Have You Ever Met Scammers in Sugar Life? What’s Your Biggest Suggestion for Dealing with Scammers? - 12

810 Answers

Sugar Baby / 27

So far every person I’ve came across on this app have seemed to be scammers. My advice on it would be to find an online community of sugar babies to help u learn to identify signs of a scammer. NEVER give out your bank info because they can ruin your life with that information. If they’re truly wealthy and a dedicated sugar daddy, they will be willing to discuss other forms of payment. PayPal, Venmo, cashapp, and money grams are all good ways to do it. If they say they will not use any form of app payment, suggest money grams. All they have to do is go to Walmart and know the name on your ID and what store you will be picking it up from. The only info you will need to pick it up is the tracking number on the piece of paper and MAYBE their name but I’m pretty sure you just need the number and then you’ll have cash in hand.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 26

I’ve dealt with plently of scammer over Sudy. In the past day over 5 have tried to message me. The best advice I can give is that if it’s too good to be true, it probably is. If a sugar daddy messages you right off the bat offering you money in exchange for nothing but your bank info, DO NOT GIVE IT TO THEM. They often ask for credit card info, bank info, or even your phone carrier. It’s imports to just say no and report them so that Sudy is a safer enviroment. Stay Sudy safe (:

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 26

If anyone asks for what bank do use, where is your nearest store, wants you to buy anything or gives you his number before he actually talks to you. When you really sit there and think they never make any sense and honestly I feel like there’s no real daddies out there. A sugar baby should never have to give money to get money. Also there’s a thing called copy and paste, it helps when you need to text tons of babies and scam them out of there money. We all need to stay woke and help each other out

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes I have had encounters with scammers multiple times. No sugar daddy will need your personal bank information or online sign in, thats the first sign of a scammer. They will tell you that direct deposit with your information is the only way they can send the money. Another red flag is when they offer to pay within the first 5 minutes of talking, and usually an absurd amount.

2023-03-03

Sugar Baby / 32

I think since I’ve started the sugar baby experience I’ve encountered nothing but scammers only one person didn’t scam me. You’ll kno a scammer right of the bat. They will text you, give you an allowance number you’ll tell them if it’s okayy or not and then they’ll proceed to ask for all the information to your username etc. don’t ever give them any of that. If they ask you to buy iTunes cards to send money thru paypal that is also a scam. No the way I deal with scammers I just tell them straight forward I’m not dealing with them if they ask for my bank information, cashapps only! And don’t give them anything till you receive something so you know they’re real and not just trying to get off on you.

2023-03-03

Sugar Baby / 26

Never ever give out any bank info! If they seem to want to rush and arrangement, chances are they gonna pull the "what is your bank company". only ever take cash in person, or use paypal/venmo. No exceptions! There's no reason they can't use these, if they say they can't they're lying to try to trick you! Also, it's probably easier to only fuck with people who have premium on whateber dating app you're using, if they aren't rich and dedicated enough to pay, why bother?

2023-03-03

Sugar Baby / 26

If you can tell they're trying to scam you, example asking for nudes before allowance, asking for bank info, don't bother trying to compromise. There's other daddies out there. Make sure they know what you want, and don't back down. If they won't give in, tell them it won't work. Chances are they're a scam merchant. Most daddies seem to like a baby who knows what she wants anyway.

2023-03-03

Sugar Baby / 27

Firstly , when first interacting with a sugar daddy the first red flag regarding a scammer would be pictures , if they are blurred , have none or your gut feels uneasy about whether they are who they say they are.If it seems they aren’t who they say they are back away.Next you should ask for something small before sending or allowing sexual acts to happen to show they are truly offering financial support as agreed and not just looking to meet pretty girls and guys 🙄Lastly only send over PayPal and Cash app , NO DIRECT BANK DETAILS SHOULD BE EXCHANGED! Stay safe lovelies

2023-03-04

Sugar Baby / 27

Firstly , when first interacting with a sugar daddy the first red flag regarding a scammer would be pictures , if they are blurred , have none or your gut feels uneasy about whether they are who they say they are.If it seems they aren’t who they say they are back away.Next you should ask for something small before sending or allowing sexual acts to happen to show they are truly offering financial support as agreed and not just looking to meet pretty girls and guys .Lastly only send over PayPal and Cash app , NO DIRECT BANK DETAILS SHOULD BE EXCHANGED! Stay safe lovelies

2023-03-04

Sugar Baby / 27

Scammers are everywhere! Ladies remember.... if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Why would a stranger offer to give you money after only a few messages back and forth? 9 times out of ten, hes scheming. Also, there is not really a reason for a sugar daddy to ask for your bank info, whether it be your account number, or online user/password. Your bank holds a lot of personal information. Do not give it out to a stranger. The lesson is, once again, if it seems too good to be true it probably is. Building a sugar relationship takes time and effort.

