How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 5
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 26
I actually got scammed on here, I’m just glad I’m smart enough to know when things are fishy. Long story short, he sent me a fake check - that later closed my account. I personally feel like if a guy is asking for your bank info too soon, then it’s a scam. At his point if the guy isn’t trying to send money to any of the cash apps I have then he Mostlikely could be trying to scam me ! .. just don’t go for anything stupid and USE APPS 💀
2022-12-10
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Sugar Baby / 26
Scammers are so unbelievably common, especially with how easy it is to access sugar apps. I’ll have men with one picture, no verification, and little personal information on their profile message me and immediately ask for my phone number or personal information. They’re always pretty obvious. I always ask to chat a little more on the app before we move on, and request that we get to know each other a bit more. They’ll usually get defensive is you ask about the lack of information on their profile. Always block and report if you are uncomfortable, or if they are becoming hostile.
2022-12-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I have! The best thing you can do is shoo them off before they get your banking info. I've recently had a situation where this guy demanded my username, and password for my TD banking info. So I told him "bye". Make sire you have a set amount and a set deposit method, whether it be email deposits or PayPal, or direct deposits. But have a safe and secure way to accept your allowance and NEVER give out your passwords!
2022-12-10
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Sugar Baby / 33
The best way as a sugar baby to tell if your being scammed ask then to financially do something small. And don't sleep with or send nudes till you get some allowance. Always trust your gut. If they don't have a picture and won't send one be weary of him. I'm ways sketch bc I bc I never have had a real paying sugardaddy. I met one, and he was so fake. He asked for nothing but nudes and said his bank account was closed due to maxing out his cards. Thats was BS
2022-12-10
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have came across a couple of fakes . However one I came across was portraying a basketball player however they had only one picture and no verification of sorts . Those are the ones to look out for !! If you notice a person's profile either only has a couple photos or no verification of sorts , I say ignore any communication as 9 times out of 10 they aren't you they say they are . Just simply report their account . Sudy will take the rest into viewing their profile !!
2022-12-11
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Sugar Baby / 43
Stay vigilant, stay aware and always be careful! Never give any information out that is personal information, account information or any type of passwords ect. Trust your gut, if you have a bad gut feeling, chances are, you are correct! There are plenty of people out there that aren't scammers, so don't get caught up in it, move on and block them so it won't happen again!
2022-12-11
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have ran into several scammers. Scammers will usually send you a number and tell you to text it. they will offer a specific amount and ask for all of you bank information like usernames passwords and emails. my advice is to tell them you don’t do bank transactions and usually they will stop responding. don’t give into these scams what so ever. just stick to paypal and venmo
2022-12-11
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes. The best way to deal with any of this is to make a different Kik from your personal one or a disposable number, this way if things go left you can always delete the app or not have to change your number. And NEVER give out your routing number and/or account number. Download cashapp or PayPal. The way i felt with my scam was to ask for pictures holding my display name.... he said he couldn’t at the moment, so i asked 12 hours later and he never responded. To steer clear of any scammers, i think you should always ask them for a unique photo, one they won’t find of someone else holding on the internet trying to catfish/scam you.
2022-12-11
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Sugar Baby / 43
I personally have not met any scammers however my mother almost fell victum to an on line romance scam. My mother and I do not have a good relationship and I was the one who initialy set up her email account so I knew her TV male and I knew her password. Are you still going to her email and I would read the messages that she exchange with people mostly my aunt. I did this because my mother is an alcoholic and she does not take care of herself. She is very secretive about health issues that she has and although she is very cruel to me she is still my mother and I love her. I found an email exchange between her and a man And I immediately knew that he was a scammer. This guy went so far as to send my mother flowers.
2022-12-11
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have definitely met with plenty of scammers in the past few weeks. They’re not very smart nor are they good at lying. So, if you ask them for a specific photo of them (kinda like Sudy’s verification process) and they get all defensive, most likely they’re a scammer. If they start out a personal message with “Hello baby! My name is______, and this is my number and blah, blah, blah,” they’re probably a scammer.
2022-12-11
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Sugar Baby / 40
I run into this all the time. I always ask for a photo with either a written message they are holding up, our something specific like that. NEVER GIVE OUT PERSONAL ACCOUNT INFORMATION, OR YOUR ACCESS CODES. That's a quick way to have your bank account drained ha. Be specific, and stand your ground. If it doesn't sound right just walk away. It's not worth it to be overly hopeful. The right Sd will come along.
