Do You Have Any Suggestions for a Newbie Sugar Baby?
405 Answers
Sugar Baby / 25
Don't come into the sugar world thinking that because you have a beautiful body, that just throwing out nudes will get you a daddy, your body is your temple respect it. Be classy in public, amd nasty in private. Be a friend first. Daddies don't want you to fake feelings and emotions just for some sugar. Just like us who want someone to genuinely care about us, daddies do too.
2018-01-31 10:28:22
Sugar Baby / 25
Like it up. Swipe right/ heart anyones picture, dont be picky about who you want because thats not gonna get you anywhere. Make sure youre being kind too, dont just try to take their money and run, like theyre human beings too, take their hearts into consideration. these r like lonely old men lmao. also theyre giving u their money so just be nice..
2018-01-31 14:53:04
Sugar Baby / 23
Always try to be open minded. Try to do new things and be open to new ideas. You’re here to have fun and go on an adventure. Try to not be so shy and have confidence in yourself and set boundaries and let your sugar daddy know when you are not comfortable doing something. If you are not willing to do certain things try to let them know ahead of time that way it’s easier on the both of you.
2018-01-31 18:27:28
Sugar Baby / 29
Don’t try to change who you are to be who you think a sugar daddy wants you to be. You won’t be comfortable, and they will see right through it and you won’t be able to get any dates. Stay true to yourself and let your true personality shine so that you can attract a sugar daddy that you can have a good time with. And you’d be surprised what nerdy quirks you’ll have in common with these men. It gives you something else to connect with them about.
2018-01-31 21:43:11
Sugar Baby / 22
I would tell the new sugar baby that to look around and see what kind of arrangement you are particularly looking exactly what you want never give out your bank information always be on the look out for scammers there's going to be a lot of people that tell false hopes so I would say if it's too good to be true then it's just that too good to be true
2018-02-01 04:43:32
Sugar Baby / 27
Well I do not have much to say to newbies because am also not having the best time on the app because there are not many sugar daddies in my location. But I would advise them to not be too picky and also just be careful with the people they decide to meet because not everyone is genuine so basically do not travel to meet them until you are somewhat certain that they are genuine people with good intentions.
2018-02-01 06:24:07
Sugar Baby / 21
Pick someone who you will want to talk to and not get annoyed by. Don’t beg for money. Get to know them. Don’t be picky. Find out their likes and dislikes. Try not to argue or steer them away from you because then you aren’t going to get anything. Don’t be materialistic. Ask questions as if you’re actually going to date them. Tell them about yourself
2018-02-01 13:39:26
Sugar Baby / 22
KNOW WHAT YOUR WORTH, don't settle for just anything don't send pictures before meeting them, dont give them you bank info, download cash app, don't meet in a private place, dont assume he isnt a scammer till you meet them, dont ask for money before having a conversation / getting to know him a little but it is different if he asks you first, dpmt so something you think is dangerous
2018-02-01 16:18:43
Sugar Baby / 26
Be careful! Just because they sound nice and are respectful... doesn’t mean they’re even a real person! Be kind and be aware! Go with your gut! Be clear of what you need and your boundaries. And make sure you’re aware of they’re needs and wants and expectations. Again be kind, be aware, be careful! And respect them and yourself! Don’t do sometbing you wouldn’t want done to you!
2018-02-01 16:37:09
Sugar Baby / 24
To the new sugar babies out there, I would recommend first making your profile and appealing and intriguing as possible. Then, converse with as many SDs and SMs as possible. If you can, talk to a veteran SB. We all have different things to say and offer, and I for one, don't mind helping a fellow baby out. Take care of yourself and appear attractive and clean at all times. This is an investment just as much as anything else is in your life.
2018-02-01 17:10:59
Sugar Baby / 21
Don't Be Someone Your Not In Order To Get A Sugar Daddy , Keep A Fun And Exciting Personality And Keep An Open Mind And Try Everything At Least Once 💕 Be Patient The Perfect Sugar Daddy Can Be Minutues Or Days Away , Also You Should Make Time For Your Daddy And Always Give Him Attention He Deserves It After All He Is Taking Care Of His Sugar Baby
2018-02-01 22:32:09
Sugar Baby / 32
Always be aware, open-minded and firm. Do your research to see what kind of arrangement you'd like to have, find a compatible match. Be true to yourself and them. Be very clear in communication and never do something or meet somewhere that you aren't comfortable. Never give bank account info online, download a cash app. Don't discuss your wants unless asked bettor the first meeting :)
2018-02-02 00:08:04
Sugar Baby / 30
I would say don’t throw out nudes immediately. Honestly some of the daddies just want someone to talk to. Be attentive, listen, and be sweet. Often times they just want conversation. Throw out a few likes and see where that gets you! Be flirty. And also set your standards when you chat. Be upfront about what you are looking for. Also just have fun!
