Do You Consider Yourself a Feminist, And Why? Is It Contradictory to Be a Sugar Baby And Feminist at the Same Time? - 6

370 Answers

Sugar Baby / 33

Although I like to stand up for womens rights i wouldn't consider myself a die hard feminist. I do however think that it's possible to be a sugar baby and a feminist all in one! If you value women's rights and treat yourself and other women with respect and dignity then i would consider you to be somewhat of a feminist. Being a sugar baby doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your self respect, it's about knowing that you deserve to to treated right and respected by your man.

2023-02-21

Sugar Baby / 25

Being a feminist is all about empowering other men and women and supporting everyone regardless of sex, both men and women can be sugar babies or the opposite. Everyone needs to be spoiled sometimes and there's no right or wrong way to get what you want as long as it doesn't bring someone else down in exchange. Both the sugar and the daddy get what they want and everyone is happy, I see no power struggle in spoiling each other weather it be time spent or money. I'm a happy sugar baby and strong feminist

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 30

I believe In order to be a sugar baby you have to be some type of feminist. As women we do so much for people who will do nothing for us. We date men who can’t even promise us nice things for our birthday. But being a sugar baby all of those things are expected your time energy and everything about you is being valued. This person who you’re with thinks you’re so great he’s willing to help you live your best life.

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 45

Chivalry is not dead. people throughout history have searched for a way to define & quantify admirable behavior. The code of chivalry is, at its heart, simply a handbook for good conduct; Being a Gentleman, please. Respect me as woman, human being not an object. Open the car door for me, say please & thanku; Appreciate not demand (beyond closed doors exceptions may apply😜). I will please u & pleasure u as well as gratefully except your kindness & respect. I do all of this from my heart & soul truely bc I want & desire too😉. chivalry was not a mandate from the powerful to the downtrodden, nor a directive from the chosen unto the masses. It was a set of limitations which the strong & mighty placed upon themselves w/ the realization that setting a good example sends a message which is far more powerful than any words on paper. Today, we r not too different from those knights in the Middle Ages — we have a great deal of wealth, resources & freedom at our disposal; we can use (or misuse) them in nearly any way we like. Perhaps that’s why people i find the concept of chivalry so relevant to modern life. Like those knights in shining armor hundreds of years ago, i want to experience the satisfaction of knowing that i have championed the right causes & embraced the right principles, NOT BC i was Told to do so, but simply bc "I" have chosen to follow that path. In short, that’s what chivalry is — a choice. The choice to do the right things, for the right

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 26

Although I’m a male, I still believe in the idea of feminism. Not the radical fake “kill all men” type, but I do believe women deserve to be treated as equals and they are currently on their way which is great. I don’t think that being involved in sugar life is contradictory to feminism because of anything it EMPOWERS it. You’re out here doing what you gotta do to pay for rent/education/needs/wants. YOU GO GIRL 😤🔥

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 28

I believe all women are inherently femenist. The problem lies with radical feminism. The ideaology of feminism went from creating an equal opportunities to attempting to create equal outcomes which is not logically possible. It doesn't help when the biggest pro-feminism speakers are so controversial that they turn away rational people. There are very real issues that feminism still needs to address and I hope we can.focus on those things in the future.

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 25

yes i am a feminist. what i do in my downtime has nothing to do with my political views. being a sugar baby is my business only. feminism has nothing to do with sugar babies! feminism is the fight for equality between men and women. sugaring is a beneficial relationship for both parties. literally no correlation. therefore, you can definitely be a sugar baby and a feminist. just because i’m a sugar baby doesn’t mean i don’t want equal rights!

