate within the first 5 seconds of talking to you, or even the first few days or weeks, theres a good chance he has nothing to offer you, except maybe some fancy filter dick pics.

2023-06-23

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes scammers are everywhere honestly but you need to be safe. My experience with a scam was like a day ago I let my guard down and now my bank account has been closed and I can no longer use it ! Babies listen TO YOUR GUT! I know many of you have read it before but don’t give your information to anyone !!! Always be safe use PayPal or any other cash app because that’s safer than other things out here also MAKE SURE YOU VERIFY THAT PERSON!!! And most importantly stay safe out there everyone ! ❤️

2023-06-26

Sugar Baby / 29

Do NOT give them your bank information! Try to use something like paypal, that way the only money they get is what you give them ... and if you a sugar baby that a bit backwards xD Just be safe ... you never know who is behind the text messages getting sent ... wait to do anything sexual until you see money first

2023-06-27

Sugar Baby / 34

there is one specific man on here that keeps re creating accounts. he is now "daddy#2"...just wants bank account info...and some free shit. ladies do not fall for him. I made that mistake and ended up looking like a fool and most importantly..feeling like one. I know there are honest men out here but he is not one of them

2023-07-03

Sugar Baby / 33

yes, from day one I have not meet one real SD. they will usually say something nice and give you their number and tell you text them because there not on here much. they may even tell you that they don't want you to go back on the site. that they will take care of you and you will talk about the arrangements and allowance. but then will tell you that he needs your bank info or a credit card. if you tell them you don't have one, use PayPal or use cash app. they will tell you to go open one. I always tell them I don't have time to for scammer. just think before you just hand out your personal info.

2023-07-05

Sugar Baby / 30

yes I have met scammers and on here they're usually the ones with the"kik" thing,they ask for your bank details to send you money. when someone asks for your bank details delete them right away and report them. and scammers in person would promise you certain allowance but won't give it to you,before you have sex with them or anything ask them for your allowance and nicely explain that you don't want to be scammed

2023-07-06

Sugar Baby / 26

from personal experience, if they ask you to get them gift cards, or go out and buy things for them, they are out to get you. anyone that is saying that they're going to take care of you or support you financially isn't going to be asking you to buy stuff for them. do not feel guilty for telling them to leave you alone, because they don't feel guilty for trying to scam you.

2023-07-28

Sugar Baby / 33

oh yeah I meant like 4 of them so far. and each one of them have the same thing in common 1. they butter you up talking about oh you're so beautiful I saw your profile and I wanted to get to know you much better. 2 they will put their so-called burner phone number in the chat talk about oh I don't get on here that much so this is my number so just call me or text me whenever you want since this is much easier that way 3. they would then ask for some pictures of you and when you ask for one back it's silent talking about how they already sent it and the photo should be reaching you soon. and then they'll be asking for your bank information talking about I want to put you on my payroll and how they can't do any big transactions right now in their own bank account so they need your bank information. No sugar daddy would ask you for that. if they were legit that would not be the first thing they will ask you about. so girls beware.

2023-08-02

Sugar Baby / 26

I've come across a few scammers. I would say just be cautious ladies, not everyone on here is looking to spoil you and give you an allowance for the things they'd like. Never step out of your comfort zone or feel obligated to send anything till you feel they are genuine and legitimate in their pursue.

2023-08-04

Sugar Baby / 30

I don't have a good answer but I have a good joke someone once told me " Splenda Daddy" a man trying to perseve himself as a Sugar daddy but does not have the funds 😂 he would probably be asking for nudes and videos before he actually sends you any money or gifts. probably One of those weirdos that made a profile and thinks hes slick enough to trick sugar babies to get a little excitement out of be a splenda daddy😂✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼

2023-08-05

Sugar Baby / 26

When dealing with scammers, I suggest reporting them so they can't poach anyone else. Keep it fun and safe for everyone by removing them. Don't give them any personal information and if something doesn't feel right to you then trust yourself. It's okay to be cautious, not everyone is who they say they are, and you have every right to vet people out.