2023-03-04

Sugar Baby / 35

The only daddies i have ever talked with have been scammers. Im still being optimistic that I will find a real guy soon. Most of the time its the same speal and you'll figure that out from trial and error. They will ask you to send your account info to them which their are many ways to get funds without divulging that information. I always ask them to send me a small allowance to show that they are real and then i never hear back. They are either a scammer or not really trying to be a daddy.

2023-03-04

Sugar Baby / 34

Yes there is so many scammers in this lifestyle. I have had some talk about buying me cara and shoes and a ring to keep other men away. He even went as far as as Long my sizes and which color car I wanted and kind. And when we were on the phone he wanted me to talk dirty all before meeting or exchanging anything. Well he got off and poof, he was gone. He just wanted to hear my voice and be very very bossy. But yes there are scammers on every site you go on I've met quite a few.

2023-03-04

Sugar Baby / 51

I believe I just encountered a scammer. He did in fact send his number and ask me to text I did and I sent pics. Dang it!!!i messed up!! He got that. But what triggered a red flag is he started talking about money and sex money and sex and a small amount might I add. He also kept saying after sex after sex you’ll get blah blah. I responded with I’m not an escort. He got a lil pissed I can tell. He went on to say you have to crawl before you walk baby and I’m just not gonna give my money to anyone on the site that messages me just like that. I in turned told him the same goes for my goodies. (Also had bad grammar so I knew he was probably uneducated and thought his lil chump change was gonna excite me) He returned by saying I’m sorry I dnt think we’re a good match. I told him it’s been real & have a good evening sir. I’m a newbie but I know good and well a real SD isnt worried about money like that. Especially no lil chump change. They have the right newbie because I am far from nieve and I know what’s what. I’m new to the sugar world but trust and believe I’ve been sugaring for a long time. Do not dumb yourself down. Stand firm just as you would if you went for a job in the working world. Always ask yourself. Can I do anything with this or is this something I get on my own? Much success to you ladies. Stay seeet but smart. Oh

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 25

I was talking to a sugar daddy for a week before he showed that he was a scammer. I was invested in the relationship and almost sent money out of sheer trust in him. It was the classic ITunes scam. The way to protect yourself is to never send bank information or any personal information that could subject you to manipulation from a sugar baby or a sugar daddy.

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 27

Always trust your gut. Start with something small like send pics for $$$. If they can’t do that already boom SCAM. Dont waste your time. If he doesn’t give it upfront he’s wasting your time. Probably a little nasty 13 year old. Don’t forget to always say what you want in the beginning so there’s no confusion towards the end. Always make sure what your doing is safe and keeps you happy (:

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 36

I’m just a new comer, but since I’ve been here I’ve got nothing but scammers. They ask for your banking information for online username and password. They don’t give up. So you’re best best would be to block them and not talk to them. Remember safety first then pleasure later. Always protect yourself and get comfortable with them before making any big decisions

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 25

Yes it's simple ladies they send out a long story explaining who they are and everytime they mention "donating to charities" they always ask for your bank and even your name, your bank username and password. Don't fall for it even if they seem genuine!!! They will lie until they die seriously it is tempting but you can't trust someone over the internet without meeting them or having some sort of verification. Use PayPal if they a real daddy they'll do it!!

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 32

I actually just delete with one tonight! Follow your instincts!!! Always have them verify who they are in some way or form. I personally have them minimum send a photo of them self with a hand written random phrase (like sudy). And if I meet them on an app like this, real sugar daddies aren't affraid to actually verify their accounts. If they refuse to verify, send you photos of fat stacks and still demand photos, scammer! Block and don't feel bad about it. You want a SD that will respect you.

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 31

I have ran into a couple scammers. Just be alert, and use common sense. Have money sent via PayPal or Venmo. I’ve heard of cashapp but I personally have never used it. Never give your bank account info out! Most scammers first message follows a layout: “my name is x I would love to spoil you. The allowance is x amount. Text me at xxxxxx and we can discuss more” if it seems generic, they’re probably a scammer.

