Have You Ever Met Sugar Haters? How Do You Deal with Them? - 2
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Sugar Baby / 32
I have met sugar haters both online and in real life. Honestly I expected to because this lifestyle isn't "the norm". The way I deal with them is to simply ignore them. They in no way shape or form dictate how I live my life. My best advice to anyone interested in the sugar baby lifestyle would be to do the same. You're always going to encounter haters but it's your life so live it the way YOU want.
2022-11-21
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Sugar Baby / 27
I've never met one before in person, but on other apps ive run into a few messages that are hateful, like: "no one is going to be your sugar daddy" "Stop being greedy and find a way to get your own money" and of course the classic "GET A JOB" but i simply ignore and block them because i know that they are just upset that they can't afford me. Super simple
2022-11-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I have met sugar haters and I honestly just tend to try to ignore them. They often try to make me feel bad about my life decisions, but I'm just doing what I love. Haters should never get the best of you, and I think we should all try to distance ourselves from haters to the best of our abilities. Sugar haters like all haters don't mean anything, you do you and do what makes you happy.
2022-11-21
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Sugar Baby / 30
In fact no, but to do so I think that ignoring it to the person, everyone feels a bit attacked when they see others succeed, the important thing is that you do not give up your goal and already, If you put yourself to hope that people do not attack you when you are moving forward in life, it would not make sense to have goals or Strive for something
2022-11-21
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have met plenty. Very judgmental people, but don't see anything wrong with themselves. I feel like if you're not contributing to my happiness or my bank account then you or your opinion doesn't matter. Do what makes you happy and not what gets approval from others because at the end of the day they're going to do what they want and not care what you have to say about it, while you're living your life to their standards
2022-11-21
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have. I brush them off. It’s not THEIR business how I live my life. I fully support everyone in their decisions so judging me for mine is unacceptable. I can’t stand sugar haters but I let them talk. They are only showing how bitter they trutly are. I’m happy with my life. They should worry about their own. Instead of being so concerned with mine.
2022-11-21
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes I have met sugar haters and I honestly just tend to try to ignore them. They often try to make me feel bad about my life decisions, but I'm just doing what I love. Haters should never get the best of you, and I think we should all try to distance ourselves from haters to the best of our abilities. Sugar haters like all haters don't mean anything, you do you and do what makes you happy.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Dealing with sugar haters is only a matter of explaining the whole relationship to them. They may only see it at using someone whether it's the sugar baby or the sugar daddy. You have to show them and explain to them what you see in the relationship rather than what the outside world perceives. It's really only a misunderstanding that they simply need explained.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Hay haters en todos lados. Lo mejor es pasar de ellos. Si tú te sientes cómodo y segura de tener un sugar daddy, hazlo! Los haters andarán por ahí criticando tanto a los sugar daddy’s como a las sugar baby’s, mientras que nosotras vivimos una “mejor vida” por lo menos financialmente. Yo veo a los sugar daddy’s como un bono para pagar los gastos, y los caprichos. Que la gente lo vea de otra forma no es mi problema.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 40
I just don't tell them what they expect to hear...yes some women take it to a bad place as do some men... But in all reality we are just ppl with high standards... Some if us have come from bad lifs and feel we disserve better than what we had and want to be sure of it not just hope for the best... My advice to the haters our there is a classic one... Don't knock it till you try it..
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yeah some people don't understand that its a mutually benefitting relationship between two people and not some sleepy prostitution ring. Their issue mostly is the fact that when they find out the age difference between us. They think its me being a gold digger when in reality I am just providing a service and not going out asking for money. If my daddy wants to give me a gift then who am I to say no?
