What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 2

438 Answers

Sugar Baby / 27

I think one of the biggest disadvantages are coming into contact with Sugar Daddies who aren't serious and of course having to keep that private part of your life very secret. I enjoy older men and I love how they treat me and they like how I treat them... Though my family wouldn't be too keen for it, it's what I like. Another disadvantage is, because of the previous situation... Not many Sugar Daddies have the time or want for a LDR.

2023-02-05

Sugar Baby / 33

You won't always get the emotional connection you may internally be looking for, whether you think you are or aren't. I'm not saying you can't find that, but some times as a sugar baby, we are only getting the glamour, lifestyle, and or wealth from our sugar daddy, in exchange for our beauty and or sexual arrousment that they don't get at home..

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 34

There are many ups and downs to dating sugar daddies but some of the downs trump everything good about the process so it’s improtant to be decisive on who you choose. Many daddies are here because they have very kinky desires that their wives or others won’t provide or do with them so they think here they can get what they want because they are paying for it. Stay in your comfort zone!

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 28

Depending on who you choose as your Daddy, everyone is different. For me a disadvantage would be a too controlling partner, but that's why rules and arrangements are established before you get far too deep into a relationship. There's also the morals issue for some but let's keep it 💯 you didn't come here to find a friend. Daddies need some sugar. That's what you're selling so don't be shy when it's time to hop on some fine Daddy D.

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 29

There are definitely pros and cons of sugar daddy dating. I’m pretty new to this idea, but so far I have ran into a few things that have made me quite skeptical. For one, you can’t trust ANYONE you meet online! A lot of these men are weirdos and they will try to take advantage of you since they are much older and They expect us to be young and naive. Keep in mind that it is important to protect yourself and private information. They will ask you personal questions, and a couple men have even asked me for my bank account information! I don’t know how many girls he got with that one, but I knew not to give anyone access to any personal information. Overall Im very skeptical of meeting people online. Don’t go anywhere alone, and when you meet up always go to PUBLIC places. Protect yourself and stay safe! ❤️

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 37

The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy that I’ve come across so far are sometimes these guys will try and take advantage right away, want pictures, videos, phone sex or even more without doing anything for you, they like to try avoiding discussing terms that both of you can agree on. It can be very frustrating. Another disadvantage I’ve seen is that many of them try to treat you like a prostitute. We aren’t here to have sex for money, we are off ring companionship and looking for mutually beneficial relationships, many daddies will write you off if you aren’t willing to send naked photos or sleep with them right away. It’s important not to give in unless all you want is sex. You have to set the tone for the relationship right away. Some of the kinks these guys have can be downright creepy, it’s important to set boundaries and if they won’t respect your boundaries they aren’t worth your time. Be careful out there, babies.

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 28

Always feeling like you're at someone's Beck and call. They sometimes misinterpret you as a prostitute, and don't realize that some of us have jobs to take care of ourselves just enjoy the attention and the effort put into us from men. You have to work on their schedule and how they attribute their time to you. Saying no sometimes ends up being a much bigger situation then you actually thought it was.

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 28

The disadvantages of being with an older man is having to be with someone you’re not attracted to . There are some with amazing bodies but those are rare to find . Most of them you don’t really find physically attractive. Older guys tend to be married or have kids and their kids are your age so it kinda feels a little weird but then also if you tend to respect relationships you feel as if you are doing something wrong by sleeping with a married man who has a wife at home who doesn’t know he’s sleeping around . You kinda have to just suck it up and try to be as discreet as possible but it tends to lurk in the back of your mind .. if you have a conscience.

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 31

Secrecy. If you're usually open with family and friends, having a sugar daddy is something you probably won't be able to share with them. That can be a huge disadvantage. Alot of the time its for fear of being judged or looked down on, but at the end of the day it's what makes you happy so do you! Although it can be a challenge you just have to look past other people's opinions or just keep you and daddy's business to yourself.

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 25

You won't always get the emotional connection you may internally be looking for, whether you think you are or aren't. I'm not saying you can't find that, but some times as a sugar baby, we are only getting the glamour, lifestyle, and or wealth from our sugar daddy, in exchange for our beauty and or sexual arrousment that they don't get at home.....

