How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 4
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 41
Also a lot of things need to understand that we have to be careful especially online because people can pretend to be as important to us or want a relationship and we end up getting attached and sending pictures or videos like any other normal you know relationship would do and they use that against us or they use it to make money off of us so we all have a risk
2022-12-02
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Sugar Baby / 33
Never give out your bank information !!!!! PayPal is the way to go!!!!! If they ask for your bank account info right off the bat without even asking anything about you or telling you anything about them they might be a scammer. Met a sb that just got her account drained by some guy in Florida. Sad but it happends. Protect your personal and financial info
2022-12-02
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Sugar Baby / 26
I feel like there are always scammers.. My advice? Trust your gut! You never know the outcome until time ticks away to the moment of truth. I believe you should never sleep with or send pictures until they have proved they are not a sham. Have your (potential..) Sugar Daddy send a small bit of allowance. If they say they have a high nt. wt., ask for a bank statement/proof of identity. They generally ask for your info (bank, mobile...), and they will not hesitate to push forward. Stay safe! x
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 32
Scammers are everywhere in life, so of course as a sugar you're going to find scammers. Usually they are pretty easy to tell right away from how distant they are. No pics or no money but asking for all the favors. Just avoid that. No ones time is worth that. So don't send or meet up with anyone before you see some physical actions like sending a few normal pics and a little bit of an allowence
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, I have met Scammers. They're not very good at trying to swindle people out of their money. Anyways, my suggestion would be to block their email address whenever they get reported for scamming, and if they make a new one, block that, too. They have no right to go around trying to fool people who just want what they came for. I mean, seriously. It's ridiculous
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 29
There are definitely scammers out there. I've been sugaring for a while outside of Sudy and I ran into them all the time. Always be on your guard. A true sugar daddy will always want you to he comfortable, and talking about money and allowance should not be awkward. If it is, it's a bad sign. For sure don't give out any personal information (use an alias) until you've met and are comfortable. NEVER send out nudes unless you've met several times. Scammers can use these as power over you and it's awful
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes anyone I have met off of this site has been a scammer. My way of dealing with them is letting them know that I know that they are a scammer and I am not giving them any of my banking information or credit card information or buying an iTunes card or buying a vanilla card. I wish this app had a way to filter out those people to save people time and getting their hopes up. I am tired of starting to talk to someone thinking that this could be the start of a great sugar daddy sugar baby relationship just to go deeper into the conversation and realize that they are trying to scam me.
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 35
Only been on here for a week and the first guy I thought I'd have a connection with was a scammer. He wanted to text, oh fine. After 10min he said if I send nudes he'll give me $500 twice a week and asked for my bank info. I knew something was wrong. I asked to meet in person first and he never responded. I have a feeling I'll meet a lot of those before I find a real sugar daddy.
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes, I have 100% met scammers, you have to be careful because some people are just looking to get your bank account information and split. Also when scrolling through the app and other websites I’ve tried theres always those suspect profiles with random super low quality photos that you know they stole from some random attractive mans facebook profile. Theres also the guys who will promise you money for pictures, videos, sexting, etc. but never pay you or cancel after they got what they wanted and you don’t hear from them again.
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
The best advice I have for anyone dealing with scammers is to know how to weed them out. You don't want to waste your time with them so the best way to deal with them is to know if they're a scammer or not. I personally prefer talking to guys who are verified or asking if they aren't why they aren't. But you should probably have a good feeling if someone's scamming you. If someone's seems up then there probably is..
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes! I consider anyone to be a scammer if 1. They ask for your bank info 2.They want you to open up a new bank account JUST for them 3.They pay you once and then completely blow you off (which means they either don't have as much money as they claim or they simply want a "hooker" for the night 🙄 Which we are not). Rule of thumb: if they only have 1 picture or seem "too good to be true" THEY MOST LIKELY ARE!
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes their are many scammers out there ...just don't be stupid and that's just that. I shouldn't have to tell you not to give out bank info ...or load money on to cards like itunes or Amazon ....Some things are just fishy , but ppl still fall victim to these scams...I get a lot of messages like : " hey beautiful my name is ______ I'm willing to send 800 weekly but first ....." And there is nothing you should have to do first to prove anything ...
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve been scammed before, and it was not pretty. Now looking back on it, the signs were obvious but I was super naive, and should of trusted my intuition. My advice to future Sugar babies or even sugar daddies/mamas is to ensure that you are comfortable with how the transaction will be completed or make sure to be completely comfortable with one another before sharing any personal information.
