A lot of incoming SB’s have sent me messages concerning online arrangement only and I just want to make a post addressing that. Whatever kind of sugar baby you are, hope this post works for you!
First Off:
Yes, they are possible but rare. You dolls have to understand that sugaring is and has always been, sex work. The base principal of sugaring is companionship (physical or sexual, isn’t always both) and you can’t really provide that through a computer screen.
These men want to be in the company of a pretty lady either because they’re too old, too busy, or too unhappy with their life. You can talk through a computer and get to know someone, yes, but you can’t exactly provide direct companionship.
When chatting or camming with your SD online, pay more attention to what he really needs. Is it emotional companionship or sexual needs? Can it be met via an online arrangement? If not, should you consider a more offline style of sugar relationship?
Secondly:
If you only want an ‘online’ arrangement, break it down into what you’re going to be doing. Basically, in most cases, you’re going to be camming for someone who is either too busy or too nervous to actually physically have sex/be with a sugar baby.
Camming is a great job, but most SD’s will lowball the hell out of you when having an ‘online’ arrangement so consider doing camming instead of online arrangements. You’ll make way better money for the same thing.
Again, try guessing or ask directly his needs. Does he want you to do something “special” when camming or just chat normally? Are you willing to do that? You’d better consider your privacy issues first before doing anything sexual.
Third:
Most SD’s dislike the idea of online arrangements, but that’s not to say there aren’t any out there that wants one!
If you don’t want to cause any further unpleasantness and want to have more efficiency, just ask directly if online arrangements are acceptable.
You will, most likely, receive some negative feedback from SD’s but if you truly want an online arrangement – be kind, polite, direct in what you seek, and be willing to wait for your perfect SD to show up! Don’t give up! Keep sugaring!
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