Have You Ever Met Sugar Haters? How Do You Deal with Them? - 4

704 Answers

Sugar Baby / 36

I haven’t come across any haters a lot of people I know would love a Sugardaddy or a sugar mom! I think it’s a safer way for people to have fun and get what they desire weather that be companionship or straight of fun for the allowanace agreed! If you get haters 90% of the time it’s jelousy that causes the bitterness. Seize the day and snap it up with both hands

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 41

I am new the the sugar world, therefore I have yet to come into contact with "sugar haters." I would, if I were to come into contact with one, I would tell them that their opinion is a right. However, I rarely base decisions for the way I live my life off the opinions of people that I am not intimately involved with. I would also say that they should focus on themselves, hating is not a good look on anyone.

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 47

I actually have not met any sugar haters on here or in real life. Everyone is entitled to there own lifestyle and preferences. I'm a strong believer in doing what truly makes me happy. What makes me happy might not be ideal for the next person, That's why we are all individuals, created differently. I would just hope that I would get the same respect as I give others whether I agree with their lifestyle or not

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 29

Yes I have. My family are sugar haters they are very religious and are all Gung-ho on no sex before marriage and things like that on top of that most of my friends. My female friends think it is degrading and gross however one is even a swinger. I usually just blow the convo off because no one really knows my personal life anyway so I just don't let it bother me!

2022-12-02

Sugar Baby / 29

I have. They ask why he's like your dad/grandpa, how can you be fine with that? People will judge you no matter who you like and what their age is so fuck their standards and enjoy what you have with your sugar daddies/babies. Its not their life to live so don't let their opinions bother you or let you down. Never ever change your decisions in life jusy because someone told you its not normal. So be happy folks! Be proud of your daddies and babies!

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 28

I know people who are completely against sugar arrangements but I also know people who are against strippers and porn stars. The way i see it is do what you gotta do/ wanna do because no matter what, people are going to judge you for your own decisions. At the end of the day, you’re the one who’s going on fancy dates and shopping trips, not them...

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 37

I havent had anyone actually have a go at me personally but i do find people are split 50/50 some women are intrigued and ask questions and some are appalled and are against letting have an arrangement and have evn called it prostitution. I disagree because many women complain of men not giving them waht they want. So why hate on those that state exactly

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 37

haven’t met down right sugar haters but I have met a few people who want to be “sugar babies” but have a problem with what that entails. They want all the money but the absolutely “hate” entertaining older men, putting the time in, communicating, and don’t even get me started on sex. They hate everything about being a sugar baby except the money and wonder why they don’t get the desired results. Everyone is quick to say “I ain’t mad at you” and “Get that money sis”, but will be hating on your methods of getting My own two parents are massive sugar haters. They see it as shallow, sinful, demented even. That's why they'll Yeah haters are going to be everywhere no matter where you are what your doing. They are always going to be there. You can always ignore them cause it doesn't matter to then what your doing. It should only matter to you cause in my eyes haters are fans. They just wanna be like you and can't be so of course they are going to hate on you instead.so do what you

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 31

I have met a lot of people that do three or just don’t understand what a sugar baby or daddy title means . That’s where ignorance come into play . A lot of people don’t understand it’s more than money sex gifts and other thing it about a connection between too people and they express them self in different ways towards each other everyone lives and shows love in a different way

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 37

I have over heard people talking down on them but I just ask why is it any difference where people find companionship. And its none of the business you have no control over anybody. I think they are just jealous of the connection and wish that they could have the same. Some people should focus on more important matters rather trying to make someone feel guilty about who they choose to be with.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 30

i feel like most people kinda are sugar haters right? for the most part i think money and desperation, lonliness, etc. is what drives people to this community at least in the beggining and i think it can come off as kinda cheap or a lazy way of finding love, happiness, and companionship. plus it not something i feel like you see or hear about everyday unless youre pretty involved/invested in the community.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 35

Always smile and laugh at them it makes them even matter but hey to each it's own don't judge and hate just appreciate how my mother use to say lmao but I just keep striving it keeps me motivated at the end of the day I don't need to make no one happy but my damnself I mean hey I love being a sugar baby it's my world and you just love in it hunny lmao

