Have You Ever Met Sugar Haters? How Do You Deal with Them? - 3
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Sugar Baby / 26
I haven't personally met a sugar hater but my family isn't a big fan of entertaining a older man for money but will be the ones asking for money just not liking where it came from. I sure mostly sugar haters are like that and I bet there are ones who like the free effortless money but don't want to arrange or entertain the gentlemen to get the money.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
I've met tons of sugar haters and they don't phase me honestly. I simply mid my business as they should be doing. If it's a mutual agreement between two consenting adults then I see no problem with it. I feel that people who hate on sugar relationship secretly wish they were in one. But instead of admitting to it they just hate on those in them already.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 30
I haven't met one yet but I'm pretty sure that lots of the "Morally upright" people will be the first one to judge even without understanding. Simply because they are close minded, or rather can't apprehend that some people are fine with such arrangements. Just because they're not doing it doesn't mean it's wrong. I'd still deal with them, but one with respect cause only with respect you beget respect.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve met a few sugar haters and they all say the same thing , what’s the point ? Why don’t you just get a job ? You’re really that lazy? Why would you sell your body for sex. They don’t understand the true meaning of a sugar relationship . It’s more then sex , it’s more than money . Personally i enjoy having a real connection with someone before i think about having an arrangement.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes, they don't bother me. I once had a very similar, disparaging regard to sugar babies. But I think most of the hate comes from jealously and not truly understanding the depth of sugar relationships. Most people equate sugaring with young play boy bunnies selling their bodies to old men when it's not at all that. So the sugar haters don't bother me because I realize they don't know the least bit about who we are and what we do.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
So far, I’ve mostly kept my sugar life between me and a few very supportive friends. Some even wanted to follow in my footsteps and become sugar babies themselves! However, some have gasped and awed at my choice, but I shrug it off and laugh. Just as I don’t make their dating choices, they know they can’t make mine. It’s a mutual understanding that always requires respect.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 33
My sister. She thinks the worst about sugar babies. And i am like it's just like a normal relationship only more open and easy going and carefree. Less stressful and more understanding. I myself have always been an open and nice and friendly person to all sugar babies. I feel we need to support each other Cause we have enough drama with the daddies being rude. So i give love and support and cut out the haters.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 28
I think what makes this the best thing is that it's a game, it can be played however we please. No one can touch me now; so how could they touch me when I'm next to you? I think that it's fun because we can decide together how to handle that situation if it occurred, or weather or not we want it to. Because shit, if I'm with you you better beileve I'm WITH you.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 28
I have not met any sugar haters in real life yet, but if I do I'll ignore them and enjoy myself because unless they're giving me money they don't deserve to have my time wasted on them. And honestly I don't know why anyone should be hating on sugaring, let people spend their money on who or what they want. It's pretty simple just to look the other way and mind your own business in my opinion.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 34
People are full of shit - in everyday life they will “try” to act accepting of the idea and eventually say they aswell are very open to it but when it comes to them hiding behind a screen/social media they will run their mouth and be most modest - I don’t even care honestly- I love being treated and sexually pleased so they can fuck off and let me b
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 35
When's my people that disagree with the idea of what sugar daddy and sugar baby mean. Many think it's a form of prostitution or even rape in some cases they are very wrong in their belief, it is a transparent agreement between two consenting adults and what is any other relationship in the world except exactly that we all are doing something in exchange for something else but I be someone's happiness or acceptance
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 28
I haven’t come across any sugar haters, I get a lot of support about doing this. However if l were to get any hate if explain to them the reason behind my choice in doing this and I’m sure they would understand. As a uni student it’s unrealistic to have a full time job to pay for your lifestyle and get an education so I chose to sign up to here instead. People can relate and understand that so how can they hate?
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 41
A few different times n get called a lot of names for it n I just simply tell them just cuz you're too prudish to open up to other people's way of life don't mean you get to be a judgemental jerkzoid and try n take away the fun other have so just gush n keep walking no one has time for your negativity... Thank you have a nice day and do t fall over your mountain of hate
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have only told about two people that I am a SUGAR BABY!!! They were totally against it.. LOL but guess what I love it 😍 it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. What I do in MY life has nothing to do with them. Just like i stated to them: “I wasn’t asking for your approval, I was just letting you know I’m a sugar baby.. looking for a sugar daddy” I LOVE BEING A SUGAR BABY
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 29
I've met sugar haters but in this day and age there's a thin Line between the two, sugarship and actual dating. Whether it's the woman or man doing the providing in a relationship that's what majority people seek. So why not cut the s*** everyone wants something but nowadays no one wants to be monogamous and for that reason people begin looking for materialism rather than Love. Either way everyone is happy
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 36
I can't say that I have met a sugar hater at the end of the day people have their own opinions about sugar babies and it's really up to the significant other to determine what they are engaging yourself in what becoming a sugar baby it could be different things as far as friendship conversation and maybe even more some of my good friends have been sugar babies for some quite some time but I have just begin
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 32
I’ve met one sugar hater so far. Their view is if you are looking for a sugar baby/sugar daddy or mama then you are either a prostitute or a pimp. They look at it as if you are looking for someone to spoil you financially or the opposite that mean you are lazy or a show off. I guess I am a sugar baby because I like talking and dating men that are older than me and that person saw a problem with that.
