Be a Sugar Baby and Feminist at the Same Time - 4
370 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 28
I consider myself to be feminist. Sometimes it contradicts, and sometimes it does not. I have goals to make a life for myself, I just need some help. Life is expesnsive right now. There’s a fine line I believe. But I know it can go both ways, sugar mamas do exist. Whether a sugar baby is male or female they must be respected as individuals, and then it is okay.
2023-01-16
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Sugar Baby / 25
I can't say if I am a feminist with '' the whole team '', because I believe that I still have to learn and analyze several things to appropriate the battle. Although you could say that I am a lil feminist. In my point of view there is nothing wrong because it is my body and my decision if I want to 'depend' on my daddy because I'm clear about the kind of woman I am and the kind of decisions I wanna do
2023-01-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
I consider myself to be a feminist, just not the ones you always see on media. I’m a quiet one that knows not to judge others. I believe that being a sugar baby is a great thing because you are able to own your body and your self and your worth. You don’t have to deal with people treating you badly and you are often treated like a queen. I believe it’s a beautiful thing.
2023-01-16
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Sugar Baby / 26
I am completely, 100% a feminist. As a women, we can do anything and if this is a way of living for some, why not? A guy is never frowned upon when he has been around the block hundred of times, why are women frowned upon for liking a certain snapchat filter, trend, music, etc? I believe in equality for all, no matter the gender and if a guy OR girl wanted to be a sugar baby.. so be it.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
Most would of course consider themselves feminists only because thats what is deemed acceptable and if your not a feminist you hate women or are a hypocrite or ignorant. Being a feminist in my opinion is highly ignorant. So no i dont consider myself a feminist and i never will consider myself a feminist. But to answer the second question, no its not hypocritical to be a sugar and a feminist because both parties involved are being exploited. So its equal.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 54
Hmmmm, I've NEVER thought about that! LOL. But, YES, I absolutely agree....on an intellectual basis, of course! As far as physical labor involving sweat and dirt.....that's not for me. Nor am I on a campaign to tell other women how to live or what to expect as a woman. BUT, I often refer to myself as an Alpha Bitch, because I'm a well-educated, ambitious mover and a shaker, who LOVES FUN by far over work, but since I'm not an heiress, I'll just handle my biz!
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do consider myself a feminist. And in my opinion, the idea of feminism has been seen as an independent, man hater, but that's not the case. Feminism is simply a type of equality movement centered around women. It's often confused with misandry, which is hating men. Feminism is not being a single business woman that can do it all by herself. Feminism is if you want to be a single businesswoman with no kids, that's fine. It doesn't make you less of a woman. Being a housewife or a sugar baby in turn does not make you less of a feminist. Because the whole point of feminism is for women to have life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness just as easy as a man does in society
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 33
I consider myself a feminist, and no I dont think its contradictory to be a sugar anf still be a feminist. For me feminism is wanting and advocating for equal rights of men and women. A woman who pursues being a stay at home mom is just as much a feminist as a working women, and the same can be said for sugar. Being a feminist is about livjng your beat life and encouraging others to do the same
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 32
As long as everything involved is consensual, I don't see it as being either feminist or anti-feminist. It’s not ‘anti feminist’ in that nobody is being coerced into it and either side is free to quit at any time. Both parties are getting something they want out of the deal, and it is their choice to prioritise the exchange of superficial things if they want to.
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I do consider myself to be a feminist and no I don’t think it’s a contradiction. It’s not like you rely on your sugar daddy to pay your bills, they aren’t the only way you can get by. I think it’s empowering to be a sugar baby above all because of the power dynamics in the relationship. You provide a service and they pay you accordingly just like any other job.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
Of course I’m a feminist! My sugaring has nothing to do with what I believe in. As long as I am in a consensual and respectful arrangement, It will not contradict anything. It’s all about women empowerment but at the same time not tearing down men or other genders in the process of doing what you want and what you think is best for you to do at the moment.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I would consider myself feminist. Not a militant feminist, but a feminist nonetheless. Feminism to me is about allowing everyone regardless of gender, race, sexuality, ability, religion or anything else to determine who they are, what they want, and be allowed the opportunity to persue that. I am myself, I know what I want, and what I want is someone willing to help me out financially and give me attention, someone I can trust and someone who trusts me. If I find someone who fits that bill, we both know what we want and are persuing it. Definition of feminism.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, I am a feminist. Feminism is the equality of men and women. I do not think being a sugar baby goes against that belief. Even though I depend on others for financial assistance, I still put in the same amount,if not more, effort than someone else who is on the same playing field as me. I just seek a different way of attraction and a different source of income compared to others, that is all. I am still the same sassy, educated female as when I am not a sugar baby.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 30
I think it is perfectly okay to be a sugar baby and still be considered a femenist. A woman must go after what she desires in life and should be able to make her own decisions and fend for herself. While sugar babying can seem like a fairly passive approach to this, it is arguably just as much a career as any other person may work their whole lives for.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 41
I do identify as a feminist but I do not feel like that affects my being a sugar baby. Ultimately, as with any relationship, both parties involved have a say on everything. If a man tried to tell me I had to do something that I was uncomfortable with or did not want to do, I would stand up for myself and make my own decision, even if that would mean ending the relationship.