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 26

I would never let a sugar hater ruin my day. But there is some people out there who thinks that its just someone being a beggar. But i wouldnt let them get in the way of me and my daddy. People will always have hate in their hate in their heart. How ever ill always have my daddy. And my daddy will always have me. In life people will always hate against something or something.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 26

I’m not very open on my sugaring and what I like to do with my time with a man and a relationship like this in my everyday life. I have heard a lot of hate or jokes about having a sugar daddy and how it’s gross and that it’s immoral, but why does having someone that takes care of you and has a connection give you what you want and in return give them what they need? You should just ignore the people that hate and move on to have your best life.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 31

The brutal truth ....the only "haters" I come across are women who WOULDNT fit sugar baby criteria if they tried (ambitious, goal oriented, attractive ) & honestly someone who isn't goal oriented...or ambitious ...trust me those opinions shouldnt bother you . I'm a proud sugar baby and dont mind telling if asked (unless your daddy is discreet). ..

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes I’ve come across a few Sugar Haters! Sugar haters never see the good in the relationship they say it’s bad and that sugar babies need to grow up and live like regular people. When I come across sugar haters i ask them would they like to take a walk in my shoes and see how I live. I always show them the benefits of being a sugar baby and the excitement that comes with it

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 27

Oh definitely. I think other women will hate on your hustle and judge you for it without getting to know you first. But at the end of the day I pay no attention to the "haters". At the end of the day what matters is if my daddy is happy and if I'm happy. Our relationship is exactly that - our relationship, and shouldn't be anyone else's business. They're just jealous as far as I'm concerned.

2022-12-03

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes, I have met "sugar haters" and they do not bother me. Everywhere you go there will be people disagreeing with things that you do. You ignore it. You keep doing what you're doing and you live your life. If you're doing something and it works for you, why change your lifestyle based on how other people think! Go get the money girl! Go get them presents girl! You deserve it.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 38

I’ve met plenty of people who don’t understand this. Me personally If you don’t understand it, then why do you care? Too many people have an opinion on something that has nothing to do with that. I ignore them, if your not helping me I will not allow you to bring me down! It’s my life style you don’t have to accept it, your not going through it, so why even bother.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 29

There have only been a select few that I have told about my sugaring... some people think its cool and others think its immoral and that I'm essentially a prostitute... I personally don't care if others view my lifestyle choices as "wrong" because its not society's standard of "normal". Everyone is entitled to their opinion no matter how wrong it is. I just let them say what they wanna say because their not going to stop me from living my life. I also try not to tell many people just to avoid this kind of situation

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 25

I've met a few, never in real life because the topic isn't ever brought up, but from the ones I've met they think it's something low class, which really is the opposite of it. Being a sugar baby adds a new kind of excitement to my life and I'll continue to do this regardless of sugar haters. Others say they don't mind sugar daddy/baby relationship but will lowkey be talking badly about anyone who does it.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 27

I've met a few people who I've decided to share my lifestyle with or at least shared the idea of it. When they express disagreement with it, there's an immediate urge to play it down with things like "he's really busy, just no time to support a full-time relationship" or "really it's just a normal relationship except with more thoughtful gifts". Recently I've tried to move away from the practice of explaining it away and instead try an approach of why it works for me right now. I'm young, have been dating people 10+ years older since I was in highschool, and generally have more meaningful and interesting conversations with experienced older men.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 43

No matter what you do in life your always going to come across haters. These are small minded people who live in a ideal world,, so they think. These people are the ones that ther other halfs are pretending to be somthing that ther not, SAD! Be yourself on do whatever makes you happy and let the haters live ther life of lies and misery. Happy days for all of us.xxx

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 31

Simply by explaining them what my needs. I wouldn't say I'm getting paid for my services, I just think that when I'm in a realtionship both side need to bring something. I'm taking care in all of my men needs, making sure I'm here for all of his needs. So yes I'm trying to be hot and sexy and available for him. In return he taking care of me and taking care in my needs

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 39

I have just joined so no I haven't.. but so far I have seen men saying they are not on this for gold diggers. Not that I have a problem with what's being said but what's the point of joining.. it's say sugar daddy so if you don't plan on being a sugar daddy why join.. most ladies on here are expecting something that's why they join come guys be realistic.

