What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 4

438 Answers

Sugar Baby / 30

It’s hard because you have to keep the relationship under wraps. Some of my friends who are my age, don’t agree with me dating older men. They think I’m selling myself short. It’s also hard because I can’t particularly tell my family about who I’m dating. They won’t like to hear that he’s much older than I am. If he treats me right, they shouldn’t be too angry but I don’t want to risk anything.

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 25

as a younger girl it may be hard to deal with the comments and stares of other men and women while out in public or on a date. Its also hard to find the right sugar daddy for you as each of them has different wants, desires, and ideas on how your relationship should go. Scammers are pretty much everywhere. If you do find a good sugar daddy the things they ask you to do may be out of your comfort zone completely. You always have to be aware of who you are meeting, and agree to what you both are ok with before meeting up.

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 29

For me being new to the sugar baby world I think the hardest thing is to not catch deep feelings and expect more than he’s ever been willing to give . When you spend a lot of time with someone and there giving you all of the things you want and need it can be hard to separate the emotions. Granted this only applies if there is some level or sexual chemistry.

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 47

The bad part of dating a sugardaddy is the fact that most don't know what they really want so you got to work harder to show them what they want. Aswell as keep them on the toes so that means you got to put in overtime. And don't be that crybaby that wants all of his/her time they need space some time to do the side shit but most only want the best of everything and sometimes you're not it

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 54

some sugar daddy's feel that the fact that they are the one with the sugar makes them own their sugar baby. I scream out: "BE VERY CAUTIOUS" all you babies... be yourself, be what daddy asks for AND be ONLY what you are willing to be, so don't go way over the line of what you find morally and emotionally acceptable! Sugar is good, and there's more than one daddy out there!

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 45

Most man have the wrong idea of a sugar baby all they can think of is sexual and then may confuse you with a prostitute we are partners in crime we catch there soles by listening to them listen to the problems to what they want what they're missing or maybe just being a beautiful arm candy that they want to show off some of them are new Young and not expert so they won't know where to start and that could be them offering you a big amount of money for sex and that's not that you should want

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 37

Lack of reliability. From my experience the past year I want to say is the need for infelligence to all babies of all sorts of scams to be aware of in a posting just like the one requesting these surveys. Also the girls should learn those that show their income are hella real, those that even pay premium are paying $70/mos do not waste their time and don’t expect to have yours wasted either.

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 28

Definitely being affectionate and intimate with a man you wouldn't normally be attracted to, and having to make yourself available for him at times you may not be into it. But we successful babies do so. You constantly have to remind yourself of the end goal, or his great personality or how he's changing your lifestyle in a good way! Keep your daddy happy

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 28

Not everyone in your life may be accepting of it. You might be judged, or you might end up keeping a secret from a lot of the people in your life. Not everyone is going to be super understanding, but this is all what you make it. If you’re comfortable and happy, your friends and family can’t expect you to change what you’re doing here. But your comfort and happiness comes first!!

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 45

He may have a wandering eye Just as how your sugar daddy picked you up, he might also be scouting out other ladies as well. If that is the case, it is important for you not to get too emotionally involved or you might stand the chance of being hurt. Before you get too entangled, set some limits for yourself. 2. Your status might just be a temporary one You’re not irreplaceable and so at any point you can be told to go to the left. As such it is important for you to have an exit strategy. 3. You might not be the only expense he has Chances are your sugar daddy will have a lot of financial entanglements especially if he has been married before. And so it is important for you to keep in mind that his next priority purchase might not be that handbag that you have been eyeing for the longest while.

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 28

Im truly new to this whole thing so i havent got to see the advantages yet but it seems cool to be with somone you love and also be getting bennifits for being with that person which i enjoy the idea of i would love to be with somone that amazing who can make me smile day by day and me being able to do the same thing for them is just amazing and makes me the ahppiest person on life

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 24

Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful. A lot of people will look down on you. It's also job, which you can lose. You may not be attracted to whoever you're with, and a lot of sugar daddies want sex. It can be challenging to handle salt daddies or daddies that won't leave you alone, and frustrating to deal with those who won't pay. It's not all bad though, as there's still profit involved.