2023-08-14

Sugar Baby / 53

YES!! I just joined and my FIRST attempt at being a SB was A SCAMMER!! How did I know? Because all he kept asking was for my banking info...ding, ding, ding! He wanted nothing to do with PayPal for allowance purposes. "Just send me the information of your bank and I'll take care of things." If you hear this ladies, BLOCK, delete and RUN!! Good Luck, I'm still searching also! ❤

2023-08-15

Sugar Baby / 27

I'm pretty sure everyone has met a sugar scammer. Dont give out any bank or personal information. use paypal or cash apps. don't listen to them when they say they don't use them because they got hacked because its a lie. if they have no pictures or refuse to send one run in the other direction. always get paid before doing anything

2023-08-16

Sugar Baby / 39

Literally all I have been getting is the scammers!!! Everyone of them ask for my bank info...bank name....username...and password!! As soon as i ask them to send another way they stop replying! All of them begin with....DO YOU TRUST ME! OR IM LOOKING FOR A TRUSTWORTHY BABY! DONT DO IT LADIES!!!! Stay woke! If they really wanted to help you out with the 3, 4, or 500 dollar allowance they will make a way!!

2023-08-23

Sugar Baby / 37

so yes they will ask for the bank info but also there's ones who think you'll go to buy a prepaid card so they can load it? or if they say I have gift cards I'll send you pics of them to use...no go. And in all honesty I believe sending any kind of pics should be to your comfort level as well as giving out your #, not how many dollars you get- to me if that's how you roll might as well work a corner.

2023-08-25

Sugar Baby / 27

I've talked to several scammers. The best solution is I make them talk in app for a while. Generally if they ask if you really want the allowance but then ask if they can just pay odd a credit card, they are fake. NEVER BUY THEM GIFT CARDS IN EXCHANGE FOR YOUR ALLOWANCE. They will say it's for crypto currancey or a way to transfer money faster, however, this is a lie and you are wasting your own hard earned money!

2023-09-02

Sugar Baby / 29

I have met plenty of scammers. I start off most conversations by letting potential daddies know that I prefer to use Zelle or Google pay, specifically bc I'm familiar with them and neither party has to give out personal info. Later when scammers inevitably ask for bank info I can refer back and block immediately.

2023-09-06

Sugar Baby / 31

just came across my first hell bent scammer, if only I fully did research on this before putting my bank info out. I did go on and change my password and all of that good stuff so hopefully it wont be taken. idk though I'm semi freaking out I check my bank account every hour now. if you have any other advice on what to avoid or what to look for when dealing with a scammer please share the love!

2023-09-10

Sugar Baby / 32

This one is pretty easy to weed out. I'm in Kik groups where we make each SD/SB go through the same process with verification. you wrong one of the girls, we screen shot and share among our groups and each other. If you're unsure, go with your gut or seek helps. Most of us babies protect each other the best we can!

2023-09-10

Sugar Baby / 35

Bueno, soy nueva en esto y no hablo mucho ingles, solo espero encontrar un hombre que me ayude económicamente y que además me consienta mucho, pero que también me de oportunidad de conocerlo y hacerlo feliz, de cualquier manera posible, pero que vea en mi no sólo una amiga sino, una confidente y porque no, una futura relación

2023-09-11

Sugar Baby / 30

Boy have I met some wackos (sad to say on this site) My suggestion is AVOID THEM WHEN THEY ASK FOR A GIFTCARD! If they say they need to validate their paypal by getting an iTunes/Google Play/Amazon giftcard, just block and delete (if you're a rich person go out and but your own gosh darn gift card from a CVS or Walgreens). Also, never give out banking information (anyone should know that) even if this person claims to have an account officer or not, don't do it. You'll be setting yourself up for misery. Another tip, unless this person won't meet up with you or if you're a little far away then they won't video call to say the least, then you're most likely gonna get fleeced (hey that rhymed😁) don't send your nudes, personal information and make sure you can find them on social media or even google their names. A lot of sick people out there kids. Just gotta outsmart them

2023-09-14

Sugar Baby / 30

Real SDs don't quickly asks for nudes or videos, if they do and are quick to promise you huge amount of money they are usually scammers. Don't give out any personal info especially bank accounts. Use paypal, venmo or ask them to buy you giftcards instead. Also, don't be quick to send them what they're asking for(nude or sexy pics, etc) without them paying you first.

2023-09-16

Sugar Baby / 31

Be aware! Scammers ask for information of BANK ACCOUNT and your PASSWORD. NEVER give out your private information! Besides, this username is suspicious enough.

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Remember not to give your username and PASSWORD. Some scammers don' t even speak English! Don't be fooled. Simply block him.

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Watch out once a person asks if you have a BANK ACCOUNT. It’s dubious to promise an amount of allowance weekly. I mean, who’d do that?

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Don’t give your BANK INFO even if he says he would “help you pay off your debt”.

