Be a Sugar Baby and Feminist at the Same Time - 5
370 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 27
Even though I am a sugar baby I am still a feminist. I am a happy successful and independent women who believes in equal rights. Neither men or women NEED each other to rely on but some still want love, even though you (may) be restricting yourself to one person you should still want to be able to feel the aspect of loving and being loved just as you should “love everyone” in the feminist aspect
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 32
I am a feminist, yes. There is no contradiction. The whole point of feminism is giving women the right to choose their lives. To choose to vote and for whom to vote for, to choose to marry or stay single, to choose any career that we desire, to choose to be a stay at home mom, to choose birth or abortion or adoption, to choose who we have sex with and under what circumstances. Choosing to be a sugar baby is just another of those choices. Life is hard, and finding a way to make it easier and have fun is a great choice to make. I have heard people talk about sugar babies and daddies aa if women are unjustly controlling men with sex, but it's not like that. It's an even, equivalent exchange that is agreed to by both parties. It's honest, consensual, and like everything else, just a choice.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes, absolutely. I 100% consider myself a feminist. And no, it's not contradictory. Women are allowed to express themselves however they please and it's not always about being independent to be a feminist, it's about expressing yourself as a woman and not letting anyone treat you like shit for it. And anyone who badgers and berates a woman for being a sugar baby is being unfeminist.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 29
I do not consider myself to be a feminist. I don't like to label people or beliefs. I do believe, though, that women should be treated with the same amount of respect that a man gets. This does not contradict my sugar baby ways, though. We may be seen as submissive, but we are highly respected by our daddies, and the relationship is equal, in terms of what each partner wants.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 27
I think being a suger baby and a feminist is completely possible. Being a feminist means you take pride in being a woman and being equal. Being a suger baby doesnt mean you dont want equality, you want to find someone with stability that you can grow with and have appreciate you as much as you do them. In any relationship you with being a feminist you want to feel equal to your parter so suger babying should be no different.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 39
I consider myself a feminist because of my past. I have overcome many battles with abuse so I would set a fine line between what most people think sd would be and what the reality of him would be. Respect is the main component of this type of arrangement. In addition is trust, so if there is both of those in relationship with my sd the result is nothing contradicting to be being a feminist. Woman are beautiful creatures that should be appreciated not disrespected.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 28
I’m a feminist. I believe that women should have equal rights as men. In Sweden (where I live) it is very balanced. But that’s only on paper. I’m a feminist who wants women to be able to walk alone. And yes of course you can be a sugar babe and a feminist. Because I believe men and women should have equal rights doesn’t mean I can let someone treat me well? And if both parts enjoy it why complain?? People have to stop looking for something to whine about and fix the unequal problems that are current! Period.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 32
I am a feminist to the core. I believe that however a woman chooses to live her life is her prerogative, and that double standards of what's socially acceptable behavior of a woman v. a man is outdated and completely hypocritical. I believe wholeheartedly that you can be both a feminist and a sugar baby. For example, I have a full time career that affords me a wonderful lifestyle, that I work for independently. However, having a companion that is fiscally stable, independent, I can travel with, have intellectual conversations with, and connect to is what I'm seeking. Men (or boys shall I say) at my age have difficult providing this type of relationship for me, so seeking older established men is what I am doing.
2023-02-01
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do consider myself a feminist because feminism is the belief that both genders are equal and deserve to be treated as such. Being a sugar baby isn’t putting myself in a contradictory position, because anyone can be a sugar baby, and it’s the same for anyone who is a sugar daddy/momma. I believe that as a female i should be treated equally and justly, but i also believe that males should be treated the same.
2023-02-02
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’m definitely a feminist, to me it’s all about having equal opportunities regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race or ethnicity, religion or any other label. Being a feminist is about embracing who you are and celebrating it. Being a sugar baby is part of who I am just like my hair or eye color and it should be accepted as a part of me not demonized.
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 33
No I’m not a feminist they annoy the shit out of me first of all are You guys even on the same page because I hear all different type of shit I know this one girl that’s a feminist but she would put naked pics up and downgrade herself a lot so I never really knew the right definition to feminist women equal rights I understand but u will never be equal to a man 🤷🏽♀️
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 29
Of course I’m a feminist. It’s not contradictory to be a SB and a feminist because you are embracing your right to do as you please with your body and maybe your sexuality as well. Sexual freedom is a huge part of feminism to me because being free in this way defies what society thinks a proper woman should be. I’m not only incredibly sexy, but very intelligent and we should be loked at more wholistically and not shamed for acting on or urges the same way as men.