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 34
Hey ladies 😚💜 so far ive been at this again for a month and even though i am beyond wonderful all i have come across is men who just want to play games. Its extremely frusturating! Many many men claiming they work in Dubai and need my banking logins . Please never give them that information! They are scammers and can destroy your financial standing. I suggest remaining a positive as you can be there is alway a man somewhere out there that will see your worth and want to be your daddy . And be smart ! Dont let these scamming men gst away with what they're doing . Report them sudy people cant rid them off the site if we don't make them aware !
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 37
I have met more scammers then I have legitimate people on Sudy. Eh it happens learn to weed through them and move on. You are going to find scammers everywhere, and they use the most generic message to try and bait you it is really easy to spot. The message doesn't stay there for long and the profile disappears shortly after as well. Just stay safe.
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 30
Dont show nudes, make sure that he is really who he says he is. Try video chatting, or asking them to write something on a piece of paper and show you in a photo. Dont give in so easily to their tricks because its not worth it. be limited when you are talking to someone and dont throw yourself out there. Its okay to be cautious with people, its human nature.
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sadly this app is filled with scammers who don’t get the picture. Some of them are extremely obvious and will tell you only to message them if you are going to give them your bank information for direct deposits. If they aren’t willing to compromise on that then you can bet they’re probably trying to scam you. I’ve been asking for people to prove identities with photos on snapchat or with a small deposit on venmo or PayPal just so I know they’re serious. If I feel like they’re trying to just get off on pics and videos of me without compensating me anything I straight up tell them I won’t do more until they prove to me that I’m actually going to get something out of it. Don’t fall for scammer’s tricks. They need to be willing to prove who they are before they get anything
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 29
There are definitely a lot or scammers on here! Sugar babies just have to be smart and use their common sense! There are many apps that allow you to send money without the person requiring anything other than a username, like Cash app for example. I always ask to video chat, if they say no then clearly its for a reason. Scammers always ask for personal information to send you money. Dont do it ladies!
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 26
In my opinion, a scammer is someone who can’t transfer money to PayPal, Venmo, Cashapp or other methods such as that. In fact, those methods are way easier than getting my bank details yet people are so keen on having my bank details or make me sign up for a bank. No thank you. If it was really your money, you could do what you wanted with it and send it to my preferred destination. If not, it’s obviously not your money and I’m not falling for that trick. Paypal, Venmo, Cashapp are free to sign up with. A bank account isn’t, on top of that, your personal information is more at risk by giving your bank account details. My allowance should be where I request to put it and if you hesitate to do that, Bye Bye. 😊👋🏻
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes. In fact I was just dealing with this the other day. Guy messaged me, he seemed polite and to the point... I noticed off the bat he made a big deal about banks.. I was like hm ok... But I still gave it a shot. The more we got talking, the clearer it became. He asked me to send him my username and bank password so he could have his accountant send me $600 a week. I told him that wasn't needed for a deposit. And I haven't heard since
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 31
I’ve met more scammers on here than anything. It’s kind of obvious when their first message says they want to give you a really big allowance and pay your bills without even asking what your name is. Be cautious! Don’t give out your banking info! The real ones are hard to come by but they’re out there. Some guys will also ask for you to buy a gift card, not really sure how that works honestly.
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 35
I've never personally been scammed but my good girlfriend did on here. He wanted her username and password to her bank and actually paid it! 3000 but then he tried taking the money back asking for a check pretending to be her. THEN he asked her to send him $10 through iTunes. Just be super duper careful everyone! She came out of it okay thank goodness but the situation could have gone south quick.
2022-12-12
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Sugar Baby / 33
This is a perfect site that offers like a great community information to one another I too have came across scammers on different sites. The biggest sign towards that would be asking for banking information not being able to provide the funds any other way insisting for password and username is not available to meet in person you know I speak on the phone
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
Scammers suck! I mean that in multiple ways. First off usually the scammer is either terrible at pretending to be real or just plain stupid. The best way to deal with them is slap them in the face with a smart stinging comeback or with a perfectly manicured hand. To all sugar babbies!!! Make sure you know what youre getting into! If your daddy or mommie seems sketchy then stay away. Never do anything unless youre 100% sure about your safety.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 32
Make sure you keep all your personal information safe. Don't give out bank information( online or account info), don't give out your address, and listen to your gut. Sometimes you start to become immune and can easily pick up on scams. One day when I was younger I was scammed and someone put a fake check in my account. Someone people are scammers. If you wouldn't give that information out to a stranger normally don't do it because they are a sugar daddy.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have meet several scammers being a sugar baby they ask for things first then say they will send something then they dissapered and I never got anything so I try to find a guy willing to prove to me that he won't just leave me with nothing for all I do for him and it's not always easy because alot of sugar daddy's won't send first and most only do it in person
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 29
Ofcourse! Its just a thing that happens when money is involved but you cant let it get you down! Make sure they actually want to get to know you, and never give out your bank information. Just like any scam there are red flags, like exchanging numbers too quickly, asking for sexual favors too quickly, and talking about the money too quickly. Be smart!