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 31
No I've never met sugar haters and if I did it wouldn't really bother me because it's my life I have to make myself happy and do what I think is right for me and not think about that others have to say about what I'm doing with my time people will hate you regardless it's life you just have to do you and do what makes you smile and happy and if it's finding a sugar daddy or a sugar baby go for it.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve met plenty. Most were just afraid for me and some were just disgusted. But I talked to them about how I don’t sell myself. They thought it was all about sex and money and I told them they were wrong. I’ve met plenty of wonderful men who treat me to things and give me money without all the “sex” people think it’s about. I just explain to the haters that this is my lifestyle that I have chosen for myself. Just like how someone chooses to be vegan. If they don’t judge other people for their lifestyles they shouldn’t judge this one either.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 30
i have and if i cant properly educate them on it then i just practically ignore them as being a sugar is part of who i am if they cant axcept it then they arnt worth my time or energy or mental capacity. theres no point in letting it get to you or if its online i blocm them or purge them or ban them depending on what im doing online in which they are contacting me via
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I just remind myself that I'm doing this for a reason and I'd they don't like they can kiss my ass because at at the end of the day I'm happy doing what I'm doing and getting something at the end if money, attention, clothes, sex, etc. It doesn't matter I'm happy with my choices I know at the end of the day that my goals are for me and nobody is not so sad bitch at that
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Sugar haters are everywhere sadly but they only hate because i have way more better stuff than them and when my family members hate i just simply ask to compare bank accounts and that shuts them up. Plus, it's not like im making them become a sugar baby they can do whatever they want and so can i!! Sugar haters are rare to find where i live so i dont really deal with them
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
So many on the internet, haha. I just try to realize that people fear what they don't understand. I try to explain that all relationships involve some sort trade off. I try to explain that what consenting adults do behind closed doors is their own business. I have actually changed quite a few minds on the subject, and have had a few people tell me that I have changed outlook permanently on sugaring. But some people are just stubborn and won't change their minds no matter what, you just gotta let it roll of your back!
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I've met sugar haters who said the relationships and arrangement are perverted and sick. I usually respond by telling them I know what I'm getting into, but they have no clue what their partner is doing. Mostly, though, I've met really nice people who I've conversated with over my relationships and we've bonded over it. Sometimes I've run into people who are also babies.. the exact opposite of haters! It's so great that it outshines the hate.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Sugar haters do not understand that it can be completely PG rated. Sex does not have to be involved. That is a common misconception that many “haters” fail to realize. Some SD just want someone to talk to, spend time with, get to know, and spoil. Sex is not always a requirement. I️ encourage all sugar haters to try this for themselves and see what they expierence.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 30
Haters will talk no matter whaaaat, good or bad. No matter who you are so just let them. Words shouldn't hurt and if they do, don't let it show. if they're not talking money I don't want to talk. My biggest blessing with dealing with haters is my mindset and remembering who I am and realizing I don't have to explain shit to anyone !!!!!!!!
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 30
Haters are going to be everywhere regardless of what your doing. The best way to deal with them is by making yourself better. Hates hate to see you do well or succeed at things they wish they could do. I personally have had to deal with them & I just keep going on in life & not care what others think. The only person you should be worried about is yourself
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 27
In real life I have never met a Sugar hater. But if I were to encounter one I would simply ignore it because it’s my life not theirs and my choices. I am a grown woman and I am entitled to do as I please with whoever I please and whatever arrangement it is. So I just would try not to let their comments affect so I just would try not to let their comments affect me.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
People really just need to take time to understand. Most will refuse because they don't see life in any way other than the paradigm given them by they're family. When one steps outside themselves they can see that most are trying to be they're most authentic self. Living a sugar daddy/babby lifestyle very well could be the ideal, in which two people choose boundaries that are revolutionary
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
I met only on different apps..they said very bad things about these kind of arrangements but what i didn't understand is why they are haters on sugaring apps :)) doesn't matter for me,i know what I Want ,sow..their words for me doesn't hurt my ideas and feelings.and i suppose they are haters because they had been rejected by girls.frustrating!!!!!
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 32
I have not met sugar haters, but to all those who have I would tell them to ignore the haters. There is always going to be someone who has an opinion about your lifestyle no matter what you are doing. The most important thing for your survival is your happiness. As long as you are not hurting your self or others there is no problem with who you date and for what reason.
