Do You Consider Yourself a Feminist, And Why? Is It Contradictory to Be a Sugar Baby And Feminist at the Same Time? - 7

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Sugar Baby / 27

I am a feminist, and as a feminist I support all women, and hope all women will support me. Feminism encompasses sex workers, strippers, escorts, sugar babies, and many other amazing women working and supporting themselves, and women who aren't working too. Being a sugar baby means I am in control. I don't think it's "degrading". I am making money, looking cute and making someone happy

2023-03-20

Sugar Baby / 28

I do consider myself a feminist. But being a feminist has nothing to do with having a sugar life. Some ppl may think it contradicts one another, but it doesn't. Feminist means, to me is wanting equal rights and pay for women, just like men have. Not being treated like a sex object or as if my opinion didn't matter. There is a difference between getting all dolled up and feeling sexy for yourself or for someone that you love or hope to love. Compared to just walking around in shorts and a tshirt and getting cat called just for wearing something comfortable.

2023-03-20

Sugar Baby / 28

I consider myself a feminist but definitely not to the extreme. I believe that feminism means women have total freedom to choose what to do with their life and it’s no one else’s business. In terms of being a sugar baby, it does not mean you’re disrespecting your body or being a slut. We are just respectable women who are comfortable enough with ourselves to pursue these relationships and use our beauty/personalities to our best advantage.

2023-03-21

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes I do consider my self a feminist and with that I believe that I have the right to live my life anyway I please and right now this is what works for me. If men can be sugar daddy’s without that being frowned on generally then women shouldn’t be frowned on for being a sugar baby. This also ties in to the double standard that women are constantly subjected to. My life my choice.

2023-03-21

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself to be a feminist. Having strong morals and helping other women is liberating. It is a sisterhood we are all born into and is something we all have in common. I do not think being a sugar baby is contradictory to being a feminist. Being a sugar baby is a liberating experience, much like being a feminist. They both have in common the fact that there are strong morals necessary to be a member of each community(?). It provides an experience which help us to understand ourselves, as women, in a much better way.

2023-03-21

Sugar Baby / 26

I as a feminist believe that women (and people all together) should have the right to choose what they do when it comes to sugaring, as soon as you same someone for making their own choices then I feel like that’s a step back in feminism. It’s different when women ate being forced into prostitution or something like that. We should be able to control our bodies and our choices

2023-03-22

Sugar Baby / 29

Of course not! Being a sugar baby can often be seen as a woman selling herself out or being a gold digger, which isn't the case at all. When you're a sugar baby it's YOUR decision and YOUR choices. Its something you have control over and can adjust to your preference/comfort. Which is quite empowering and I feel rather commanding of a woman. Feminism isn't about shaming women for what they choose to do with their lives or who they choose to spend their time with. Feminism (or more importantly intersectionality) is for everyone and includes everyone !

2023-03-22

Sugar Baby / 31

I definitely identify as a feminist, I don't feel like the sugar lifestyle contradicts feminism at all. Feminism to me, is supporting the equal rights of all sexes. I feel like the daddy/baby relationship is like any symbiotic relationship in nature. It does not suppress the abilities of the baby or take advantage of the daddy. In essence it is a way for both parties to get something they need or want from the other.

2023-03-22

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself to be a feminist and no I don’t think being on Sudy contradicts my beliefs. Because to be a feminist, in my opinion, is to allow women to do whatever the hell they want and stop being judged for it. Also, being a sex positive feminist I believe you can do whatever you like with your body or life if there is constant and no one is being hurt(unless that’s your kink lol)

2023-03-22

Sugar Baby / 26

I consoder myself a feminist but im also a sugar baby and i see nothing wrong with embracing being feminine and being a sugar baby, if feminists can support sex work like prostitution and stripping then i dont see being a sugar baby so be such a big deal, our world is expanding and growning and our feminist community beeds to understand that we arent defrading ourselves we are using what we were given

2023-03-23

Sugar Baby / 27

I do consider myself a feminist. And no I do not feel as if being a sugar baby contradicts the message of feminism. Sugaring is just like dating in a "normal" world it's just that the sugar babies are interested in older men/women and the sugar daddies and mommies are tickled by younger men/women and feminism deals with equality of genders sexually, economically, racially etc. So in hindsight sugaring actually allows each gender to equally take a firm stand in their genders.

2023-03-24

Sugar Baby / 26

I’m a feminist and the reason I don’t believe this applies is that being a sugar baby doesn’t mean you need someone to take care of you, but you like it. Also, in proper sugar baby and daddy or mommy relationships, both should be taking care of each other in different or in similar ways. It’s very feminist in the sense that you’re just two people giving love and companionship.