2023-03-06

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes I actually have. Don’t give in to anything they say, even if they give you a certain amount for something. If you feel like it’s a scam go with your gut feeling. Also the “bank information” a total obvious scam to be wary of when on here. Make it clear to them you will only use PayPal (if you have it) and if they keep insisting just report them.

2023-03-06

Sugar Baby / 26

if they spell their own occupation incorrectly that’s a huge sign. If their profile picture is their pants, or the water, that’s another huge sign. Ask them to prove it to you by asking them to send you something small, even 20 bucks. These people are millionaires. if they can’t send you at minimum twenty dollars, then chances are they’re a scamming you and just want free nudes.

2023-03-06

Sugar Baby / 27

First look at where they claim to live. Then check the first 3 numbers to see what area code they live in. Continue to talk and communicate and see where things go. If they pressure you to give up your bank information, then that is how you know that they are scammers. Also, tell them to call you and have conversation. And ask to pay for something small.

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 26

1) if they give their phone number in their bio or right away SCAMMER no man wants a bunch of girls they dont know yet texting their personal phone number 2)They send you a message you see every time, you can tell it was typed out before hand, go ahead and just delete that message, SCAMMERS 3) They ask for a little bit of something from you before they pay you. It may seem logical, but thry most always end up taking the little bit you give and never hear from thrm again The best way to deal with scammers is just to let thrm go, block them, move on. NEVER give your bank info. The faster you weed out scammers the faster you'll meet your real sugar daddy ❤

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 26

So far all I’ve dealt with are scammers. I haven’t been on here for that long though but they usually send a long message like “hi my name is __ and I came across your profile and I’m interested in spoiling you with $___ weekly; text me at xxx-zzz-qqq or kik me at blah blah blah to talk more” and after they contact you and you get back to them, they delete their profile. Never give out banking info, go through PayPal or Venmo. I have yet to meet a real sugar daddy🙄 but good luck to all the baby’s reading this!!

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 29

Yes I’ve met multiple scammers they usually ask you for a bank account or ask you to open a bank account. I deal with it by reporting them if they are on a website or I block them from my number or whatever I’m using for them to have contact with me. You need to be alert and you need to be smart because they will make you believe in something that just isn’t real

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 42

Yes, I've been a member for only three days and have already run across a few scammers!! Make sure to always be safe with your personal information, never give out user names and passwords, account numbers, credit card numbers, etc! There are many ways to transfer money without giving out anything personal. Even if they want you to do these things as a sign of trust let them know that it's a boundary, then block!!

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 26

I’ve met several scammers, and to deal with them you just have to be strong, know your standards and be realistic. Don’t let them undersell you, and always think about whether or not the circumstances make sense, and if you’re comfortable with them. Follow your gut too. If someone is looking to be your SD but you feel something off about them, ask questions and determine if you’re satisfied.

2023-03-08

Sugar Baby / 26

Classic scammer “my job doesn’t allow me to make third party transactions including paypal and cash apps” don’t fall for it ladies plus when he give some his number out right away without talking to you yeah he a scammer. Here’s another one ladies they start calling you “Honey, Sweetheart, Love” right off the back come on now we just met and you already trying to get to that stage no ma’m also I’ve notice when texting them they use like an Android phone if you have an iPhone it’s green yeah most scammers use androids the few real sugar daddies I’ve talked to use IPhones be safe ladies and never ever idc how good the story is give out your bank account

2023-03-08

Sugar Baby / 29

Honestly, scammers are found so often on here it is ridiculous!! They say "oh hey, i'll give you 700$ a week, just give me your bank info". NEVER EVER give out your bank info, paypal and venmo or cash per meet is available for your safety. Dont fall for their "it's a company account" stuff! If you have to, just stop talking to them, ignore them, or just kindly tell them no thanks.