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 32
The best way as a sugar baby to tell if your being scammed ask then to financially do something small. I'm ways sketch bc I never have had a real paying sugardaddy. So ladies just be careful trust your gut. Dont do anything without proof dont send nudes or talk on the phone until you are sure they are real sugar daddies. don't sleep with or send nudes till you get some allowance. Always trust your gut. If they don't have a picture and won't send one be weary of him.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes I have met quite a few in the short time I have been a Sugar Baby and the thing I have learned from that is to no longer give my bank account information out anymore since there are so many ways today to send someone money or anything of that nature and I also only talk to Sugar Daddies who have had a background check and are verified that they are who they say they are
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
NO ONE needs your bank account info or card info to send you money! Theres many safe apps to send and receive money through like ZELLE, Paypal, Google wallet, etc.. And if they tell you they can not send it throught there, its a lie. Lets say they do send money through there and you just dont feel like that person exist, I would Facetime or meet in a PUBLIC place and just hang out. To feel safe really get to know that person and if they have nothing to hide they shouldnt have a problem meeting in a public place until youre comfy seeing them in private.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 28
i’ve met so many scammers, some would try and trick me into their tricks. i know all their ways, the best way to avoid them is to ask for something small (small amount of money into your debit/paypal). basically, some of them would send $20 and when i meet up with them, they admit they aren’t real sugardaddies and just wanted my attention on them only.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 38
Recently with some scammers, they've messaged me, but haven't actually viewed my profile, like you can see views right? Thinking about putting a trick into it to see if I get a specific response... They'll ask for bank accounts, when there's Square Cash app, PayPal, and a few other actual established money transfer options. If you're not willing to compromise then you're not legit. Send a prepaid card.. whatever.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 43
I’m surprise to say since it’s only been 3 days. I already encounter a couple scammers! A couple asking me for my mobile deposit bank information. Saying they don’t do Venmo or PayPal because it’s a scam so and so. I’m smart enough not to give any of my information to them. Like how do I know if your real? Is hard to tell if they are a real sugar daddy or a fake sugar daddy. I’m still searching for one that’s real and hopefully I’ll find him.:)
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 30
Big time scammers basically is when they tell you here’s my number text me and here’s your allowance but that they only do through bank due to being scammed before which is a lie that’s my sugar babies are big time scammers . They shouldn’t have to ask for your bank info just sinplying asking you for your PayPal or other trusted sending money apps are good .
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
Everything’s online nowadays. As it may be confident it at times can be tricky. make Sure to always verify with one another who and what kind of person you are. Trust is everything. Especially involving money. If he won’t verify who he is or send you money then do not commence in anything with him. In my opinion video chat is always the best. You can see one another fave to face. If it works out y’all can get frisky over call too.
2022-12-13
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yep I have a lot of scammers. They always say they can't do PayPal venmo or any other prepaid app so then they ask you for your bank info and truly believe and hope that you'll give it to him. Ladies don't fall for this even if they say pull everything else so you won't move lose money because it's all a scam so just be safe out there.. if he's real he won't mention it to begin with and he won't come up with some BS that he can't do it unless he has your information.
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 28
I have met too many scammers. My advice would be to pay attention to how they talk/ text. If they ask you what bank you use to give you your allowance then it's a scammer. Some can be very tricky and do everything you ask like sending you pics of them, talking on the phone and even changing their minds on using your bank account to using western union to send you money. You just gotta keep your eyes open on what's realistic and what's sketchy
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met many scammers. A lot of people who claim to be sugar daddies are only looking to waste your time. As for advice, I would advise other sugar babies to always ask for something, big or small, upfront (if the financial aspect is apart of your sugaring relationship). Their are men or there who will get what they want from you, and then not compensate you for your time. Your time is valuable! Don’t be taken advantage of.
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes there will always be guys trying to scam you for pictures and out of your time. Too avoid this look for someone who is just as willing to move forward as you. If they want you to send sexy pics they should be ready to send you something too. If they are always canceling and have excuses that don’t make sense leave them alone and don’t agree to meet with someone that you have gotten into an argument with online. Just block him and move on.