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 25
I have experienced sugar haters but deep down they wanted to be a sugar baby like me. I don't show hate back I just show love if you know what I mean 😋. They usually come online to say things but I have had people come up to me in public with criticism and questions. The best thing to do is ignore it but if they have questions answer them. You never know if they just wanna know more to maybe even be one themselves!
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 27
I have never met one in real life but there are people on the internet who bash those kinds of things and im just like sis listen... Im out here trying to get this money while you over here tweeting on a phone you got in 2013. Most people hate the idea of having sex or actually keeping the company of an older man or woman who would like to share their spoils but not for free.
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 41
I haven't met any sugar haters so far but if I do i would tell them that this is not a new thing it has been here for years is just that we trying to be stereo type about it and we car too much about what people will say if they where yo see you with sugar for get about other people put yourself first. Life is too short to worry about other people.
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 29
SB / 19 7 In real life, I have not. Although I’m sure if I got around to asking, 90% of people would be against it simply because it’s out of the norm. People are very closed minded—especially to something they’re not used to. I’m new to this as well but they key is to have an open mind. Anything can come of this, even an AMAZING friendship. Why not just go for it?
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 41
Ive never met a hater personally but I can only imagine how it would go in such a small town like mine. I agree that this lifestyle would require a very open mind and some people just arent ready to deal with that. I hear the term "trashy" when you discuss things loke this with local people but the truth is, many of these gentlemen arent going to deal with a trashy woman. They expect classy and educated company on their trips and dates. After all, who wants to be the "dumb blonde" girlfriend anyway?!
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
I've haven't actually met anyone that dislike sugaring I've met a lot of people on here who was interested and becoming a sugar baby and they made a group and so they help each other and give each other advice on how to become a sugar baby and they all still communicate and talk with in this group and they tell each other about their experiences everybody has somebody there come on there and you like I'm about to leave this is my number or they be like I'm going to be in this area if I don't message back you know a buddy system for sugaring
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 37
i havent yet experience those things but then as i put myself in their shoe just like the others first impression they get very disappointed and judgmental about what they thought it is no questions ask they say so much things behind others back making stories even without knowing the real one they think it was very negative not usual partner special on there culture and religions or beliefs
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
I have not come into any contact with any other sugar babies on the app because we are not allowed to see each other’s profiles. I am surprised that this is a topic to discuss because someone would have to work very hard to get into contact with another sugar baby on here in order to hate on them. There’s plenty of daddy’s out here. If you have confidence in how you are as an individual, then that should erase the need to hate on others. We’re are all here for the same reason and hating is so unnecessary and purposeless.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
It's no way around having haters but the only way to deal with them is to stunt on them and let them know you not worried about anything they worried about because you making money and enjoying life and they are not, keep a smile on your face and let them know they not doing anything but making you stronger and if they get made oh well laugh in their face and walk away like the adult u are
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, I have met sugar haters. And honestly I don't even acknowledge them because it's your life. Do what you want to do. If sugaring is what pays your bills and let's you do what you want in life, who cares? Most people are probably just miserable because they didn't think of it first or they're too afraid to try it. People do things that other people don't agree with all the time, just let life go on. Keep doing you.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 57
Everyone is judgemental and if you are not oppose to sharing this part of your life w. the people who love and care for you and have your best interest at heart then you do not allow them in your most private and personal life.we all share the same discretion who wants to be judged by our actions in choosing a specific type we are not getting in our everyday life.these sites are jus for the person who has a certain preference.its what makes your world revolve the expansion of ones mind can have endless and sometimes overwhelming choices w results.maturity helps you grow into allowing your creative mind to connect w what you can only create because you are what matters and the choice is yours.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 28
There will always be people who disapprove of this lifestyle, whether online or in real life, but it’s important to remember that 99.9% of the time the men and women who are criticizing us are really just envious of the lives we lead. It’s usually easier to ignore them and brush them off because, let’s be honest, they aren’t worth the time or energy to be riled up about. 😘
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
I think the word "hater" is used wayyy too loosely. I have met people who don't agree with the lifestyle and that's okay, everybody likes what they like. That doesn't make them a hater. To those people, however, I just tell them if they don't like the lifestyle then don't like the lifestyle lol! Everything isn't for everybody. I have met some really judgmental people but... glasshouses, ya know? 😂! For the most part, people are actually encouraging tbh.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 28
I haven't met a sugar hater. I'm sure if I told people in real life that I do sugaring on the side for some cash to help me get by, they'd judge hardcore. I haven't told anyone besides 3 of my very close friends and they actually think it's okay as long as if I'm not getting into it with creeps or like getting myself in trouble. I really don't know many haters because who can hate it?