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 29
I know people are are not open to anything other than a traditional relationship. I on the other hand would enjoy to try something new and that’s why I’m here. Sometimes you just have to let people say what they think and then let it roll off your shoulders. Do what makes you happy that’s what’s important, it’s hard not to let people get you down but I try my hardest
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 34
Not everyone is ok with this type of relationship and it is not for all. People who believe SB/SD/SM relationships are a form of prostitution with higher expectations are not wrong but they are also not right. The way you get around is explaining the relationship as what it is... it’s not a hourly transaction it’s the girlfriend experience. Gifts are gifts no matter how they are given it’s not a set rate that for X amount this is what I do.
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 28
WHEN THEY SAY: YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT MEN WITH MONEY. You say: I care about many things in a man, including someone who’s mature, successful, smart, established, and experienced in treating his partner well. Those things often come with money. So many guys just care about looks, and I don’t see you shaming them for that. WHEN THEY SAY: SO YOU’RE BASICALLY A PROSTITUTE? You say: No, I am not a prostitute. I still wouldn’t shame a woman who is. That’s not my place. I do the same things that women do as a regular girlfriend. The only difference is I get paid for it. I still have standards, and I don’t sleep with a guy right away if I don’t want to. I enjoy spending time with my Sugar Daddy, and it doesn’t feel like work. THEY SAY: I COULD NEVER DO THAT. You say: Congratulations. Would you like a gold star for having such strict morals? Being a Sugar Baby isn’t for everyone, but as your friend I would never passive aggressively shade whatever you choose to do with your life. Being a Sugar Baby works for me. If you have a problem with that then maybe we shouldn’t be friends.
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 27
Coming from a very conservative country, I do encounter these haters a lot. They look at sugar babies as if they are the lowest of all lows in the world. However, since I come from a less conservative background, with regards to my family's stand on a lot of things, it has become easier to cope with everything. A little bit of open mindedness and hearing out would shut the haters up.
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have met sugar haters and I won’t lie and say that when I was shamed by them I didn’t internalize them. But I readjusted my mindset, realizing that if I’m going to avoid judging their relationships, at least verbally and in a way I think they might actually care about, then why should I care about their judgement of mine? Knowing that i am happy in the arrangements I create allows me to free myself of any negative thoughts or feelings that the judgement of others provides
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 32
Ni siquiera tenía idea de que existían los "sugar haters", me parece chistoso, porque en verdad ¿qué le importa a desconocidos, lo que hacen dos personas adultas? a veces la sociedad en que vivimos se toma atribuciones que no le corresponden, el cuerpo de cada uno es propiedad privada y sí las decisiones que se toman en torno a este son de modo consiente, nadie debería sentirse con la autoridad si quiera de opinar. Qué se creen? La sociedad está repleta de falsos moralistas.
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 29
Not really no! I have come across men who think sugar daddy’s are awesome, and others who think that they’re stupid and desperate. However, lots of men and sugar babies get along well and I think if the relationship is mutual and comprehensible that it shouldn’t be an issue for anyone involved! If you do find sugar haters, you know they’re just jealous and not worth caring about.
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 35
No I have not experienced the sugar hater yet but I'm sure that they all will come and when I do encounter one I'm just going to ignore her because for one I will probably never meet that woman ever in my life in person so what she says and does should not matter to me at all in the end because for one she obviously is in the same position that I am being so she's no better than me or anyone else
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 33
Sugar haters are just as any hater in any situation. One who posses the confidence and drive will always surpass haters. Haters are ugly...Daddies don’t like Ugly...confidence is the sexiest think you can possess and being a hater seems desperate and pathetic. Giving the ugly any of that attention or negative energy only lowers your standards to say the least
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 29
I've met quite a few and I just don't deal with them anymore. It's my life and my life style. And I'm okay with that even though not every person you meet might be okay of the idea. It's a life desicion and it's not the best option for some people. Haters gonna hate as they say. All you can do is just do you boo and let them disappear out of your life. Boi bye.