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 26

I actually am qutie the feminist. While many people demote the idea of a female being a sugar baby and being a feminist, it’s the opposite. Being a true believer in the feminine world is believing the female can do anything she sets her mind too and helping herself. Brings a sugar baby is that, while also pleasuring ourselves. We get paid for “fun”

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 25

I am a feminist and i absolute do not think it’s contradictory at all. Feminism is simply for the equality among sexes. I’ve met sort of “new wave” feminists who insist you’re not a feminist if you shave your legs and don’t think all men are pigs and to me this just seems like another one of those warped perspectives. Also, there are female sugar mommies and male sugar babies too so what’s the difference there? sure, there are probably more male/female SD/SB relationships, but so what? to me, it doesn’t make a difference. feminism to me is also about women being just as free as men are to express their desires and to chase them, so i don’t see any problem with being a feminist who supports sugaring whatsoever.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 27

I consider myself a feminist by this definition of feminism: It is the acceptance and equal treatment of EVERYONE. The concept of feminism shouldn’t just apply to women. As far as the part that directly applies to women; I feel that being SB doesn’t contradict that because it’s also about being confident in who you are and being unapologetically yourself.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 29

I don't see a contradiction in being both a sugar baby and a feminist because I believe women have the right to do what they please with their bodies, however, I do believe that this particular breed of sex work is a product of a misogynistic society, if that makes any sense. Maybe it's because I'm from Seattle, which is an overwhelmingly male and where most of the high wage jobs are in predominantly masculine cities that I think this way.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 27

I am a feminist and yes its kinda contradictory to be a sugar baby but feminism is about equality theres nothing wrong with wanting to rely on someone to be able to buy you nice things that you might not be able to afford. You can have a career and be a strong confident independant woman and be a sugar baby. You arent giving up your rights to be independent

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 27

I 100% consider myself a feminist and think he embracing the sugar lifestyle even more represents my feminist ideas! Women should have complete and utter freedom and choice over their bodies and sexuality and by being a sugar baby, I am able to explore that as little or as much as I want! Being a feminist is not just about woman and rights but also about accept women’s sexuality and also men’s too! Men are more than capable of being sugar babies and should feel comfortable with expressing themselves!

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 27

I am completely and 100%%% a feminist. Being a feminist and a sugar baby is not mutually exclusive!!! In fact, feminism is all about equality and women empowerment too....and if a woman feels empowered by this type of work she should GO FOR ITTTT!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 It's all about YOUR preferences and what makes YOU comfortable in your own skin baby doll😘

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 28

I am a feminist, but that has nothing to do with this life style. Being a feminist means I suppirt equal treatment of all genders. Which also means I am able to do what I like with my time, money, and body. This being said, I can not participate in a SD/SB relationship with a mam that does not respect me and my decisions in or outside the relationship.

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 26

A feminist is someone who believes women should have the same amount of opportunity and acknowledgment as men. It has nothing to do with the career choices a woman makes. I can be a stripper and be a feminist because they have nothing to do with each other. Feminism has nothing to with the self-worth of a woman (which it often is considered as). I can have the most degrading job in the world, but as long as it was my choice to take it, no one can say I am not a feminist. Power is in your strength to be individualistic not your career or hobby choice. DO WHAT YOU WANT GIRLIES!!

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 30

I believe women’s rights and equality is important but I wouldn’t consider myself a feminist. I consistently hear of women doing things just as bad to men as all us women complain of men doing to us (cheating, lying, etc) so I think equality is the best way. Being a sugar baby does not make you not an equal, as you’re giving your daddy what he needs and is looking for.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 31

I’m very much a feminist. I don’t think being a sugar baby and a feminist are mutually exclusive. If you foster the right relationship, you can have a mostly equal dynamic because of the mutual benefits. As long as you don’t do things you don’t want to do, and don’t put up with daddies who don’t treat you right. Keep a look out for red flags and put your safety first. There are plenty of daddies out there who know how to respect women.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 27

I wouldn’t personally include myself as a feminist but that’s mostly because of the way new age feminism is portrayed. Actual feminism is the belief that both sexes deserve equal rights. I believe that. So no, I don’t believe that being a sugar baby contradicts that belief. I think it’s all personal opinion at the end of the day though. Do what makes you happy and what you believe is right

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes, I am a feminist because men and women hold inherently equal worth and not only is that still not 100% agreed upon, but there are places in this world which systematically treat women as second class citizens. It is in no way a contradiction to believe that and be a sugar baby because there is nothing degrading about consensual agreements, whether they involve money and sex or not.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 26