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Be careful! This guy says he offers financial help. Ask you to text him on a 3rd-party app or call him. If his next move is to ask for your BANK INFO, he’s definitely a scammer then. By the way, don’t leave your contact info in About Me or Greeting Words, in case of harassment of the scammers.

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

The scammers’ got enough of the ones with no bank account lol...

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Ok the scammers always have various reasons to explain why they want your BANK INFO...

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

There are many types of scammer and on my first day on here once I received interest from a man and we proceeded to talk he was talking about giving me an allowance and I suggested we use PayPal to cover us both and he sent me a screen shot off the internet of an iPhone screen that said storage full and told me he couldn’t download the PayPal app I told him he could just use it via website he then said he wanted to have the app so he could help me ASAP and then said if I sent him iTunes card he could upgrade his storage and send me the allowance, I may be new but I’m not daft so I blocked and reported him

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

This is a typically scammer, because he promises weekly allowance at first and tries to get people add him on a 3-rd party contact, then ask for BANK INFO!

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 33

had this, said prove your real and poof went the account. sugar baby's watch out cause the sugar for Sudy isn't so sweet no more. it sour and bitter thanks to the scamers, fuck all scammers clean up call ale Sudy!!! take out the trash already .,...........................why make us wait for our rich shining armor to sweet us sugar baby's away in a lavish romance?

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

This Mason is a scammer! He claimed to help people financially but made people bought him a ton of iTunes gift cards. Ladies, don't buy them anything and STAY ALERT!

2023-09-18

Sugar Baby / 31

Scam alert! This Jackson insisted on asking my BANK INFO with some excuse that he prefers to write me a check deposit thing. I reported him to Sudy and when I checked his profile the next time, his account was deleted. Well done SUDY

2023-09-19

Sugar Baby / 25

These guys are scammers!! They tried asking for bank account info and phone numbers the second they started talking to me, as well as sexy pics for free 😒 Why do people advertise themselves as sugar daddies if they're not about that life? I've even had one guy message me but his account got deleted because he violated the terms. Smh these guys need to get it together

2023-09-19

Sugar Daddy / 45

okay I'm going to take a different stance on this. I agree with most people. If someone asks you for your bank account information more than likely it's a scam. But I have also used my Wells Fargo to another Wells Fargo customer and never had a problem. I've had a sugar baby before that only could do transfers through cash app. I've had a sugar baby who only worked through Skrill when Skrill was Poppin. I really want people to understand something. trust is a commodity that is in short supply when you're dealing with this type of behavior. When you are asking to pay for play essentially what this is you have to be willing to take some risk or there is no reward. I'm not telling people to go out here and get scammed on however saying the following. There are plenty of scammers but there are also plenty of good men out here who are good sugar daddies and there are plenty of good women out here who are good sugar babies it's up to you to try to decide what is good for you and what is trustworthy for you. you should always have some type of vetting process. it will weed out the real people from the fake people it'll weed out the people who are prude and self-conscious from the people who are really trying to get this paper. I also stand by the fact that if you're going to bitching complain about how bad scammers are here on Sudy... then you damn sure better be bitching and complaining about fake profiles that are created by the owners themselves. I just don't understand why this is an issue when we all know that it happens and that it is up to you to protect yourself and those type of situations. We get it the site gets it, but they're still allowing these guys to be there and they're still allowing females to essentially try to create virtual relationships through paying for premium Snapchats and pictures and videos. That's not a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship but I sure don't see people exposing females for doing that correct? We're not stopping females from getting their hustle on right? That's my issue with this whole Post in itself. there's a lot of focus on reporting bad sugar daddies or scamming people. but we're not talking about the people who upgraded who have already paid the website or application that they're not deleting and they're continuing this Behavior or what about the robots that are created by the website itself to show more activity in a specific area that gives off the first perception that there are more people in an area than there are? Let's not just focus on One Singular issue that's wrong with this website let's focus on them all. cuz it seems hypocritical to put this type of thing out here and not address the problems with the site itself all around. Cuz you can get these guys deleted that's not an issue and I want them deleted because I'm a real sugar daddy. But that doesn't fix the problem. for every one of these guys that you take down 8 more will appear and two of them were more than likely paid the $70 a month so that they can pull $500 worth of gift cards out of a female. You're fighting a losing battle just be smarter and educate people.

2023-09-20

Sugar Baby / 30

I am new to this site, created my profile yesterday and I already have sketchy msgs! If they aren't willing to speak on this site or they immediately redirect you to KIK, they're time wasters! I don't understand what they get by creating fake profiles to scam genuine people who are here looking for something. Real people where you at?!

2023-09-20