2023-03-25

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes I do consider myself as a feminist, we don't fight only for women also for men (even animals, well myself Jaja) so as you girls may know there's this idea that consists in "we are strong Independent women" and I do believe that women can take care of them selfs so it's kinda conflicting to me because i do believe that we don't HAVE to have a man BUT at the same time I like to be spoiled by one so it's like 50/50 for me

2023-03-25

Sugar Baby / 35

I am a hard fast feminist. I believe in a woman's right to choose what is best for herself, her body, and her life. Sugaring to me is empowering, because I know I am expressing my true self and making my own decisions, regardless of what society says I should or should not do. I have no shame for what I am looking for, this is meant to be a beneficial relationship for both parties involved. Sugaring is feminist to me.

2023-03-26

Sugar Baby / 27

I consider myself as a feminist, and I don't think that its contradictory to be a sugar baby at re same time, being a feminist means that I fight for men and woman equal rights, and to be the same, being a feminist means that I try to make a difference for the other girls, for having the same opportunities at work, or at school, for making what I want with my body and not being judged by the others.

2023-03-26

Sugar Baby / 28

I do consideryself a feminist but in the sense of women being able to make choices without other’s permission. Like being a sugar baby being my choice and my way of dating is a show of feminism to me because I wasn’t forced into it. I believe in true equality where both men and women are empowered not the men hating its become today. Both sexes deserve empowerment and love

2023-03-27

Sugar Baby / 25

I consider myself a feminist as anyone else should in my opinion. Women and men deserve equal rights. As a woman I can decide myself what I want to do with my life. If I want to be a sugar baby I will do that. If i want to study and get a job I should also be able to do that. Being a feminist doesnt mean you cannot enjoy being spoiled by a man. You can do both.

2023-03-27

Sugar Baby / 29

I do consider myself a feminist, a strong passionate one at that. I fight for equal rights, intersectionality, my POC sisters and brothers, and lgbt + rights. I don't think it's anti feminist to be a sugar baby or daddy for that matter. Feminism is about equal rights and the ability to do what makes you happy in life, so long as you are not hurting others in the process. I Do think it's possible to have an anti feminist relationship in the sugar bowl just because of the inherent power difference in relationships. Dome people can abuse that, which isn't okay in my opinion.

2023-03-28

Sugar Baby / 28

I consider my self to be a feminist because I fight for equality between all sexes. Sugaring isn't degrading or antifeminist in the least. To me its an empowering experience. I enjoy it because it allows me to take control of my life and enjoy the company of a person I enjoy and enjoys me. Someone who is willing to give as much as they take. Again...very empowering.

2023-03-28

Sugar Baby / 31

A lot of people misunderstand feminism thanks to the extremists (like in any other belief organisations), but I'm glad most sugar babies here also identify as feminists. Feminism is about doing whatever you want, whatever you give consent to, whatever makes you feel empowered and that include sugaring. You CHOOSE to get paid for your time and it's okay to say no. The consent part is the most important. Of course it requires both parties to understand the definition of feminism for the sugaring relationship to maintain mature, caring and mutually beneficial.

2023-03-30

Sugar Baby / 29

I think that the idea of ‘feminism’ has become skewed in recent years, becoming something along the lines of women having to be stronger than men. Feminism essentially calls for equality. With this in mind, I personally don’t think that being a sugar baby is contradictory to being a feminist - at the end of the day, women should be allowed to choose what they want to do with their time and bodies, and if one of those choices is to be a sugar baby, then that choice should be respected.

2023-03-31

Sugar Baby / 33

I am a feminist but more important I am a human. Feminism is just another label at the end of the day. You can be a proud and loud sugar baby and own your own body/life in the way you think is best for you. Benig a feminist means to be respectfull of everyone. It means to understand equality and to remaind your self a sense of sisterhood every day. Kidness is the key. You are not less of a feminist just becouse you are trying to own your future on a social platform. Be happy ♡

2023-04-01

Sugar Baby / 25

I am not a feminist, but I'm in a kind of weird collective (because I'm an anarchyst) where there's a lot of feminist girls. I don't think there's something wrong in being a sugar baby with feminist thoughts, they're just looking for freedom, and having an agree with a sugar daddy is not a chain that makes us feel uncomfortable. It's just that, some people think it's a double moral problem, when it's not.

2023-04-01

Sugar Baby / 25

I consider myself a feminist despite being here. I think by being a feminist you believe in equal rights without gender discrimination, and part of that is embracing everyone’s entitlement to sexuality and their interpretation of it. I don’t think this is necessarily objectification, because it’s an arrangement of my own choice and it’s not the same for everyone. Each experience is different, and one can choose how to portray themselves. I don’t think sugaring and feminism and negatively related, because it’s my body and I choose what to do with and how I portray myself. Sex positivity isn’t something to be ashamed of.