I don't consider myself a feminist, but I obviously believe in equal rights for women. I'm not a feminist because I still don't believe it's entire equality. I can empower myself I don't need to believe in a bigger unity if you know what I mean, and being a sugar baby empowers more than most things. I'm using my sexuality and my body to make my way in life

2023-03-03

Sugar Baby / 26

I 100% consider myself to be a feminist. The definition is someone who believes in the social, economical and political equality of both genders. That has nothing to do with needing help from a man. I am a sugar baby because I need help getting by and love getting to know people. I love to learn and grow collecting insight fron the more knowledgeable. This is why I choose to be a sugar baby. You can absolutely fight for equal rights while getting spoiled by someone’s ex-husband lolwtf

2023-03-04

Sugar Baby / 26

I am a feminist, I believe in equal rights and that women should be able to make their own decisions about their body. I don’t think being a feminist contradicts the sugar baby life at all, standing for what you think is right doesn’t have to contradict your way of life or your preferences, it just adds another special thing about your personality.

2023-03-05

Sugar Baby / 26

Yes, I consider myself a feminist. It’s a huge debate whether you can be a feminist and a sugar baby, but being a feminist means empowering women to feel comfortable doing what they want without judgement! Some women don’t want to be sugar babies and want to do it all on their own. Some women are conservative. Some women are comfortable sharing their bodies or indulging in the sugar baby life. All of this is fine! No matter the woman you are and how you choose to live your life, you can be a feminist! All you have to do to be considered a feminist is to identify as one and to be active in pursuing the equal rights of all.

2023-03-06

Sugar Baby / 28

being a sugar baby and being a feminist are not correlating ideas, one does not affect the other. being a feminist is the belief that we should all be treated equally and have the same choices in life. I am a SB and a feminist. I love being an SB and to do it you need to have that respect and be able to be a sure footed woman to find the right SD/SM!

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 35

Yes! I am definitely a feminist - and I do think that sugaring is more than acceptable and in line with feminist values. Sugaring can be empowering and as long as the people doing it adhere to safe and consensual arrangements, there's nothing wrong with it at all. It's rather anti-feminist to suggest that one's own values should dictate how other people run their own lives, so even if I did have a problem with sugaring, I wouldn't make it anyone else's problem but my own.

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 26

Being a feminist means believing in equal rights in my opinion and having control over your own body. To be able to do whatever you please without being judge. You can believe in those things and still be a sugar baby because you want to. Being a sugar baby is a choice you make it that deserves to be respected, it your body and your decision. March in the parade for feminism and be freaky behind the curtain. Respect yourself and no one else will matter.

2023-03-07

Sugar Baby / 33

Absolutely. Feminism is about equality. For everyone, the freedom to choose what you do with yourself in your own life! The freedom of choice to be in a sugar daddy and baby relationship if you want to. If two consenting adults are doing what they consented to then there shouldn't be an issue since only the people involved are the only ones whose business it is. :)

2023-03-09

Sugar Baby / 28

I am a feminist and, to me, being a Sugaring does not conflict with feminist beliefs as it is consensual and caters in every way that a traditional relationship might. If it was a disrespectful or non-consensual relationship, then I would change my stance, but the freedom for both men and women to choose is what makes Sugaring align with my feminist beliefs.

2023-03-10

Sugar Baby / 26

I do consider myself to be a feminist because I avidly fight for equality between all people no matter what race, religion, background, and gender. The way I see it, being a sugar baby is a way for me to take control of my life in a way. I get to choose my arrangments, who I want an arrangment with, and I get paid. It's like dating but with more gifts

2023-03-11

Sugar Baby / 32

I agree that woman should have equal rights and i respect feminists but i dont know much about it so i dont consider myself a feminist. I am very submissive and I love when my man is the boss, I love if he makes more money than me and has power over me i think its sexy and i wouldnt want to have power over him but i respect feminists and i have nothing against it