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 30
I do consider myself a feminist, and it is absolutely not contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist. I’ve worked hard and continue to work hard, but if someone wants to take care of me, I’m going to let them. I’ve had multiple relationships before where I provided free emotional labor and more to men. I’m over that; pay me for my time and effort.
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 36
I am absolutely a feminist! I believe in equality of the sexes, not only equality for women but for men, too. Women should be able to do whateber they want with their bodies and lives and not be made to feel lesser for it. Men should be able to express their emotions and pursue home-centered lives and not be shamed for it. Being a sugar baby is just another choice in life; everyone is a consenting adult, and its an equal partnership - nothing antifeminist about it!
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 27
Feminism in the current day has it's priorities so twisted, it makes me ashamed to say I am one. I totally support equal pay, and equal rights. I also support woman in high positions who know what they are doing. Lately, the woman of this century have soiled the beautiful thing feminism where we want to equal as men, not better than them. What's the point of being equal if you constantly be little the other gender?
2023-01-21
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes i consider myself a feminist and for me this isn’t contradicting to my beliefs. A woman is powerful and strong and wise enough to take on her own way of making money and if this is my way then so be it. There is nothing wrong with showing some love and care to someone who needs it and deserves it. Feminism is about equality and i just want everyone to feel equally loved like i do.
2023-01-21
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Sugar Baby / 27
NOT AT ALL! I believe that if someone is out there who wants to give me this lifestyle in exchange for a healthy happy relationship I would love to be there for him!!! I look at it like a job market that isn't being seen as real but it is!! It's not like sugar babys are forcing anybody to pay for them or feel like we deserve this lifestyle we EARN it whether it's obvious or not
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
I do consider myself to be a feminist. I do not think it’s contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist. The definition of feminism is the belief that women are equal to men politically, socially, and economically which I feel has nothing to do with being a sugar baby. I know that I could go out and get an actual job to make money and that I don’t necessarily need the support of a man or daddy to be stable in life.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
I don’t agree with the whole concept of “feminism”. The original idea was to be equal but it has been taken further and become more about female power. I believe I’m an equalist but this doesn’t make me less of who I am beside I believe that within feminism and equalism all we are looking for is respect. To be who we want, to do what we want and not get questioned for it.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
I am a feminist. I believe in equal rights and that we shouldn’t have to get permission from somebody else for our own body. I feel that sugaring doesn’t contradict being a feminist, as women should be able to do whatever they want, just like men can, because being a sugar baby doesn’t really effect being a feminist, as long as you aren’t hurting other women in the process.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 31
I definitely consider myself a feminist, the fact that I also indetify as a sugar baby doesnt detract from my view that women deserve equal pay internationally, that sexual health care should be available internationally and that men and women socially and economically, should be equal. My personal preference with romantic or sexual lovers, be it a SD or a boyfriend is to be dominated and that's where my kink is. I feel protected and treasured when a good daddy is taking care of me and a big part of feminism for me personally, is living in a world where I am free to make that choice for myself and be able to express it without fear of punishment or repercussion.
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
This question is one that i have to answer often because i am in fact a feminist all the way! Now why would a feminist do such thing? Well i believe that every women can decide over her own body and no one has the right to criticize her for what she does with it. If the person isn't pressured into it or does it to actually survive it's fine. If it's all fun and games why would anyone disagree? it's not hurting nobody. I understand that with the history of prostitution this can be hard to accept but being a sugar baby and a prostitute is not the same!