2023-04-01

Sugar Baby / 28

Personally, I am not a feminist. I believe that some people would think sugaring could be contradictory to “feminist beliefs”. however, in my opinion, sugaring does not have to contradict the true meaning of what it is to be a feminist. People nowadays have so many different thoughts and feelings and if you’re doing what makes you happy and consider yourself a feminist at the same time, who cares 🤷🏼‍♀️

2023-04-01

Sugar Baby / 34

I don’t feel like it’s contradictory at all. The definition of feminism is , the advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.. i don’t see how that has any conflicting issue to do with you being a sugar. Just because i except money or gifts does not mean that i think i should be less respected or not be treated fairly . I believe in women’s rights but i also believe in a man having the role as the provider.

2023-04-02

Sugar Baby / 27

I am a feminist and being a sugar baby does not effect my ability to be a feminist. Feminism is about women having the freedom to make their own decisions for what they want, I am using my freedom and wants to pursue a sugar relationship which is just as valid as those who want to lead financially independent lives and lead their own careers. In fact I think this lifestyle will help me achieve what I want and be within the career I do desperately seek.

2023-04-03

Sugar Baby / 27

I consider myself a feminist 100 PERCENT. I am not like most violent 'feminazis' but I believe and will fight for the fact that men and women, straight and gay, cis and non-binary, white and black, etc people, are human and equal and therefore are the same and need to be treated the same. Anyone can be a feminist and being a sugarbaby doesn't affect that.

2023-04-05

Sugar Baby / 46

No, I am not a Feminist. I am a Female Supremacist. While I love men and enjoy them for who and what they are, I believe women are naturally superior as a gender, but patriarchal society has conditioned entire societies to believe otherwise. In fact, I would enjoy debating this topic at length. Also, Being a "Sugar Baby" is a choice and therefore not contradictory to Feminism. Fun Topic.

2023-04-05

Sugar Baby / 27

Yes, I utterly believe in women and men having equal rights and not being subject to the derogatory comments that are said towards women. In my opinion, having a sugar daddy and being a feminist aren’t contradictory at all, sugar babies have chosen that’s what they want to do and that’s okay, because they’ve decided that for themselves, we just temp. depend on sugar daddies

2023-04-06

Sugar Baby / 51

I most certainly do. But not today's version of what being a feminist is. The keynote speaker of one of the biggest rally the feminist movement had today did prison time for beating and sodomizing to death of homosexual man. That is not true Womanhood being a true feminist means you are comfortable in the fact that you are indeed different than a man

2023-04-06

Sugar Baby / 37

Not at all! Just because you're looking for someone to take care of and respect your temple doesn't mean you can't be a feminist and SB at the same time. If anything a SD would take better care of your temple then regular men because they want to enjoy it too. Normal men have the mentality that they can find someone betteror thinner or more wild. So yes you can be a SB and feminist at the same time.

2023-04-07

Sugar Baby / 26

I am a feminist, but I don't think it interferes with my sugar baby/daddy relationship. I would never be with somebody that is treating me like a "slave" because they genuinely think that low of me. What goes on in my sex life is not at all connected to my political views. If you are a sub you are treated like a slave but you know you are loved because your daddy should be treating you and caring for you at other times. There should be a mutual respect.

2023-04-08

Sugar Baby / 26

You can both be a sugar and a feminist. I believe men and women should be equal. The simple thing of just because im a sugar doesnt make me not a feminist.its crazy to think that just because I'm a sugar baby it means i cant be a feminist. I believe you should be paid the same as any one else in the work space. Being a sugar baby won't ever change that

2023-04-08

Sugar Baby / 28

Yes I am a feminist because I believe in equal rights for women and men! An I don’t believe it’s not contradictory to be a sugar baby because being a sugar baby is actually empowering to me, what better empowerment then men wanting to be your sugar daddy, because of your looks and you can control who you wanna have a relationship and you can ask them for whatever ur heart desires

2023-04-08

Sugar Baby / 25

i definitely consider myself a feminist. i think being a sugar baby or sugar momma shows just how feminist a person can be because we aren't slut shaming anyone by doing what they choose to do and we love having a choice in doing whatever we want with our lives. The men here are very respectful and if we feel uncomfortable, we can say so without feeling scared. i believe you can both be a feminist and a sugar baby

2023-04-08

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself a feminist. Feminism fights for women's rights and because of that, I believe that sugaring is fine and it Is up to the woman to decide if she's comfortable doing it or not. A part of feminism is wanting autonomy for women, and if this is how they choose to use their autonomy then great! Two consenting adults can do what they please. Women can do what they want with their bodies and lives and shouldn't feel ashamed for wanting to be a sugar baby.