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 26

I think one big disadvantage that we all can think of is the major age gap. Some people might be fine with it and others not so much. This is what kind of sucks because you can hardly find a young sugar daddy. Another issue is that a lot of them may catfish you wheither is may be looks or how much they got in their pockets. They may ask you do to something and not even pay for it.

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 45

There are disadvantages if you allow them to be disadvantages. As an emotional and easily attached baby you may find it hard to be on there scehedule and not your own. These man or ladies are successful and busy. They don't have time for drama and BS. So, wake up and be ready, have ur own values and standards and stick to them. Not all sugar daddies want an arrangement some are looking for a connection beyond affairs and kinky hourly drive bye's. So, if you allow the disadvanges to be apart of your schedule, hope it's worth it. Personal and/or professionally, I believe you have to do what makes you happy. I won't settle less, you shouldn't either 💋

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 46

There is none at all not that Hasnt been already duscused, mentioned, elaborated on, explained, or who cares? Too mamy answers of the same topic is getting a little bit too There is none at all not that Hasnt been already duscused, mentioned, elaborated on, explained, or who cares? Too mamy answers of the same topic is getting a little bit too much. .

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 26

The disadvantages would be the loss of attraction on your side at least. If you’re super lucky there might be some but it’s rare because you both know what you’re there for which makes it hard for natural attraction to occur the way it was. Another disadvantage would be the fact that it is a business arrangement that could end whenever and you don’t really know. Like if he loses attraction to you or interest in you then it ends. It is a very one sided relationship so you have to know that absolutely in the beginning.

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 38

In my opinion, the worst part about being a sugar baby and belonging to a sugar daddy, is remembering that it's a business relationship. With that being said a sugar daddy could have a wife, multiple girlfriends, selfish needs, you can be replaced, you can be rejected at any time. You have to have tough skin as a sugar baby. You have to try not to get too attached in case things don't work out sometimes. The hardest part is not getting attached to a wonderful man.

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 27

The disadvantage with a sugar daddy is that he believes he should always be first and he tends to forget that you have a personal life on the other hand he should always know that this is a business agreement so he should be paying for your time. If it comes to the test that you have to have sex with him always protect yourself. Safe sex is the key

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 26

There are many ups and downs to dating sugar daddies but someeverything good about the process so it’s improtant to be decisive on who you choose. Many daddies are here because they have very kinky desires that their wives won’t provide or do with them so they think here they can get what they want because they are p for it. Stay in your comfort zone!

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 35

Disadvantage about having a sugardaddy is that some of them act like they own you.. They don't allow you to even have a boyfriend. Forgetting that you have a life too and one day will want to get married and settle down with a family... Another challenge is having sex with a very old unattractive rich man who you have zero feelings for. It needs a lot of wine and all the drugs in the world to get high and begin to see the "John legend" in him😂😂.. It's tough.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

You will get a lot of negative criticism and that is probably the worst downside to dating a sugar daddy. Also getting attatched to your daddy, or vice verse is a NO-NO especially if they are married or not looking for a serious relationship outside of a long-term sd/sb relationship. But regardless you're making money, they aren't. Life your life of luxury and be happy. Enjoy your life, and don't let another person try to shame you for anything.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 31

The disadvantage I think is the thought that is always in the back of your mind wondering whether you’re doing the right thing morally and will you actually ever find true love doing this. Someone will always catch feelings so just the whole line between business and love and recognising when the line starts to blur. That can be a hard distinction.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 25

I think the biggest problem is lack of communication. Always talk about limits, dint let anyone pressure you into something you'll regret or aren't comfortable with. You're a queen, find the right king. It's important to realize what you're getting into, lots of sugar daddies want physical things in return for money, they often don't want your advice on their personal life and rarely want to hear about your problems. Make sure you think everything through.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 25

I'd say that the biggest disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy would be the simple fact that you don't know what's really going on in their end. As well as the simple fact that you don't know if they are actually a scam or not. As well as you don't know how everyone will react to you saying this, like oh I'm with a sugar daddy and you could get so much judgment from people you never thought you would get it from.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