2018-02-02 02:33:05
Sugar Baby / 27
Make sure you respect yourself first! This is very important in this lifestyle because some men will try to control you if they see you are new to this! Don’t give up anything until he does! Remind him this is a 2way street! Some of them feel like you want what they have so bad that you will do anything to get it! So ladies make sure you are confident about your worth as a women to stand your grown,they like that in a baby!
2018-02-02 08:27:16
Sugar Baby / 23
Men, especially sugar dads, like to think that you actually like spending time with them. It’s all a fantasy. You just have to provide that right fantasy for that specific man. They like someone they can take out to dinner and fuck for a couple hours. Someone who can meet the needs that aren’t getting met at home or someone who can fulfill their fantasy. Be patient and never sell yourself short.
2018-02-02 09:50:21
Sugar Baby / 31
Even though this site is to meet sugar daddies be yourself you don’t need to be a whore and send nude pictures take your time get to know the person know what you’re getting yourself into I also wanted to let you be aware of some of the scammers on here do not give out your bank information no matter how much they ask it’s your personal information
2018-02-02 13:19:00
Sugar Baby / 22
Keep your nails looking looking nice, its the little things that say "elegant". Make sure your shoes are clean and your brows are done (if you need that) try your best to always look happy and friendly, smile often. Warm, inviting, and playful is what daddies want, somone who can take their mind off of business. And most of all make sure you're always telling him compliments.
2018-02-02 13:47:40
Sugar Baby / 23
Pushing turns people away, its better to find someone you can reallly connect with because you guys can be super close and help out each other out in so many ways. When your kind and passionate your sugar daddy/momma will be so much more open into recieving your effection. They more likely to spoil you if you do the same for them. be loyal to your sugar daddy/momma.
2018-02-02 14:17:59
Sugar Baby / 24
Don't feel obligated to continue to be a person's sugar baby. If they don't treat you with respect then you have every right to sever ties and find a new daddy. Also you can work and be a sugar baby as well, it's always good to be prepared just in case your sugar daddy flakes. If you respect yourself he'll definitely respect you as well. Confidence and honesty is key to a successful daddy/baby relationship.
2018-02-02 16:46:49
Sugar Baby / 22
don’t rush things! Take your time and get to know the person you are talking to. Sugar daddy’s don’t want to have their heart played and you shouldn’t want to play with their hearts. These men are on here for serious inquires only (well most of them) the other half are here for a quickie. I’m not you so I’m not going to tell you not to “send nudes” if that’s what your intentions are then so be it. Don’t demand cash Dont be somebody you are not! and last but not least have fun:)
2018-02-02 17:58:41
Sugar Baby / 21
So not give out bank details especially not login! And do not send anything until they pay you, preferably through PayPal. I have been scammed so many time and do not want it to happen to anyone else. Also try prepare an articulate paragraph explaining briefly in key details of exactly what you want from your daddy. This is pleasing to them to see you are intelligent!
2018-02-03 16:23:42
Sugar Baby / 37
KNOW WHAT YOUR WORTH, don't settle for just anything don't send pictures before meeting them, dont give them you bank info, download cash app, don't meet in a private place, dont assume he isnt a scammer till you meet them, dont ask for money before having a conversation / getting to know him a little but it is different if he asks you first, dpmt so something you think is dangerous
2018-02-03 22:29:33
Sugar Baby / 25
You have to appear classy and responsible. Don't flunt too much of your assets online. Sugar daddy's don't just want someone who's half naked all the time on the web they also need a lady, someone who can dress well and appear classy in public. Take care of your self and show your SD or SM love and care and they will do the same for you. Don't show fake love just for the suagr
2018-02-04 00:08:44
Sugar Baby / 32
There are a lot of men on here who want to try and get you to talk dirty to them or send them nude photos so that they can get off and not have to actually have a relationship or help a sugar baby out in any way. Don’t do it. Respect your body, respect yourself. You are on her to be a free internet porn start or a prostitute and the Daddy’s should respect you, not treat you like a whore. Do not offer sex on the first meet up, it sets the tone for the entire relationship and unless all you want to to sleep with him and walk away with a stack then you should take your time and know your daddy before pushing forward in that way.