2023-02-06

Sugar Baby / 25

if you pick your sugar daddy right, and you choose someone you have a connection with and are attracted to i don’t think there are disadvantages. However if you really need the cash and/ or are desperate you might choose the first daddy that crosses your path and you might not feel comfortable in the relationship or with him. So my advice is, no matter how desperate you are, always choose wisely

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 50

One of the disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy he's not yours and sometimes some women will feel cheap because you're doing a little bit of this a little bit of that for money 2 is there a way older than you and you might be embarrassed to be seen in public with people assume you might be a granddaughter or something like that and tha nowhere near the truth

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 54

Him getting serious before you’re ready for serious. Serial rapist and killers. Schedules to meet not matching up. Hooking up with someone wanted by the law. A blowup if you decide he’s not the sugar daddy you want. Gossip if others see you out on a date. Family and friends disapproving of your having a sugar daddy. He’s married and being discreet but his wife finds out

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 27

The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is having a sugar daddy who doesn’t not understand that you have a personal life! He feels as if he is the only man on the world and the only man you should cater too! They forget that you had a life before him and everything should halt because he’s giving you cash. I’ve had to leave many arrangements because of this and it’s disappointing. They should be just as understanding as I am!

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 26

Being a young woman very connected with her family, I can understand why some girls would be hesitant to try and explain this process to loved ones. But in the same token, you have every right to your own private life, and every right to the choices you make. You have nothing to fear about your family's reaction but fear itself. You'll be fine as long as you keep doing you❤

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 36

Probably being affectionate and intimate with a man you wouldn't normally be attracted to, and having to make yourself available for him at times you may not be into it. But we successful babies put on our big girl panties and take care of business. You constantly have to remind yourself of the end goal, or his great personality or how he's changing your life in order to get through the difficult moments.

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 33

Being a sugar baby has good and bad turn out. Many women would date older men cyberly but when it comes to real life they are discouraged and ashamed. But we are here to share the experience with sugar daddy's. Some men just want quality time to share with someone. While some want something more intimacy and that's were woman get discouraged. 🤔🤔🤔

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 26

Many of the Daddies on here have been very pushy and will not leave you alone after you send a couple of pictures and it's hard because I don't want to be rude but at the same time I struggle with separating this side of with with the reality side where I have school, family, and friends. Plus sometimes Daddies are rude or don't follow through with what they say they are going to do.

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 35

There are too many and alot of them arent your type or take advantage of your time. Some do it for the rush and some do it to genuinely take care of their woman. Some men think they can simply woo you with money and it clearly states that they are not your type. Some men are married and I dont deal with married or taken men. Some want nudes when you dont do nudes. Some travel abroad and you have school so there be alot of things.

2023-02-07

Sugar Baby / 26

One of the disadvantages of having a sugar daddy is that it comes with a lot of judgement. A lot of people who don’t understand the lifestyle or disagree with it usually have no problem telling you that what you’re doing is “wrong” or “gross” or disgusting” etc. unless you have a very discreet relationship, you have to get used to hearing these things pretty often, even from people that you wouldn’t expect to hear it from like friends.

2023-02-08

Sugar Baby / 27

One downside is that some people don’t understand any emotional issues someone might have. Personally, I’ve dealt with assault and abuse in other relationships, so sometimes it makes relationships hard. If someone doesn’t understand or respect this, it makes it hard to trust them. When you’re in a sugar relationship, it should be built on trust, not just the exchanging of money.

2023-02-08

Sugar Baby / 26

I think that there are more advantages than disadvantages. But some disadvantages of being in a SD/SB relationship is that things are not always on your terms. Almost never actually. You have to learn when to put your big girl panties on and suck it up. Always remember why you're doing it. Your sugar daddy may not be someone you always want to spend time with, but make the most out of the situation. You're his baby because he saw something in you in hopes that you fill the missing pieces, whatever they may be.

2023-02-08

Sugar Baby / 27

Dating a SD is a complicated relationship. You are paid for your services whether they are sexual or non sexual. Its basically a verbal contract ready to be broken at any moment. Your sugar daddy osnt supposed to care about your personal issues or problems you are having at the time in question. But it can be rewarding at some times as in he can reward you with love and money or even emotional support.

2023-02-08

Sugar Baby / 33

This is more of a business relationship. Feelings can get caught and misinterpreted. Most sugar daddy's are not here for the well being of the sugar baby. It more of a friends with benefits. Do not, I repeat do not get attached. This is the one way this will not work out for you. You can build a great bond however the ability to establish a true relationship is most likely not the odds here.