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 30

Yes I have,in my country people tend to be close minded,to many its sort of a taboo to be sleeping with an older guy,they tend to judge and call you names..So one has to know exactly what they want and go for it,as long as am not getting in between a family well then I don't care what the rest of the world thinks. As long as my sugar daddy is happy and am happy nothing else matters

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 26

I've definitely met people like this, yes. In fact, some of my friends are morally against having sugar relationships. They mostly think it shallow. The best way to deal with these people is to simply ignore them, or if they are close to you, agree to disagree, or just simply not let them know. Nobody has to know that you're a sugar baby... Right?? :)

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 33

Get in where you fit in, nothing in life is "free" what's wrong with meeting a great man or woman who enjoys providing for you? What's wrong with having financial stability and enjoying the finer things in life people are narrow minded and that's okay being a sugar baby is definitely not for everyone. But for those of us who enjoy the companionship and going out on trips, traveling why not let us enjoy ourselves???

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 27

Haters are going to be hating, no matter where you are what your doing girl!! They are always going to be there. Just ignore those hoes, they are only hating because your life is more interesting then theirs babe!!! haters are fans. They just wanna be like you and can't be so of course they are going to hate on you so do what lever the hell you want b!

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 32

I have never met a sugar hater but if I ever did I would probably be a smart ass about because you can't judge some one because of the way they are getting their bills paid because at the end of the day no wants to be broke or live check to check and it's nothing wrong with getting a little help here and there you woulnt judge a stripper now would you

2022-12-04

Sugar Baby / 28

I have met them. They sound really bitter. I really don’t deal with them, why would i deal with irrelevant people who want to do stuff by themselves like good for you but I wanna do stuff my way and that’s my problem my life. People get to give their opinions even when no one asked mostly unnecessary opinions like them. But while they keep talking shit A sugar daddy is paying me. Who winning? lol

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 26

I have not met a genuine sugar hater. As a college student, I would be surprised if I went though a whole without hearing someone begging for a sugar relationship! Me and my friends are fine with pleasing our daddies. If I ran into someone that wasn't okay with the sugar life, I'd just know they aren't getting the same satisfaction that we're getting.

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 26

I feel as though anyone who doesn’t have an open mind and isn’t in this type of relationship will hold some kind of prejudice against having a daddy or being a baby. You should inform them of how you view your lifestyle and why you do it, and if it’s someone you don’t know or who is going to be a bigot about it, then tell the to fuck off. You’re better off without hate.

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 35

yes i just laughh and move along everyone is going to hate from time to time. The point is for you to be happy and if your happy it doesnt matter what the other person wants or thinks. As long as your not hurting anyone and its not illegal than who the fuck cares. Im not hurting anyone just making myself feel better and happy. They got the money to give so why not?

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 47

No I haven't met any! But I would just ignore them, let them speak their mind they have that right" freedom of speech." Nobody has the right to judge or criticize anyone!!! Everybody lives their lives the way they want to. So I say to you SD/SB don't let any of these sugar haters bother you!! You do what you want to do, hell yeah!!! 😎😃😄😍😋🤗🤔😘😅😗🤔

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 32

Haters I've never met a heater I've had more people in Courage me than actually hate me for wanting to be a sugar baby I know that sounds different but I'm encouraged to actually find a real man and I don't think the age or the that even the money at some point is a factor I think if you feel good about that person then it's the one I think older men for younger females is way better it's not a role play it's literally easier for us to comprehend things in our mind so we have actual straight up people then not

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 26

Meeting sugar baby haters is inevitable its just a matter of when and if you chose to deal with them and I simply just dont deal with them. Most sugar baby haters are people who are still stuck in the past thinking its wrong amd those who have never tried it.They're upset because while they are working a 8-5 job some girls are living it up somewhere on a nice beach.