2022-11-28
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Sugar Baby / 28
I have met a lot of sugar haters, in virtual and real life. Its hard to deal with them, but we have to explain in long words what sugar relationship means. This is not prostitution, its not complicated and you dont have to be perfect for find a sugar daddy, just be yourself. It is like an experience, or just a normal site dating for people who know what they want.
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 30
Several of my friends don't agree with my lifestyle. They consider it prostitution. From my point of view, I am a companion. Some men are divorced but still seek the company of another woman without the commitment of a lifetime. I don't expect to be paid, it's a luxury to be spoiled. I like companionship, too. With my school and work schedule doesn't allow for a real relationship. It's beneficial to both of us.
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve met people that hate on sugar babies and they basically just slut shame them. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it because two people are both okay with the whole concept of it so if they don’t have a problem, then why should anyone else? Honestly people should mind their own business and keep out of stuff that doesn’t concern them because hatin bitches ain’t happy and happy bitches ain’t hatin😌🤷🏽♀️
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 38
Sugar haters are the most funny because the moment that someone would be in your shoes they would accept all gifts in all things without a second thought but because it's not them and it's you they have to be jealous that's fine hair on I'm just going to be over here enjoying my life with people who know how to enjoy theirs I don't think there's anything wrong with that
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met a few sugar haters in real life. They find it degrading towards the sugar babies because they fail to realize that sugar relationships are a mutual agreement. I usually tell them about my experiences if I find them to be reasonable people. If they are not willing to even discuss the subject, I just move forward with my day. There is no reason to explain my reasons for Doing what makes me happy, to someone who is judgemental.
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met people who don't think its right but how I deal with it I tell them If they not giving me money or helping me they shouldn't worry about it because it's nothing wrong but I have met a good amount of people who actually wants to be a sugar baby and I tell them is nothing wrong with it if they feel like having a sugar daddy is better than somebody who I won't do anything for them you can't tell them what's wrong or right
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have met plenty of people who are offended by what I do. They believe that what I'm doing is wrong. But I don't understand why they judge me, I'm not doing anything wrong. I love my job. I get to meet new people, have fun, and live stress-free. Just because they have certain beliefs they believe that my lifestyle is wrong. I believe that no one should be offended by anything that they're doing.
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have met sugar haters, but I think it’s just people who are mad they can’t do what sugar babies do. I have meet people who say those are just gold diggers or who wants a nasty older man or why are you meeting old men online. First of all because I want to so Shhhh... Second it’s not a gold digger because he knows what he’s signing up for and it’s a mutually beneficial relationship and Third of all I like older men they are sexy and they know what they are doing. So mind your business honey.
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 32
I haven't met any sugar haters that know I am a sugar baby. But in casual conversation the topic has come up occasionally. I always make sure to advocate for my girls!! I point out that, like anything else, a sugar baby/daddy relationship is personal, as well as something no one else truly knows about but those two. Reminding them that no one wants to be prematurely judged, especially without the chance to properly explain their side of a situation. Everyone is unique & wants different things..Respectfully, who are they to tell someone how to live their life?
2022-11-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I tell them that is a new world, get used to it or you will be left behind. Everyone decides themselves ways they want to make money. Some does weekend jobs, another sugar dates. Sugar dating may bee easier and funnier or it might be absolutely awful. Just like "normal" jobs. You just need to be able to find the perfect partner. And like in every job, if you are good, you will earn more.
2022-11-30
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Sugar Baby / 31
I have nevet ran into a sugar hater before if i did i would laugh whats the NEED to hate there plenty sugar mommies or daddy for everybody. BECAUSE LIKE THE SANE GO DONT HATE PARTICIPANT. AND if u a hater this game this business aiN t for u period. TO EVERYONE ELSE GET THAT MONEY STAY BLESSED UP LIVE LIFE STAY POSITIVE AND U SJALL RECIVED IF U A SUGAR HATER GO PRAY 😋😋😂😂😂
2022-11-30
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Sugar Baby / 33
I have met a sugar baby hater! She told me that I’m no better than a stripper and i said “ YOU SAY THAT LIKE ITS A BAD THING” i do not judge this is why i get the daddies that i do because i let them be them while still remaining myself! I have a career as well and a degree..the money and gifts are a bonus but I’ve met friends for life! I love it!!
2022-11-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
I simply remind them that being a sugar baby is better than their regular 9-5, I get to build a loving and financially stable relationship with a wealthy man. Hating on me should be the least of anyone's worries. Maybe if they had amazing sugar daddies like I do they wouldn't be so upset, oh well, not my problem. I'll continue to do what I love regardless.