2023-02-09

Sugar Baby / 30

I would have to say messing with someone’s you’re not attracted to. But money talks bullshit walks. And some of them just want wants sugar in my book prior to y’all meeting have him pay for your look before you walk in to his arms so you can get some type of benefit some of them will tell you how much they’ll do and do the opposite. So you have to be careful with who you associate with.

2023-02-09

Sugar Baby / 30

Some daddy's can take you down a path your not comfortable with. Make sure your firm with your limits so you don't get hurt. Having a daddy takes work and effort so it can be time consuming. You may not feeling like getting done up to take a picture or go out but its business girl, you gotta do it! Your daddy wants someone there for them but different daddy's show how they care in different ways. Don't burden them with personal problems You

2023-02-09

Sugar Baby / 26

It’s not a normal relationship you are putting yourself out there for new things. It’s not boyfriend/girlfriend, Love. It’s making yourself available to their wants and needs and putting yours on the back burner. You have to be stable and be able to pick yourself up because most likely that is something they won’t care about is how you are doing ...

2023-02-09

Sugar Baby / 26

I think the initial struggle of getting a daddy in the first place... like I dont want to give him everything without getting anything in return but he doesn’t want to give me anything. Honestly it’s really frustrating because I’m on here to help get through college and the guys don’t seem to be willing to help me with it if I cant fly on a day I have class to sleep with them. I need cash

2023-02-09

Sugar Baby / 34

Time. They don't have flexible time to attend to your needs. Not the one you can call in the middle if the night to buy foods for your cravings. Can't have the typical every Saturday's rom a ntic dinner. They won't be around every single moment. You will be lucky if they remember your monthsary. If you can't wait for their time to be free. Don't!!!

2023-02-09

Sugar Baby / 25

Being with a sugar daddy can be rough . As a business agreement , you are being paid for your attention Understand your SD is not forced to care about your personal feelings or problems,some SD's are very rude,harsh,and narcissistic . Remember to always put your safety first , There are Downsides and positives with every business transaction. mutual benefit is a must have in all SD/SB relationships !

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 34

A disadvantage would be the older they are the more likely you will feel like he forgets your an adult with the constant lectures or unwanted advice. Dating older men can be very tricky disadvantages such as their kids your age or possibly older, if YOUR taken around friends amd family of his the gnarly looks and mumbles these are things YOU have to prepare for so that. You dont get overwhelmed

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 30

The disadvantage of having a sugar daddy is being with an older man that your not attracted to. You may even have to sleep with him if it comes to that point and sometime girls are not too comfortable sleeping with a 70 year old man while she herself is 17 or lil bit older than that, but when money talks girls have to put aside their morals to make money

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 28

There is a big stigma in society against sugar babies. Many people may say what you are just a gold digger. Sugar daddies and mommas put their interests before yours because they can sometimes feel like since they pay you, they own you.it can be hard to protect yourself under these circumstances. It is good to find other friends in the sugar lifestyle to help you along, but it can often be a competition.

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 26

The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is that he may be talking to more than one person. He may also try to take advantage of your financial situation to get what he wants even of you say no. There are also a lot of fake sugar daddy's that just want your banking information. You can't tell the difference between the real and the fake ones before it's too late

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 26

There can be many disadvantages to having a Sugar daddy. You have to sacrifice a lot of time to be with them and you also have to make sure they are always happy when you may not be. Their pleasure and happiness comes first but never let it come in the way of how comfortable and or safe you feel or else or you could get seriously hurt. It can take a lot to be a Sugar baby

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 27

You gotta sort through a lot of terrible men that think it’s okay to take your no as a yes because he’s paying you. This is not the case. Stay safe and only go to a private spot with him if you trust and feel safe. There are a lot of scammers, fakes, and yes even rapists on sites like this. We are marketing ourselves and this is business, don’t be pushed around

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 26

Being a sugar baby means you have to be open to what your sugar daddy wants to do, unless you want to be rejected and out of a job. Unfortunately, that means your pool of options for sugar daddies can be small, depending on what you want. Most sugar daddies want intimacy, which is fine, but something I am not comfortable with. Thus, my pool of possible sugar daddies is a lot smaller than other girls.