2023-03-11

Sugar Baby / 27

I absolutely consider myself a feminist. I believe every person no matter their gender/race/age/orientation deserves equality. And among the many things feminism stands for is the right for a women to chose what she wants to do with her life without scrutiny. Even in the sugar dating world there is much more stigma on the SB's part than on the SD's. I don't think it is contradictory to be a feminist and a sugar baby, I think these two things go hand in hand. This lifestyle is MY choice and I am very happy with this choice

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 35

I consider myself more of a womanist than a feminist. I find modern day feminism to be very white, middle class, and suffocating. I feel like I’m constantly expected to educate them about the world outside of their bubble and that different people experience different things. I identify with womanism more because it focuses on the intersections of race, class and womanhood. I do not believe it is contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist (in my case womanist) because it’s about choice. It empowers to me to be beautiful. Growing up hearing things like “you’re pretty, for a black girl,” it feels good to me to be desired. I love it when men to want me so bad they’ll do anything to have me. I love being as femme as I can afford. I want to rebel against the stereotype of strong, independent black woman that is constantly impressed upon me. I want to be demure, I want to be vulnerable, I want to be taken care of. I find beauty in submission, but the man I am submitting to must be able to lead and provide. Most men my age want women who will coddle them and baby them. Men my age are lazy. I don’t want to be a mammy, I want to a baby doll. I can believe in the empowerment of women and still want to be submissive for daddy because as long as everything is consensual and I am making my own decisions, that should be what feminism is all about.

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself as a feminist... and feminism and sugar-work have nothing in common.... feminism is not women running the world... its about equality between genders.... doing sugar-work is like a service, not the sexual kind, just service in general, like how a barber cuts your hair, thats a service, doing sugar-work is a service, can you can pay or be paid for that

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 26

Feminism is the meaning of men and women as being equals so I don't consider the thought of being a sugar baby and a feminist to intertwine because I see many sugar baby boys and females so there's equal there if in the long run were getting taken care of by someone willing to pay us for their company. Feminism doesn't really matter to the sugar business imo.

2023-03-12

Sugar Baby / 28

I genuinely feel like a feminist. I don’t Need a sugar daddy to take care of me or pay my bills. It’s really nice to be spoiled by an older man who knows how to treat women though. That’s probably why I enjoy being a sugar baby. Some of the men I’ve come into contact with have been absolutely amazing with teaching me new life skills while also treating me with dinners and gifts.

2023-03-14

Sugar Baby / 31

I am a feminist and a sugar baby. Everyone is allowed to do anything with their body and as long as a relationship is consensual and healthy then there is nothing wrong with it. I don’t see why it would be contradictory to be both. Feminism empowers me to have the confidence to say what I will and won’t do with my life. I have the freedom to do as I will just as any other person does.

2023-03-14

Sugar Baby / 26

Well, No they don't contradict each other as feminism is not only about women empowerment or something like that. It's about equality. It's like if a boy wants to be a sugar boy and a lady wants to be a sugar mom it should be equally accepted by the society. Being in a sugary relationship doesn't harms feminism as it's just like getting paid for making someone happy.

2023-03-15

Sugar Baby / 25

I do consider myself a feminist and a sugar baby. I don’t these have any relation to each other at all though. I’m not degrading myself by asking for money for services, if anything I’m showing that I’m proud of myself in both my apperance and personality. Feminism is wanting equal rights for women and men. Feminism is not saying that females are better than men. Its saying we should have equality. I can want equal rights for women and still make money in this industry.

2023-03-15

Sugar Baby / 26

it’s not contradictory at all! you can love women’s and the whole movement but love getting money and dick at the same time! haha! am i right ladies? i’m right. so basically what i’m trying to say is that you can be whatever you want to be, heck be a liberal conservative!!! lmaololol!!! i am! hahhahahahahaha love you all if you need any advice ask me!

2023-03-15

Sugar Baby / 25

With use of the literal definition: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. I feel like being a feminist & a sugar baby is contradictory. If one party has to work smart for their assets, the other party should work with the same effort. Depending on someone to receive said assets eradicates the established principle. On the other hand, women should rely on themselves without having to stand behind a movement.