2022-11-30
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Sugar Baby / 27
I've met a lot of people who would be against sugar dating. A lot of people compare it to prostitution, but i disagree. True sugar dating is about a truly beneficial relationship on both sides. It's not just about money or sex, it's about building trust and enjoying each other's company as well. I usually don't openly admit that I'm a sugar baby, but I'm not afraid to own it either.
2022-11-30
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Sugar Baby / 34
When I used to work at an elite nightclub as a hostess I started off on the floor with the normal crowd and what I can say is everyone in that section is very judgemental. Both men and women (especially women) would judge and slut shame the young ladies that chill in VIP with their Blessers (sugar daddies) this gave me glimpse of what people would say about me when I used to party at the club. Funny part is when they somehow make it in the VIP section the tone is completely different. All of a sudden everyone in VIP is their kind of people and their breaths start smelling like their tongue farted from all the ass kissing. The slogan of this club is "For the Rich, Beautiful & Famous" might sound harsh but truth hurts they know if you're not rich, beautiful or famous then you won't have much fun in those kind of places.
2022-11-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
Oh lord , I can’t count how many times I’ve always heard “it’s nasty.” Or “it’s sinful” . Okay but don’t we all sin? Okay? So? What’s your point? Their are a lot Abdul I mean A LOT of sugar baby/ sugar daddy haters out there . I’ve met a few people where they’re just greedy for the money but they don’t like other parts of being a sugar baby. Like, you REALIZE in order for you to even GET your “Money” you have to be willing to do whatever the (or your) sugar daddy or sugar mommy say right? It’s not a charity case . 🤷🏻♀️ Some people need to grow up.
2022-12-01
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Sugar Baby / 32
On a normal way...I haven't because i am new to this discovery and i believe life never stop teaching. ..coz 100% of people's are not or always perfect. ..I mean we're not pure...down from our heart and characters. ...we all make mistakes and we all want everything we desire in life on a different purposes and reasons....so i would say no one is above haters and we all are same humans...especially when you're new into discovering things you know nothing about. .boring and curiosity can also be defined as haters too.
2022-12-01
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Sugar Baby / 27
My best friend is actually a "sugar hater". When I was first looking in to the scene, I asked him if he'd be my standby guy in case anything went wrong. He responded with a "what the f***", and proceeded to tell me how immoral I was, and that it was weird and scrounging. I just told him I didn't want him in my life if he was going to be negative about the whole situation. I mean if my partner is ok with it, why isn't he? I'm not cheating, and I'm certainly not lying about what I'm doing. I guess the most you can do in this sort of scenario is move on and hope they come round.
2022-12-01
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Sugar Baby / 30
Honestly hate by itself is a strong word so anyone displaying such an emotion is probably harbouring very ugly,unresolved issues and reflecting the hurt on the beautiful sugar babes! Might be self esteem issues,inferiority complex or violent/absentee daddy issues.The best way to deal with such is to ignore and learn to grow a thick skin,so their hurtful words and comments dont get to you!
2022-12-01
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’m quite new to the sugar scene so i haven’t dealt with any haters. However, a lot of people shame sugar babying by saying it’s like prostitution. I think that’s totally wrong because this is way safer than being on the streets as well as you know the person way better than just meeting them on the streets like prostitutes do. But when I do encounter a hater I won’t even care because i’ll just be laughing all the way to the bank 🙂
2022-12-01
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Sugar Baby / 31
There are sugar haters everywhere. My best friend was one. But being a sugar makes me feel so happy and loved! I deal with sugar haters by educating them. Ignorance is bliss, but knowledge is key. Once somone understands what i do and why i do it they tend to back away. And in the rare case they don't, they are gone. Negitive people in my life are not needed nor in anyone else's. Make your own destiny don't listen to what others think it should be.
2022-12-01
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Sugar Baby / 26
I haven’t met any sugar haters but I have seen online how some people are jealous of sugar baby’s for getting what they want but also shaming them for using their body’s and good looks as the their tools. I honestly think they are just envious that they can’t do the same but oh well you just have to brush the haters off and keep making that money😜 their opinion don’t matter in the real world
2022-12-02
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Sugar Baby / 46
I know sugar haters and all I can say is who cares what they think. Opinions are like assholes everyone has one. So if you know why your a baby or a daddy who cares what others think. I'm sure they have a closet full of bones they think no one knows about. Its just part of life people are like lobsters or crabs put them in a bucket one gets close to getting out and they reach with a claw and haul you back. So people are people we've all judged somonne ar some point. If you say no I'll call you a liaar
2022-12-02