2023-02-10

Sugar Baby / 41

The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy are a few: 1. I have a hard time normal dating. If the guy isn’t a benefit to me (not monetarily) but emotionally, physically, or mentally, I find I give guys fewer breaks. 2. I avoid dating married daddies cause I feel really distrustful. If he can lie to person he means to spend forever with, what’s he lying to me about. 3. The relationship as it is, some guys put forth less effort. I’ve had to cut a few of those. I don’t want to Netflix and chill every time we meet. Lol

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 35

The disadvantage s of having a sugar daddy to me should be that there not always available , most of them are busy and some even have families so they may not be available in the middle of the night when you wanna talk or maybe just hang out and chill . Don't forget it is arrangement where you both have to agree on the same thing it's not a obligation for them to have to do what you ask of them 🤷🏽‍♀️

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 28

There aren't really many disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy. Think of it as this: you get what you want when you want while being pleasured. In the long run, you're getting something so much bigger out of it. The experience can be fun and can definitely be pleasurable. I've found myself to love this lifestyle and wouldn't really change it for anything.

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 29

The biggest disadvantage is time with you SD. SD’s live successful and busy lives. It’s important to be understanding of this fact. When he does have the time you need to make sure you’re available. It’s hard not to Feel neglected at times but I assure You that you’re on your SD’s mind. You have to cherish the times you do have together & give him what he needs when he’s available to you and he’ll do the same which makes everything all better!

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 32

First of all we can't forget that not all it's like we imagine; not all the time it's fun, sometimes we need to take choices between a night with friends or just chill all Sunday to be nice, happy and disponible for your daddy, or think in some Plans for the future that in a different position you don't need to think about. You can't forget to stay healthy, make sport, and know about the things your daddy likes. Sometimes it's hard to be desagree with him but if your safety it's in risk you need to say no.

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 30

There is always two sides to a coin and here too there are advantages and disadvantages. This is after all a clear contract type relationship so you cannot expect to always find a sugar daddy who emotionally cares about you. Sometimes, some sugar daddy's keep this lifestyle a secret from their wives and it can get nasty if are accused of being a home wrecker

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 30

There are a few things that can be difficult dating a sugar daddy. To list a few distance, family situations, and overall just the dynamic. Distance seems to be a big issue for me because most daddies are so far that either it takes them a few months to fly where you are or it takes time for them to fly you out to them. Also family can be an issue for your daddy, he can have kids, wife, ex wife, complicated, etc. So just be aware of that. Lastly the dynamic it may be hard for your daddy to trust you because he may believe something is going on when he’s not present or other way around. That’s just a few to begin with.

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 26

The disadvantage of being with a sugar daddy is that they are very powering and dominant. Sugar daddy’s can have more than one girl and a wife/girlfriend irl. They are very caring at times but that doesnt mean they care about how you feel. They can take anything back after its given if they dont feel as though you are going to give back in return.😊

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 33

Sometimes it can be very steesssful depending on your situation and/or circumstances. They want you on demand and command so you are almost at their begging call. Some daddy’s like to be in control and know your every move which can be a little weird. Sometimes they want you to be exclusive with them but they are not exclusive with you. I would say overall though it can be managed.

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 31

Well,For me there is no disadvantage because I will make my self happy and joyful all the time and any position am on in it because there is no perfection in this world so it is better keep it bright and warm ur self even If wit darkness and coldest Still we are livening on such beautiful planet but in such ugly world!!!So....,.,,,,,,,,,,.............

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 46

The fakeness is is not always the best when it comes to the disadvantages of a sb/sd relationship. you may not really like the guy but he is paying your way and sometimes in life you have to do what you have to do to get by. life is not always fun or easy but just keep your eyes on the prize. remember the money. money makes the world go round not emotion or attraction just money.

2023-02-11

Sugar Baby / 30

I would say the disadvantage is emotions. Some get out of control. Whether its getting to attached ,not caring enough, or just plan lash outs, the point of this is to show a caring loving trade, for a lifestyle and class. If you let your emotions get in the way then that causes who much more complications to what is to be a business deal. For myself the more honest and knowing I am the better I'm able to care for my daddy.

2023-02-12

Sugar Baby / 34

There isn't many negatives except when he is to travel. Things obviously are lonely. Most times he requires you to be loyal. Showing support, via text, video chat, send amazing intimate pictures to keep his attention. I noticed it help during separation. And meeting his family can be tricky. Stand your guard. Show your talents whether cooking or just being a host. Show your smart side and don't wear revealing clothing around them.

2023-02-12