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 35
As a feminist is simply someone who believes that men and women are equal- of course I’m a feminist. And the idea that believing that being a sugar baby and being a feminist are somehow mutually exclusive is absurd and showcases a lack of understanding of the core tenets of feminism. It’s also pushing the false belief that only women can be sugar babies which is not the case.
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do believe that males and females should be treated equally and I feel like being a sugar baby also encourages that. Females and males can come on here and look for a SB/SD without feeling judged or feeling like they have to live up to a certain standard. Being a SB, for me, shows that women can go and search for someone romantically just as men can.
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 27
I am a feminist, meaning I am for the equality of both sexes. Being a sugar baby is even more empowering and reinforces the point feminism is trying to get across. I’m an adult, I am a woman, this is my decision not yours, I am completely comfortable. Case closed. If it seems I am as though being a sugar baby and feminism don’t coincide, imagine living in a world where being a sugar baby was illegal.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don't consider myself a feminist as feminism has taken a completely different turn when it comes to the extreme feminists such as 'feminazis', but I do consider myself an equalist and a woman empowerer. Girls don't get sugar daddies because they can't support thenselves. They don't get them cause they lack self respect or are considered "whores". Girls get sugar daddies because they enjoy it, so I don't think being a feminist contradicts with being a sugar baby.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 29
I would consider myself a feminist because I feel as if women are constantly looked down on in anything they do like in their careers and everyday life. Everyone wants to be treated equal there shouldn’t be this double standard to everything. Being a sugar baby does not go against my femininity, being a sugar baby is my choice in life and doesn’t need approval from anyone without sugar babies their wouldn’t be and sugar daddies and that’s a lot of money going to waste lol
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 25
Feminism is about choice to me, and this is what i choose to do. I'm not forcing others to do this too, so I think I still fit feminist criteria, along with being a sugar baby. Because I made this choice, and my choosing this isn't taking the option of a choice away from other people. Plus, I'm not playing into the "traditional" roles in a relation, either. I'm looking for a sugar mommy, not a daddy
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 27
Being a feminist means believing in equal rights for everyone. Sugars are included in the category of everyone. Anyone who thinks being a feminist is just about making women stronger is not a true feminist. They're ignorant and usually bully others. I'm a feminist and I believe sugars should live however they want. As a baby, I believe we should all be able to live how we want without being discriminated against.
2023-02-07
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Sugar Baby / 29
I haven’t actively identified as a feminist since I was about 18, purely because of the radicalisation of the ideology. However I will always be a feminist who fights for the rights of women to do whatever they want whenever they want with whomever they want. If a woman wants to have a sugar daddy, society should let her. If a woman wants to have 10 sugar daddies let her because she’s doing what she wants and she’s doing it for herself. Well, at least I am
2023-02-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes I consider myself a feminist, and being a Sugar Baby does not make me any less of one. This is my choice to participate, this is my choice to reach out to someone. And if anything I personally feel this honors feminism. Strong women going out into the world, confident in themselves, and getting that money. Intamacy isn’t always a factor in being a Sugar Baby, and in the situations that it applies, sex work is not degrading and shouldn’t be considered as such.
2023-02-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
I do consider myself to be a feminist. I believe that I have the right to make my own decisions. If there is a case I am uncomfortable with then I know I have the power to stop or continue as I please. Being a sugar baby dies not make me less of a women, it does not make me habe altered morals. I simple do what I have to do, and enjoy meeting new people in the process.
2023-02-09
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Sugar Baby / 29
I am not a feminist. Even if i was thinking would not be against being one. I do not label my self to any group mow will I ever. Though, in return if I was I could still do this because this literally has nothing to do with equality. Men and woman are on both sides of the "sugar" stuff. There is nothing wrong with being on either side and others need to notice that.
2023-02-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
I consider myself to be a feminist as I care about woman being treated equally in society and for the world to respect us for who we are, I don’t believe that being a Sugar Baby will in any way belittle by feminist beliefs because part of feminism is for women to be able to express themselves sexually the way men do and not be shot down for it, we should be able to be respected no matter what we do with our bodies
2023-02-10
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Sugar Baby / 25
I would say as long as you have agency over yourself there is no reason you can't call yourself a feminist. Feminism is about bridging the socio-established gap between the public standing between men and women. I personally think it is kind of anti-feminist to denigrate another woman and detract from the validity of her feminism because of where she gets her money!