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are tons of scammers. Some will comment as sugar baby's on your photos with a phone number offering you cash and allowance. Never hand out personal information like your bank account number, online banking information, etc. Its a scam. Real daddies usually want to meet in person, I have yet to find a daddy who wants to send me money for an online relationship. If you do encounter a daddy like that, I'd suggest using PayPal. But honestly, it isn't worth the risk.
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 32
No I haven’t met scammers in sugar life but with my customer service experience I can spot one a mile away & the best way to deal with them is pay attention to the signs such as “phishing” for information. If a sugar daddy is asking a lot of questions about your bank account or financial background like you’re at a job interview instead of trying to get to know you then that’s a scammer.
2022-12-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
I have met scammer on this app. The best way to deal with it is to be smart. Never give our personal account information and confirm the identity of who you are talking to. Never send nudes or sexy anything until you have recieved your allowances. He doesnt get what he needs until you do. Beware of those "I just want to see if we're compatable" guys. Your daddy will know what he wants when he contact you so there will be no confusion.
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are a lot of scammers, particularly the ones that send you a long first message saying they can send you a weekly allowance of around 300-500 and to message them on kik. They usually end the message with "let's talk baby, thanks 😘". DO NOT GIVE OUT ANY BANK INFO, if they ask for it that's a sure sign they're a scammer. Sugar daddies don't need bank info to transfer money, so be careful.
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 31
I have come across plenty of scammers. You can always tell because they will give you their number and tell you to text. They will offer a specific amount. Then they will tell you they need your bank info, like your account username and password, email attached and everything. Just tell them you don't deal with scammers and they will usually stop replying. Block number if necessary. There are plenty of ways to send and receive money these days that you don't need to give out any specific personal info!
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes I have and I learnt my lesson the hard way..I no longer do nudes at the start of a conversation,to see if the supposed daddy is serious I ask them to pay for my WiFi. If we are to meet up you ought to send me an uber ,the first dates would be in public and i get to choose the location just to make me feel secure and safe,whether we would be using protection or not we will get all the necessary tests done,this applies after we've done a few dates and we are ready to get all steamy.
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 33
I agree with the other babies, offer PayPal or moneygram. I also sometimes toss the phone number into Facebook search to see if it finds anything, and I call the number as well usually with no luck. Hell sometimes I ask THEM to voice verify and send pics. They usually get all pissy and disappear without any warning and that's how you know you just avoided getting your bank account compromised. Another huge sign, they won't address you by name only "baby" "sweetie"
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
I think the best way to deal with scammers is to know what to look for in the first place so they can be avoided all together. If they have no picture, or job description. If they comment the same/similar things on multiple moments, or immediately give you their number. If someone you’re talking to turns out to be a scammer just block and report them and move on.
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 31
I encounter a scammer recently. Im new to the app so I didnt know at first. I had this gut feeling like somthing wasnt right even though they seemed so sincere. So i actually when and found these answers and it helped me figured out he was a scammer! So I thank all the sugar babies that did post on here on how to look out for yourself! Im proud to call myself a SB with you gals!
2022-12-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met a scammer on here before. When he messaged me, I felt so happy because no one else did and I was thinking that something was wrong with me. But he texted me and was saying that he wanted to meet me but he is currently out of state but to get him my bank info so that I could get something nice for myself. Now I did not think anything about it and faced him my checking, then the weird thing happened. He asked for my password to my account to make sure that his secretary sent the money. He would not just let me when it came in so I decided to search the guy and found out that he has done this to other women. So be careful who you talk to.
2022-12-05
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Sugar Baby / 26
I've met too many scammers that it's gotten crazy and ridiculous. Trust your gut and make sure they're real and actually have money. If you send nudes, demand at least half the money before you send. Don't do anything free until you have earned some money from them first and build up trust. You need to be stubborn about the money, it's why you're a sugar baby! Also make sure they Snapchat you a live pic if you plan on meeting up. Make sure you are safe and you can send a pic of them to a friend in case of any emergency
2022-12-05
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Sugar Baby / 32
I don't think that there's many people that are honest about being who they are I think they're just looking for the easiest targets and I'm sure there's more than lots of scammers if there's sugar babies scammers then that's just wrong but even worse the sugar Daddy's scammer help people are honest and truthful on the site and I hope everybody finds what they looking for
2022-12-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are so many scammers everywhere. especially on seeking arrangement, I had to delete my account because I couldn’t take it anymore. Ladies PLEASE do not be dumb for money. Never talk to a guy that is not verified. NEVER give out your bank information, it is not needed under any circumstances. If you “sugar daddy” can’t use a cash app like PayPal, Venmo, etc. Then he is a scammer. Do not ever send pics without some cash being sent to you. Stay safe my dears.