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 32
There are a lot of people who look down on sugar babies for one reason or another, whether it's because they think it's not right, or they don't have enough courage to be real about what they want in their relationships. I believe that if the people in the relationship are not hurting each other then it's really nobody business how and what they do with there life. There are so many different types of relationships that there shouldn't be a standard anyways.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 25
In real life of course they all think the same thing that being a sugar baby is the exact same as prostitution it’s not exactly I just explain how it works with the arrangement made between the sugar Daddy/Mommy and their babies. And hey usually seem to see a difference because it’s a relationship but still thinking it’s that because your doing something in exchange for money.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I shrug it off their opinion doesn’t belong and I ignore it and move on. There’s no time for negativity and judge mental people I’m benefiting from this, my sugar daddy benefits I’m making someone happy and have someone to be around. It’s like going out and hooking up with someone but instead you grow with Your sugar daddy and get spoiled and you are making him happy
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 29
Being a sugar baby comes with a lot of stigma attached to it, with labels like "gold digger" etc, however, they don't understand that it's a lot deeper than that. The connection I have found with older men is amazing compared to that with boys of my own age. I haven't had any full on encounters with sugar haters, but I assume that's because they keep their opinions to themselves. If they spoke their mind, it may be a different story. Either way, if i'm strong enough to seek a mature relationship, i'm strong enough to ignore sugar haters.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 33
I haven't met sugar haters, but most people thinkbit's strange, most suggest "why not work hard for what you have" but what if you do work hard and don't make ends meet or you do make ends meet and you would like a little extra income for a little splurge that you normally can't afford. I think most people think "to each is own" at the end of the day you have to do what makes you happy.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have met a few. I see all these girls commenting on every single sugar daddy status. I comment on a few, and when I do, one of the girls comments back on my comment. Why is it a competition? Why are you so jealous? I commented that I’m Not a gold digger and that I’m very low maintenance, and one girl commented saying oh please yeah right. Really girl. Leave me alone.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes I've run across my fair share of Sugar baby haters, we're just not everyone's cup of tea.😊 They may try and tell me how to live my life but I do what I can! Appreciate the imput, let them know regardless of what they think they should try it themselves and see if they like it or not.Or too just mind their own business, my life, my desires, not anyones problem 🤗
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yeah, of course i've meet, bit the trick is con simply ignore them, those people are ver y close minded, they doesn't know about good sugar life. The best way about how ignore them, is still enjoying the life you wanna get, everyone is here because everyone of us wants, we have rules if we want, we're free, i think is amazing that we could meet us
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 32
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. If you agree with the situation then kudos to you. If you don't agree, then mind your own business. Haters will always hate. You can't let the opinions of others affect what you want to do with your own life. I honestly think they want to be like us sugar babies: taken care of, appreciated, maybe even loved.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 34
I personally really don't believe in haters or sugar haters. I'm my own person, I do whatever I want no matter what other people think. Haters or sugar haters motivate me to do whatever they hating or got some to say about the even more. The way I will handle a hater or sugar hat e r by doing what they don't want me to do and ignor their thoughts and feelings
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
I haven't met any sugar haters so far but if I do i would tell them that this is not a new thing it has been here for years is just that we trying to be stereo type about it and we car too much about what people will say if they where yo see you with sugar for get about other people put yourself first. Life is too short to worry about other people.
2022-11-25