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 25
I am a feminist yes. Although I am clearly not against sugar daddies / sugar babies. Being a feminist is about equal rights and women's freedom. And being a woman, I should be allowed the freedom to live as I please and if that's being a sugar baby, then so be it. It doesn't make me any less of a person, nor does it make me less of a feminist. Women stand together and us sugar babies are a community
2023-01-23
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Sugar Baby / 28
I do consider myself to be a feminist, I fully believe in a women's right to do whatever makes her happy, obviously as long as no one else gets hurt. I don't think it's contradictory to be a feminist and a sugar baby because feminism is about having the right to choose and I chose to do this because I enjoy it and it makes me happy and enjoy making my own money.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 37
I think it would make me a bit of a fool as a woman, to not be a feminist to some degree. There are so many strong women that have fought for my rights that I have now as a woman. For me feminism is just embracing that both men and women are equal. I enjoy compliments and nice things and don't think a man is degrading me for doing so. That is silly
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes I consider myself a feminist and I also believe that peanuts sugar baby does not contradict being a feminist I women get equal pay for equal work or doesn't madness sense for us to get paid less and still have to come home and cook and clean I believe the man sound also try to help out in those areas as well we should be able to spoil each other. I also feel that society aldi should stop shaming women for being open with their sexuality both men and women can be hoes and just because a women is open and not vanilla in the bedroom doesn't make her a how. Equality. Just do it.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 41
Im pro womens rights all day! At the same time i have no problem being a suar baby. At least a SD actually can and will help me in my situation. Dont get me wrong im doing fine. Im a survivor but i dont want to just simply survive i want to thrive. My boys deserve better and their future is my main priority. I just want to have something to leave them when im gone. Id rather have a man that would spoil me instead of use me draining me of life.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
I wouldn’t say I consider myself a feminist. I would say I’m a womanist and being a sugar baby falls right in line with that. You see a womanist is a form of feminism that acknowledges women’s NATURAL contributions to society. And what pray tell is more natural than what a sugar baby is. Women are going to do these things anyways it’s so in short there’s no contraindications.
2023-01-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
I personally think everyone— man, woman and non-binary, should be feminist. Our history as humans is sad and hard to look at. The way women in society have grown because of the sacrifices made by the suffragettes is the thing I’m most proud of. To paint a picture, women were once used for the sake of reproduction, for cleaning and cooking, not allowed to share their opinions and in cases of separation, the men had custody over the child without question. We’ve come an extremely long way and for that, I am thankful for. Everyone should believe that women and men are equal. Being a sugar baby shouldn’t jeopardize the ability to proudly own that title. Being dependent on someone, a sugar daddy, financially as long as it’s a choice and not forced upon someone, shouldn’t change the fact that one is a feminist, and believes that men and women are equal.
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do consider myself to be a feminist. I believe being a feminist is fighting for women's equal rights but to also fight for women to let them do what they want. Whether it be with their body, their religion, their relationships, etc. So no I don't think being a sugar baby is contradictory because it's something I want. And if I can't be a sugar baby anymore it won't be the end of the world because I am still a strong independent woman. I just choose to "depend" on my daddy.
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 31
I very much consider myself a feminist and no, I dont think it's at all contradictory to be a sugar baby and a feminist at the same time. Feminism is about being strong, sure, secure in your own skin. To be a sugar baby is to be in control while wilfully giving up some aspect of control. It is incredibly empowering to know that I am in control of my own self, and that feminism gives me the power to know that I am never lesser than a man, or woman, because of our stature in life, or roles in a relationship.
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 38
I do believe in women rights and equality , so being a sugar baby doesn't stop us being independent ,I have a career I may can take my self to the Bahamas lol may but I still like having daddy to do nice things for me ! Being a sugar baby for is like a kid in candy ir toy store ! A kid on Christmas morning or their birthday party that's how excited I get when I see my PayPal balance and an airline ticket in my email with a message from daddy😍💋
2023-01-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
do consider myself to be a feminist, I fully believe in a women's right to do whatever makes her happy, obviously as long as no one else gets hurt. I don't think it's contradictory to be a feminist and a sugar baby because feminism is about having the right to choose and I chose to do this because I enjoy it and it makes me happy and enjoy making my own money.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, I am a feminist. I believe in equal right and opportunities for all and believe that everyone has the right to make their own decisions. I don't believe that it's contradicting being a sugar baby and a feminist becasue I'm just exercising that right, and enjoying myself while doing it. Wanting to be spoiled and pampered doesn't change who I am or what I believe in.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I do consider myself a feminist. I believe that women deserve to be treated equally when it comes to work, school, and overall treatment. I am a firm beliver that women are incredibly hard workers and deserve all of the same benefits as men do. I feel as though women and men should be treated equally and have the same benefits and same opportunity’s!