2022-12-06
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Sugar Baby / 26
I think all SB will meet them at one point or another. I’ve met many & the way they approach you is very weird they either comment on you pics give you there # number then proceeding to ask you to give them a gift to see your “commitment “ or to buy a vanilla card to send them the information. They are mostly not premium either /: so it’s a easy catch. I just block or report them
2022-12-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
This is quite a dangerous game for us females to play. You have to be incredibly careful with people over the internet. Always keep your safety in mind. I’ve personally and unfortunately met quite a few scammers already. There’s far too many of them. Always make sure someone provides proof of who they are before going and meeting them the first time. You don’t want to put yourself in a bad position
2022-12-06
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Sugar Baby / 26
PLEASE PLEASE BE SKEPTICAL Ask the like tell me where you are and show me a true pic of they won't or they ask you for bank account block them DON'T GIVE IN . I'M LUCKY I GOT CAUGHT IN ONE AND MY BANK CAUGHT ON BEFORE THE TRANSACTION WENT THROUGHT AND CLOSED MY ACCOUNT AND OPENED A NEW ONE I'm sorta enhanced to a sugar daddy but I won'find spend any money on wedding plans rtill he comes home and I see him in person. Which i know won't happen. It's called revenge REGINA MILLS STYLE
2022-12-06
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Sugar Baby / 41
A lot of sugar daddies think that they are the only ones that get scammed but a lot of us women get scammed too. I'm not sending anybody my bank account information off the top if we haven't had a conversation or anything why would I send my personal bank account information.? Or they'll ask you for sexy pictures or naughty pictures and not want to gave you anything but they need to understand that once we send out a picture that is in criminating and they can use it to sell or make profit off of it
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 34
SB / 20 67 The best way as a sugar baby to tell if your being scammed ask then to financially do something small. And don't sleep with or send nudes till you get some allowance. Always trust your gut. If they don't have a picture and won't send one. Also if they're asking for your bank account number or log in password it's an automatic red flag for me.
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have I've learned to tell if most of them are fake are not. Simple things like not verified, no pictures of them or only 1 or 2, sketchy messages or bio, they won't send pictures of themselves as proof of who they are or have a video call with you. There are sadly a lot of scammers out there my suggestion is #1 are they fully verified #2 does their account seem genuine enough #3 do you even want to find out? Its the same anywhere you go there will always be a lot of fake people and liars all around the thing is do you care enough to bother finding out or would finding out its all a lie be too stressful. Sometimes you gotta take that chance just don't fall into it too fast don't send nudes don't get sexual and most definitely don't meet up at their place stay public for the first meet up and be careful and safe ladies and gents :)
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
Big rule DO NOT GIVE OUT BANKING INFO ladies and gents alike e transfers PayPal there are so many ways money can be transferred and given and received honey be careful out there! Scammers will always want the goods without working for it ... But then again a lot of men do ;) don't send nudes videos voices unless they prove they are in it for real! Small allowance to start and pictures to prove they are who they are and maybe meet up if they live close enough. But meet up in public places be safe and take care of yourself before you let someone take care of you !
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 38
I am fairly new to this and yes that is all I’ve been coming across is Scammers. Right when you think you’ve found a potential, he then ask for your bank information ! Username and password saying it’s the only way he’s able to deposit. It’s quite annoying if you ask me. I haven’t met one real SD yet! But I’m hoping to as I heard this is the best site to be on. Who knows.
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 37
I never send anything or meet until they prove they will actually help me with my life whether that is getting my hair done or nails. There are too make people trying to steal from already struggling people. I have yet to meet a real SD here, but I am hopeful. I am a struggling mother, and would love someone to take care of me without all the drama.
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 33
The best way to deal with scammer daddies and babies is to make sure that there account is verified. Thankfully, sudy requires it but they are still people who can make fake pages. I like to ask the person to verify themselves in some way. Whether it’s sending a picture with a selected phrase or a pre-determined set of tasks. If the person is unwilling to comply, I believe they aren’t worth your time.
2022-12-07
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have delt with several scammers. When you’re on an app like this you are bought to come across many scammers. My advice would be if they tell you to text them or kik them and immediately ask for your banking info report and block them.also go to their page if they send you a message if it says The page has been deleted they are a scammer. I’ve had one that strung me along for a long time until i finally just blocked them
2022-12-08
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Sugar Baby / 35
I never have asked for money as I sir diets not my style but I have run i. Scanners that are on a project in Australian Africa etc. They like you promised obscene amounts of cash and then ask for.your bank info. Then they want user and password like no. I just tell them what do you want my bank account info for?did I ask you for.money?do i look needy?that turns them off and they stop texting. Lol.