2023-03-08

Sugar Baby / 26

The scammers are the ones that message you saying that your profile caught their attention and they will leave their number and/with their kik. They also will tell you that they cannot send you money by PayPal or cash apps and try to convince you they can send you money immediately. Sugars please be aware of those phonies!!! No matter how much a sugar daddy likes you, he will never just throw money at you, make sure to ask them questions also get them to verify their income. do not I REPEAT DO NOT GIVE YOUR BANKING INFO UNLESS YOU ARE 100%SURE THEY ARE REAL. Happy chatting 😘😘

2023-03-09

Sugar Baby / 33

Lady's please be safe never give out your personal account info, ask for real live photos that prove they are real such as a picture with your name written on it or an ad from the paper with today's date. Anything like that will work your the sugar never give a man what he wants with out something first always make sure before giving away your number you make sure he is the real deal and not a waste of your time. Thank you and be safe

2023-03-09

Sugar Baby / 28

Dealing with scammers unfortunately comes with it there are many people hiding behind profiles that are not truly them. I haven't been lucky like some of the other girls to meet my sugar daddy yet because I have came across many scammers. Who want yiu to believe this lifestyle and then ask for your bank info or to add your bank to there's and NO there are so many ways to send money and be a sugar daddy you don't even have to send me money pay for my stuff in my shopping cart or things like that if your not comfortable sending through PayPal that's fine just lets work something out but just know if he wants your bank information he is scamming you ... you wouldn't give your info to someone on the street so why give it to someone behind a computer screen .. Good luck girls be safe

2023-03-09

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes , it’s seriously so annoying, like the first sign of a scammer is if a user uses am instead of I am , also another sign is if they ask for your bank account information like cmon that’s a no brainer, every sugar baby should know dang well not to ever give that kind of info out, whenever I come across the scammers I just delete and make sure I report and block them

2023-03-09

Sugar Baby / 35

Real SD’s won’t try to get pics especially nudes out of you, and they won’t be asking you to meet them in a hotel room for the first meet. You have your be blunt, stand your ground. A real SD wants to make you a better you, and he will treat you with respect. Anyone who says they will meet you here for x amount of dollars isn’t looking for a SB he’s looking for a joker.

2023-03-10

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes I've met two! One is quite graphic so please don't read if you're sensitive!! The first guy was nice enough, but he was less than splenda. He made maybe 20k a year. He tried saying he'll send gift cards but I didn't give him my address. When we met in person he said "you didn't cooperate well so it's $20." Lies. The next, more graphic one said he'd give me $300 for a meet. Just meeting, in a public place, that's what we discussed. He suggested a café I hadn't been to before and when I got there it was empty aside from him and the owner. I should have left then lol. Well I sat down, ordered a tea, and when the owner came out his junk was out too 😂 He said $200 to suck his friend and I slapped him, then later pressed charges since he also pinned me down and tried to strip me. The asshole was a lawyer, too. Stay safe ladies.

2023-03-10

Sugar Baby / 34

I just found out the hard way, don't give them any information point blank period. Decipher what they are willing to do and if they ask for your login information for your bank block them and report them right away. We don't need them at all. but just keep your eyes open for scammers. Trust your instincts and please make the best decision based on what he's going to give you.

2023-03-10

Sugar Baby / 43

I think it's a little funny that we see the sugar daddies post up about how "we" esugar babies are trying to scam them we're ripping them off we're all fake. I finally ask them today if they really think that they're the only ones having to deal with scammers. I've had quite a few guys that totally wasted so much of my time getting my hopes up thinking I finally found a good one ..... Or oh my God.. this one's so attractive I can totally do this one with no problems whatsoever. And then the guy only wants my login for my credit card information. I mean come on, what are you going to do with my credit card login information on top of it being a secured credit card??HELLO??!!?!!! I think I get more frustrated with the time that I waste on these people that just all of a sudden up and disappear when you won't give up all the information to your bank account. I mean seriously my advice is to just totally trust your instincts and stick with what you know and what you're comfortable . If you feel that something isnt right then be extra cautious don't give out information you're not comfortable with or information you haven't had to ever give out before to get what you need. Because yeah some of these scammers are good and you won't even realize how you messed up till it's too late. Then there are the ones that have no clue. Just because we're sugar babies doesn't mean we are stupid or unintelligent. A lot of us are well-educated.... we just like to be spoiled.

2023-03-11

Sugar Baby / 51

The 2 people who have contacted me on Sudy have both been scammers..both asked me for my bank information by the 3rd message they sent..one guy said he want to send me money but that I had to buy him iTunes gift cards.. .and I am starting to think this site was created by scammers...but anyway if you get a scammer do not give them any information and report them to Sudy asap..