2023-03-16

Sugar Baby / 25

I do believe myself to be a feminis but not for the reason that I think men should carter to a women's every need but have the chance to be treated a a equal towards men. But, If we have the chance to be a SB then we can we should take the chance to be treated with respect and spoiled like princess. It's not degrading we have the power to say no to anything we want and and should be respected.

2023-03-16

Sugar Baby / 32

I am definitely a feminist, but I don’t see how you can’t be both a sugar baby and a feminist. Feminism is about allowing women to be who they want to be, whether that’s a homemaker or a CEO. Sugaring also requires an underlying element of equality and trust, otherwise a daddy wouldn’t respect you. I absolutely demand respect and equality as a baseline. However, what happens in the bedroom is a completely different story. The important thing is that in the end, what I want and need is respected.

2023-03-17

Sugar Baby / 25

I consider myself a feminist, yes. it’s important that we have a say in the world along with equal treatment. feminism means 👱🏼‍♂️=👩🏼, not 👱🏼‍♂️<👩🏼 . it’s not contradictory to be a feminist and a sugar baby. I 100% believe in working hard for my own well-being, but even working 2.5 jobs and attending school, it just doesn’t cut it. that’s where the help of a sugar daddy can come in and help support you as well. sometimes, a girl just needs a little help.

2023-03-17

Sugar Baby / 27

I consider my self a feminist and I think that being a sugar baby makes me even more of one . Being a feminist (to me) is all about choice (choice choice choice ) and giving women the right to chose what they want to or do not want to do with their body. People have this preconceived notion that to be a feminist you have to work go to school and not get married or where bras or let guys open doors for you but that’s all wrong . They deserve and want the option to chose what ever they want to do with out a mans opinion being formed .

2023-03-18

Sugar Baby / 29

YES I'm a feminist NO it's not contradictory. Female empowerment means allowing women to do whatever they want without restricting their freedom. Feminism works both ways and we should support women whether they want to be a doctor, a housewife, a sugar baby... do men get that kind of pressure placed on them? No!! Let's support and uplift each other

2023-03-18

Sugar Baby / 35

No, I don’t consider myself a feminist, I believe in Both sexes being equal. I think feminism has a bad rap, crazy women acting like men are the root to all evil on this planet. Sure, some men are bad, but some women are bad as well so it’s no fair to act like one gender is superior. I know that at it’s core feminism is about equity, but the way it has been presented lately, I don’t want to suport it.

2023-03-19

Sugar Baby / 25

I think the idea that a sugar baby can't be a feminist is absurd bc intersections feminism teaches all people should be able to live their life loving what they do as long it's not harmful to another persons life or a a existence. And something, like being a sugar baby, should be respected because it's just some ones way of living life. I'm not comparing the two but its like how people argue that sex workers can't be feminist because they don't respect there bodies enough. And just because there work deals with sex and theirs bodies doesn't mean there's no respect it just means that they found there own way of living.

2023-03-19

Sugar Baby / 28

I as a boy am a feminist because I do believe we live in a world ruled by men whether it's a regular job, entertainment/music Industry men tend to get away with bad behavior and actions while woman tend to face the criticism, so although we have come a long way in these past decades with woman having more opportunities as men had I still believe there's more respect to be shown for independent women. As a sugar baby I find no contradiction or problem being both a feminist and sugar baby because both can be powerful, strong women can be independent and so can a sugar baby some of us just choose to depend on extra help from a man, not because we aren't worth standing on our own but because some of us can use an extra hand to feel confident.

2023-03-19

Sugar Baby / 29

I absolutely100% identify as a feminist. I don’t believe it is contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist at the same time, but in my opinion it depends on your motives and what kind of relationships you have with your sugar daddies. If you are having sexual relationships with sugar daddies for cash because you believe that that is the only useful thing about yourself, then it would be contradictory. For me however, I am not necessarily looking for anything sexual nor do I believe that I have to subject myself to anything sexual to be worth being supported financially by a daddy. I am mostly interested in creating meaningful connections. I want an older, successful gentleman to see that I am a hard worker, I just could use a little extra help getting there right now because I’m in school and can only work part time, but that I am still independent and strong.

2023-03-19