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
I do consider myself to be a feminist. I think that all men and women should be equal, whether it is in the workplace or at school. No one should have better opportunities because of whats in their pants. To me, it doesnt make sense that people who have the same exact job get paid differently because of their gender. So, being a sugar baby shouldn't contradict me being a feminist.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 35
I do Consider myself a feminist and a feminist is someone who has the choice to do what they want with their body identity, if I want to be a housewife, a sugar baby, an astronaut, then that’s my choice and I have the equal right to be any of the above. No one can tell me what my place has to be, except me. To me that is what feminism is. The choice to choose who or what you want to be, rather than it be chosen for you.
2023-01-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
I would still 100% class myself as a feminist, despite the connotations and stereotypes being a sugar baby brings. As a female, you are free to do with your body as you please, and if you choose to become a sugar baby and bring comfort to those who need it, what's wrong with that? It's not contradictory to be a sugar baby, it shows that you as a person have the ability to make that choice of what would make you happiest.
2023-01-27
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Sugar Baby / 42
Feminism is basically supporting women in their personal choices even when you don't agree with them. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. So, yes, I consider myself a feminist. Take no crap but do no harm. There are those who don't agree but oh well, not everyone will always agree with you. And it doesn't matter because it's my life not theirs.
2023-01-27
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Sugar Baby / 26
Being a feminist means you believe in the equal rights and opportunities of people regardless of gender, race, sexuality etc. Being a sugar baby means you’re in a mutually beneficial relationship with a rich individual who financially supports you in return for emotional or physical company. Feminism only comes in if one is being submissive with their daddy, however even then I think it is empowering for sugar babies especially females to gain money through their body in a society which continually degrades women for being sexual beings. Someone can be a sugar baby or daddy and still be a feminist, equal rights has no correlation with sugar baby/daddy relationships unless a relationship becomes abusive.
2023-01-28
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Sugar Baby / 33
Feminism isn't about to let the women be free of their decisions? I think that if one girls wants to get married, have children and stay in the "norm" and another that wants to enjoy her body, her experiences and her sexuality is perfectly the meaning of feminism. Trought history, we've been told what to do and what to think just to follow the rules, to don't enjoy our body, to feel guilty for explore your sexuality... Feminism means the power to decide for once what the hell we want in our life, no matter what others think.
2023-01-28
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do consider myself to be a feminist. I might not be as extreme as many, but I strongly believe in the equality and empowerment of women. In some cases being a sugar baby might be contradictory to the ideals of a feminist. However, the way it should be done is giving a sugar daddy benefits that are equivalent to those of the sugar baby. This is equality which is the principle of feminism.
2023-01-28
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Sugar Baby / 27
For me it is about the empowerment of women, if a women is comfortable with her body and her lifestyle she can do whatever she wants, she has her own mind. i wouldn't define myself as a feminist but I will back any woman who is in charge of herself and knows what she wants. I don't agree with the way feminists sometimes get narrow minded and think that women shouldn't show off their bodies and that it further damages the image of women and that it lets men degrade them further. Women have the power to feel good about their bodies, skin is skin. If men want to lear all over them, that is their weakness, not ours
2023-01-28
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Sugar Baby / 27
I do consider myself to be a feminist, however i think being a sugar baby is empowering in a way. Cause alot of the time its about me using wjat i have worked for to "get my way" in a sence you could say. It makes me feel empowered that i have the ability to have relationship like this and still feel and understand that i do not need to depend on someone
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 27
I am a feminist and very proud of it. A lot of people don’t understand feminism and/or get wrong information about feminism without actually researching it themselves. If you believe men and women are equals on a political, social, personal, and economical scale, then you are a feminist. It’s not about who’s the better sex or eliminating the other sex, it’s about the freedom to live as equals. It’s about having the ability to make your own choices without the scrutiny of the public eye. You can be a sugar baby/daddy and a feminist, it’s not contradictory. Feminism isn’t about women reserving themselves from men; many women have fought (and are still fighting) for the freedom to express female sexuality. Feminism is for both sexes and it benefits both greatly on many levels. We are not trying to limit men or women, but rather be free and safe as individuals.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 27
Being a sugar baby is empowering, and feminism is about empowerment. You are in control of your body, your situation, and your relationship (to the same extent that your sugar daddy is). There is nothing as feministic in idea as doing something you love and being empowered by it. As a sugar baby and a feminist, I believe in both of them. There is no contradicting principles between the two.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 49
I do not consider myself a feminist. I'm a very independent person but I have no problem spending time with someone or being in a relationship with someone that wants to spend their money on me. If it makes then happy to spend the money they've earned on me who am I to judge it. How one chooses to spend their money is no one else's business as far as I'm concerned.
2023-01-30