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes I have! Wish has a lot of scammers on here. LISTEN BABIES..... They will ask for your account information specifically "username and password to your mobile bank app". Its silly and ridiculous. Unfortunately, some babies would know the signs, so us experienced babies need to be generous with the ins and out. How I handle the scammers? I backspace and delete all communication and block.
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 31
I have not met any scammers as of yet but I have come across some scammers on Saturday and the best way to spot one is if they tell you they don’t except PayPal or cash app and they want your bank information. Don’t fall for the trap, drastic times to call for drastic measures but a blind person can see a stranger asking for personal information is definitely a scam artist.
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have never encountered scammers, and I hope not to touch them, I suggest that they put themselves in the shoes of the most needy and realize that there are people who are just looking for a little comfort, a little help, a push in the life and do not intend to do evil or confiscate all their property, I suggest that if you want to have fun let everyone have fun that is not selfish and do not boast of the power they have, and those who become the victim to steal, think what Would it happen if one day they needed real help and nobody wants to help because they were once cheated?
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 27
Sometimes the scammer will cancel PayPal payments before it gets to you, so always make sure to not give anything until you have the money in your account or whatever else arrives. At the end of the day, there will be scammers and creeps on whatever site your on, and your wellbeing and safety is priority. Finding the right person can take days and possibly weeks.
2022-12-14
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Sugar Baby / 27
If you are dealingt with a scammer, I feel like you should always ask for a small tribute to see if they are real about what they say the are. Dont give out personal info. If they ask for your bank info and log ins, block them. If they are trying to meet you too quickly, be careful and don’t feed into it. It can be very dangerous. Dont give out anything until you see the money.
2022-12-15
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Sugar Baby / 30
On the app, there are many scammers. I have encountered methods which; they ask you to purchase them gift cards or itunes gift cards before they pay you your allowance. After repeatedly questioning the reasoning behind the card scams, I am usually met with a blocked screen. I have also came across guys which require you to submit your bank account and routing info, never do this ladies! Just a PSA to fellow sugar babies ;)
2022-12-15
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Sugar Baby / 33
Oh my good gosh yes all the time. The best way around it is to always meet for coffee or lunch before you really agree to anything. Also always have a friend who know were you are who you are with just in case things go south also you should always always have a escape route and back up plan because people are crazy and you have to look out for #1.
2022-12-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met many scammers on sudy unfortunately and it’s important to recognize them. Don’t give out bank or personal info out . Also, many will take advantage of you or even hate or disrespect you so it’s important when you meet a sugar daddy is to let them know it's not free for them to do whatever they want and that a sugar daddy should pay that’s what they are for.
2022-12-15
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Sugar Baby / 27
Do not give out your username id or password to bank acct! A sugar daddy should never need access to that.. If they are asking you for your information but haven’t asked you for nudes, sex, or out on a date or etc. if they’re just straight jumping to give you cash be aware it may be a scam!! Using pay apps are probably the safest way to receive the payments or in cash.
2022-12-16
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yess I haven’t been only this site long at all but I did purchase to be a premium member. Yet tons of non premium members message mee trying to get mee to believe they will send mee 300 dollars today and all I have to do is send them my bank information. I’m from Chicago that’s literally the oldest trick in the book I do not likee dealing with scammers so I simply don’t entertain them. It’s easy to identify a scammer if you’re smart because you’d know a real daddy of course wouldn’t mind spoiling you on the first day. But it definitely wouldn’t be after 5 or 6 messages and not even a real conversation. If you don’t feel any kind of connection there and they still want to send you money it’s most likely a scammer and please do not give out your bank information to anyone online it’s not safe
2022-12-16
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Sugar Baby / 31
Scammers are all around EVERYWHERE. You ahve to be sure of the signs. NEVER give our your personal information to someone, even if they try and gain your trust. It's not worth it in the end. I have been scammed once big time! No I will never let it happen again! Happy sugar daddy hunting to all you ladies! Please make sure you stay safe. But have fun also ;)
2022-12-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
I've met waayyyyyyyy too many in my time sugaring lol. The best way to deal with it is get your money before anything else, if it's gonna be awhile before you can meet up irl and they want pics or videos, ask them to give you your allowance first, don't give out your bank info, use paypal or something similar, ask them for pictures of their face with something written on their hand, like a number or supercalifragilisticexpialidocious, something that wouldn't typically be found on someone's twitter or facebook if they're catfishing
2022-12-16
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Sugar Baby / 31
My advice to sugar babies and sugar newbies is, ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCT. Before sending any picture or giving out any type of information ask for recent pictures, or simply ask for a small donation. DO NOT accept any meeting in person plans until you are fully aware the person is real or atleast verified. If you feel something is weird, trust it.
2022-12-16