2023-04-11

Sugar Baby / 36

To me, feminism is about taking ownership of your life, as a woman. Not letting anyone dictate your decisions. That includes work, family, friends, etc. Being a sugar baby is a decision you make as an informed adult, so I don’t see the contradiction. If it works for you, do it. That doesn’t make you any less of a feminist. You’re taking initiative and doing what you want.

2023-04-11

Sugar Baby / 51

No I don't consider myself a feminist. I believe men and women are equal and should be treated according to that person Everyone is different just like jobs are different everyone should be treated with the same respect, kindness and same chances in life. We all should be treated equally. And no I don't believe if u are a fimest that u are being a hipacriate

2023-04-12

Sugar Baby / 26

I do not consider myself a feminist due to the fact it has such a bad rep and these days feminists do not care about men. They talk about how women are opprossed. Yes that may be the case however guys are also oppressed! Daddy's need love to! . I think there's such a bad for feminists who are sugar babies because of this issue of majority of feminists hating men.

2023-04-12

Sugar Baby / 25

I believe you can be a sugar baby and be a feminist. I’d consider myself to be both. I am allowed to choose what to do with my body. It is not forced against me nor is it forced against anyone else. Just because I like to be dominated does not mean that in my every day life there is a superior gender. This is all about consent and it does not equate to gender roles in our society

2023-04-12

Sugar Baby / 29

The definition of feminism in the oxford dictionary is: "The advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes." Being a sugar baby doesn't go against any part of this statement, so no I don't think it's contradictictory to be a feminist and a sugar baby. Besides, feminism includes women expressing themselves in ways they are comfortable with and doing what they wish with their bodies.

2023-04-13

Sugar Baby / 30

Yes I understand it sounds conflicting but at the end of the day being a sugar baby is no different than doing any other job very people use you to make money and so on. So the fact that I’m more empowered doing this and more independent as a result I’m still a feminist. I still believe women deserve equal rights as men and vice versa. Its my choice, the real question is if sugar daddies believe women should be treated well assugar babies.

2023-04-13

Sugar Baby / 25

Yeah, I consider myself to be a feminist. Being a feminist, to me, means that a female can do what she wants. She can do whatever she pleases with her body, and if she wants to be a sugar baby, then she can be a sugar baby. Men are criticized for being a sugar daddy or just plainly having sex, so why criticized a woman for the same? Let her do what she wants with her body and she'll be proud.

2023-04-15

Sugar Baby / 26

I consider myself a feminist absolutely. I think I can be a sugar baby and a feminist at the same time as it is my choice. I can do whatever I want in this world - it's my body and my voice. If I want to give attention to SD who want it, then I'll do it. If I want to show off my body for someone, I will do if. It's up to me what I do and don't do. I don't let anyone control me.

2023-04-15

Sugar Baby / 53

A feminist wouldn't be a Sugar baby, not a true feminist. Feminists want equality not to be under thumb to a man. I'm more of a conservative female, not traditional but I don't have a problem with a man taking care of me either. I may pay my own bills but getting that money is from a man who I've come to make happy in one way or another. Feminists can have their arguments but I don't agree with them

2023-04-16

Sugar Baby / 25

I don’t like to label myself as a feminist because of the negative views that people have brought on to some of those that consider themselves one. I do still support women’s rights and that the idea that women and men should be treated equal in everything. As for whether it is contradicting to being a feminist and being a sugar baby, I don’t think it is. You can still want to be seen as equal to a man, but still want to rely on a SD. I mean, some babies rely on a SD because they don’t get paid enough in their own jobs. Others are able to support themselves and just want someone to spoil them.

2023-04-18

Sugar Baby / 32

I don't really thing that being a sugar baby it's contradictorial with be a feminist, because no one who's really a feminist will say "I'm disappointed" or "you are wrong", feminist it's about support, sorority and respect for the elections of the other ones. Constantly people try to find an argument to disapproval the feminism, because they thing it's more important soustain a hypocrital culture than accept the inequalities and do something about. Being a sugar baby it's not because we are trying to depend of someone else (especially depend of men) it's because we want relationships as equals. So yes, of course I considered myself as a feminist! I can't be agains myself.

2023-04-18

Sugar Baby / 25

I believe I'm a feminist and I'm all for the movement. Being a sugar baby shouldn't mean you can't be a feminist because I think that the feminist movement is all about raising women up and letting them do what they want and be who they want to be. If they want to be a sugar baby that's their choice and no one should ever put them down for that because it's entirely their choice.

2023-04-19

Sugar Baby / 33

Equality and freedom are interlinked. Feminism begs that women have equality, thus, freedom. So, if what I want is to be sugared on, then I should have the freedom to do so. Letting women participate in capitalism is a big step towards equality. The only way we can mess it up is if we undervalue what the SB brings to the table. As long as we recognize that both parties come seeking something they don't have, bringing along something the other wants, we can have fair trade; therefore, equality.

2023-04-19