2022-12-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes. Oh how I hate bank fraud!! 😤 I trusted this asshole to put money in my bank account using my mobile app for my bank. 😢 He totally fucked me over and got my hopes up. He sent fraudulent checks to my bank account and when they were returned: I got totally fucked over. 😤 What a jerk!?!?! Should have known it was too good to be true. I'm still negative on my bank account because of this scammer.
2022-12-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve met plenty of scammers. I think that the best way to deal with them is to just screen shot and block so that you can report it. Because let’s be honest, what is entertaining somebody that you suspect to be a scammer? You might as well just report it so that their page can be shut down. I think when it comes to scammers some of the things that give it away THE MOST include: - terrible grammar. And I mean terrible. Always saying things like “am laying down” instead of I am laying down. - asking personal questions way too quick. Ex: do you have a boyfriend? Where do you work? What city and state are you from? ..etc - bank information! Prob the number one give away. Asking what bank you use, so that they can deposit the check, and that’s the ONLY way they can do it. Look. I know not everybody is tech savvy but it’s about to be 2018. We can use PayPal. - and lastly, people who come into your messages saying things like “hi baby I can’t wait to spoil you with my money, txt or kik me at ____(contact info)___. After a while scammers stick out like a sore thumb. Nothing new.
2022-12-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
Honestlky scammers are the worst. They lead you on, give you hope and then turn out to be fake. The best way to deal with them is ask for proof always. If they want a relationship or anarrangement then they will provide it. Of not theu offer excuses amd each one leadsbyou to further distrist them. Never give up bank info, they always want more info than they ever would need. Instead use a PayPal linked to your account.
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 34
The only person whoever messaged me on here so far was a scammer. He tried to get all my banking information without even having a real conversation. Then wanted me to buy him and iTunes card. After two days I stopped replying. Then I eventually changed my number. I might be new to this, but I'm not that stupid 😂😂. Watch yourselves girls, don't give out your information like it's nothing.
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 45
My first experience with a "daddy" trying to reach out to me was a scammer. He claimed to be from Florida and almost immediately asked me for my bank account information. He said he needed my account number, user name and password to access my account because he said he wanted to write me a check. I offered alternative way, but he only wanted my account information. I told him that I may be blonde, but I am not stupid. He said if I don't trust him, then bye. I responded "bye".
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve yet to meet a real SD on here. All have been scammers so far. They are sneaky and manipulative and very good at what they do. Most of them aren’t rich, and are just trying to take your money. Be careful sugar babies, never give out your personal information to someone who has not paid you or has repeatedly insisted for your bank info. Only use PayPal and trust your heart
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 43
Yes. He said he writes checks then asked for my password and username to my bank account so he could do mobile deposit. His profile didn't have a picture or even let me go to the page. No one legit would ever ask for that personal if information. Also if they want to talk on the messenger app kik they may be a scammer. I have found them on other sites like that
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yess ! This site has a tremendous amount of scammers. Anyone with common sense wouldn't give out their personal bank account information to a stranger and REAL SDs Know that. A lot of them are too forward too fast. One time me and this person was talking and texting For about a week and I thought everything was going great. Then BOOM he asked for my bank info Then had the audacity to get mad at me for not giving him my bank info smh.
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 37
I believe I have encountered a couple of scammers. In all honesty when my information is asked for, I just reply that I'd prefer if they pamper me while we are together. So we can go out and have the experiences together and enjoy each other's company. Once I tell them this they usually stop messaging me. Other than that my advice is to be alert and never give out important information. And ignore... Ignore and ignore some more.
2022-12-09
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yes! I️m constantly flooded with scammers. They’re always leaving comments on how beautiful you are and how they want to spoil you. Then turns out their “major account will only allow bank transfers or deposits” or “my account is to only do direct transfer to Bank” biggest flag is “can you buy a Vanilla card or open a credit card. Trust me I’ll send a bajillion dollars”
2022-12-10
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Sugar Baby / 30
Scammers are unfortuently everywhere. If they ask for your Bank account or want you to send them money, they are normally fake. The best way to deal with them, is don’t sell yourself short, don’t send Nudes, identifying or even semi personal details until either you’ve met in person, FaceTimed, verified, or received an allowance. With out any of the 4 things above, you are most likely talking to a scammer.
2022-12-10
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have chatted with many scammers and it’s quite annoying 🙄 I check to see if they are scammers and give my google voice number. But now I see how they actually keep saying text me or Kik me ... (nobody uses kik anymore ) so I know it’s a scam so when they come in my inbox I tell them to cash app me and they go away lol. These scammers are getting out of hand babies just be aware and never give out your bank account information.
2022-12-10