2018-02-04 06:15:14
Sugar Baby / 27
Don't ever show anyone a desperate side of you. Even if you feel your in this out of desperation. It's not attractive and it gives them the first step to walking all over you. Be respectful to your self as much as you are any random person you meet here or anywhere else.e watch your back and maintain a safe environment for this relationship. Take things slow and think stuff through. Some of these people are scammers. Bank account info is not needed to maintain a good relationship
2018-02-04 07:43:48
Sugar Baby / 23
Always be kind these men are not objects they do have feelings. Be reasonable. Be honest. Be greatful don't take life for granted. And do NOT do NOT give out your bank info. Best luck to you newbies and remember be patient good things come to those who wait. Try to be understanding as well these guy have to trust you and at the end of the day they are helping us so stay positive and humble. 🎀😊
2018-02-04 08:07:26
Sugar Baby / 25
Do not rush anything, take your time, finding a sugar daddy is not something you "just" do, if you want to find the perfect daddy, have some great conversations, they can already give a couple hints if there could be a connection or not, and definetly keep in mind that if it seems TOO good to be true, it probably is, and above all, have hope, but dont let it turm you crazy
2018-02-04 08:36:53
Sugar Baby / 21
I would work on your verification, first and foremost! Let the SDs know you’re real, or they won’t want you or to talk to you. Make yourself appealing, and if you can, definitely get Sudy Premium. It’s so much better than not having it, and you can message as many Daddies as your sweet, sugar baby heart desires. Always be respectful to the Daddies and show him you’re interested in things besides his money.
2018-02-04 11:44:52
Sugar Baby / 24
Make sure you have a physical or mental list of things that you will do, you might consider doing and that you will absolutely not do. Because once you spark a daddy's interest you will want to be prepared. Whether you would consider a sexual relationship, a partial one or one where you are simply dedicating time to a potential sugar daddy or daddy's.
2018-02-04 11:51:45
Sugar Baby / 28
Lmao If your new to the game and your a guy looking for a cougar on a app called "cougar life" and all the "women" 19yo LIL GIRLS! The only thing you need to know is that these hoes will do anything but give you something REAL but your on the right track young buck just the wrong stop... And yes there's venom in my voice, because I can't stand these needy ass dumbass lil girls stop whining and get a job💯 put your hand in your pants and play wit the pussy I don't even wanna see a hand out for handout lol.....Fellas don't try n be captain saveaho idc if you got money or not ...ay yi yi que pasa con los hombres estos dias..
2018-02-04 13:03:02
Sugar Baby / 23
Don't feel obligated to continue to be a person's sugar baby if they don't treat you with respect. You can always work while you have a sugar daddy. ( just to have something to fall back on) incase it doesn’t work out. If you respect yourself he'll definitely respect you as well. Confidence and trust is key to a successful daddy/baby relationship.
2018-02-04 21:41:20
Sugar Baby / 22
Do not be naive as there are SD's who seek newbies in attempts of lowballing them and taking advantage of them . Use an hourly wage factor to create a reasonable payment for your time . Also , when SD's ask if you're new to this and give out a phone number 9/10 times they are going to scam you ! Do not give out personal info at any times . As a newbie your best bet is to get premium so you can have the same hand to play that these SD's do . Stay alert and think logically , there's a SD out there for you 😉
2018-02-05 00:26:18
Sugar Baby / 30
Dear, be you and love yourself first. You can never give what you don't have. You also attract what you are, if you want nice be nice. If you want love, just be lovely. If you want money...... You know what to do. Have fun it's not that serious. Take an adventure and treasure the memories for the old you. Respect yourself. Live. Love. Laugh and experience it all. Life is too short anyway 😉
2018-02-05 12:13:37
Sugar Baby / 23
Be comfortable with yourself and just relax, be yourself and remain classy. A lot of men want to actually get to know you (among other things). It can be a little nerve wracking or scary at first but just be sure who you’re dealing with. If you feel nervous or uncomfortable getting started just remember to communicate and build the relationship with that person.
2018-02-05 13:53:07
Sugar Baby / 23
Don't be desperate for money. I see all the time sugar babies asking for money from the sugar daddies. Let them decide if you are worth it to invest in it. Girls here look so fake when all they ask if the sugar daddy can give them money at PayPal. Also don't think because you are pretty and look hot in your underwear that they want to pay for nudes. Nobody likes it when people are only talking to you for your money. I feel when you're spontaneous, you will go far.
2018-02-05 14:23:32
Sugar Baby / 26
Take your time , you will go on several first dates until you find the right sugar daddy! Don’t have irrational expectations about allowances but be very up front of what are you looking for!You will find lots and lots of salt daddies and scammers but for the end you will learn how to recognise them in time , take your steps , don’t be slutty , you want to be a SB , not a “professional”!