2023-02-10
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Sugar Baby / 30
I am a feminist & I feel no shame being here in the sugar bowl. Feminism is about fighting for women's rights so that they are free to do as they please with their lives and bodies. Being a sugar baby/mommy/daddy doesn't hurt anyone and is mutually beneficial. I've learned so much as a sugar baby and I've enjoyed most of my experiences. Women should support women so long as they aren't bringing harm to others and that's what I stand by sugaring.
2023-02-11
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Sugar Baby / 36
I am absolutely a feminist. I think the idea that you can’t be a feminist if you’ve decided to take control of your finances through your looks, personality or sexuality is the exact opposite of being a feminist. The idea Is equality and the decision that I get to make about my own body and whatever I want to do with it. I think if anyone argues otherwise, they are not feminist or progressive.
2023-02-11
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Sugar Baby / 26
I domt believe it is contradictory to be a feminist and a sugar baby. Being a baby is about confidence and about owning your sexuality. Women are growing confident and finding their own ways of being successful. Feminism doesnt always mean women getting ahead in a workplace. It can be about making your own workplace. I think it is belittling for someone to judge sugar babies like that.
2023-02-12
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Sugar Baby / 26
yes. im a feminist but don’t think being a sugar baby is going against my femenista mentality. i believe that being a sugar baby is a job. many believe that being a sugar baby is a sign of weakness when in reality it is not. it takes guts to the these things. only the brave can survive haha. i will remain feminist and nobody can change that. equal rights for everybody (:
2023-02-12
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Sugar Baby / 25
Of course I'm a feminist, but does that mean that providing comfort and affection to someone is contradictory? Absolutely not! There are male sugar babies and female sugar mommies. This is a choice, not an expectation or social standard that we are being forced to undertake. Feminism is a very subjective construct, but I personally don't believe the two are contradictory
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
I personally am a feminist, naturally I think men and women should be equal. Being a sugar baby isn’t saying that men or women are superior, it’s just allowing someone to spoil you and it’s a great way to build relationships and connections. Real feminists will agree that this is just another form of relations rather than something that goes against feminism
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 29
I definitely consider myself to be a feminist! Part of being a feminist is respecting every woman’s choice regarding what they choose to do for themselves. Whether it be careers they choose to pursue or what they choose to do with their bodies, it is entirely up to her and nobody else has the right to tell them to do otherwise. At the end of the day, it’s the woman’s choice and I am choosing to do this for myself!
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 37
I do very much consider myself a feminists especially since one of my 2 companies involves me empowering women daily. I honestly do not consider being a sugar baby contradictory in the least. I view as the opposite in fact. Women who choose to be sugar babies are empowering themselves, they are thing control over their life, they are going after what they want. They're breaking away from the norm and paving their own path.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 31
I believe I am a feminist because I want equality amongst genders. I don’t think being a sugar baby and being a feminist clash. I’ve had several relationships where I was the sole provider or money and pleasure and got very little in return. I think it’s only fair that women can play any role they wish as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else. Being a sugar baby is fun and if a woman wants to have a relationship with a sugar daddy, let her live!
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 25
I consider myself a feminist. I’m getting paid for my time and I find that quite fair. Sugaring isn’t a women only thing, there are male sb and Sm. I get paid for my service just as everyone else. Instagram models, YouTubers, and twitch streamers also get paid for their services, which all happen to be unconventional. I find it more than fair and equal. And being a feminist is about equality.
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
I absolutely consider myself a feminist. You can 100% be a sugar baby and a feminist, because you are making the decision to go out and do this on your own free will. You are taking control of your body and actions and doing as you please, which is empowering. Sure, you’ll get money for it. Sure, you may be put in a sexual situation. However, through all of this you have the explicit right to say no, to back out, etc. You’re being a sugar baby because you choose to be. For me it’s an empowering lifestyle, and I 100% believe that feminism and sugar babying can go hand in hand.