Although having a sugar daddy clearly comes with its advantages, it also comes with some serious down sides that many don’t take into account when choosing. Be aware of what exactly your sugar daddy or mommy wants from you. Most of the time they are looking to experiment with new things and even play out there most passionate fantasies. Because they are providing you with gifts and financial support they may expect you to play along with no argument. So before agreeing to an arrangement it’s very important to know what exactly they want you to do, and think about whether or not it’s safe for you to do it. Remember, your safety is so much more important than the possibility of making a few extra bucks. Stay safe sugar babes 🖤

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

I think that the disadvantages are that you might not be attracted to him because he is very much older than you are, someone who could be your dad or even your grandfather. Also the problem that he wants more than you want, they can touch you and that feels awkward so you always have to disgus whats okay and what not. Dont do things you dont want to. And i also think its a disadvantage when they lie and you have to find that out, not everyone is fearful about their money ore how many babes they have.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 27

A disadvantage to being with a sugar daddy is that a lot of them have very sexual desires that they want fulfilled. They think that because they're paying for our company and to hang out with them, they want them to be fulfilled. A lot of girls aren't necessarily comfortable with doing some of these things, or just want to take their time because they're anxious.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 45

There are many ups and downs to dating sugar daddies but some of the downs trump everything good about the process so it’s improtant to be decisive on who you choose. Never ask him to be his first girl. Listen more than talk .don't bring troubles to him. If u aren't prepared to be with an old man don't do it. Will be horrible to him and to you! Does what bring pleasure to south

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 45

Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful . Remember this is a business agreement , you are being paid for your 'services' . Understand your SD is not obligated to care for your personal issues or even care for your feelings as some SD's are very narcissistic . Remember to always put your safety first , dont accept to be hurted. Many of them wanna have new sec experiences. Remember mutual benefit is a must to all SD/SB relationships !

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

There are a lot of ups and downs when it comes to being a sugar baby. Women in general are more sensitive so when a daddy doesn’t necessarily listen to your feelings it can be a bit hurtful sometimes. Attraction is another issue. Many sugar babies feel they are required to sleep with their Sugar daddy even if they are uncomfortable with it. Sometimes it’s money over morals and it can be complicated to say the least.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

Being with a sugar daddy can definitely put emotional stress on you. You have people looking at you, speaking down, and a constant turmoil whether this is right or wrong. It’s all up to you though and how you view it. The quicker you only think of yourself the happier you will be. So that and of course whether or not he is telling the truth and not wasting youre time.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 32

Some disadvantages to dating an SD is that they can be very demanding at inconvenient times. VERY! However, you have to decide and be firm on your decision as to what and who you will allow to cut into your personal time, While still being respectful of their feelings and needs. We are all human and they just need a lil love from time to time! Plus you signed up for this lol

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

A major disadvantage of being with a sugar daddy is the age difference. Not only are old men less attractive, but they carry more STD and spread more because of how experienced they are in sex. They tend to be more aggressive because they feel dominant over young woman. This can lead to an abusive relationship where a sugar baby may be pressured to do something she isn’t comfortable with.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 25

Some disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy can be not being attracted to him, and you have to act like you are. It can be stressful. And it can be bad if you get emotionlly attached quickly. This is a type of buisness and you can’t get upset if you guys end. If he plays with your money unless you do something for him can be a didadvantage as well.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 26

Dating a sugar daddy can be tricky depending on your lifestyle and his. You might be in two different places in your life and trying to keep up with each other could be difficult. There are also some sugar daddies with familes, who have wives and children, which could be uncomfortable for some sugar babies. You just have to openly communicate with your sugar daddy to make sure you’re on the same page.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 29

I feel like being a sugar baby and talking to Sugar daddies affect your life outside of the relationship also. You have to consider your partner, if they are comfortable with you having an open relationship. You also need to consider the time obligations needed to maintain a good relationship with your sugar daddy and how it will affect your life outside of the relationship.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 45

being with a sugar daddy often times is very demanding because your sugar daddy might want you or your services when probably you not in the mood but because of what you stand to gain you most probably give into his demands unlike a normal relationship where you could say NO easily when you not in d mood so you can imagine that,but its okay though.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 28

I think the difficulty comes from two factors. The first being the stigma related to the arrangement in the first place. It's hard to explain to friends why you're constantly traveling or receiving lavish gifts. The second is the fact that money complicates things. What happens if your daddy can't continue to provide you with the prearranged sum. It's a slippery slope.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 52

You can't see him or her when you like or be around them when you are lonely or need ..It will be a disaster if you seen him in public with his family and you had too keep going in do not speak or hint you no one of another now that's a big disadvantage in seeing a sugar Daddy ..its a disadvantage if they in the hospital you can not go t ok see them......