2018-02-05 14:32:09
Sugar Baby / 26
Be yourself however dont let this get to your head. You need to be able to differentiate your actual life from the cyber. Just go with the flow. Although we are here to just give you pointers, at the end of the day its up to you to take or leave our advice. Beside only you know the reason you entered the site... all i can say is welcome and all the best in whatever you maybe looking for
2018-02-05 16:00:17
Sugar Baby / 24
Take your time for finding someone. Just don’t jump at the first message that you see. Do your research on being a sugar baby. Don’t act too desperate and stay classy. Actually care for the person and not just their money. It will get you a lot further. Don’t give out personal details about yourself. First time you meet, meet in a public area Incase something happens.
2018-02-05 17:15:23
Sugar Baby / 24
Be on the look out for scammers , always be respectful and mindful of your sugar daddy , don’t be greedy it’s not always all about funds you know and just enjoy your sugar daddy to the fullest build a trusting relationship that’ll satisfy both of you guys mentally physically and financially. I wish there was a how to on the way to be a proper sugar baby it’s more of a trial and error thing
2018-02-05 18:10:01
Sugar Baby / 25
Just because you have a beautiful face and nice body doesnt mean you have to demean yourself. REAL daddys want a sugar baby that respects herself . They want a woman who is classy in the streets , but can get nasty in the sheets for them. Dont lie to them. They are here for the same reasons we are. Be honest with them and maybe itll work out. Don't give up.
2018-02-05 18:19:19
Sugar Baby / 31
Have self-respect! Make sure you are taking care of yourself (physically, of course), but also mentally and emotionally. In any relationship, sugar or otherwise, you will attract the right kind of people if you have a good relationship with YOURSELF FIRST. I know it sounds a little touchy-feely, but it’s true! Confidence and self-love shine through!
2018-02-05 19:06:36
Sugar Baby / 22
The best way to be a sugar baby is be confident yet submissive sugar daddys love the power they have. When your talking to a daddy keep it social and buisness dont show. Off your nudes and act like a total slut these men have alot of cash if they wanted something cheap they would buy a hooker not try to build a relationship with a sugar baby. Flirty and classy is the way to go
2018-02-05 21:26:52
Sugar Baby / 24
I think that the most important thing is to completely be yourself, you can be sexy but in a classy way! I wouldn't always assume that just because you have a nice body and good looks you will get whatever you want! I would also recommend Being honest about yourself, being your true self is the most attractive thing in my opinion, be kind and respectful!
2018-02-06 06:40:34
Sugar Baby / 34
Don't think that just because you are young and hot that automatically will get you daddies. Stay true to yourself and don't ever agree to anything that makes you uncomfortable or uneasy. Be safe and be smart in situations you come across. Stay open minded, be honest and be respectful. Be honest about what you want and need and avoid being fake, it is unattractive.
2018-02-06 07:33:32
Sugar Baby / 31
I am new myself but advice I’m taking is simple- be myself, be honest, be mindful of scammers and make sure you don’t do nothing you are not comfortable with! Don’t give out your bank info— and be patient! Always remember relationships should be mutual when it comes to benefits meaning bring something to the table beside looks because it is a lot of beautiful people out here
2018-02-06 09:54:34
Sugar Baby / 27
Carry your self with class. Just because you look good doesn't mean anything . Just like you expect your daddy to bring something to the table so should you. Confidence is key so come correct. Presentation is everything .really determines the depth you take for your relationship with your daddy . They pay attention to these things . That's the best I could say
2018-02-06 10:40:05
Sugar Baby / 21
Never do anything before getting your payment, only after you have received it. You wouldn’t believe how many times people have been blocked before getting the payment after sending somebody what they want. And be careful, wait a little while of knowing someone before meeting up with someone, you never know who’s real and who’s not, safety first !!!
2018-02-06 12:00:02
Sugar Baby / 21
It's not just all about your body. It's about showing that you care , that you actually are intrigued by your sugar daddy and not just his money. You can't come into this world expecting men to fall at your feet because you're beautiful and have a nice body. You have to work for their attention and make them want to stay. It's about not only your needs but theirs as well
2018-02-06 13:37:43
Sugar Baby / 23
I'd always recommend being independent. Have your own source of income. Don't rely on getting a daddy that will take care of anything and everything. Also, there are many daddy scammers. It seems to be a new trend. Never will you ever need to give a daddy your banks log in info to get money from him. That's a scam. Finally, be upfront and honest to your daddy. Trust is needed in any relationships from all parties. You don't need to tell all your secrets, but be honest. Say if you have someone. Kids or anything else. Drug problems, whatever.
2018-02-06 13:55:23
Sugar Baby / 21
I think that every baby should keep in mind that every daddy has different intentions. Everybody is different. Always go into a situation with an open and clear mind. My best advice is to never be surprised by anything. Always expect the worst so that there are no curveballs. But most importantly, always treat your daddy how you would like to be treated. They're humans too
2018-02-06 14:50:52