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 41
I absolutely consider myself feminist. I believe that women have come such a long way in the world and that it's absolutely beautiful to be progressive enough to be able to be sexy and up front with what we desire. Women no longer have to bury feelings about sex and wants and needs. Everyone may not be into the method and I don't mean to say that it has to be public knowledge, but it's amazing that technology brings us to a place where we can seek those who see things the way we do.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
This is simply taking advantage of our capitalistic and testosterone driven society. I see nothin anti-feminist about it. I find myself to question if this is the most anti-feminist act, because it is women taking back the power in a way. We have co tell of our own lives and can do what we want with our bodies. Men simply decide that we are actually worth it enough to provide us with the funds to do what we deserve to be doing.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
I consider myself to be a partial feminist. I believe women deserve equal rights and such, but I still tend to be quite submissive when in a relationship with anyone. Its kinda contradictory to accept a man's money for pics or whatever he asks in return and go around preaching that women deserve equality, and even some compensation for what has happened in the past.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do consider myself being a feminist and I honestly don’t see what the big deal is about also being a sugar baby. Isn’t being a feminist all about the beliefs that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities, so why shouldn’t I be allowed to be a sugar baby without people judging my actions and looking down on me for calling myself a « feminist » and doing this at the same time? I don’t see what the big hype is all about anyways
2023-02-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
I am one hundred and ten percent a feminist. I full heartedly believe that women should be respected and given equal rights. In my mind, being a Sugar baby does not contradict this. I have the right to be open and honest about my sexuality. I should also be allowed to choose my way of earning money, as long as it is safe and non-harmful. Being a sugar baby empowers me. It is not for everyone but the opportunity to be different and express said differences falls in line with my feminist values
2023-02-18
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Sugar Baby / 30
Im feminist. Be a feminist give to you the power of choices. If you really like to be a sugar baby, that's ok. Actually so many people like to judge your choices because you're feminist and they try control your life. I Want to be a free woman and do everything i can, no matter what people think about it. That's the better way to be free and feminist
2023-02-19
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Sugar Baby / 28
I am a strong feminist. Being a sugar baby does not contradict yourself at all. It is completely of my own free will that I am on this site, open to what it has to offer. Feminism is fighting for equal rights for BOTH women AND men!! If you feel comfortable doing what you are, do not let anyone’s opinions or judges remarks sway you. Feminists need a little help too daddies. :)
2023-02-19
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do consider myself a feminist.. I actually identify as lesbian😊 being a sugar baby is empowering for me bc it makes me feel like I took back my power. I might as well be payed to be played by dudes! Im a young girl, single w no kids so I believe I should be able to live the life I desire based on that fact alone. Theres always a daddy out there willing to break his bank for the perfect girl! And we're ALL perfect😘
2023-02-19
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do consider myself a feminist, and being a feminist is accepting your body and your sexuality as it is. Sex is just an enjoing act as it is and we should not be asheamed to express ourself or our sexulaity, we as womens have all the rights that men has to enjoy the simple pleasures in life. As simple as that we have all the rights that man has, even to make sex with or without money.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes I am a feminist. I believe everyone should be economically and socially free to pursue their passions and dreams. Today's capitalist system does not allow for this and many are suffering. One way I can be free and enjoy myself is being spoiled and wanted. I see it as redistrubution of wealth and possibility. Therefor I am a feminist, socialist and realist who uses the systems that rule out world.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
I’m definitely a feminist but I don’t see why being a sugar baby as a contradiction. Feminism is about equality. I think women should be able to live how they want with no judgement. I find it crazy that people just want to judge before they try anything. People need to be more accepting and less judgmental. But that’s all I can hope for. People do not like change.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
I consider myself to be a intersectional feminist which means I fight for all intersections and acknowledge how intersections affect marginalized groups. I don’t think it is contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist because as long you do not shame someone else for what they do with their sugar daddy/sugar mommy/sugar partner, and fighting for the protection of sugar babies then you can be that feminist.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 33
Feminism has nothing to do with how you treat people whether male or female. So me being a feminist does not mean I can't submit to my man. It simply means I understand the role a female plays in our society and I will do everything in my power to express that. When we carry ourselves with dignity and respect we instantly stand out, to me thats It.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
I don’t specifically use the label feminist, and that’s only because i feel that it’s more accurate to say that I’m an egalitarian. See feminism is just a specific word to refer to women’s rights, when in reality it’s actual purpose/definition is suppose to be equal rights for everyone. Just because you’re a SB doesn’t mean you don’t have the right to vote, or the right to own a fire arm etc. Unless you’re a terrorist, an actual unremoresful criminal, or if you’re partial to random violent/dangerous psychotic episodes then your lifestyle shouldn’t prevent you from having basic human rights.
2023-02-21