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 34

The only down fall is that they may not take you as serious. Meeting someone in this context makes it hard too find genuinecompanionship. Finding companionship is hard in a world full of scammers. Dating a sugar daddy is hard because the world already doesn't take you serious when it comes to the "sugalationship" so having a daddy thay doesn't take yoy serious as well can be challenging.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 34

Be very careful .. Stay safe no raw sex at all . Being with a sugar daddy can be stressful . Remember this is a business agreement , you are being paid for your 'services' . Understand your SD is not obligated to care for your personal issues or even care for your feelings as some SD's are very narcissistic . Remember to always put your safety first , some SD's are experimenting new sex fantasies they have never done before and you can get hurt . There are ups and downs with every business relationshi

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 37

A sugar daddy is someone u can rely on that is there when nobody else is. An wants happiness for both parties. Just wanna be happy an c9me up in the world an have a true person on there side an know u foreal not me home looking out to benefit for urself. Honesty is the best tho g ever for u derstandment an knowing ur place. An I'm that I'm real an anything goes as li g as it's mention ed in the get go

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 27

There’s are definitely ups and downs of a SD and sugar relationships. Always put your safety first and remember that you and your SD have a business arrangement not just a relationship. They have no personal connection to you most of the time so they may not feel entirely responsible for their actions if they hurt you either physically or emotionally or mentally. Also a big disadvantage is they don’t owe you any honesty so you cannot always be sure that they are being loyal to you but then other times some SD feel as though that honesty is a BIG part of the arrangement. It can get stressful...

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 26

The disadvantages of being a sugar baby is not being able to fall inlove or veing able to truly be seen by him as anything else than a burden for needing to spend to keep you. The biggest disadvantage would be if they are married you guys would have to keep everything a secret not being able to speak about the least and its the least, especially knowing you are inlove knowing they cant love u is a true heart break...

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 42

Disadvantages are not really having too much of intimate times on a regular but sacrifices have to be made and usually it's always long distance or you end up with scammers that are long-distance already but when you really need them they are there for you even if it's just through a text when you got the right one in your life rather than fakes or scammers

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 36

The sugar relationship is complicated. Some guys are all about sex. Some guys are just jerks because they are helping you out. You have to look at it like a job. After all, it's your income. I think to avoid running into serious problems or uncomfortable situations, you should be very clear in what you think is okay and how far you are willing to go. It takes a lot of time, patience and perseverance to find the perfect daddy. You have to find a way to sort it all out. Being upfront with everything I'm okay and not okay with has helped avoid the down side of having a sugar daddy. Safety is key. There's millions of daddy's so If you come across a bad one, leave him where he's at and my move into the next one.

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 26

I would say a disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy would be the age gap, and the risk of getting hurt. When I'm in a relationship, I want to be in a committed, loving relationship, not just some deal. That's what prostitutes are for, to make a deal and pay them. So a disadvantage would definitely be not knowing if I'm going to get hurt which obviously could go both ways because they don't know either. The other thing is worrying if they even care about you or if they just care about your body.

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 28

One of the disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy is not everyone is very accepting of it. Just do what you want to do and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks about it because it is your life! Another downside is sometimes your sugar daddy might want to experiment in the bedroom, but remember that if you are uncomfortable doing anything then stand up for yourself and stay within your boundaries

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 26

Some of the disadvantages are some have a tiny penis ;) joking joking. Some daddies try and con you but I’ve had pretty good experiences with them. However, I’ve known some that are extremely rude and believe that they are better than me because they have money. I have also be looked down upon as I’m considered (unintelligent) as Im a blonde. But on a whole a great experience.

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 31

Can in love with them n cant hope for married.they can do anything to us. Capitput all of our heart to them so easily.sugar daddy is just place we want to have fun bcoz they have their own life n their own partner. We're just a palce to have fun and may be a place to settle their sex. We cant easily give them our heart n thunk they want to marry us

2023-03-01