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 31

Remind them that there are women out there hooking up with random guys for free from the bar so why not find one generous older man to spoil me and give him what they’re giving those random bummy boys their own age for nothing. It’s like having an older boyfriend with more benefits. There’s going to be haters regardless of what your hustle is you just have to ignore them.

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 37

Haters always exist in all ways , colors and flavors ? This life is very expensive and nothing in life is "free" what's wrong with meeting a great man who enjoys providing for you what you need? What's wrong with having financial stability and enjoying the finer things in life people are narrow minded and that's okay being a sugar baby for some people is inmoral and I understand their point as well . But I enjoy the good opportunities no matter what !

2022-12-05

Sugar Baby / 27

I am actually new to this, so i can’t say I have had to face this yet. In fact, the friends I have told about it have all been incredibly supportive and have shown an interest themselves in doing the same thing. Whether they do or not is up to them, but a lot of questions have risen (positive ones!) and I am happy to progressively keep learning about the processes

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 35

I never met a sugar hater. But if i did, i wouldn't pay them mind. .They're either Jealous or want what i have, in that's the case become s sugar baby and hey your own sugar. .it's plenty of sweetness to go around. I deal with sugar haters like i deal with everyday haters . block out the negativity and stay positive. You get more blessings that way

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 29

I’ve never in my life met a sugar hater but that being said i happen to be blessed with a group of open minded friends and family who love and support me no matter what. My parents may be put off by the idea but they’ve always said what they don’t know can’t hurt them so i keep that in mind when sharing my extra curriculars. My friend is a sugar baby as well and i have her full support on all of my endeavors

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 26

Overall I just tell them that its not a style for everyone and theres nothing wrong with that. No person is the same and diversity is what keeps everyone going! As long as people respect me, I can return the favor. Not everyone agrees on the same things but thats a given. My goal is not make the whole world happy, but myself first because, well, I am my world! ;D <3

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 26

F the Haters. If they have a problem then we're clearly doing something that they envy. If anybody ever tells me what I do is disgusting (which hasn't happened yet!) Then I'd simply look at them like they're crazy. It's MY life and as long as I'm not hurting anyone, there isn't anything wrong with it. Hell, I'm having a great time while getting "sugar" on the side. What's better than that?! If it makes you happy-- go for it.

2022-12-06

Sugar Baby / 54

People are gonna have in many things in one's life. I myself have never met either very new to this. Think it would take someone that would be very open-minded that I am. Think.pepple can be very judgemental of others that's not the way to be this day and time. Don't knock it til you try it and stay open minded about everything in life not so small minded.

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 27

Yeeeessss ! They talk so much and tell me it’s dangerous and that I shouldn’t be doing it’s but deep down it’s jealousy because they have yet to find one lol but honesty I don’t deal with it .. just brush it off I can react badly to every situation I get out into .. but it’s a lot of negativity towards sugar relationships, but my daddy spoils me so I don’t pay attention to it 🤷🏽‍♀️

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 30

YES girls always say well you wouldn’t have that if ... and I agree but it’s like I still work for what I have regardless of what my SD gives me and it’s a regular relationship it’s just lots of money involved who doesn’t like money I guess it would be cool if we were the same age then people would have nothing to say a lot of girls just don’t like to see girls doing better than them

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 34

Of course. This type of lifestyle is not for everyone but you can't judge another person for what they like. If that's what they enjoy let them live their life while you live yours. I personally enjoy meeting new men of all ages and races it's my way of exploring life. You have to have a certain mindset in order to be up for this type of agreement .

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 42

Sugar life is not expected or accepted in society. However behind close doors in those shallow minds it is happening daily. So if you are not afraid to step out of the box and live a life of having a true rewarding life with a great friend more power to us. Sometimes it’s the risky things we do that make more sense then doing the “right” thing to do for society,

2022-12-07

Sugar Baby / 26

I have never met any sugar haters but if I did I would tell them that, if they Dislike it or have a problem with it then that’s 100% there problem and they can keep it to them selves because I don’t care about there opinions one bit. If someone wanna be negative n rude then they can be negative and rude n broke by themselves and I’m gonna continue to do me

2022-12-07