2023-03-11

Sugar Baby / 32

Yes I have had a few scammers writing their kik and phonenumber, right away after deleting their account. Also usually they will ask u for itubes voucher or bank details and say they can not pay any other way, this is a scammer. Never give ur bank info, use paypal link that they can pay to, many might try to use you and ask u for photos etc but if he is serious he will be able to give u some sugar to prove that is is for real, dont let urself get used

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 32

Have I ran into any scammers?!! Oh the stories I Have! Recently, I've ran into one who wanted me to get a vanilla gift card, worth like $5, and put $100 on it. THEN he wanted me to take a picture of the card (front and back) and send it to him. I was in the middle of a dental appointment and he kept rushing me! Another said his he's ready to give me an allowance, seemed legit. Then magically, his money was tied up in an orphanage and he can't. That's so convenient 😒

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 30

there are usually very few images of them, but a lot of bragging on the money they make. Grammar and spelling too. A real sugar daddy isn't going to talk like he's in high school. Also, don't send anything until you get the money. and have them send it through paypal, credit union, or a P.O. box if they want to send you gifts. Be safe and be smart. Always meet the first time somewhere public too. I've never had sex with anyone the first time meeting a possible daddy. Make sure everything feels right. Theres more than just money scams out there girls!

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 31

I have no idea how this site works it would be great for the other sugar babies to give out advice to each other especially when it comes to a sugar babies first sugar daddy. I have recently been scammed it doesn't feel great especially walking into the bank and right when the banker sees the red flags instantly Fraud Department. Thanks in advance

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 25

I have met some but it’s pretty easy to tell the difference. You just have to find out if they’re serious and set up a safe arrangement to make sure you don’t get scammed and they stay happy. When starting out, you may realize that there are some scammers but you will quickly learn with experience what to look for and how to make sure you don’t get a scammer!

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 30

Yes! I Have Met Plenty of Scammers on Sudy. To Be Honest I Dont know If Anyone On Here is Real They Supposed 2 Be SDs But Instead Trying To Steal Sugar From U By telling U How Much They Giving U Every week Then Ask For Your bank Info & Credit card Info. SBs Don’t Be A Fool And give Your Info Out Cause U Hone Regret It If U Do So Please B carefull..

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 34

So what I like to do on this site is when a sugar daddy cool tracts me I of course engage in a simple getting then I ask for a picture of them holding up my name. If they act funny it's because they are scammers. Also if you aren't sure but are hopeful you can engage just check his page regularly to see if they have couched out. There are more fake than real be careful!!

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 30

I have been on here for a week and I have yet to find a "sugar daddy" that hasnt asked for my bank account information. It's really making me lose my hopes. They will give you their # and Kik and then delete their profile. They will ask for you to buy them cards in exchange of future money. It's 2018, venmo, paypal, money gram, so many options. It's so discouraging.

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 26

I’ve gotten so many scammers message me lately. It’s so hard finding genuine sugar daddies. If they ask for your number or tell you to text them in their first message they aren’t legit don’t give your number to people right away. If they tell you an allowance right away and ask you to send your password and username to your online bank to them so they can put it in your account do not listen. They can use PayPal, Venmo, square cash, etc., they don’t need any personal info. These people are trying to steal from you don’t let them! Be strong babies!

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 26

Majority of the “sugar daddies” are frauds. If and when you converse with him, be sure to ask for a couple more pictures as verification. If he asks for your bank account information (credit card) it’s most likely a scam. A lot of the frauds are usually a little illiterate so be aware of them. Just because they are premium member it does not mean that they are legit! Don’t let the diamond fool you ladies! I have yet to meet a real sugar daddy, so fingers crossed!

2023-03-13

Sugar Baby / 27

There will always be scammers so that means you always have to be careful! Don’t ever let your guard down for any sum of money. Be attentive and if it feels sketchy, it might be! Obvious things to not be doing include giving out your bank info and personal info. If you were scammed, don’t take it personally; it hurts, it sucks, and it’s not fair but you just have to keep your head up and learn from it. If you think you are being scammed be headstrong. Always report users that run with your money to the app and in bigger cases even the police. Stay safe out there!

2023-03-14

Sugar Baby / 27

I hate scammers! The way you’ll know who is a scammer is when they ask for your banking information, I’ve had numerous guys starting off with “hey my name is (blank) I work (blank) you’ll get $(blank) just send me your info, I always tell them to use my spam email, that way its tell you who’s real and also it’s less traceable to connect them with my actual bank!

2023-03-14